Relationships

Most of the time it's just surprise.

They are probably kinda embarrassed and a little grossed out. I know a guy that my friend had a crush on...a BIG crush. She made me email him and tell him that she liked him. He was kinda confused and sorta not very happy about it. Thankfully, she does NOT like him anymore, but it was an embarrassing time for BOTH of them.

totall surprise. it's going to be really tense for some time too. Way back in middle school, half of them just lie and say they can't date until 16. xP But mainly, the guy is a little grossed out, a tiny bit flattered, and both are embarrassed.

There's no way to know from what you've posted. Be careful, he might see your infatuation as a sign of weakness, and be planning to take advantage of you. Take it slow, see what he's like as a person before you get so involved that you let him hurt you. "Cool" isn't a recommendation for the way a person would treat you in a long term relationship.

He was cool with it, how nice of him. Girlfriend let me say this why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free. In other words, go to the movies with him and do other outside activities but do not move into intimacy. Every relationship has a starting point and this one has not begun yet. You have to feel it out and take it slow. If you go overboard with your crush on him and he doesnt respond the same way you will be the one crushed in the end. Try to see how long he talks to you if you dont get intimate with him. If he sticks around for more than a couple months he likes you, if after a two or three week period you see a bit less of him every day, then he was looking for one thing, and you need not share that with anyone who doesnt deserve it. Find a guy that will stick around for all of your attributes not just a good time. Stay smart and good luck.

Space and time are the best ways to ebb a crush. Don't hang out with the person or go to places where you know they will be. What you're crushing on is your fantasy of the person, someone with your image of ideal traits who reciprocates your feelings. You're not crushing on the average, ordinary person they truly are, with good traits and flaws like everyone else. Anytime you start daydreaming about them, replace that image with some memory of them that makes them unattractive to you. Realizing it is a crush is important. A crush doesn't usually go anywhere, and can be a painful heartache when he or she moves into a relationship with someone else. So, have fun with it, but know that most often it is not a happy ending. It's a Crush! and in the end you'll be crushed. You really can't make yourself do it. Things like that take time.

He could be shy. I agree he could be shy or have a policy of not dating co-workers. If either of you are in a relationship or married, it's definitely a good idea for him to put space between you, unless you want an emotional and possibly physical affair to occur.

Staring isn't necessarily a good thing. It is one thing to stare at, say, a painting in a museum or, say, a train wreck; it's quite another to stare at a person. Was he looking at you, or was he ogling you? Was he leering or smiling? It matters. Perhaps he was checking you out and deciding whether he wanted to make a move on you. Perhaps he wasn't staring but merely looking in your direction and trying to get a reaction from you. When a guy you are interested in looks at you, the simplest thing you can do to send him a positive message is to smile. Girls really underestimate the power and beauty of a smile. For many guys, it's a major turn-on.

Well... There are a couple of reasons that I can come up with. Either he is so comfortable in your relationship that he forgets about all the affectionate things that he used to do, you may just bring it up in a casual "non-accusing" way, and ask him why he doesn't hug or kiss your anymore, and that he doesn't tell you that he loves you. I know this is hard, but in the long run, it will be easier to ask now then to worry yourself sick about it anymore. On the other hand, he may be doing some dirty work. Just ask him about it. Try not to be accusing, just incase he is confused about the relationship. Everyone gets scared and changes their mentality about a relationship. Just ask him. Hope this helps.

== == * Yes it does appear that this boy likes you. If you are in elementary school then young boys will poke or tease you. In high school they flirt and continue to do so from then on. * Yes it does appear that this boy likes you. If you are in elementary school then young boys will poke or tease you. In high school they don't do what they do in the movies. If they aren't sure that you like them they may or may not flirt with you. If they don't, they might want you to initiate a conversation or give them a subtle or maybe obvious hint. Such as flirting (subtle) or giving them a note (obvious) and if you are shy and afraid of being made fun of for letting him know you like him, then wait. Be sure before you jump into anything. If you are more outgoing I suggest you give him a note. That's what I did and it worked

Because they're trying to get your attention, and aren't good at dealing with their feelings properly. if they ignore you then they probably are too shy to talk to you or be near you

== == * Some men simply are lazy in their thought patterns. Women (even when younger) were expected to do household chores years ago and look after children or siblings while the men worked the farm, ranch or went hunting. Well, those days are gone! I believe men and women are equal in feelings and men have simply been brought up to think it's weak to cry (like women do) or express their true feelings. It is true that the way women may think about a certain subject that is important in the relationship and how men think are two different things. Men are truly shocked and confused at women's reactions over certain matters while we get the idea good and clear. When something unpleasant happens to the woman (at work with a coworker or an argument with a friend and she goes on and on because she's mad) men don't react the same way. They may say a few short words or punch the guy, but then it's over and they move on. The reason women usually live longer is the fact they express themselves more while men are more apt to be in total control of their feelings and internally deal with them. I sometimes wonder if the Creator was in a jovial mood when he made the male and female sex!

ask her 2-3 days prior to the weekend. not a professional, just my opinion.

