Relationships

First smile at her whenever you see her..next, start saying hi..keep eye contact... finally go up and talk to her..introduce yourself, if you already haven't met..ask her questions and be nice..

Hard question to answer briefly, but I'll try it. In a few words, with confidence. That doesn't mean with swagger, but without looking like someone's about to bite your head off. She's just a human being like yourself, although you may have already given her superhuman qualities in your head. Just be confident, try to stay relaxed and smile a bit. The last thing you want to do is come off like a babbling mental patient, who has no self esteem. If you're going to ask her out, then just ask, what's she gonna say "No"? And that's the worst that can happen, you'll get over it and wonder why you were so stressed out in the first place. And if she says "yes" you'll still be wondering what you were stressin' about. Be confident, smile, relax and say what you have to say, she's made of flesh and bone just like you and I, and after it's over and your heartbeat returns to normal, you'll be wondering what all the fuss was about. Hopefully it works for you, it has for me over the years. Good luck!

dude.....just do it....worst answer is no....she's just a girl....she will happy to talk unless your a lil puss who comes to her all nervous....they sense fear dude....trust me.....be relaxed and ask..its easy

just say hi occasionally and flash a smile when she`s looking at you.then,eventually,she`ll come around.believe me dude

If she likes you that's all that matters. If she's swayed by the attitude of her friends then you should move on. No one deserves to be treated in this manner unless they are a bully, troublemaker, or have disregard for others.

Yes it would be a good idea and while you're at it ask your girl friend to tell you a little about this girls likes and dislikes (if she knows.) It will give you more to talk about. Good luck (hope it works out!) Marcy

Communication is everything in a relationship whether you are just going together or are married. You should feel comfortable to talk to her. Suggest that you do more things together on the weekend. During the week it's a good thing for both of you to have some head space. She can go out with her girlfriends and you can go out with your buddies. Often men in general don't suggest places to go and expect the women to figure out the social functions for the weekend. Take her out to a favorite night club dancing and have a few drinks. Go with another couple if you want. Another time you could go out for dinner and take in a movie. Perhaps plan a nice mini vacation if you can't afford to go on a more expensive vacation. Get planning! Good luck Marcy

Some people love another with every fiber of their being, so just because the person they love cheats on them or doesn't treat them well, that loves doesn't vanish immediately. No matter how much you love ANYONE in your life, if they hurt you repeatedly and don't respect your feelings then it's time to let them know this and if things don't change then it's time to move on because you deserve better. Good luck hon Marcy

This could be anything... Either she's very friendly and polite and just returning your smile - OR - she digs you... which is a good oportunity to strike up conversation and see if you have a lot in common! Good luck! I would say it's sign of interest..strike a convo and see.

Each person is unique. Your feelings towards them and your drive will influence it greatly.
It depends. if you really like the person, its indescribable. if you don't, then it just feels like wet skin on your lips.(: its remarkable when you try it out for yourself. <3

Since most of the youth have their cell phones glued to the side of their head like a huge abnormal growth, I would say he either chooses not to answer some calls, or he's into computer or dating girls. It's odd to me that a young man wouldn't be out with at least his friends and staying in contact with those friends by cell ... especially on the weekend. I don't know if you are asking because you like this guy, but if you do, move on because he's rude and crude and is using a flimsy excuse. You can do better! Good luck Marcy

if i liked two guys at the same time i would tell myself that i have to make a choice. think of the good and bad for each and then decide who you can see having a future with. who is more future material and who is just someone you just like to be with. there has to be something about one of them that can help you decide.Also think of the one you've had better times with and which one cares about you more.

Girls can be very picky with this sort of subject. Us girls really do look for personality and style in a guy. As long as the boy is sweet and cares for her deeply, then he's the one. If you already have found that in your lover, you should start looking at how hygienic he is and his humor. Girls want a guy that uses deodorant daily and takes showers regularly. Girls want happy guys that keep them smiling and laughing. As long as they have a great sense of humor that your girl will get, you should be okay. :)

Obviously it's easy to like someone and to feel a sexual attraction to them. Many people confuse their lust and infatuation (usually occurs during the first months of a relationship) with love. You idealize the person for awhile because you're not seeing their less than great qualities. In short, you haven't known them long enough to take full measure of the person they are in all aspects. It's all too easy to emotionally fixate on certain aspects of a person--their looks, their charm--and try to ignore their abuse, their cheating or irresponsibility. Love isn't the excitement or arousal, the rush you feel at the thought of someone. Love may occur many months or years after you've known them, when you accept who they are, great and a few poor qualities, and you place their welfare and happiness above your own needs. You treat them as you would want to be treated--no abuse, no manipulation. You respect them, trust them, and value them as your best friend and time apart or distance doesn't change the way you feel. Your loving them does not mean you demand them to love you in return or that either of your feelings many not alter in the future.

depending on the person it is tell them that you understand and that you can be patient with them. It means take it slow if you want a good relationship that will last. He obviously doesn't want a fast moving relationship and those types of guys are the ones you want to keep. Fast moving guys want one thing......sex.

