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Relationships include parent/child, sibling/sibling, friendship, dating, marriage, and lots of others. They can be great, but many times they are problematic and can be unhappy or even abusive. This category is for questions about relationships, both good and bad.

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How do you know if someone really wants to be with you?

If you really care for someone even as a friend and not just because they love you they enjoy being around you. They'll phone you or sound happy when you phone them. You laugh a lot together. You share secrets together. You feel you can trust each other and perhaps discuss hopes and dreams you have for the future.

How do you flirt with a girl you have just met?

The best policy is just to be yourself. A lot of people (the young people as well) don't care for game playing and prefer the opposite sex just be themselves. All people flirt to some degree, but it comes naturally when one is trying to impress the opposite sex so don't worry about it. There might be something in your eyes she finds sexy or attractive or it could be as simple as the fact she loves your smile or the way you laugh. A good sense of humor (a little goes a long way) also helps.

AnswerTry double entendres, girls like witty guys with a sense of humour. I agree with the above post, being yourself is important and game playing is a no-no. Subtle touching is also a a good way to warm up to each other, not touching in a sexual way, but a pat on the back that type of thing. If she offers you something, say "thanks beautiful" instead of just thanks. Good luck.

KeVin Toronto

How do you get your crush to like you?

For Girls:

1. Girls are complicated, they need their space.

2. You like her, she probably feels the same way.

3. Ask her out.

4. Girls like to be appreciated by boys.

5. If you treat us like crap, we think you hate us.

6. Girls can like more than 1 guy at at a time, so ask her out whenever you can, if one of their crushes ask before you, than your screwed until they break up and that could be years.

7. If you ask them out and they say no, keep asking only one time a month!

For Boys:

1. Be clumsy in front of them and they'll help you.

2. If you flirt and they DO NOT flirt back just walk away.

3. Act smart, boys who aren't as smart as you will ask for tutoring.

4. Get active and play sports, boys love sports.

5. Be creative, make music, art, and things to impress boys.

6. When they are out of place or sad comfort them they would do the same to you.

7. The most important is to be you.

I'm sorry if these don't work, every one has a different approach. I took two surveys about what to do with crushes, one for boys and one for girls. These where the top seven answers.

How can you tell if a shy guy is sexually attracted to you?

Signs that a shy guy is sexually attracted to you may include prolonged eye contact, nervous behavior or stuttering when speaking to you, subtle physical touches, and attempts to spend time alone with you. However, it's important to communicate openly and directly with him to understand his feelings and intentions clearly.

At what age do guys typically start thinking about a relationship that could turn into marriage?

Many people have a hazy future plan that involves marriage/children, but people vary on their age when they make the decision to "settle down". Overall, it depends less on what age a person is and more on the relationship they are currently in. If you've been in a relationship for a couple of years, likely at some point the subject has come up. Unless someone has an overwhelming desire for marriage/parenthood and views it as goal to complete by a certain point in their life, most people will not make a decision about marriage until they're involved with someone who they feel meets their requirements in a marital partner.

Some people have no interest in marriage or children at all. If a person you're dating says they don't plan of getting married or being a father, don't believe you can change their mind or that they may change their own mind in the future.

AnswerThis depends on quite a few things. How mature are they. Are they willing to give 100% to someone else. Are they ready to take on the responsibilities of a committed relationship. Do theyunderstand what true love is. Can they communicate well. IF the guy is in his mid to late twenties and still parties like he's in high school he's not ready. If the guy is in his thirties and still thinks of women like objects, he's not ready. If the guy is in his forties and doesnt own any thing of value, he's not ready. If a man is in his fifties and hasn't had any lengthy relationship, he'll never be ready. If they still live with their parents, run really fast because they'll be mooches forever......IF you have been in a relationship for 2-3 years with a guy and it hasn't progressed somewhat and you have not seen any sort of commitment, stop wasting your time. You'll wait forever. The saying of why buy the cow when you already get the milk for free is basically true for immature umcommital people in general.....

If you know who your husband's mistress is should you sabotage her?

I'd be more concerned with confronting my spouse then the person they're cheating with. That's the only relationship that should be on concern. Do what I did with my first husband when his mistress phoned me and wanted to talk "woman-to-woman" I told her I'd tie a big red bow on his butt and send him over and she could put up with his antics! I left!

Why did John Cena and Maria break up?

Well it is hard to breakup when you never dated the person in the first place.

Why can't some people take a compliment?

