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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
I was in a relationship for 4 years and last year decided to end  the relationship. We have remained close friends and there is no  bad blood or awkwardness. This is how I broke up with him and how  we remained friends.   I broke up with 'Roger' (Name changed) face to face. This is the  only...
Well, act hard to get at first. You don't want to ignore him too much though because then he'll think your over him:) Teach him a lesson,make sure he learns that leaving you or doing you wrong was a bad choice that way you can sure he wont do it again.
Its different for everyone, I however found out I couldn't move on, so I took action, and now she is by my side. Try it, just take action d and whatever happens DO NOT GIVE UP or settle for less. You will never forget about someone you love but the ONLY way to move on is to cut off all contact with...
Don't think back on the relationship, because that will only make  you even more upset. This is because you only look back on the good  memories. Preoccupy yourself with different things. Go out for a  walk, enjoy nature, go to an art exhibit, hang out with your best  friends, buy yourself that...
doesnt evry grl want to kno? haha well depends who HE is... and how old he is... the most common could be sumthing w/ the family... w/ my bf i always wonder if hes ok if he isn't the same as bfor but it could always just be him acting up a lil... hopefuly he'll come back to his self! :) may ur...
The reason I believe someone would keep fallin for the same person over and over again is because they might think they cant get anyone better. Also they might do it because they don't know how to get out of the realtionship. Well let's not look on the bad side. Another reason they might continue to...
Sounds like he had some problems. If it is bad enough please tell someone. Parents can actually help out a lot in cases like this.
Show your ex that you're stronger and don't let him hurt you! You are a strong, independent, self-empowered individual who can conquer the world! Your ex is only getting satisfaction out of your pain, so reverse the power by hurdling over them and their selfish ways!
A guy should only get 2 chances. If he really wanted you then he would of thought about it the first time and not of done it again. If he did something to you once, and he he tried to do it again but you caught him, he not worth it. Dump him, there's more guys out there for you.
When someone does not want you but you want them, you must take back your power and not want them any more, I know that's not easy! but if he was meant for you then you would still be together, if not then he's not meant for you! It's nothing about you or what you have or have not done! It's just...
tell them to pick if they love you they'll pick you if thy don't you and his wife are being used and you should get out of there .
  == Answer ==   You should just let him go or if your not shy just ask him back out and tell him how you feel.
  == Answer ==   Hes proboblt just lieng to uand whants to get some thing from you .
Well Tbh If Your Ex Truley Loved You And You Truley Loved Him Then Your Always Going To Have Some Sort Of Feelings For Him? May Not Be Love But Still Something , Right?Why Do You Ask Such A Question? - Only You Will Know If You Still Love Eachother? My Ex Hates The F*** Out Of Me, Telling Me To Die...
I suggest you be more specific in asking what you should do about your ex girlfriend: do you want her back? does she want you back?, etc...
when you feel like you know the person like he's your bro or sis. If you don't even know him then well not true love. sure there sometimes true love when you see the person but try to get to know him
If my best friend were to lie on my, I would tell them to get off. If they were lieing about me or to me, I would ask why.  i would tell them to lie to me again and see what happens if not just no second chances.
  Because the rude ones have not learned proper consideration or manners properly from their parents.
Not if bff wants to stay your bff. Too confusing. Her relationship will be the biggest and hopefully best part of her life. You won't be able to share in that for sometime because it is an area that causes a rift...so you guys would have to avoid that...and before you know it natural distance. If...
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! You CANNOT, I repeat, CANNOT get back together with her. Her baby's daddy is the man in her life now, not you, and you have no business trying to get her back. She is your EX, not your current girlfriend, and her affections lie elsewhere. She already has enough on her plate...
He could just be genuinely happy for you but if you want to be sure it would be best to talk with him and find out how he feels.
  == aww. ok, if you guys talk on the phone alot, keep that up. see if she'd be interested in coming out here in the U.S. if not, take a break from school (not saying to drop out!!!), and go visit her. another alternative is for you guys to meet up some where when you both have free time, and...
Because its the force that makes you fully human. Love, real love, is self evident, it's something you can see, even in the dark. If you find that you should hold onto it.
No. If they end up splitting, you have a far better reason to date her than if you are the reason they split.
probably not because if you two were meant for each other, you wouldn't break up as much. maybe next time you do break up, maybe leave it that way and find someone else.
let him down gentley.. talk to him but in a friend way but if he gets seriouse then just dont say anything back... tame him! :) haha
It's hard to forget them sometimes but other times it's easy. When I broke up it was easy. But when you love I'm not sure but you just have to forget. You know what they say when you really love him set him free.
If you broke up because of your job than that shows what is more important and the relationship most likely will not work.
Maybe he just felt sorry for you. Or maybe he still likes you.Or maybe he was sad and he thought he'd feel better if he kissed you.You can never know for sure.
