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Relationships
Relationships include parent/child, sibling/sibling, friendship, dating, marriage, and lots of others. They can be great, but many times they are problematic and can be unhappy or even abusive. This category is for questions about relationships, both good and bad.
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How do you get a guy you like to tell you he likes you?
The catch is that you cannot make him say something that he is not willing or ready to say. But you also need to remember that just because he doesn't say it, that does not mean that he does not feel it. You can tell him how you feel, as long as you do not expect anything in return. But do not say it just to get him to say it. What does his body language say? How does he act around you? It sounds like you think that he may like you. He may be waiting for you to say it first. He may be kinda shy. It's ok for you to say it to him if it is how you really feel, just don't be upset if he isn't ready to say it back. Good Luck.
Answer 2: Well, as the previous answer said, you cannot get a guy to tell you they like you. But there are some things to help "persuade" him to.
As you probably know by now, each guy is very VERY different. What works for one may not work for another. If you want a guy to tell you they like you, you have to hint to them that you like them as well. By hint, I mean you may have to do things you aren't used to.
When the 2 of you talk, dont continuously speak of only yourself. Ask about him, like how was his day? Or what was good/bad about it? Try to keep eye contact.
"What about if you cant talk to him?" Easy! Just do a polite smile and wave. It'd mean the world to him.
"What about if he doesn't wave back?" If he doesnt wave back, DONT ASSUME HE DOESNT LIKE YOU. Ive seen it happen too many times.Just do it often and he will wave back.
"What if we are by our friends and they usually annoy us?"
Ask him to just take a walk with you. Walk and talk about whatever. Normally (from my expiriences), thag is about the time when the guy admits to liking you.
I hope this has helped you. I know this because I am a guy, and a former shy one at that.
~Hikaru
It means he has no respect for you or your boyfriend and your b/f is tacitly approving it.
How can you tell if your boyfriend's friend likes you?
Hang on a sec...do you like your boyfriend? Or is he second best? Do you think that your boyfriend would be OK with it if he knew how you really felt about him? If not, break up with him, regardless of whether or not his friend likes you! Now if you want to know if the likes you, read the related question "How can you tell if a boy likes you?". But don't even think about that until you break up with your current boyfriend! -DJ Craig
Does a guy really like you if he teases you a lot?
There is a high possibility he does and it depends what age you are. Usually this behavior is in elementary school and even early high school, but once you are in Grade 10 up dating usually occurs and the teasing stops. If you really like him ask him out to see what reaction you get from him. Marcy
How do you get a boy to ask you out?
- I know this sounds silly and you've probably heard it before but all you have to do is be yourself and if he likes you for who you are and he gets over any fears he has of asking you out then he'll just ask you. If you want to speed things up then you can aways try talking to him finding out things you have in common, or you can just ask him out first.
- Girl don't just waste your time waiting for him just ask him yourself it's so simple. Try it, I have and now we are boyfriend and girlfriend!
- I agree with the second answer. No way am I gonna wait around that could take 4-ever. So are you joking I'm not gonna wait around. just have the courage to ask him if he likes you then just tell him that you like him back, then you could ask him out!
- I know that we should just ask him out, but when you're friends take the mick out of him, which is so harsh, you do get a little bit embarrassed by the fact that he may hate you because of that. I would wait a while. If the feelings get stronger, write a letter to him. If he reads it and doesn't get back to you, then I'd do the seconds answer. Hopefully something good will come out of this.
- Personally, about 80% of boys want you to make the first move, I know from experience that asking them out can go horribly wrong. I once asked a boy out that didn't even see me as a friend, but you move on if you get rejected, now I think, god why'd I ask him out? He has the personality of a table cloth! If you don't know and he hasn't already asked you out, then move on or ask him out, its completely your choice, though both are the wrong and right answer in there own right. By the way a tip to help you decide, if he's overly nice to you, ask him out, if he's ok when not around his friends otherwise nice, ask him out, if he doesn't even talk and always insults you, whatever you do don't ask him out and lastly if he insults you round say a dominant friend (one they try to be like) see what happens because I'm going through that right now.
- Just wait for a few days and remember to act nice to him. Then he will realize how nice you are and will ask you out. It happened to me! You should also not be uncomfortable around a guy. That happened to me and it was embarrassing.
- Be yourself! Don't think you have to wear Aeropastle or Hollister just for him to like you. That is so not true if that is all the guy likes about you he is not worth the love.
- Yes just be yourself! ...otherwise he will be interested in the wrong you! You could say to him "So someone told me that you want to go out with me so if that is true then OK" that way it makes it sounds like he has asked you out even though it's not true. If he tells you "well I didn't tell anybody!" doesn't it sound like he likes you! Try to encourage him to ask you out!
