Breakups

Some men find it hard to utter the words 'I love you', but it certainly doesn't mean they don't. You can tell if they love you by the way they treat you. A man can tell you 10 times a day he loves you, but sometimes that is called 'the silver tongue' and there is no real feelings behind it. I know my husband loves me, but he doesn't continue to tell me so several times a day and every day. If he treats you with kindness, respect, makes you laugh, is good to you and doesn't cheat on you then he probably loves you a great deal.

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You can't make anyone do anything. However, you can find a compromise by asking her how she wishes to keep in contact: letters? Or, each of you could buy a phone card and use that to talk weekly? Long distance is tough in any case, but you are right in that communication is really important.

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Plant feet firmly, Pull trousers down, place buttox on waste receptacle unit's built in gluteus maximus safety holster (toilet seat), think about unicorns, and push like a madman.

When you reject something you say no or turn away.

That's the problem; in spite of the fact that your ex clearly has told you he does not want a serious relationship with you, you continue to believe you can somehow 'win' him. You can't get your ex to realize anything, because he is the only person who can makes decisions for himself. Your ex doesn't miss you precisely because you are still in his life; he gets to enjoy the 'friend' aspects of you that he likes while not having to date you. By repeatedly attempting to get his attention and win him, you are only strengthening his opinion about the breakup. There is only one way to determine if he is willing to come to you. Stop contacting him; if you do run into him, let him see the best of you--the person that he was attracted to initially. No contact is the hardest part; if you cave in and contact him again, you will fall back into your current situation with him. Your ex either will seek you out, or you will come to realize that it's healthier for you to move on.

No. Narcissists usually run away from an ex, they consider themselves too high and mighty to stalk anyone. They are more likely to act like you never existed at all. A borderline, on the other hand, is likely to stalk an ex. I guess they are each terrible in their own way. It is almost worse for your existence and entire relationship to be denied than to be stalked. At least the stalker acknowledges having strong feelings toward you.

Yes they are likely to completely ignore you as if you never existed. They might stalk you if you are a borderline or a sociopath but otherwise they will feel too ashamed to ever face their victims.

Yes, they run alright! My ex N was having a an affair for 4 years of our 8 yr relationship and there were others before her in patches that i'd communicated with. He decided to treat me so diabolically enough that I would have to leave him, this gave him what he wanted which was to be with her. As like most partners/victims of a Narcissist I tried to patch things up, see if there was any hope 3 months later. He combined a cold stream of No No's with a drizzle or 2 of hope...and hey guess what he maintained he still 'loved me' but it 'was'nt enough' he loved me chasing him so he could be ruthless about it and hurt me terribly with lies and twisted events. Only person getting off on this was him. I took his mask off, I knew what he was, how he operated, how he deceived and once you are no longer any use they get rid for good, he was now happy operating towards me with the mask off because it just did'nt matter anymore to him that i knew what a narcissistic monster he is. No they do'nt stalk once its over, although mine did a few times in the first 2 years when we had fallen out and it was in the Over-valuation stage (idealisation) because he was afraid to lose me then. but if the mask is slipping or when he knows the mask is off yes he runs and does not look back, even now a year since we parted its hard to know and acknowledge he has simply forgotten all about me like i never existed and after all I went through.

Yes they run away as far as they can once their mask has slipped off. I agree with the above post. They just love it when you are chasing you and then when they dissappear they are gone for good. I think its the masochistic part of them that likes to be hated and never let you really forgive them for anything. Pretty sick really.

It really depends on who initiated the break up. If it was his/her idea they aren't likely to stalk. On the other hand if they were dumped, they may need to show you what a mistake you are making, because as they will tell you, you will not find anyone as wonderful as them self.

If you aren't convinced to take them back stalking, threats and other illegal behavior may follow. If you try to turn them over to law enforcement be very careful and have witnesses lined up ready to support your claim. They are very convincing and will most likely file a counter claim against you and they will be prepared.

If they have moved on and shows no interest in you there is no way for you to get them back.

You can prove to your husband that you are the woman he needs by telling him you love him and that you are sorry for all the wrongs you did. Also you might wanna get a little sexual by haveing some sex and taking off ALL your clothes. You may think this is groos but trust me it may help you. Also tell your husband that if I you are not the woman he needs then why did he marry you. Rub on him to. Tell him he is sexy. And also have more sex. Sex is alwasy the key.

Well, I've have a bit of experience with things like this, and I've actually had this promblem. If you still love someone, but you're going out with someone, you need to find some things out first. 1. Does he love you back?2. Are you going to want the person you broke up with back? 3. If you feel that you're not being true to your boyfriend, you should do what you think is right.

Just tell him that you like him, but it would be better if you were just friends for know. say, you don't want to hurt him, but you need some time to think thigs through and decide where your heart is. But whatever you do, LISTEN TO YOUR HEART!!! ^.^

I am sorry to say, but you are either putting too much pressure on him and he's trying not to hurt you or he's a jerk and using you. Either way it's over and you need to move on. Many people have lost loves and we all survive. Sometimes we have to go down different roads (some painful) and then we usually end up meeting our true love. So get out with your friends, start having some fun and before you know it you'll meet some nice guy.

From a man's point of view, she is not the ex. She is the Main one and you are the temp. Get out before you get to involved and end up hurt.

That is possible. But people do not all react the same way. Some people break up with no intention of ever seeing each other again for any reason. Some breakups are more bitter than others.

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Look at the breakup as a final contact with your ex. In real life, people move toward the future and do not look back. The breakup shows that, as a couple, you had unresolved problems that would still be there if you got back together. Take the good things that happened and move on, yourself.

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It really depends on the situation of why you and you ex broke up. Did you guys get into a huge argument. If so can you ex look past that. Secondly did your ex or you cheat, abuse or hit each other. If so would you really want your ex back?

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• It depends if you have an argument or, your partner is abusive. If the two of you are trying to discuss something and your partner is not abusive it is just their way to get you to stay and possibly discuss the matter more and do not want you to leave. Still, it is wrong that your partner is trying to prevent you from leaving. Tell them to let you by and if they refuse tell them they have the choice of letting you get by or you're phoning the police. Explain to them you need time to cool off!

You dont make her stop flirting -- he does

If he does not, he is either still interested or enjoys the (ego) attention, regardless.

So you will have to decide if you want that kind of man in your life

if your girlfriend has sex with his ex? sure she is a she are you?

Please state a question, at the moment it's more of a statement with an if at the front. I'd be happy to answer it when you do.

Some men believe that they think they love you but the dont understand what love is.... i think you should just get over him and move on,, play the field,, you only live once,, there's plenty more fish in the sea (8) well this is my opinon,, hope you take my advice loveee :) love ya and leave ya,, peace out sucker

cause he wants you to be jelaous

Carpe Diem aka Seize the Day = For today, living for today and not tomorrow. I tell you this because I want you to understand that life is way to short to play the whole phase of your past disturbs me or upsets me. Embrace what you have positively and do not think about the past of another. People change and its about what someone does now and today that makes the difference.

You tell him that it is his own bed he has made his own bed so lay in it. And he must not love you enough if he has had the decency to hurt you. And go off and marry someone else

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Read your own question very carefully. Are you suggesting that your ex is somehow in charge of what you do? What you do has to be related to the fact that he says he likes you again? What do you want? As the saying goes, he is not the only fish in the sea. Now, I'm not saying that you need to drop him, because who am I to control your behavior? The point is that you need to get a grip with this, and decide who is calling YOUR shots?

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