Breakups

question continued... we didnt talk for a couple of days but he did insist he wanted to keep me in his life and even said maybe we would be together again in the future..i was crushed because as far as i knew nothing was wrong we had a great time being together.. anyways i gave him his space but about a week later i was at the beach with some friends and he and his friend met us there. i acted like everything was fine and so did he until i got a text from him saying how hard it was for him to be around me saying i was so beautiful and he wants to be close to me so badly..he said its so different now and that it makes him sad and when i asked why it was so hard he said "because I still like you" ...i didnt read to much into it and i said dont worry we dont have to hang out..but he wanted to..so the next night we were at a little party at a friends house and we ended up alone in another room talking..he admitted to still caring and he was going literally crazy and trying so hard to have me near him at all times...im so confused though because after that night of him showing intense emotion and affection he has been very cold to me..it hurts because all the stuff he said that night abuot still wanting to talk and be friends and possibly be together down the road seams like it was all a lie..does anyone know what he is thinking or have any advice for me? i still love him very much

Right, i think its fair to say that if your 'other half' was interested then, you wouldn't be asking this question. There is only one way you could make another want you, and that is simply confidence. Show them you can talk to them with ease without going all shy and getting butterfly's Flirt with his/her friends in a friendly way. Give yourself a make over. Make yourself more that what they expected. I'm sure it Will work :) x//

The person your friend sleeps with is an "ex" meaning you no longer have any claim on that person. What they chose to do is none of your business. If your friend chooses to do this, that is none of your business either. Some friends might shy away from such a thing just to spare your feelings. But you don't need to do anything. If you can't bear the thought of your friend sleeping with your ex and seeing your friend makes you think about it, then don't see the friend any more. But do you really want to lose a friend and a lover too?

non stop, all the time.
Uninterrupted in time, prolonged, unceasing

huh?

The best advise is to get active in other things you did not do before and meet new faces. A great place-church.

It's possible, but there is no real way of knowing for sure. Even though it hurts to split-up with someone you love and care about it is time for you to move on. Nothing is holding her to this new boyfriend. She knows where to find you.

Yes, he's probably expressing how he feels about you because he finds it difficult to put how he feels about you into words himself.

When your ex ceases entire contact with you this means he doesn't want you back. If he comes back, but never stays then he's using you for sexual gratification.

Tell him you got her pregnant.

of course she used you it was probably was a bet or something

You know because he will say so. Or if he is too shy to raise the subject, you are free to ask.

• Some people drink to excess or do too many drugs to escape the ghosts in their lives (problems they have yet to resolve) and having a drug habit is a disease (addictive personality.) The person on drugs feels they can stop at any time and before they know it they are hooked and although it appears that they are selfish they are so hooked on drugs that all they can think of is getting their next fix and they have lost complete control of their lives including hurting the person they love. A person that enables a drug addict by taking drugs is not helping them, but hindering their chance of coming off drugs. Either the individual on drugs really wants to try to come off drugs or the enabler is fearful if they do they won't have a partner to do drugs with. Drug addicts (be it alcohol or any other addictive drug) feel abandoned and threatened when their friend or mate wants to try and come off drugs because it means they will have to stay off drugs as well.
  

u should go say srry and then go to a cousler

or get OVER IT!

These things take time and you have to give it time. If it means sitting home with sappy movies and ice cream or partying do so. We all have our different way to deal with this. This will not be the last time it happens to you I'm sure. Talk to your friends.

Well, if you believe that you are then you should move on but don't be dramatic about it. Just say like u just don't feel into the relationship anymore and that its just not working for you right now. (Best of luck to you)

brendon faamausili is cool

no they broke up last month

because he was cheating on her with some other movie star

try not to change him learn to love the way that he is

He has a purpose in telling you this and it's probably not to your advantage to expect anything in the future from him.

Take a deep breath, put your shoulders back, and say that "today is the first day of the rest of my life." There are millions and millions of other people out there in this world and nobody ever said that the first one you meet is going to be that "special" someone. Get out, get involved, get on with living. Don't look back about what might-have-been... Look forward to what may/can/will be. There is another somebody out there. Give that person a chance by giving YOURSELF a chance. Go!

f*** this. I've been here, and there is no moving on. Someone put a real answer for this question, because you really didn't read the last part of the sentence in the question. Get real people. If anyone here has ever really been in this situation it is absolute pain, endless pain, especially if you have to see her, every week. (oh, and it's been two years by the way...ya)

Someone write a real f***ing answer. please.

You don't need an answer from the outside bcz u won't like any...until you tell your self, that's it, I'm taking a step to do what is best for me you will continue saying f*** this...sorry, u need to find out by yourself what the answer is...when you decide to start leaving in the present let me know...

I got dumped, and I still liked the person. I'm not really sure what the correct answer is. I still liked the person, but they didn't wanna see me. I waited, and eventually, somebody else came along. I forgot completely about the first, and now it's just nostalgia. So for me, it was just a question of finding the right person.

That depends what he is begging for and how you feel about that particular topic. Don't allow yourself to be pressured or "begged" into doing something that you do not want to - simply say no and walk away.

A "true" narcissist will always, without fail, attempt to hang onto any relationship in which the narcissist gains "narcissistic supply." A "true" narcissist will not be deterred! They will do what it takes, say what it takes and follow-up with whatever actions are necessary to hang onto narcissistic supply. They will attempt to rekindle the broken relationship because they do not accept the fact that the relationship is over. If you respond in any manner...ie...phone calls, text messages, letters...etc...the narcissist accepts this as proof that he still holds some interest in your life. He will remain relentless in his attempt to gain any attention whatsoever from his supply...ie...you! You may find it flattering that someone seems so attached to you that they will do anything to keep you around, but just know that you are not a human being in the sense that we are human beings. People, to the "true" narcissist", are simply objects in which to gain the attention they so desperately crave. If you can accept that fact (and it is a fact) feel free to continue a relationship with a narcissist. However, if you ever wish to have a meaningful and intimate relationship, you should search out and find a healthy human being. The narcissist will always be a narcissist and there is nothing in the world that will change that fact. Nothing! It is unfortunate because, generally speaking, narcissists are talented, charming and successful people. They simply do not possess empathy or compassion for any human on the planet. Those emotions are not present in the narcissist nor will they ever become present. The part of the psychological make up found in normal-healthy minds is absolutely missing in the narcissist. EXAMPLE: If a person were born without legs, that person could have artificial legs attached. However, the artificial legs will never "grow" naturally. A person born without empathy or the capacity to love does have the ability to observe the behaviors of others who feel empathy and love. The narcissist can learn to mimick the behaviors of empathy and love. The narcissist will never have the ability to "grow" feelings of empathy or love. That simple!

Its possible he could still like you often boys will dump a girl because its not cool or the M8s arnt happy but usally when a boy breaks up with a girl he dose still like her!

He may have liked this particular person and didn't want to cheat on you so it was easier to breakup and be with them then hurting you, they may have just wanted to or they may even have just wanted to try and forget about what was going on. Only he knows for sure why he did so but either way its best to do what is best for you as to not let this person treat you in such a manner.

Well when getting over an ex it can be hard and forgetting their number can be even harder so these are my suggestions:

1.) If you keep a phone/address book mark out his number and address unless your really good friends with him.

2.) you could call one of your friends alot and get so used to their number than you'll probably forget.

or.

3.) you can just not call him just because you remember his number doesn't mean you have to call him.

thats my advice

Hope this helps,Kitcat0419