Does a guy like you when he stares and smiles at you whenever you walk past?
probbaly he likes u or hes jus tryna b nice
Is it good to make love on a first date?
it normally is not "good" however if u felt it was the right thing and u conected with this person. then it is up to what your heart desired not public opinion.
AnswerOn a first date, how well do you know the other person? Making love is considered the most generous an intimate gift one person can give another. It's the union of two bodies and souls that makes their relationship unique to all others. Is that something you can adequately attain with someone who's basically a stranger to you?On the more practical side, you may become or make someone pregnant or catch a sexually transmitted disease, regardless of protection. Is that something you want to risk for one date?
How do you know if your girlfriend is cheating?
If she is gone all of the time, also if you call her and she cant talk... There are many signs to notice. you catch them. But seeming you are not married or engaged their is no real such thing as cheating because unless you are in a committed relations there is no boundries. Also have you tried talking to her maybe she will be honest with you Okay first of all, cheating is cheating. Even if you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend and you guys are commited to anything and you go off and do something with some else, its cheating. There are so boundries to all relationships no matter if you commited to anything.
You should crush any feelings for someone else and marry your boyfriend. Your children need a mom and dad in their life, not a broken home. Do the unselfish thing and think of them.
To impress a guy you have to kind of stand out. Try to be funny and get into sports more. Mostly soccer or baseball. (Guys love it) Hang out with a bunch of friends and just ignore him and try to seem busy all the time. Talk about all the friends you have outside of the school and what interesting things you do. Try to get him to hear you while you are talking to your friends but COMPLETELY IGNORE HIM!!!! Do that for a while then come up and talk to him. (Then he'll think "FINALLY"). Try to make friends with him and try to get him as partners in school activities as much as you can. Then give him your phone number so he can "call you up to discuss school activities". If he calls you talk about the activity and casually try to talk about something else. Try to get his phone number through the phone. Once you guys get to know each other start to hang out. Like at the park or the movies. Once you guys are totally best friends ask to date.
WARNING: DO NOT EVER EVER seem too desperate.
When you ignore him DO NOT be mean. Just try to stay busy when he comes around. Like talk on your cellphone, do some homework , talk to people around you etc.
but never ignore him
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Girls, be yourself. Don't be all "Oops, I dropped my pencil. Could you get it?" Watch him - don't stalk him. See what he likes, and if you like the same things, start a conversation. Don't focus just on him or on you. Ask if he wants to hang out. If he says no, you probably went too fast. If he says yes, you're succeeding. About 3 days later, do your hair and fancy makeup and clothes. If he compliments you, he loved it, and if he doesn't or just stares, he totally likes you. But don't rush anything. If he likes you, then he should like you, not some makeup chick.
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Make up. Be yourself. Talk to him. Be outgoing.
Easy just find common interest then connect the interest with something you have that the guy likes
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How do you introduce yourself to a guy you like?
Before you say anything to him you should smile at him from a distance. Keep making eye contact until he notices you. Then, walk up to him and put out your hand. Tell him "hi, I'm _____" Comment on something that has to do with the immediate situation like "Wow, this is a neat party" or compliment him on his feature that you like. Don't compliment his clothing, men are not interested in hearing what a woman has to say about his fashion. Men love to hear, "You have such nice eyes" or "I can't help myself, I have to tell you that you have an infectious smile."
Be bold and most of all, be yourself. Also, find out who his friends are. If some are girls, you got lucky! Hang around his friends and when he comes up and starts chatting, join in the conversation. Say something to catch his interest and start a conversation between you and him. Smile a lot and compliment his opinion.
Will a guy look at a girl if he knows or thinks she likes him although he doesn't like her?
some will,they call it feeding his ego. men have sex with females all the time liking them or not. it is primal in men. some women do the same
Why do women prefer BAD boys and not nice guys?
They think he is a "real" man because he has a "self confident" "warrior" nature and remains dominant. But like Adam, he will never be as deceived as the woman so she will have the advantage and choose and control him. Most women are mercenary warriors looking for the best weapon (man) to use against people. Evil women look for security in the god of hate, not love but he doesn't exist! The only real security is in love. They want to stand behind him while he, like a sucker fights her battles. Then she remains innocent. Love has nothing to do with it.
A REAL man (nice boy) is not confident but humble because he realizes he has no authority and believes in the invisible God. A REAL man has no "war spirit" and allows the girl free will and puts her on a pedestal, He is more like God so doesn't need to try and dominate her and act tough. Smart nice girls like "nice boys" because they believe in the REAL God too and trust in love, but they are rare as hens teeth.
