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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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Why does he tell you he loves you but still cheats on you?
This is one of those things that seems like a paradox because if you love someone, how can you break up with them, right? The reason is this: just because you love someone doesn't mean that they are healthy for you or right for you. Most likely he's come to love you and at the same time there's something about you that he's just not satisfied with- most times it's part of your character. For example, if you're really talkative and he's not, he's going to think you're a chatter box and you're going to think he's cold and distant. In this sense you two are not compatible. It is one of the hardest decisions to make, one like this. In fact I've done it twice and I cried my heart out both times.
Generally if he's the one doing the breaking up for this reason it's because he knows himself and knows what he wants in life in a partner and you're not it. He doesn't want you to think that he hates you. He wants you to know that love wasn't the thing that was missing from your relationship, that it was something else.
Why are you afraid of mirrors?
im afraid of mirrors because ive watched too many scary movies and the whole bloody Mary and candy man thing freaks me out.
What do you do if your like your best friends ex?
First off, make sure you give your friend time to completely get over him. You don't want to ruin your friendship over some guy! If you really like him, after awhile, try flirting a little cautiously. If he seems to be flirting back, and if he seems to be interested in you, then flirt more openly. That should work pretty well, but every situation is different. To be REALLY safe, you could ask your friend if it is all right to go out with him. That may seem a lilttle weird, so that you only have to do if you are VERY cautious of not ending your friendship. Good luck!!
What is so special about niuean boys haircutting ceremony?
Like all Polynesian people, niueans love to celebrate. A major event for teenage boys is their "haircutting ceremony". Many boys keep a long tail of hair since childhood and this is ritually removed at a gathering held at the boys home, usually on a Saturday.
Guests involved to the feast contribute considerable amounts of food and money to a fund that goes to the boy after expenses are paid. The pastor and close family members cut locks of hair that have been tied with ribbon, and everyone sits down at the following feast.
What is the best way to cheer a girl up after a break up?
tell her to talk to Jesus. even though her boyfriend isn't there, Jesus will be there always.
tell her that there is someone special out there for her, and not to kill her self. because that would be bad
How do you speak to your girlfriend?
open your mouth and say whatever you feel is appropriate. Say something that will make her feel hot, say something like "your pretty" or "your beautiful." Don't be shy to tell your girlfriend that she has beautiful eyes. That will make her feel beautiful
ask your girlfriend what they like and if she tells you that they like, for example, cricket, then talk to them about that.
if you mean how to talk to them, then use your mouth!!!
Darling, I am fond of you. May I kiss you on your cheek just to start? What do you do in your home? What do you like to eat best? Do you prefer reading or watching TV, or even sit at the computer and play games ? Which is your preferred discipline in your school ? How about to visit my parents and know them ?
What do you think about Brazil? Can you say some words in spanish language?
How do you rank Jim west70? Is he smart or not?
What does someone mean when they say they want space?
it means that she/he wants to have a little bit of privacy or maybe you've been in-her/his-face a lot and its annoying her/him. but it doesn't mean that he/she wants to break up (hope not), she/he just wants for you to trust her/him more.
Why did the fante confegeration broke up?
because u re not correct................if i know will i ask u
If a boy break up with you and you still like him what do you do?
Well if he broke up with you then you probably did something to drive him away. If you did nothing to him at all then he is just looking for someone with a nice body and wont like them for their inside. Its best to find someone else who will love you for who you really are.
What do you say when someone says you can do better than me?
Seeing as she is your girlfriend, you must see beautiful, amazing qualities in her. So when she says you can do better, let her know that you don't think there is anyone better. Tell her there are no eyes more beautiful, no smile more charming, no sense of humor cuter than hers, no woman with more grace and intelligence, etc. etc. Be honest, open, and romantic!
...But if you have to lie to say those things, maybe it's time to reevaluate why you are with her!
That isn't a good sign. He doesnt seem interested. If a guy is very interested in you he will look for you. If he doesnt come looking for you, dont go looking for him, because he doesnt deserve you.