Maybe it is because either they don't like you or they don't consider it a complement. Perhaps maybe they have never gotten a compliment before so they don't know how to handle it. For some, it could be that they lack the confidence to simply thank the person.

Sometimes the problem is the person giving the "compliment." Maybe they are insincere and are giving cheap compliments with ulterior motives in mind, like trying to con others into becoming sexual partners. Others can usually feel this and ignore the cheap compliments. You don't have to accept compliments, help, or favors when there are strings attached.

Sometimes those giving "compliments" are being sarcastic or abusive, or they have a good compliment buried under bias language, hate speech, or racism. What sounds like a compliment could actually be a veiled put-down. If a man of one race were to call a woman of another race the cutest member of that race they ever saw, it is not exactly a compliment. It is putting her people down by implying that they are mostly ugly. So leave race out of it. If they are cute, they are cute, period.

How do you get a girl to fancy you?

To get a girl to fancy you, you need to treat her with respect.

Why do guys whistle at girls?

It used to be called the "Wolf Whistle" and it was a way of some brassy men to let a woman know they think she's attractive. It's a compliment in a crude manner, but more often than not, women appreciate it.

I am 14 and do not like being whisled at by old creepy guys! Its just discusting! I hate it when guys whistle!

Is it unacceptable for a girl to make the first move and ask a guy out?

It depends on the guy and the girl. What kind of relationship are they trying to establish, if any? If the guy is old fashioned, he may not feel comfortable being asked out. On the other hand, he might be flattered that the girl asked. No The long and short of it is, that most guys are simply shy and feel awkward. Young women are more independent today and the guys can feel threatened. I don't blame them in many cases. I say yes! Not all women get up on the femanist plateau and some young women are old-fashioned, shy, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. You could nicely ask him out to a favorite hang-out or, go to a movie and something to eat after. Don't live on "what ifs" or "I should have." The way to ask a young man out is not with blunt confidence, but smile and pleasantly ask him out on a date. If he feels uncomfortable then by your body actions he won't feel cornered. No it is not wrong. Dating practices of today differ widely than yesteryear. Have fun with it.

What does it mean if a guy you are seeing says he likes you and that you are special to him?

He very well may like him but how special are you to him. To see if its not for sex then tell him that he's special to you too but things need to go slow. See how long he sticks around. If for two to three months and he doesnt expect anything, then maybe but if two days or weeks then he needs to be kicked to the curb and wasnt deserving of you in the first place. Remember girl out bodies are our temples and should be cherished and respected, always.

What does it mean when a guy seems uncomfortable talking about his girlfriend to his friend who is female?

It may mean that his Mother and Father taught him that personal relationships were personal, between himself and only his girlfriend. Also, by simple observation, boys learn early the fate which befalls any guy who "kisses and tells." His relationship with his girlfriend is their business, and not yours, in spite of friendship. This may be the cause of his unease in discussing her with you. j3h.

How do you respond when your crush asks you out?

Decide whether you want to go out with them or not. If you like them, say yes, if not say no. It just means you become boyfriend and girlfriend I am dealing with the same thing he hasn't asked me out but I know he is and I don't know what to do, well i guess just say yes if you like him and if it will be to wierd on the date then ask him if he wants to double date with one of your friends

How can you tell if your crush likes you?

If they never let a text sit on read for longer than 20 minutes, They Send You Texts With Cute Emojis, They Always Get Right Back To You, They Make Light Physical Contact With You, They Seek You Out At The Party, They Open Up About Their Personal Life, They Send You Good Memes (a good meme is hard to find!), or They Tell You When Something Reminds Them Of You.

How do you kiss someone?

Answer:Find a time when you and your boyfriend/girlfriend have locked eyes. Tilt your head a little bit and wait for him/her to lean a little. Then you lean in. Wait till your lips meet and just leave it at the lips. Don't do anything with your tongue if it's your first time kissing him/her. Maybe once you have kissed him/her multiple times you can start that.

You lean in until your lips meet and then you kiss them and enjoy it. This is just the beginning and if you want to get some good lip action i would say do this and then if he/she lets you slip your tongue into their mouth and if they don't move and reply back with their tongue then this is good because he/she likes it. But if they rip away and look at you weird then they don't like it.

Answer:That's not what I did on my first kiss. I waited until there was a silence then I went like a half a centimeter to his face and he came the rest of the way. You want to let the boy/girl know that you want to kiss him/her and if he doesnt want to kiss you than just make up something like ''your eyes are so beautiful/handsome I havent stopped looking at them all night'' or ''i cant stop looking at you, your just so beautiful/handsome/cute and if I stop you might disappear in this beautiful night/day and I'll never get to look at you again.

