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You are 18 and you go to gym daily and theres a girl you like but you hasitate to see her and to talk to her tell you any tip so that you can make her my dream girl?

well i am a girl so... the next time you are in gym class (and do this BEFORE you start sweating), just ask her something..anything but don't get too nervous and studder, ask her what the math homework was or something. my best experience... in my school we get taught how to square dance. he is also in my earth science class. so i asked him before gym if he wanted to be my square dancing partner he said sure. when you talk to her look into her pretty eyes NOT ANY OF HER BODY PARTS!!!!. unless she is a slut, than she wont like that your "checking her out" if you have known her for a while and you know what she likes and you like the same thing, talk to her about it. once you start talking to her it will get easier. but become good friends first. my youth paster said that he never went out on a date with his wife before they were married. they were both involved boyfriends and girlfriends, but they became really good friends and boyfriends came and went and he was till there for her. if you do become friends with her and she does get a boyfriend, don't just give it all up stay her friend, most likely they will break up and one day she will realize that you have been there for her all along and she will begin to like you. if any dances come up ask her to them and if you talk to her and become friends it wont seem so awkward. and if she doesnt work out then don't worry

you will find your dream girl

last suggestion look up Dream girl by Dave mathew's band i love that song and i think you will relate to it!

Say to her hello there i have noticed you coming here a lot are you by any chance a p e teacher or fitness instructor as you look very fit she might say yes or no then take it from there then you could say would you join me in doing a circuit of the gym together if she says yes then do that and ask her questions about herself girls like talking about themselves if all that works then after the session ask her would you like to join me in a healthy drink of orange juice in the cafe and a chat then take it from there you have to become her friend first before anything else and remember be yourself no putting on airs and graces and don't tell lies about yourself You could download the song Platonic by Iggy Pop it has some negative lyrics but this just increases your determination and helps build your resolve and confidence anyway good luck mate just DO IT or she will never be your dream girlfriend

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You have been together 9 months neither one of us wants to be with anyone else but he says he thinks the problem is that he needs more time to himself because he feels like he tied down and married?

well it could be coz he really wants some time to himself, he'll miss you and realize how much he likes you. :)Or maybe he wants to re-evaluvate the relationship, just coz both of you say you don't want to be with anyone else doesn't mean both of you are telling the truth. So don't rush in and start pressing for answers but move in slowly, give him time and let him know that you are there for him but not hovering over him 24/7. Let the situation play out and act accordingly, just don't rush in.

AnswerSounds like he wants to keep you dangling around for his own use. If after only 9 months he feels tied down and married of which you don't live together and arent even engaged, then he is immature and I wouldn't rely on a committed relationship with this person any time soon. I have been married for 20 years and I still don't feel tied down only because I always remained true to myself. Yes, I have had to make sacrifices but that comes along with maturity and selflessness. I cant imagine my life any other way. Yes, I dream and fantasize but that is healthy and I don't begrudge one decision I have made. I think you seriously need to look for someone else that will understand that dating during a 9 month period is getting to know one another, courting and seeing if you can have a future together. This guy has already put the kabosh on a good relationship, because he thinks your relationship is a problem. Run girl, run fast, don't waste one more day on this one. Mark my words, if you stick it out with this one, you will regret it. He will cheat on you and blame you for it. RUN RUN RUN>>>There are many real MEN out there that will be willing to treat you with the respect and class that you deserve...

How do you get a guy to hold your hand?

if u really like the guy and u are sure he likes u, then say something like ''my hands are so cold'' (hint hint) and if that doesnt work, compare ur hand sizes then just interlock your fingers:) but if all else fails, maybe hes not ready..just give it sometime:)

Why does a guy you like and think likes you always asks the girl you hang around with how she is doing but won't ask you when he knows something is wrong?

well the main reason this happens is the guy may be afraid to talk to you directly if you don't have much of a relation ship going and alot of guys get nervous talking to a girl they care for and are afraid the wrong words may come out of their mouth and ruin any chance of a relationship with you.

If a guy stares at you a lot does that mean he likes you?

Most times if a guy stares at you it means he likes you but if you consider yourself a very strange person it could just mean that you are acting in a very peculiar way and he can't help but noticing.

Guy with crush now avoids you?

If you have it all out in the open and he knows that you like him and you know that he likes you then boys tend to get shy. Guys are really inconsiderate with their mates when it comes to relationships, at a young age and in your teens. He is probably just shy now that everyone nows, he'll come around though. If by http://wiki.answers.comas if he likes you and you don't like him back the answer is plain and simple, he's embarrassed that you have found out that you like him!

What do you do if your girlfriend is cheating on you?

First off, you should make sure that she is cheating. Don't mess up something unless you are positive that she is indeed cheating. Next, you should confront her if you are positive that she is, and the rest is up to you. Do you think you can trust her not to do it again? Do you love her enough to overlook the mistake? It's all on you, there is no set way to say what to do.

Why do girls ignore nice guys?

It's all about attraction. If a girl is attracted to you, then she wants you to be a nice guy to her. But if she's not, and you go overboard to do things for her, then she gets that "Ewwwwwww!" feeling that you are too needy and desperate. If you like a girl, mess with her a little. Be funny and tease her until it's clear that she really wants you. After you are her boyfriend, be a nice boy to show you care, but don't be a pushover. Have opinions and disagree/argue if it's applicable. Show her that you are not only nice but strong, independent, and confident in yourself whether she's around or not. ---------- whatever you do , do not become mean and agresive, this is just strange and confusing

What are good questions to ask a guy?

