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What if your girlfriends family is always making everything very difficult i love her but is becoming really hard sometimes she gets mad at me for stupid things cuz shes stress cuz of them what do ido?

if you really cant stand it that much, im afraid you have to break up with her

im trying to make her realize that she needs to stop getting stress cuz all those things we are also planning on moving out like in a year so im trying to hold but what really bothers me is the fact that she doesnt realize that she treats me bad cuz all that situation she has 0 tolerance for what i do cuz she already lost it arguing at home or with school her school is really stressing she wants to be a doc so family ans school r driving her crazy im a super happy person always laughing and i make her laugh but is not enough, if a do one thing wrong then im awful and im im not supporting her or anything so my questions is what about me am i wrong or she right and m been selfish. fell free to ask anything in order to give me a good advice thanks guys

Should a girl break up with a guy because he is annoying?

It depends on how annoying he is. If he is really annoying and you cant take it any longer, then yes you should. It also depends on how in love you are with him. All guys are annoying. You might just need to deal with it. ( My boyfriend can be the same way.)

My ex broke up with me because he thought i was playing head games i really love him but he is with someone else how do i get him back it is not possible to get over him?

do you know if he really loves you? are you sure you didn"t say any thing to brake up?

if you can"t get over it pretend its okay,;. in other words get yourself a new boyfriend,

and still talk to your ex!!!!!!!

What is a good heartbreak movie?

john tucker must die

the notebook

dear john

'Sweet November' 2001 Charlize Theron, Kenau Reeve

Is it bad if your ex turns into a lesbian after we break up?

it doesn't always mean that you did something wrong, they just wanted to explore their sexuality a little.

How do you get over that your boyfriend is good friends with his ex?

A big part of a relationship is trust and you have to trust that your boyfriend is into you and not her. I've had breakups where I did become good friends with my ex because both of us realized we were more like siblings then anything else. You have to trust him and if you really need to, bring the fact up with him.

What does it mean to dream about arriving at a family with my current girlfriend and see my ex girfriend there and then I tell everyone its not her fault and will not allow anyone to talk bad to her?

  • You may still have feelings for your ex girlfriend or unfinished business with her and you may have bounced to a new girlfriend on the rebound. You may feel guilty about the breakup and still want to protect her. Take time out (head space) to really think about your ex and the new girlfriend and decide where you belong in this scenario.

Will sonic and sally get back together?

Possibly. It wouldn't count in the continuity of the actual games, though, seeing as how Sally does not exist in the games and only the comics and cartoons.

What if your crush ask you to get lost in his life?

First you need to see what you did wrong in the relationship. The you need to try to confront him face to face and apolize. If that does not work tell me what happens.

Why is it that when a person says they need space it is interpreted as i want to sleep with someone else?

The interpretation is strictly what the person thinks about the request for space. You can ask for space, explaining, but it is up to the other person as to how they want to take it. Personally, if I was asked for space, I would move on and believe that for whatever reason, the other person was trying to let me down easy.

What could I get a guy on Valentine's Day?

There are many things you could get a guy on Valentine's Day. You could get a guy chocolate for example.

The way to break up with your first love that you still love because you have met another one you love most?

Be honest, polite, and straight forward but it is important to not jump right into another relationship. If you are leaving one for another, date them for a bit and take time for yourself - but don't commit as to leave things open in case your feelings are not what they seem.

Why would ex not thank you for card you sent for his birthday because you still care for him when he's the type that generally would respond and know there is no change of getting back together again?

* 'Ex' means the relationship is over and wise people move on even though it can be heart breaking. He probably has gotten on with his life and it hurts him to be reminded of past memories with you so he is letting you know know by not responding that he has to keep moving forward and it's too painful to look back on your relationship. It would be to your best interest to move on. You are a kind, loving and thoughtful person and deserve the best!

When she says it's over is it really over?

Depends on your personal situation. Ask yourself the following (crucial) question: how was her tone? Serious? Doubtful?

Why is Draco malfoy a death eater?

drako's father was a death eater, so drako just followed in his father's footsteps. Drako was brought up to basically be a death eater.

If your husband's mother still has a relationship with his ex-girlfriend how can you tell her that it bothers you?