  Forever !! Gotta have both signatures, one would think, otherwise either party could just divorce their mates willy-nilly at any time. An old saying comes to mind ... You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.
Well i have this problem also i was dating the guy i thought was the one i was in love and he never told me he was in love with me though so i never told him and that was the worst mistake of my life and then we broke up im always going to miss him and i will never get him back.............. SO...
Be flirtatious, dress nice, smell good, lean into them a little when talking with them. Just sending off little signals such as that is a obvious way to let them know without saying anything. Or you could be straight up about it all and kiss them first, you never know if they feel the same way...
Well Sit him down and talk to him ask hhim whats going on and why is he acting like this because you have the right to know
omg yes. why wouldnt she? if she is pregnant then she probably wont want you to know since she is your ex. she might just want to have an abortion without you knowing about it, or she is afraid of the repercussions that would come from telling you.
I think you have answered your own question, haven't you? You are so special, and you think this person is the greatest in the world, yet he doesn't rate you. How perfect the world would be if he loved you as much as you loved him? But that's the rub. He doesn't feel the same about you as you...
Sometimes guys treat women like nothing because sometimes the man is too blind to see that the right girl is right in front of them.   A: These types of men have a "Narcissistic Complex", and only look at themselves and what they want as having any value, they often have a mellifluous approach...
Answer Some guys use this as an excuse to get outof relationship because they simply want to be free to do as theyplease. The best thing you can do is get on with your own life.Start going out with friends and having fun and start dating again.There is a possibility if he sees you aren't sitting at...
just be clear! sheesh! if it's breaking up then it's breaking up. don't confuse the issue!
I would get to know my friend first and try my best to not give them any reason to feel the need for me to ask for forgiveness.I'm just that respectable, honorable, and a great friend. So, I would do anything that would be so unforgiving or need forgiving.If I did do something, it was for a good...
  Just be honest. Honesty can cause pain, but in the end, you will have whatever you are thinking off you mind.
show her that she deserves you...spoil her...have sex with  her...show her that you care
  Only he knows for sure but maybe he is not ready for a relationship at this time, he may not be interested in you the way you are him, he may be interested in someone else and he may just be telling you what he thinks you want to hear as to not hurt you but may trying to let you down easy.
  Only he knows for sure how he feels but it seems he may not be interested in a relationship at this time or may not be interested in a relationship with you in particular. There are times we don't always know the reasons however, it is not worth wasting time worrying about it. Pick yourself up...
  Dump him, sweetie. He's trying to keep you on the line while he goes looking someplace else. Dump him NOW.
You can just tell her how you feel. Not sure what you mean by 'don't know what is wrong' You didn't make the question very clear.
  "The heart was made to be broken."   zeequotes 
  you tell her ok so i guess you have feelings for me and your ex so which one of us do you want me or him give about three days to decied.   (ps) if things dont work out i am free   my name for this site is softballqueen i am 13!!
Oh, please don't let my ex know that because it isn't true. Now if you are talking about your ex, you should just let them know how you feel.
Get a better look! but if the chemistry just isn't right then no point in trying
Well, if he is asking you to go around when his parent's aren't  there I would probably conclude that he is using you. However is he  doesn't it may just be a coincidence it may be worth asking him Why  today? Why then? It could help you feel more comfortable and if not  let the boyfriend know...
  slap him or enjoy it
i think (im a girl so im really guessing :P) that a guy has this "need" of having a girlfriend. whether its to be popular or to gain affection i dont know... it could also be from pressure from friends or maybe the guy's just a player!
  You have to ask yourself if you really feel there is going to be a reconciliation here as putting your life on hold for one person is really a big commitment. Regardless of how you feel try and see things for how they really are and how he talks to you and feels as well to really know if it is...
    == when the person ur with makes you happy no matta how you fell and sum1 who iz always there for you through the up and the downs. some one that is always there with you someone you trust.some you can tell your secrets to and not lie to them.some one can actually say i love you to with...
I believe so. The more you're with somebody, the more you can tell about them. From Sugarhoney:Also, if you really want to know something, or you cant quite remember something and you want to find it out. You may remember it in time.Or if you have asked your parents for something and they say "only...
  It is best to live your life and take things as they come. You cannot put your life on hold for what may never happen.
If the relationship has gone south then yes.
show her how much u love her and need her back in your life.... if she loves you she will come back... and say sorry to her for breaking her heart and promise her you wont ever break her heart again... and always tell her you love her... =)
  Sometimes they really feel they don't want to hurt you but don't want to be with you either and most times we want to think they will come back but the chances as slim to none. It is best not to wait around what just may not happen.
She probably doesn't want anything to do with you, but if you insist, you have to start from square 1. Start off as friends & slowly build back up to a relationship.