Just wait until a time that you and him are alone. Then, start talking about romantic stuff. Then, tlit your head and wait until they do to, and get ready to pucker up!

Answer:If it's a peck on the cheek:

- pout your lips 60% - 100% of the way

- keep the time of contact minimal

- closing eyes isn't REALLY necessary

If it's a peck on the lips (If it's just a peck, it normally means your short on time):

- pout your lips 60% - 80%

- contact time should be a ~0.5 s

- close your eyes (As aforementioned, if time is of essense, a blink suffices sometimes).

Why do some people take everything so seriously?

They're probably one of those people. He or she is a person who doesn't play and can't take jokes. It's OK.

Answersome people take everything seriously because they realy thaught that the other person was serious. some people are taking it seriously on purpose. Some people just want to beat up someone.

How do you find out if a guy likes you?

1) He looks at you alot

2) He defends you sometimes

3) He tries to talk to you (well this one, it doesn't have to be)

4) He jokes around with you

5) (for some guys) he tries to make you jealous

6) He tries to get close to you

7) He's not really casual with you (because he likes you!!!! get it?!)

8) He get's jealous when you're with another guy

So yeah, these are some signs to know if a guy likes you!!!!! You go girl!!!!!! lol!!!!

What does it mean when a guy says he wants to go steady with you?

Going steady is the guys way of saying he doesnt want anything to go to fast. Dont speed anything up, relationships are amazing things, so just go slow. everything depends on what you have dont so far, but dont do much more until he is ready to move on. .f. It means you are boyfriend and girlfriend and neither of you should be dating anyone else.

What does it mean when a shy guy ignores you but seems to like you?

If you are getting vibes from a guy and he is actually shy, than he is probably too shy to let you know or make a move. Maybe you need to make a move first - a small one, to kick things off if there are vibes going on between you two. It could help break the ice for him and give him the confidence to be more forward. If it doesn't work out, you don't lose that much since it's a small move.

Does a boy like you if he smiles and talks to you often?

No One really knows. He could just be nice or yes like you. Just ask him!

He could also be a friendly person, or just trying to get to know you casually. Think, if a girl smiles and talks to you often does that ALWAYS mean she likes you? Or could she be trying to be friendly? He could be trying to be friends. Don't jump to conclusions, you might end up in bad shape.

Answer:Well, it could be either way. He could be just being friendly. Just try getting to know him better, and it'll all fall into place. :) Answer:it's usually the ones who seem to stare at you for ages then look away when they realise that you're looking at them who like you so probably not. D: AnswerI'm a guy and I smile at girls a lot just when I'm talking to them. It's a friendly thing, not a loving thing. If the guy looks at you a lot, we do that... Catching him staring is something you have to do. Although I disagree with the answer above me, we WILL look away if you catch us. We hate to think that a girl knows we like them, because most of us are absolutely PARANOID of girls leading us on. Just keep glancing at him, and if you can't catch him looking, he'll catch you, and if he likes you, he'll show it. Answer:Hey ya same I'm also a guy and i always smile when i talk to girls. So if you think they like you? You need a little more evidence, like if he tries to keep conversations going longer by giving larger answers to your questions or asking you questions too. Also, if you catch them staring at you then you know he is ATTRACTED to you, and if he does it frequently he probably LIKES you. The best way to know is if you notice his pants stick forward, but guys always do their best to hide that so you probably will never see that evidence.

I can't lie...The guy above the guy above me is right...a lot of guys like me are completely paranoid in girls knowing that we like them..im having trouble with that now lol.

Answer:It could mean that they like you because they want to be around you and interact with you. If they keep talking to you, smiling, looking at you that could mean that they like you! Answer:speaking personally as a guy, yes. i try to talk to her, look at her, stand next to her, whatever, as much as pos. i dunno about anybody else tho; everyone's different. hope this helped.

Not really. I'm extremely comfortable around girls. I'm not paranoid of girls thinking or knowing I like them. I'm extremely friendly so I'll try to keep messages going back and forth on Myspace or Emails or messengers(YIM, MSN, AIM). If you sit next to him in a class and he stares at you he might just be interested in you (not in a love way). I'm always looking at the girl that sits next to my in Lit but that's because she doesn't believe in herself. The whole "pants sticking out" is stupid. That never works. If that happens, he just wants to screw you then leave you. You really have to know the guy. The only way to know if he'll date you is to build his trust in you and ask him. There's a lot of girls I "like" but not many I'd "date".