== == I understand all the comments about being nice to the MIL. Well mine is out to destroy my marriage. The ex is invited to all family functions and I am told that is the "Moral" thing to do. The final straw was my oldest daughters wedding. The MIL invited the ex wife without asking me. (This child was 22 when we married) I told my daughter if she wanted me there, the ex would not be. Not only does the ex upset my husband, but she has not allowed him contact with his own daughter and the MIL supports it. If we sit back, then everyone assumes we are OK with it. My husband has repeatedly told his mother to consider his feelings first. She dismisses him. I finally have just stopped going to family events, it is too stressful. My husband is welcome to go but they are too stressful to him too. Even at Church on Sunday, I avoid the MIL like the plague. She is one real piece of work. I personally think she is bent on making my marriage miserable in the hopes we will break up. That is not happening. The more she is obnoxious, the more my husband distances himself from her. At his brothers wedding, the MIL had the ex stand next to me in the family pictures and then had the gaul to ask if we wanted to buy one. I just bit my lip and smiled. == == == == Boy, you sure do have a problem. It really isn't up to you and your husband should be handling this. You shouldn't even have to ask him and he needs to know how you feel about this. There are two ways you can handle this: If your mother-in-law is good to you and you get along well and do the odd thing together even though she sees your husband's ex wife, then you can really live with this. Just because two people divorce doesn't always mean the other party was bad. Some people's chemistry just doesn't mesh together. They were probably friends and it you just don't break friendships up. You could be big about this and just try to understand as best you can. I have no idea if your mother lives in your City or town, but if she does concentrate on having a relationship with her. Considering you never said "mother-in-law" and said "my husband's mother" I take it you aren't that close to her. You probably wouldn't be even if there was no ex wife involved. As long as your husband's mother doesn't bring up the ex or try to start trouble, just let it be. I think you are much more worried about what she is saying to the ex about you, if anything. Our imaginations can work over-time. If your mother-in-law is seeing your husband's ex and talking to your husband about her, or bringing his ex up to you often, or comparing the two of you then I would put your foot down. As I said before it's up to your husband to have tuned into this and he's part of the problem. Of course, us ladies know, most men hate confrontation when it is a problem between two women (in this case, 3 women) and they are basically afraid of us! LOL So, my dear, it looks like it's up to you. I would sit down with your mother-in-law and weigh your words carefully (just in case she decides to express her feelings to your husband or his ex.) If you would like to explain your situation a little better as to how your husband's mom and you get along generally (other than his ex) please just answer on this post and we can figure out something before your put your whole foot in your mouth. LOL Marcy Hi I just logged on and created an account but you'll see that I wrote something down below(before I knew how to do this) . please give me some advice Hi this was my question and the thing is my husband was never married to his ex they just had a long-term relationship though. on and off for 8 years no children. We have a five month. old and I'm afraid that his ex is abusing her re;ationship with my mother-in-law as a way of waiting on the sidelines. and I don't know how to tell her this without damaging our relationship please help Hi there Welcome to the board (and a good board it is! LOL) You really need to sit down with your husband and discuss the closeness of his ex girlfriend with your mother. He is letting you down by not dealing with this. I don't blame you one bit for being a little worried that this ex girlfriend of your husbands may cause problems, but then, look at it this way ... he married you! I think you really need to talk to your husband because he sounds like quite a nice guy, and I highly doubt that this ex of his could possibly split the two of you up. I bet your husband hasn't given it one thought about his ex trying to win him over. If he doesn't have anything to do with the ex then you have nothing to worry about. These should be the rules around your house: This ex is not wanted! That was then and this is now! If his mother wants to continue to see the ex then let her as it's of her own free will and she has the right to do so. However, she should keep all comments to herself and if the ex is visiting it should be at your mother-in-law's home and at no time, should this ex be in your home. Exes shouldn't be invited to family functions (unless there are children involved) and in this case there isn't. It is very poor manners to bring up anyone's ex in front of the new wife/husband. I have been married before and my husband's 2 brothers were great guys and were the ones to tell me to leave their brother because he was mentally/physically abusive to me and also cheating. After I did leave my ex, his brothers