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Breakups

It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Why do men after a break up look for someone else?

* Not all men look for some other woman immediately, but those that do may have been seeing another woman while seeing you or, they are lonely and need a woman by their side at their own convenience. Some men can't commit to a serious relationship and move on from woman to woman.

How do you remove a lover from your living space?

pull the fire alarm ;)

or you could do things that annoy them/scare them/freak them out.

Why do gay women cheat?

Well first of all I don't think it has anything to do with them being gay if their cheating it's because their either unhappy in the relationship and are incapable of being faithful or maybe their bored? Maybe at this point it may be time to move on or if you feel it was just a one time occurance then seek counseling.

What if you break up with someone and they start stalking you?

talk to them show them how you feel again if you didnt the first time.

Talk to her friends they will easly tell you yes or no

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Well that's not a good thing. You should try talking her. Ask her why. Tell her that the past was the past, this is the present now, or something etc. Talk to her them gently but don't crush their hearts.

Actions that might cause injury or harm to yourself or others?

dear questioner! always there are two kinds of actions that can hurt u or others or beloved ones! 1. physically 2 . psychologically . if u hurt yourself then u are not just hurting yourself u are hurting your beloved one's too! trust me on this one!! when u cut your own skin with a common knife the more blood blows out the more adrenaline harmone runs through ur body and this harmone makes u feel like in peace and ectasy but after an hour it hurts PHYSICALLY like hell to yourself! then your beloved one's by seeing this they are hurted PSYCHOLOGICALLY!

Why is ex-girlfriend always in your dreams or around spiritually?

  • Even though she is your ex girlfriend you both had a relationship and some good times together and the human brain releases tension; dire wishes you would like to see happen or unpleasant things in your life by producing dreams. Humans dream every half hour and most of the dreams we have we do not remember, but the dreams we do remember is when we come out of REM sleep (deep sleep) and it it's only seconds as we begin to wake up we remember those dreams. In time you will stop dreaming about your ex and as far as her spiritually being there that is something you chose to believe and if it gives you some comfort then let it be. However, it be far wiser for you to get out with friends and back into the dating scene because you may well meet another girl that you will fall in love with. If your ex girlfriend is meant to be with you by fate then she will be, but until then live your life to fullest!

What does it mean when boyfriend says he still has feelings for his ex and wants some time to sort his thoughts out?

He probably more than likely needs to take some time to think about if he wants to go back to her or stay with you. He probably needs to talk to her and talk to you. I cant tell you who he will choose, on the basis that your his current girlfriend then I would say its in your favour, however I cant be sure of this. Being a guy I understand that you get confused sometimes although thankfully I have never been in this situation. The only thing you should worry of now is the answer to your question. He needs time to decide who he really wants to be with.

When a man after a month break up says i am in love with you but he does not want back to you is it a real love will he back?

Honey, forget about him. I know its hard, but seriously, in about a months time or so, you will be happy and getting on with your life, he will be upset and wanting you back. But the thing is, you will be over him, and by this time he will be kicking himself wanting you back. Forget about him, it will probably be the best thing for you, and if he's going to be like that, then you deserve way better

If your ex-boyfriend told you that he intentionally got you pregnant does it mean he still has feelings for you?

There is no way your ex boyfriend on his own intentionally got you pregnant - it takes two to make a baby and if you had unprotected sex you knew there would be a possibility that you could get pregnant - so the blame is not at all on him. If you and your ex had sex and you both consented that does not mean he likes you it could just mean he wanted to "get some" so to speak and who better with then his ex. You should really talk with him concerning this as if you are having a baby together you are going to be talking for a very long time and you might as well at least be mature, civil and friends.

Where do the french vacation?

Spain, Portugal even italia sometime, where ever it is very sun outiside.

Should i call my boyfriend during break period?

no, let him think about it and if he is not calling you in 2 to 3 days after he is not thinking about you , and it is time to start trying to get over him!

How do you get an ex girl back if she is on the rebound with Prince Charming?

- move on is the best answer. moving on will help you improve yourself and eventually make you appear as fun or even more fun as her "prince charming". then they will rethink why they broke up and will consider to reconcile. *warning- you must actually and truthfully move on, not fake it. it will just blow up in your face*

How do you win your bestfriend back?