==It depends== It depends who is doing the asking. If his best buddy asked him, it is highly likely he would at least say he was interested in a particular girl. Sometimes guys will tell their sisters. Men don't often shout from the roof tops how much they care about a girl, and women are more prone to be chatty about it, especially with their friends. If a girl has to ask the guy she is going out with if he loves her, then she's not confident. Go out and have fun (nix hitting the sack with a guy right away) and see where the relationship goes from there. Usually most guys will show they love the girl by their actions rather than being verbal.

CRUSHING ON YOU If a guy really likes you he wants to seem superior to you. He wont just follow you around like a lost puppy dog. He may ignore your texts or try to be all intelligent and cool. But whenever you do have conversation, it may be about the strangest things that havent seemed to matter before. This guy might do sweet things for you like leave you little notes somewhere or hold a door open. A good guy knows that its the small things that matter. DONTS! Do not chase him. Although it may not seem that he likes you, he is just playing a game. Lay off, and play his own game on him. Make him chase you. When he asks you out the first time dont say yes (it sounds stupid but it works) but after this point let him know that you still like him. If you dont he might give up and try to forget about you. When he asks you out the second time say yes! This is a good way to get a guy. WHEN YOU DATE Play the same game. Dont be clingy and needy. Make him want to be around you and miss you, not get away from you. I like this boy and this is what he does around me ~ looks at me alot ~ trys to follow me ~ if we meet each other closely he looks into my eyes alot ~ he trys to sit around me at lunch ~ and some other stuff does he like me? will he ask me out? plz answer i really want to know reply asap plzzzzz i rlly want to know

Well she will get even flirtieier and she will show you and in time a girl will tell you plus look at the sighns.

I have no idea why any woman would be interested in a cold guy when there are so many great guys out there. Most men do have feelings, but there is a low percentage of actual males (and females) with no morals and absolutely no love inside and they are a "waste of skin to society." Some men can be troubled from a bad up-bringing, others have been abused and then there are just the plain mean to the bone guys. They don't particularly like any type of woman and as long as she's sucker enough to play the game along with him then that's all he cares about. A warning! Beware! These guys can be dangerous and a woman could get into a lot of trouble.

Try to ask questions that cant be answered with a yes or no. Ask him questions to find out what he DOES like talking about, or find out if he is just distracted doing five other things on his computer. From a guys point of view.....we will get annoyed if u ask to many questions........so either keep it simple or play hard to get and make him ask the questions

He does not want to be around you that much and he goes out a lot to "get away."

he doesn't awnser your calls all the time usually have to call more than twice.

When he makes plans with you and then ditches them to get (away) with his friends

When i love you becomes ( me too). You will see the changes graudually they just keep getting worse till iether he wakes up or doesn't want to try for you anymore.

I just went through the same thing and I am baffled. I have no idea why. Both reasons are correct. People who are abusive or get caught in a lie are angry they weren't crafty enough to cover their tracks and it's because of their egotistical behavior. They actually see nothing wrong with it (it's their right, feel it is a God-given right to do so (but not their mate doing the same thing) and they have absolutely no care about how their hurt their mate. They basically want it all! They are also angry at the other person (especially his mate) for finding out and "how dare they spy on him!" Yup, this guy basically got caught with his knickers down (a pun intended!) LOL Sorry gals, but this guy is a waste of skin. You can't win with liars and cheaters. The ego-tripping and mind games will wear you down and it's not worth the energy you give it. Kick this guy to the curb!

Girls like being treated well by guys. They also like guys that don't wear too much cologne. They like their eyes and eyebrows. Massive abs and muscles aren't necessary but but a lean body is nice.

And if he winks at you and calls you beautiful and hot and only pays attention to you.

You could start talking to her by asking how her day went and then maybe start talking about things she likes to do Answerallways act nice and confident in your speech and ask her things and be nice to her. also, never gve up. she might just get to like you over time!!! if you thinks she has the slightest intest in you. tell her in a nice way that youare in love withher (or say ily - i love you)

Ask her about her interests and opinioms. Don't ask too many questions at one time, though, because that may make you seem like a stalker. Remember the stuff she told and maybe a week later, show her that you remember what she said by saying something about it. For example, if she said she likes to play soccer, you could ask her what position she plays.

• The other woman should never believe what a married man says because he would not be cheating on his wife if he didn't have problems with communication skills with his wife or wasn't so self centered and devious to cheat on her. The 'other woman' is generally looked on at first as being exciting for the married man because she does not know him as well as his wife does so he can pretty much get away with lying if he so chooses, but he also knows it's about a free sexual relationship with no ties and more often than not men for one reason or another will go back to their wives and toss the other woman away like so much garbage. The percentage of a married man getting a divorce to marry the other woman is extremely low.

She probably is too young so if you both love each other then you can wait another year. You didn't mention how old you are, but if you are under 18 years old I can see her parents concern. They want her to get a good education and experience life and fear she will get pregnant and that happens a lot these days. I don't think it's anything personal with you. If you are at least 16 then you may try going to speak with her parents and see if they will allow you both to go out on the occasional date to a movie or such. It's worth a shot. I think her parents would respect you more if you dressed up (looked at least neat) were respectful and expressed how you felt and that you will follow THEIR rules. You spend time with her at her house with her parents there, until she gains their confidence that a short date like a movie or desert is OK. Be prepared to get to know her parents with the intention of developing their trust in you and your decisions. If you can't be mature don't even begin the relation ship.