and their wives wanted to continue being friends with me. I took them aside and told them that it wasn't a good idea because it would always keep me connected to my first husband. They were hurt, but understood. I went on my way and eventually found, dated and married a wonderful man I've been married 34 years to. A few years later my exes sister phoned (sweet girl) and really wanted to see me, but again, I stood fast and didn't get involved. It took me a lot of years to get over the hurt my first husband instilled in me and I didn't want them resurfacing and ruining my present marriage and I didn't think my husband should have to put up with this. I was kind to my exes sister and explained where I was coming from and I am sure I hurt her feelings, but I knew she'd deal with it. It was all very sad because I really did like my exes sister and brothers. I suggest today VALENTINE'S DAY that you have a romantic dinner (not breathing one word of what your feelings are regarding your husband's ex girlfriend) and just enjoy! Then on another day sit down with your husband one evening and be open and honest with him about your fears. Your husband is not only suppose to be a husband and lover, but your best friend. To tell you the truth hon, I don't think you have much to worry about, but can understand you want to nip it in the bud before anything goes wrong. Men just don't understand how crafty women can be, or how catty one women can be to another. If you have any other questions or need more support please post again. I would love to hear from you. ENJOY VALENTINE'S DAY! Marcy Hi Marcy, here is the thing I actually have a pretty good relationship with my mother in law we talk on the phone probably once a week and we visit every other Sunday. However my husband's ex is a hair dresser and my mother in law claims she can't have anybody else do her hair, OK but I don't think that means that his ex has to come to her house to do so. (She also does my 17 year old sister in law's hair.) Now I'm sure that to some I might sound like a jealous, and paranoid "freak" but But I know through past and recent experiences that she would do anything to have him back. The crux of the matter isn't the ex it is how to talk to my mother in law(p.s. I have spoken with my husband on the matter on previous occasions and he has just dismissed the issue) So I would prefer to go over his head so to speak. I am open to all forms of counsel -Thank You S. Hi Sheryl: I thought a lot about this and I feel you are lacking a little self confidence and when married one should have trust in their partner. If your husband was interested in his ex he would have married her, but obviously he didn't and he picked you. When your husband was going with his ex, his mom was using her as her hairdresser and I have to say I love my hairdresser and would hate to have to change. It's tough finding good hairdressers out there. I don't really see anything wrong with your mother-in-law having her hair done by your husband's ex. By telling her this bothers you, you are trying to control her life and that's not right. If you get along with your mother-in-law then there is no real problem, but the fact you feel insecure. I know it's an odd situation, but if you were ever going to trust your husband now is the time. The reason he sort of had a "ho hum" attitude is because it's no big deal to him and he can't understand why you are having a problem with this. Sounds like your guy is honest and there is absolutely nothing to worry about. This ex can do all she wants to try and win your husband over, but I doubt she could. Does she ever see your husband and if so, when and where? If she is in contact with your husband and you can see real reasons to be concerned about him weakening towards her this is a whole different set of circumstance, so let me know if they are in contact with each other. Hang in there girl Marcy

What does love latency mean?

Hidden love (like love waiting to happen...?)

I still love my ex boyfriend but dont know how to win him back WHAT CAN I DO?

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Have you told him that you want to be with him again? If not you definitely should. It sounds like he just needed a break from dating and being committed. Find out (i.e. ask him) whether he only doesn't want to date right now or whether he's really over you. If it's the latter, you'll have to get over him too. If he only doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, consider whether you want to wait for him, whether he's worth it, and then decide to wait or get over him.

Why is your arm still hurting after you broke it 4 years ago?

Yes, There might be days when your arms aren't as good as before. Like I play the violin and my arms hurt so much when i just lift my violin up for like an hour...and also I have lost my arm strength, so therefore, i cannot do pushups and all those junk

Discuss with me this why are boys jerks?

im a guy and honestly most guys are jerks but others arent. not every guy is mean.

thanks..... are you a jerk cause if you are..... NO THANKS!

do you jerk on your toliet seat??

Who lets their mum control their love life?

some people do. they are obviously more scared of their mum than they are of losing their boyfriend/girlfriend... you've fight (x5) for your love :)

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