How do you break up your mom and her boyfriend?
It is never a good idea to break up your parents marriage. Marriage is hard enough for adults. Children should not get involved.
How do you know when to let go of someone you love?
if its even a question in your head and your not happy you should try to slowly distance yourself. stay friends and be together occasionaly, DO NOT DATE OTHERS but stay apart. after a while you will see how you do on your own without them and maybe even see other oppertunities. otherwise it may just show you how your life just isn't the same without them. Good luck , and listen to your heart!
Don't say "I'm breaking up with you". Don't dump your him/her. Just start gradually spend less time talking with him/her. After a little while, you can start declining nicely if he/she asks you out. You can either let it go at that, or break it to him/her then. Mind you, it will still hurt both of you, but if you do it to him/her gently and gradually like that, it can be much easier.
* You answered your own question by saying 'we're both notorious for hiding our feelings,' and that's probably why you split up in the first place. Communication is even more important than sex because by communicating and expressing one's feelings it humanizes them. There is the possibility your ex boyfriend is not in love with you and someone has to start to communicate so it might as well be you. Pick a time when you are alone and just be honest with your ex boyfriend and if he can't say one way or the other if he loves you then you have two options A) Stay friends or, B) move on from this relationship and get back into the dating circuit.
write her a note and tell her how you feel good luck
ok i dont know who wrote that but they obviously didnt pay attention to the question. the question was how do you get you ex-BOYFRIEND back. the note thing may or may not work, it depends on the guy, i suggest u do something that reminds him why he went with u in the first place.
What do you do if you do not want to kiss someone who wants to kiss you?
I can answer this question from experience. My boyfriend wanted to kiss me but i didnt want to kiss him because i was to nervous. If that's the case then tell him your not ready yet. That's what i told my boyfriend of 1 month and he was completely respectful and didnt zing one on me. Tho, to answer this question correctly i would have to know the reason why you don't want to kiss him. No matter what the reason is you need to have a talk with him as to why you don't want to kiss him. Just be totally honest with him and don't hold back. Let him know how you really feel about it and that should help to work things out.
My ex keeps looking at me and stares and so does his friends sometimes what does that mean?
He loves you still but has to much of a BIG man ego that he cant face that he loves you still. and still has feeling for you. Friends are a big part of a mans ego if he lets his guard dowm to look at you with his friends, then they give him a hard time. so that why he stares when they are not around he wishes he could when they are around but he;s a man that why!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is it right to give a girl flowers?
It depends, if she seems like the lovey dovey romantic type then go for it, however if she is the complete opposite then you should ask her opinion on gestures of thought beforehand.
Why a man says i love you but not ready to settle down?
A man will say i love you all the time to a woman he really likes. I think the main reason is because they feel pressured in saying i love you, and if they don't they'll lose you. Just give your man time to figure out when the best time to settle down is...tell him you want to have a family or other things to let him know. If you really love him he will get that you want to settle down.
Why do some ex like to keep in touch with their ex?
It depends entirely on the person and the situation. Sometimes they keep in touch because they want to stay friends, and that's all.
Sometimes, it's because they still have feelings for them. They may not realize it, or notice it, but keeping that last bit of contact can be a method of trying to hang on to them.
Why does your boyfriend always disrespect you and ignore your feelings?
That is probably the way behavior toward partners was modeled for him by his own parents. He will not outgrow it. Dump him and find someone who respects you. He is obviously not a boy friend. He's a good deal less than that.
This is the real realy answer! People need it to live, it dosent care about love.
How do you catch his attention?
girls flip you hear were a lot of make-up but colors that make it look like a very little flirt with other guys but not to much. boys do not flirt with other girls and try to make eye countact with the girl and alway make the boy she is talking to look bad
this seems difficult. but as i can see that this boy is fed up. he clearly misses you. and wants to be back with you, and i think he regreted dumping you , maybe you should talk to him and see what he has to say.
