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Wedding Planning

This topic is for questions about planning an upcoming wedding or questions about ideas for weddings or wedding related issues. It could include questions about styles of weddings, budget weddings, planning weddings, and themed weddings, along with questions concerning more specific issues, i.e. dresses or flowers.

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Who is supposed to receive the RSVPs for a wedding?

Whoever is issuing the invitation--most usually the bride or her family--receives the RSVP. There are two schools of thought on RSVPs, since there will be a number of people who come who have not RSVP'd and vice versa. If it is not a large number and you are providing a meal, it may be best to give them a call to verify. Or, take the chance that the numbers will cancel each other out and you will not have paid for too many meals.

How to Decline a request to be a maid of honor?

  • It is a great honor to be asked to be Maid of Honor so the decline should be a good one such as: lack of funds if you are expected to pay for your dress and shoes and extras; illness in the family such as a parent; traveling too far; no time off work for the event; etc. You should phone the Bride and not email them or send them a note as that is too impersonal. Phone the bride with your excuse as to why you have to decline, but be sure and tell her you were honored she chose you. If there is a good excuse such as looking after a sick parent, etc., then tell the bride you will make every effort to at least be at the church or miss the church and be at the wedding reception. If this is not possible then hopefully the bride will understand.

How do you convince your friend to be in your wedding because she detests formal gatherings?

  • Although disappointing it sounds like your friend doesn't like being the center of attention and prefers to stay in the background and you should comply to her wishes and ask one of your other friends. Simply tell her you understand and you will be asking one of your other friends; then wait a week to 10 days and see if she changes her mind. If she doesn't then ask your other friend.

How much money can you give as a gift in 2010 to your son?

You can give as much as you like ... as long as you pay the gift tax on any amount over $13,000.

If you gave more than that to any one person, you would have to pay a "gift tax" of 35% on the amount exceeding $13,000. (The $13,000 "resets" for each recipient, though, so if you have two sons, you can give each of them $13,000 before you'd be required to pay the tax). Also, the $13,000 is per person making the gift as well, so you can give $13,000 to your son and your spouse, assuming you have one, can also give $13,000 to your son.)

You should really see a tax professional about this, because there's a lifetime credit that can be applied (so you may not wind up paying the tax after all) and it can get fairly confusing in terms of what you're required to report, what forms you need to file, and how to do all the calculations.

Regret note can't attend bridal shower?

Just that. " I regret I will be unable to attend. " No explanation is required. You may send a gift or not , as you please. The invitation imposes no obligation on you except for a response.

Which side of her father should the bride be on?

The father typically stands on the right side of the bride. This is just custom and not necessarily a rule.

How much should you pay your wedding musicians?

According to The Wedding Report (focused on statistics in the Wedding Industry), wedding couples in 2008 paid anywhere from $245 to $847 for wedding musicians. I don't know whether this includes JUST the ceremony and reception or everything thrown in, like the cocktail hour, dancing etc. In Cincinnati, the 'going rate' for a wedding pianist to play at your ceremony is anywhere from $150 to $280.

Make sure this includes the pianist's attendance at your wedding rehearsal! Extras probably include asking the pianist to accompany for a vocal/instrumental artist at your wedding; or staying later to play for the reception or cocktail hour.

Hope this helps!

What time should wedding be set for bridesmaid to wear tea length dresses?

bridesmaids can wear tea length dresses anytime of day but most maids wear tea length dresses at weddings that are less formal and probably held during the afternoon or morning

What is a good engagement party location?

find a country club or golf resort in your area find a country club or golf resort in your area

What colors are worn by the pastor for a wedding?

  • The Pastor generally wears a white shirt with the stiff round collar around his neck and a black suit.

Can you get married even though u haven't done your confirmation?

Yes, you are able to get married even though you have yet to be confirmed in the Catholic Church. There are no rules stating that you aren't allowed to.

Do not want to walk down the isle to here comes the bride. what song can i walk down to.?

Cake by Rihanna ft chris brown MORE there are so many songs you can use. I used a Tony Bennett song when I got married 2 years ago. Also look to Sinatra. Since the style of your wedding is not known this is hard to answer, but my suggestions may work for you.

Do bridesmaids have to sit at the head table for dinner?

Yes they do. These are the people that should be at the Head Table: * Bride & Groom in the middle and the center of attention * Parents of the Bride/Groom * Matron of Honor * Bridesmaids * Best Man * Ushers * Flower Girl (If there is one) * Ring Bearer (if there is one) * Master of Ceremonies (someone makes a speech to Bride/Groom) There are no set rules, so if you have someone special such as grandparents, etc., they too can sit at the head table. If you don't want them at the head table then special people in your life such as grandparents, aunts, uncles, guardians, very close friend(s) should sit at the closest tables near the head table.

Does it needs to give a gift to the bridal shower?

It is customary , but if you cannot afford it , we can hope your friend understands.

If you are sent an invitation addressed to Mr and Mrs when the couple is getting divorced and the people who sent the invite are aware of the situation what is the proper way to handle this?

If you are all still friendly , go if you wish. The divorcing couple may just have one person attend, or you call the host/ess and explain you two are no longer accepting social invitations together anymore.

How different were Elizabethan wedding dresses than wedding dresses today?

Extremely different, as fashion and undergarments then were different. It also greatly depended on your station in life as to what you were wearing, as even the fabric told a great deal about you. Firstly, Elizabethan gowns were not white, but were generally your best dress. Most Elizabethan dresses consisted of bloomers, a chemise, farthingale, and a corset. On top of these would be the petticoat, the underskirt (the decorated front panel), the over skirt, a bodice and sleeves. Sleeves and underskirts were decorated and interchangeable. More information can be found here at elizabethan.org/compendium/62.html

Is it ok to mention a gift card box or money tree in a wedding reception invitation in lieu of shower or registering?

* Yes, this would be acceptable in today's etiquette and a relief for many guests as it will be easier on them. In your wedding invitation put a money card inside for the convenience of your guests.

Why do men wear black at weddings Is that an omen?

  • No, men wearing black to a wedding is not an omen. In Western countries black has been the traditional attire for men throughout the centuries, but in these modern times men can wear almost any color and eliminate wearing black. Black use to also be considered a color to wear to funerals, but now most people will wear subdued colors and not necessarily black.