Honesty is always the best policy. Come clean to your girlfriend.

Well, I suppose so. I'm 16 and I think I am in love, but I'm an oddball. Most kids at our school break up within 2 weeks to a month.

"A guy will chase a girl until she catches him." Don't chase a guy. Let him come to you. It seems the guy who plays high school games is usually not worth your time so if he is waiting for you to make a move, then make him wait. If you are worth the chase, he will come to you. Besides, it makes a woman feel appreciated when she is wanted.

Listen to the Cher Shoop Shoop song, "It's In His Kiss".

Well, I'm a guy. Most guys just act different around girls that they like. Perhaps he might do something that you might find idiotic just to get your attention. Just look for differences in his character when he is around you or is talking to you. However, some guys go right out to catch their 'prey'. Avoid these boys wherever possible. They are never satisfied in being in only one relationship and it is most likely that it will end in a failed relationship in a very brief period of time. So, to conclude my answer, with most guys just look for differences in their character when they're around you. Why don't you ask one of the boys that you like's friends for their opinion? I am also a boy in 7th grade. I act weird around girls to try to get there attention. you know this if boys act like morons or get you a gift like earings.

Tell her that she looks really nice, tell her she smells nice too; tell her that her eyes, (if blue) remind you of the ocean, (if green) remind you of a meadow, (if brown) remind you of the coat of a beautiful horse. ALL women love compliments at any age. You can say one day, "Wow, you're sure looking hot" or "do you realize just how pretty you are and what a great personality you have." Some people can take compliments if the are confident in themselves and others find it difficult. The compliments should come from the heart and if they do just speak your mind. Too often people never give enough compliments to others and a good compliment can recharge the batteries of many people. If I think someone is attractive or I like what they're wearing (be it female or male) I'll give compliments and I receive the compliments I get with grace and I'm thankful for them. Good luck Marcy

I take it that you mean "scared" as in "nervous," and not actually scared of physical harm. If a girl is nervous about being with you, give her lots of time to get used to the relationship and don't push her. Be yourself, be truthful about what you do and say. Give her little compliments on a regular basis without going overboard. Make sure she knows you are interested in what she does and feels. The world doesn't revolve around you. But also do not put her on too high a pedestal, she'll probably just think you are after something. Be friends and let the rest develop (if it does).

Yeah,it's possible. He could be shy. However, its a huge waste of time and energy to worry about him. Go for the guy that's willing to let the world know he is interested in you. In time the other guy may realize he needs to speak up. When you come across a guy such as this, you make the first move and approach him..If it's him who you want..

The catch is that you cannot make him say something that he is not willing or ready to say. But you also need to remember that just because he doesn't say it, that does not mean that he does not feel it. You can tell him how you feel, as long as you do not expect anything in return. But do not say it just to get him to say it. What does his body language say? How does he act around you? It sounds like you think that he may like you. He may be waiting for you to say it first. He may be kinda shy. It's ok for you to say it to him if it is how you really feel, just don't be upset if he isn't ready to say it back. Good Luck.

Answer 2: Well, as the previous answer said, you cannot get a guy to tell you they like you. But there are some things to help "persuade" him to.

As you probably know by now, each guy is very VERY different. What works for one may not work for another. If you want a guy to tell you they like you, you have to hint to them that you like them as well. By hint, I mean you may have to do things you aren't used to.

When the 2 of you talk, dont continuously speak of only yourself. Ask about him, like how was his day? Or what was good/bad about it? Try to keep eye contact.

"What about if you cant talk to him?" Easy! Just do a polite smile and wave. It'd mean the world to him.

"What about if he doesn't wave back?" If he doesnt wave back, DONT ASSUME HE DOESNT LIKE YOU. Ive seen it happen too many times.Just do it often and he will wave back.

"What if we are by our friends and they usually annoy us?"

Ask him to just take a walk with you. Walk and talk about whatever. Normally (from my expiriences), thag is about the time when the guy admits to liking you.

I hope this has helped you. I know this because I am a guy, and a former shy one at that.

~Hikaru