Depending on the issue, try showing your best friend that you are willing to be friends again by speaking to them respectfully. If you were the one who caused the friendship to end, humble yourself, say you're sorry and that it was wrong of you. Let them know that you still want his or her friendship back and give him/her time to think about it. Throughout that time, you can simply show kindness and care towards him/her.

If it was his/her fault that the friendship ended and he/she hasn't apologized but you want the friendship back, then just tell the person that you forgive him/her and that you want to put the issue behind you both and continue being his/her best friend.

Should I break up with my boyfriend before or after a friend's wedding this weekend. If i do it before he will have to go alone and if I do it after will he be mad at me as I will be in the photos?

That is entirely up to you. If you all can be friends than maybe you should break up and go together as friends. If you can't maintain your friendship then break up with him after the wedding to insure that your drama doesn't negatively effect your friends big day.

Your ex got his new girlfriend pregnant but you still want to be with him even though there is a baby coming into the picture also he wants you back too advice?

If I were you I would think long and hard before getting back together with your ex. Now that he has gotten someone else pregnant his priority is not going to be you; its going to be his baby, and the baby's mother (the baby mother until she has given birth). Personally I know I could not do it because every time I look at the baby I would be reminded of the break up, and him getting someone else pregnant. So maturity level is something that has to be taken into consideration you, him, and the baby mother as well. If the baby's mother is young, your more than likely going to have to deal with "BABY MAMA DRAMA". That being said I would say move on with your life, unless you really really love this man, and cant picture yourself with out him.

What if you iniated a breakup first and the other agreed can you still get them back by recounciling and trying to make up with them if they accept?

The real question is, "Why did you initiate the breakup in the first place?" The second question is, "If the other person really loved you, why did they accept?" The best advice I can give is get to the heart of the matter before you try to reconcile. Figure out why you wanted to break up with that person in the first place. Are you afraid of commitment? Did you think the grass was greener somewhere else? Does this person not treat you the way you want to be treated and you got tired of it? Did you sense that this person didn't love you as much as you love them? The list of questions goes on and on but, deep down, in your own heart, you know what it was that led you to take this action. Figure that out first. If you've done that soul searching and you decide that you made a hasty move, that this relationship is the real deal and you want to save it, sit down and talk to your ex and put all the cards on the table (why you did what you did, why you want to make things work) and ask that person point blank if they want to be in a relationship with you. There's no maybe to this answer. Ask for clarity. Ask the person how much time they need to make a decision but set a deadline and let them know that, either way, you need to move forward. This person will let you know (whether they give you a straight answer or not) but, again, the first reql question is what made you initiate the break-up in the first place.

Is it possible for a man to truly love you but be so scared of commitment that he keeps running?

Men are strange creatures when it comes to love and are often not as direct or clear about the topic as they would be with other factors in their lives. Love is an overwhelming emotion for both men and women and our reactions to those feelings of love get muddled and confused with what our brains advise us to do. I believe a man in love could continue to "run" if he is confused about where his actions may lead him in the future. Men tend to be more comfortable living their lives in their old habits and change can be a scary thing to fathom.But if the other person involved can recognize this as part of the problem, and feels as if there is a future with this man, I would suggest that they stick with him and reassure him that love is good and change is okay, and his life does not have to change for the worse because he chooses to commit to his love.

How do you break up a couple you don't want as a couple?

Use a friend's phone (or your own) to send a voice mail to the boy or girl and say it's from someone else saying they had a great time last night (or any night the didn't have a date) and they will think he/her is cheating on them and will break up.

A better suggestion might be to hire an online service to break up the couple for you so it doesn't trace back to you. One service is http://www.break-them-up.com

If my boyfriend hits me but I still love him and want too be with him how do I help him?

You cannot. The very great likelihood is that he will continue to hit you, and meaning no offense, the likelihood also is that you will remain with him and will continue to be beaten. When you have decided that you have had enough, you will leave him, and that will be the best possible thing you can do for yourself and for him.

In addition to what was said above, you could end up married to him, have children and end up teaching them that this sort of behavior is normal. Your children will watch you and your husband and learn the most of what they know by what you model to them. If your husband is hitting you, you will be teaching them that this is correct behavior and even if you tell them that it's not, they will still see it as: This is how married people are. I can't tell you how important it is to consider the legacy that you leave behind, it is likely that you will be responsible for the behavior of the next generation.

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