AnswerNot all women prefer BAD boys. Some women like them because in their minds they like the wild side and want to tame them (that means if they can then this guy really loves them.) Unfortunately, it doesn't prove a blasted thing. If you like the way someone is then why try to change them? There is an excitement about BAD boys for some women, but on the whole, 3/4 of women like just a normal guy. Who wants to waste energy on the BAD boys! AnswerThe whole bad boys/nice guys is a dumb dichotomy, as many bad boys are wannabee showoffs and most nice guys aren't really nice at all. Drama addicts want people who will keep them on an emotional roller-coaster.Some people like the thrill of a challenge and an ego boost if they can get the bad acting person to love them (usually doesn't happen). Niceness is a decision; serial killers have been nice to someone at one point in their lives. People who try to be nice or act clingy in order to make someone love them aren't nice, they're wimpy and/or manipulative.
AnswerTo some extent I do agree with the above poster. However, I do feel that when younger we try to fit in some place so some people can appear mysterious (guys love this in a woman and vice-versa), give off a persona of being wild and bad or are simply nice guys. The nice guys I'm talking about are confident and have some semblance of what they want out of life and where they are going. This does not mean they are wimps. There is nothing more refreshing then a man being open and honest about their feelings and to be quite honest if a man can't cry a few times in his life when life throws him pits from the cherry pot then he isn't much of a man! AnswerI think that that we woman/girls like bad boys over nice guys because of the way they are. They keep you on your toes. You never know what they are going to next. I am dating a bad boy right now who is also older then me, and we have no problems at all. I did change him a little also. He now goes to church with his grandma and two sisters every Sunday and Wednesday. I'm proud of him and what i have inspired him to do, and i don't even go to church. So if you want to have a fun relationship go for a bad boy. They're fun. So find one and go for the gold!!! And they're sexy!! AnswerThe term "Bad Boy" is defined by the self-proclaimed "Nice Guys" and so is typically used to refer to anyone dating the woman the "Nice Guy" wants to be with. The self-proclaimed "Nice Guy" is often a misogynist in disguise*Should you tell your best friend's brother you like him?
To simply blurt out "I like you" (actually meaning you are interested in him or love him in most cases) is rather a shocker and will put the guy on the spot. Spend more time trying to talk with him so he gets to know you a little better. Perhaps your best friend will tell his/her brother that you would like to go out with him. You actually can handle this on your own by simply taking your time so he gets to know you and if he doesn't ask you out, then you ask him out.
What are signs that a shy guy may like you but is too shy to approach you if you are also shy?
Get a friend you really trust to find out if he likes too. You will have to break the ice. Talk to him--Just be yourself. That's what he likes you for, anyway.
The only way to really know if someone is interested in you is to ask. It can be scary to ask, especially if you're shy, but it's always worth it. If they don't like you it might hurt your feelings, but it's always better to know. There will be many people who do like you and will be happy to tell you.
What are some of the signs that a guy is lusting after you?
If you are a reasonably attractive female, give evidence that you're available and he's a normal, heterosexual male... he's lusting after you. Even if you don't meet all of the above requirements, he may STILL be lusting after you. Men are very visual and most just exercise restraint when situations like that are encountered. But normal guys certainly like to look at normal girls, and not to figure out if your shoes will fit them.
What is the difference between being attracted to someone and being sexually attracted to someone?
If you're interested in the person's thoughts and feelings, it's emotional attraction. But if you're only thinking about how hot a person is and having sexual thoughts about him/her, that's sexual attraction. Here are more answers from WikiAnswers contributors: * The difference is that you can be atracted to someone maybe their thoughts and feelings toward things, and always have something to talk about...etc. The sexual atraction means that you know you like the person's body and you may not have a lot in common when the sexual atraction is gone. Basically, the difference is love vs. lust. If all you have is the lust, then it's not true love and won't be. == == * I think the phrase 'being attracted to someone' always means attracted in a physical sense i.e., sexually attracted. * If it is soon after you have met them, it may be the pheromones. Or not. But, give yourself some time with them before trying to determine whether it is one thing or the other. For those of us who have been "there," the time of meeting is not the time to mistake one for the other. * Being attracted to someone only means that you have an interest in that person. It is usually associated with wanting to spend time with them. It may or may not include being sexually attracted. You might not even know why you are attracted (common interests, feel comfortable with, easy to talk with, reminds you of someone else, etc.). Being sexually attracted to someone involves an interest which includes physical intimate contact. This might be driven by lust or the desire to express deep emotional feelings or some combination of lust and emotion.
What does it mean when a guy thinks you are cute?
Cute is more of the little kiddish term. If a guy thinks your cute, that means he's probably saying that just to get popular. Ask his friends, and if he says your hot, go out with him because he likes you
- I am a teenage guy, it means he finds you attractive and thinks he might like you but wants to get to know you. So he is trying to see if you're interested. So if you find him attractive or like him then say thanks and flirt back so he knows but don't be TOTALLY obvious.