Does he play sports, fav. things, friends, recent movies, etc. If you relate with them they will at least be your friend.

How can you tell if a girl is cheating?

I am a girl and trust me youll know if she is either shall get all mad and keeps lookin away and ask how told you or shell lie her butt off iv watched other grils do it.

Why would a woman ask a man out?

Three reasons: 1) she has a bet 2)she wants to make her ex jelous 3) she really likes you

If a guy keeps looking into your eyes and you are smiling but he just has a serious look on his face while you are telling him a funny story what does that mean?

yeah i agree,

i dont agree with the creepy thing though

Answerwhat sort of nasty things?

uhm .. honestly sounds a little creepy to me, as though hes thinking of doing nasty things to you instead of actually listening to you.

or he has no sense of humor.

or he has no idea how to respond to you.

or he is madly in love with you, and would like you to be serious there and really see how much he loves you, how he gets lost in your eyes and appreciates every little thing about you.

but i dont know the guy, so its impossible to tell.

How can you show your boyfriend that you really love him?

I would take him out to eat and then on a romantic ride and back to your house were you set a romantic candle light movie.

What type of guy do girls like?

that's really easy we like guys that love us even if we screw up, hold our hand, tells you he loves you, has abs, tells you your beautiful, actually looks into your EYES and not the reflection of you in them, is funny, never cheats, respects us, is like our best friend but better, someone who we can trust also who is willing to change something we don't like and isn't good for the sake of the relationship,isn't a bully,has morals and plans for life and the list goes on oh ya, isn't embarassed by you, great personality like being who he really is then has to be smart and educated. And there are many personalities just be who you are

Why would a guy stare at you?

Probably because he likes you but doesn't want to say so in case you are already taken although some guys are daredevils and like to jump straight in some are just not and most boys expect the girl to make the first move as we are always the ones obsessed with boys.

Why are boys so confusing?

everyone gets confused and its just the way you think of it lets say a boy has something on his mind and he tries to tell you but the way he says isn't making any sense to you but it still might make sense to others so boys are not really confusing it is just the way you think of it everyone thinks differently sooo..... its life

How do you know if a boy has a crush on you?

Here's ways to tell:

  • He looks at you a lot and when you look at him he turns away
  • He makes fun of your friends but not you
  • He avoids talking to you
  • If he physically hurts you and looks really sorry (If it's by accident)
  • Hangs around you when he can
  • If he has eye contact with you a lot that is a definite sign that he likes you.
  • If someone hits you he'll hit the guy that hit you because he cares for you, and most guys if they care about you then they have crush on you.
  • They stare at you a lot.
  • They act cool when I'm somewhere near them.
  • The guys who have a crush on you tell their friends, then their friends tell their friends, and their friends tell some girls and those girls tell some of the other girls.
  • They'd try to approach you when your not with your friends or when at by your locker alone.
  • They'd try to make a move and freak out at last minute.
  • They walk past you a lot.
  • When your talking to them, it looks like their having the greatest time of their life.
  • They get jealous when they hear you talking about other guys.
  • He'll look at you, until you turn around, then he will looking the other way.
  • You may feel like he's watching you
  • He may do something physical - like grab you in a playful way, poke you, play with your hair
Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?
  • He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how
  • He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
  • He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
  • You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
  • He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
  • He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.

Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buddies or other girls).

DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.

  • He may tell you he likes you...

How will a girl act if she likes you?

Depends on who she is. Some girls get really nervous, others can be really clingy.

What do you do if a boy tells you he likes you?

If you like that boy who likes you then tell him that you like him too and just start talking and hanging out. if you don't like him then tell him that you are either not ready to date or tell him that you are not interested. You shouldn't lie but tell him how you truly feel.


You can always say "Thank you." It's a very special gift for someone to say he likes you. It can take a lot of courage. You don't owe it to him to like him back, but you do owe him kindness and courtesy.

And you can tell him how you feel by the way you thank him, too. Listen for the difference here:

"REALLY?? Oh, thank you, Joe!! I am so happy to know that. Thank you for telling me!"

versus

"Thank you, Joe. It's really nice of you to say that to me."


How do you talk dirty to your boyfriend?

Study some porn. Recite the dialogue from your favorite scenes. Try this: youporn.com.

What to do if your boyfriend tells you to move out of the house you share every time you argue then says hes doesnts mean it?

This is a form of emotional abuse and shows his maturity level. If when you argue you cant do so in a manner that is condusive to solving the issue then you may need to reconsider your relationship. Why should he be telling you to leave if you disagree on something. You should agree to disagree, you are, after all, two different people and are entitled to your opinions. Compromising is a big part of any successful relationship, work on that together or both of you may have to find other living arrangements.

What do boys want to hear from girls?

I like to hear, your cute, your funny, your pretty.

On the lighter side.

Silence would be nice on occasion

Something nice...so a compliment.

If a guy likes you then why would he get with another girl to make you jealous?

You answered it yourself. He got with the other girl to make you jealous. It doesn't make a whole lot of sense.

Is there ever such a thing as true love I dont believe it?

Love is yet another tool of evolution to try and ensure the preservation and continuation of our species. There are more than 6 billion people on the planet and the number is growing, so yeah its there is something called love and its been working for a long time. Too bad you've missed out on it, never too late though.