Answer:Mainly it does mean he likes you. it could also mean he likes you as a friend, you know like a sisiter. Answer:">Answer:">Answer:Not necessarily. If you hang out with this guy a lot, then it's probably just him being friendly. If you don't hang out with him that much, he probably likes you. Answer:">Answer:">Answer:It's possible and probable because I have a friend that is a guy and I think he likes me because he always talks about me and to me. He also told my friend he thinks I am the most annyoning person in the world. You never know when a guy likes you unless they tell you. They have lots of on and off days. (If you ask them, they will lie) Answer:Well I am a girl and the same thing just happened to me he smiled and stared at me a lot and I caught him staring. He always spoke to me real soft, slow and sweetly. Then I told him I liked him and he said he likes me too. This all just happened yesterday during our Varsity Football game. So yeah it could be either way. But in my case it was a total yes. ♥

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I am guy. The thing about guys and girls is that if a girl likes a guy, she doesn't want to tell him to make a fool of herself and vice versa with guys. If you think that he really likes you, then just ask him. Maybe he will end up liking you and if he does, I expect thanks in return because I just spent 3 minutes of my life giving advice to a bunch of girls. And if he doesn't like you, you can always get a cat.

Why do men stare at other women when they are out with their girlfriends?

Its quite simple really, men look because they find the woman attractive. It doesnt mean theyre about to run off and have an affair. Its also not a sign of disrespect, they may look at the other woman for a moment but theyre with their girlfriend, theyll go home with their girlfriend and theyll wake up the next morning with their girlfriend! Im sure if a woman saw a very attractive man she'd have a quick look!

AnswerThey do this because they have no manners or respect for the person they are with. I constantly here "Well, a guy has eyes so why shouldn't he look and she's showing it anyway" well, that is a bunch of crap. When a person is with their significant other they shouldn't have to shut their eyes because of an attractive person walks by but they should be respectful and discreet. Yeah, go ahead take a peek but don't stare. That just tells you the "man"tality of this person. Im not going to say"all guys are pigs" but there are alot that just cant muster the maturity to admire a woman for the beauty that's there and think no more of it. Alot of men think woman were put on this earth for their enjoyment and I'll be the first to tell them that they need to get their heads out of their butts and see a woman for the fantastic and special being she is. Lets face it there are people out there flaunt there goods but what is that saying about them that unless they show their wares no one would probably even look at them. Look around the next time you go out and see the naturally beautiful people that don't even have to try and they don't even know it. Its the fake ass ones that put on airs that have so low self esteem and crave attention that have to put everyone on notice. I literally laugh, outloud, when a guy or girl putting on a display pass me by knowing that that is all they have to offer someone. Half the time they don't even look that good, the best thing they got going is a fake set of boobs hanging out or half their butts hanging out of their shorts. fake nails, dyed,too many times, hair and way too much "cake-up", my personal name for makeup. Yuk. If your guy, not even "man" is doing this to you give him a run for his money and do it back or doll yourself up as if your going out on the town day and night when your with him and let him see how it feels to be on the receiving end of his own ways. I bet he wont like it for long. AnswerIt's an appreciation of the hard work that some women put into maintaining their bodies, and a confirmation that their lady is comparable (or perhaps needs some work). Men appreciate female beauty in a way women will never understand. A man is visual, always aware of who and what is in his sphere. AnswerMen are just dogs! No that's to nice! Men are just filthy PIGS! My Pig loves staring at womens buttocks while being with me.( I do mean Stare) He will go outside 3 am in the morning to stand along the roadside trying so hard to peak over the young neighbors house just to glance at her. (with her bushes being in his way) Like one said on here...I think I will give him a run for his money! I am tired of being disrespected. And he wants to marry me! I say..you haven't found what you are looking for, so the answer is no! I don't believe all men are like that. I can sit out in a nice bar and grill and observe how other men act. I have not noticed too many men that will bend and brake their neck to stare as my boyfriend does. Funny thing, he never showed this kind of behaivor when we were just dating. It makes me sick! He seems so damn hipnotized, Ive never seen a man like that before. I think what he's hoping is that these woman will look at him and make him feel like he's a stud...lol! After all when I confronted him once, he said, You just think the way that you do because you have never been with such a handsome man before! My response, YOU ARE STUCK ON YOURSELF! I am a very beautiful and attractive woman. Question is...is this how I want to live? Best Answer:Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't have look at the menu!