- It means he finds you "sexually atractive" in other words he finds you hot and totaly datable.
- If it is an older guy, he probaly thinks your hot, but he just doesnt want
to say that to a "little" girl
- It depends entirely on the age and personality of the guy saying it. Often times it can be synonymous with pretty or even sexy when the person is trying to say it without coming on too strong.
- There is knock-out beautiful, and then "cute." Cute means you are very attractive, but in a soft way. It's like comparing Meg Ryan with J-Lo or Sharon Stone. Some women can pull off good looks and are naturally sexy and then there are the cute girls that a lot of guys really like. It's a compliment!
- There is a difference between "cute" and "pretty". A man typically describes a woman as "cute" if she exudes a more playful, "bubbly"-type personality; a girlish appearance (hairstyle, clothing style and accessories) and smiles and laughs openly and often. A woman generally described as "pretty" carries off a more polished and sophisticated look; the "classic" and classy descriptions would suit her. She dresses her age (no baring of mid-riffs and faded hip-hugger jeans in her 30s), and her make-up and hairstyle are well-put together and appropriate for the occasions (work, weekend, special events).
- I am a teenage boy and in our generation if a guy says you are cute, they are implying that you have that certain glow. You are really smiley and laughy and when you laugh it makes the guy happy. If you want to know, just ask the guy, I'm pretty sure he would answer!
- Well just say thanks and quickly kiss her if she likes it call here for a date.
- My idea of "Cute" is that there is a difference between "Hot" and "Cute". That difference is that "Hot" is if someone looks really good, But sometimes have a bad personality, And if someone is "Cute" then they are just as good looking as a "Hot" person, but always a great personality. The facial appearance is also different, but of the same quality. I personally prefer someone that is cute.
- It means he thinks you're cute.
- He finds you attractive; it doesn't always mean he wants to date you. He thinks your sweet and playful and it makes him feel good about himself. It's a really nice compliment.
- Another difference between cute and hot (applying to both guys and girls) is that "hot" refers to the body and cute refers to the face.
- I am a guy and when I think someone is cute its basically saying hot but trying not to be pushy or offend the girl. (for some reason some girls think that being called hot is insulting.)
- He's too shy to say that he really likes you.
Why do shy men avoid you if they seem to be attracted to you?
they are too scared of rejection to make the first move
Is it ok to approach a guy you like and say hi if he seems unapproachable?
It's totally okay to say hi to him. Just don't get into anything personal to bother him. Sometimes just a smile when you walk past him shows that your not there to annoy him. If he's your friend and you guys are tight, then ask if he wants to talk.(that's normally what friends do). I'm sure he would appreciate it being your friend.
When you know that you've pretty much ruined your chances with someone is it best to move on or try?
It depends. How did you ruin your chance? I was so afraid of him rejecting me, that I rejected him first. I think he was trying to get me to open up to him, but I keep pushing him away, and I think he's done now. The situation is kind of complicated. I'm not even sure if he liked me. I had this feeling that he did, but I wasn't certain. I guess that's the reason why I kept pushing him away. I was afraid that I was wrong, and that he didn't like me after all.
If a guy says his office door is always open to you and to drop any time does it mean he likes you?
That sounds more like an invitation to talk about business matters "any time". If he were expressing personal interest he would probably find ways to look for you or spend time with you away from work or discussing non-work related issues. On the other hand, sometimes a guy doesn't know how to open a personal discussion and use whatever is available.
How can you tell if a super friendly guy likes you?
Look for the signs - generally you can tell when even super friendly guys are being a bit fake. Watch him when he's around people he really doesn't like, and see if his behaviour is similar around you. If it isn't, hint that you're into him - harmless flirting, but don't get too out there just incase you're reading the signs wrong. But you're probably better off just asking him. Too forward? Then try and read the body language. But remember that there's always room for error with this approach. Basically, if this guy is willing to spend time with you over other people in the room, chances are he likes you. If he takes any available opportunity to talk to someone else, chances are...he might not... Good luck :)
How do you know if a girl still wants to be with you?
SHE WILL GIVE YOU HINTS, LIKE CALLING, HAPPENING TO BE WHERE YOU ARE MORE OFTEN. TELLING MUTUAL FRIENDS THERES A SPARK. BE WAY TO KNOW IS ASK HER OUT AGAIN..THAT CAN HELP YOU MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE..
Does a guy like you if he seems protective of you?
Probably. Why don't you ask him how he feels, or tell him how you feel?
I think that protective like behavior is the biggest sign that a guy likes you. Especially true if he's not very straight forward. Unless he's just the shivelry type.
