You didn't really give much info as to the relationship you and your husband have. He could be joking if you have somewhat of a fiery temper (like waving a red flag in front of a bull.) LOL If you are having difficulties in your marriage he may be telling you he doesn't trust you and can see "red flags" (which means danger) such as you possibly cheating. If you care to elaborate on your situation just post under my post. It means your husband cant communicate well with you, if he cant tell you what the red flags are. Sounds like he's sheepishly is trying to tell you that ways he expected you to be or not to be are not what he thought before he married you. Ask him to be mature about this and tell you exactly what he means. If he chooses not to talk to you then you should Yellow flag him with caution.
ask your husband if you and him want to have sex.
She probably sees you as gay.
Usually it means that someone sees themselves in you.
This normally means that she is just wanting to be friends.
She like cookies in chinese
Nothing, you are just being paranoid.
because he looks at you he sees comitment,he sees what he will never be.
it means she really likes you! she likes when she gets to see you or be around you.
He sees that you need his affection or he just wants to express his love
It means that while she sees you as a potential friend, she does not see you as a potential lover or mate.
it means to send a private message on facebook between you and the other person so not everybody sees it.
It means that they feel that you are letting them know more of the real you, not the one that everyone else sees.