Try talking with them and see what they have to say if that is what you would like. Let them know how you feel.
i would have to say... maybe. there are probably two reasons: he's either making you jealous... or really over you.Your question doesn't provide enough information to provide a worthy answer -- was your ex on the rebound when he became involved with you? Are there children involved? Is there money...
she should get really nervous or overly excited around you. When a  girl is flirting, she will either talk to you constantly or stay  quite and look over at you more times than you can count.
i would strongly suggect you to think about your motives. why were you with your long term boyfriend for so long? was it because you desperately wanted a boyfriend and he was the only one you could find? did you really "fall in love" with him? would you want to get married to him? what about the...
  if you feel pressured up by your girlfriend. Like you MUST call her, you MUST do this to please her. When you're getting tired of her. When you see your girlfriend and the first thought would be something "Oh god," or "Oh no" oorrr something with those lines. Realize how you feel for her and...
it is literally impossible to understand men.women for years have struggled and strained but the conclusion most come to is that we really have no idea..he's a bloke.he didnt know that he still wanted you and now he knows he's mad at himself for letting you go, and probably at you for moving on so...
you should just tell him that the joke he made wasn't funny at all. and if he really cares about your feelings, he would respect that. (you can still be friends right? give it time- you might only "like" him because he actually acted like he liked you)
An example of a sentence that uses the word abducent is "The eye  muscles have abducent away from the nerves." Abducent is defined as  a muscle drawing away from another part of the body.
If you really love them enough then you have to let them be  although you can beg them to stay but you can not certainly force  them to love you. It's not easy letting them go but the best way to  let him or her go is to smile and wave and wish them good luck. You  can then pick up the pieces...
1. L2G- Like to go. 2. L2K- Love to come. 3. L8R- Later. 4. LBAY- Laughing back at you. 5. LD- Later dude. 6. LMK- Let me know. 7. N1- Nice one. 8. NFW- Not for work. 9. NM- Nothing much. 10. TTYL- Talk to you later.
    == Answer ==       You can't. That is pretty much on you, as far as how much trust you have in him. Just remember, it is not your fault. He decided to go outside of your relationship, and if you want to continue, then I would suggest some relationship counseling, not only...
they do it because they realize that they made a big mistake by doing it and they feel bad
  You cannot force anyone to do anything especially if they are not comfortable doing so. Guys tend to have trouble discussing or professing feelings and no one can change that or "get" them to do so. All you can do is allow him to come around on his own and don't pressure him with this as it...
Some people do but it is usually just best to let it go and move on. There was a reason you broke up. If friendship is actually possible go for it but that is rare.
The only way you are really going to know if he thinks you are fat is if he mentions it such as: 'Don't you think that dress is a little tight on you?' 'Have you ever thought about going to gym?' Other than that you may well be second guessing him. If you feel you are over-weight then get on the...
Often we feel that we were hurt the most until we finally realize what is important. Never to late to make it up to the child with lots of love.
  It seems he is not sure what he wants but may be always keeping options open for something that he thinks may be "better" but while keeping you around as to not be alone as well as being selfish. Don't allow him to use you.
ANSWER: Like what I said to your other question, it depend on individual. All of us has our own reason to why we do this. There will always be reason why this thing happen
  It seems he may be preoccupied with concerns and issues personal to him that he may just have no time for an outside relationship at this time and concentrating on his child and what is at hand. It may be in your best interest to let him be and move on - he doesn't need anymore confusion or...
== ==   == Life goes on... ==   The answer below is right! Enjoy your life and explore the ocean... Well there are plenty of fish in the Ocean you know but... you must be very careful because most of them are anchovies....ahahaha bout your ex show him that you don't care... make your self...
The guy who said "you dont" is totally wrong. Because I had a girlfriend that was lesbian and I didn't know until last Friday. So, a guy can get a girl who's lesbian b/c she will try to hide her homosexuality from everybody and get a boyfriend. As in my case, I had dated this girl since 8th grade...
You should say "I need to look and see why I just said that" It isn't in the bible.
Basically he is telling you to behave and stay out of trouble - stay away from other men.
Being unaware of your situation, whether you are remarrried or a single divorcee, and not knowing the nature of your ex, this is a tough question. First you need to decide whether or not you want to open yourself up for further abuse. If not, you need to make it clear that you want no further...
If you mean the actor, it's Nathan.   If you mean the person on iCarly, its Fredward.
You must pray that he does not! Are you scheming and planning to be dumpee number three? How many years do you plan to waste on him? It's time to find your self esteem. If you are needy and have a hard time without attention, focus on something outside yourself; volunteer work, take some courses,...
That depends what he is begging for and how you feel about that particular topic. Don't allow yourself to be pressured or "begged" into doing something that you do not want to - simply say no and walk away.
You can't prevent it, just try to deal with it!
well basically he still wants to fix things and all so the baby can grow up and not have his parents fighting and hating each other, he doesnt have to be in a relationship he just wants to fix everything and still be in yours and the baby's life
  == Answer ==   give him 3 monthes...he'll come to you...trust me...it just happen to me...it will be hard but dont push...
Find something to keep you occupied with your spare time.