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How exactly should a victim stop enabling an abuser so that she can make sure that she doesn't run the risk of making an already bad situation even worse?
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∙ 18y ago
You enable an abuser by putting up with their mind-bending verbal abuse or their physical abuse against you. Abusers seldom go for counseling because they honesty feel they are right (the woman and anything else on their property down to the family dog is theres and no one is going to tell them different.) Abusers often treat women as chattel. The best thing you can do is head to either your Mental Health or your local "Abused Women's Center" and take their programs. Whether you know it or not you are psychologically confused after all the abuse (be it verbal or physical.) These programs will give you the tools to become strong and not return to the abuser or pick another abusive partner. Good luck hon Marcy
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Was your abuser really that bad if you feel worse without him?
Abusers are bad. Period. It is common for someone who has been abused to feel lonely when the abuser becomes absent, but it is because of the stress of change. If you feel yourself running back to your abuser, get help. The situation will only escalate otherwise.
Explain how God forgives a sexual abuser who stop but was once a victim?
if the abuser is genuinely sorry for what he has done, admitted his wrong to both the victim and to god and has taken genuine steps to repent.however, if the abuser was once a victim, in y opinion, it makes the situation worse, as the abuser should be fully aware of the dammge he/she has done.I was violently raped, but i have no desire to abuse another human being.
How do you make abusers suffer?
You should not wish revenge against an abuser, this will only make your abuser furious and cause them to harm you more than they already have. To stop an abuser you need to talk to the authorities and if you are a teenager or younger person that is being abuse you need to talk to a trusted adult for help.
Was David Pelzer a child abuser?
No he is not a child abuser.
How do you get out of a verbally abusive relationship when you work with the abuser every day and quitting is not an option you can afford?
It all depends on the situation. If the "abuser" is the boss and owner, you can either put up with it or leave. If it's a co-worker in a big company, get the abuse documented and take your complaint to a supervisor or manager.
How exactly can a victim get counseling if she is still living with her abuser and is afraid that he will sabotage her healing process by using her therapy against her?
I'm a qualified counsellor. Your therapist can NOT use your private information and give it to your abuser. Everything you say to your counsellor is 100 percent private and confidential. Counselling may be of some help to you but you will not be happy and settled untilyour abuser is out of your life. If your abuser is still living with you then counselling wont make much of a difference. See your doctor and speak to him about the abuse you're suffering and your doctor will arrange something for you.
When was Love Your Abuser created?
Love Your Abuser was created on 2007-01-30.
How do you reason with an abuser?
Reasoning with an abuser is not something the abused person should probably try. Most abusers are very good at manipulation. If you try to discuss it with them, you may be disappointed and become more hurt and angry. If they are an abuser, they already know it, but do not expect them to admit it.Rather then reason with them, you should talk to someone that you trust about it. It might be hard to admit to someone that you are being abused, but it is better to face your fear by reaching out to someone then continuing to be abused.
How What if your ex husband abuser get remarried and look not abuser to new wife?
Give him time. He will.
Do the abused animals come back to the abuser for revenge?
As far as non-humans, no, karma has passed them by. If they did, I suspect we'd have a situation far more gruesome than the worst zombie apocalypse.
When was Love Your Abuser Remixed created?
Love Your Abuser Remixed was created on 2008-09-23.
What can you do to help an abused person?
you cant help someone unless they want to be helped. if they do what you need to do is get them out of the situation, call the ploce,take pics. of the bruises and scars and go to court and prove that abuser guilty.
