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What do you do when a guy breaks your heart and you still love him?

you be mad at him and ignore him when he texts talks calls sends a friend to talk or passes you a note. and cry until he apologizes

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You can do that, like ignore him and all and cry cuz when you get your heart broken of course you will cry, and when you ignore him he will realize what a mistake he did. but if you want to move on, get rid of everything that reminds you of him, stay busy, have fun with friends and dont think about him ok hun

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confront him about how you feel...guys like to see a girls sensitive side... tell him everything that he did that hurts you and breks your heart!!! he might even fix your broken heart,and if he doesnt, then hes a jerk,and you dont neede a guy like that in your life!!! im here for you, girl.. my username is ' ilovehimmm ' contact me if ya want.

Another answer improvement:

get rid of everything that reminds you of him, talk to friends, hang out, flirt, and dont let any guy get you down!

Ex girlfriend back?

if your Ex-Girlfriend is calling, answer, but try not to act very "can we go out again." Just be yourself, but don't have this phone call get in the way of another relationship. Remember that you two broke up before.

How do you break up by text?

simple DON'T DO IT if you can't work it out with the person call them and be like he i love you but i think we should just be friends and maybe they will appreciate the fact that you had the guts to call instead of send a stupid text!!!

What does it mean if you dream about your ex a lot?

That your thinking on him too much, and some kind of how you still feel something deeply for him and most of all you don't want to admit it. On the other hand if am not right about that then is a warning some thing you should warn him about.

How do you get your ex boyfriend back when its long distance and he has a new girlfriend but he says he still loves you?

You DON'T! Once he has moved on with someone else, you honor the respect for another person and consider him off limits! If he should become single and available again...then you could start emailing or corresponding to show him that you are not clingy as he once thought...convincing him of change. But of course, if you ARE clingy, then you need to accept that you are not the ideal mate for him if that is what he does not like! Step 1: Stop being so clingy. Your problem would then be solved with no Step 2 because then you would no longer be (A) stalking an EX (B) stalking a guy that lives too far away to support a relationship and (C) stalking a guy who has a girlfriend. I'm sorry if that was a bit harsh, but I think the best thing for you is to get hit over the head with a wakeup call on just how extreme your question was. Dealing with a clingy issue in a relationship *OR* wanting an ex back *OR* pursuing a long distance relationship *OR* wanting a guy that is already taken are each pretty problematical. The problem here isn't how to get the guy back, the problem here is that you causally dumped all four together and even asked the question. You're past the "just get over him" zone, you're fast heading into the obsessive & lost-touch-with-reality zone.

What is noahs faverite color?

pink is noahs favorite color

uh i think pink or purple????............

How long do i have to keep my exs belongings after he moved out?

If the divorce court did not specify who gets to live in the house, the ex is a legal tenant and has a right to use of the property. If the house was granted to you, you will need to lawfully evict the ex.

What can you do if your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend but says she thinks she's in love with you now and has been sleeping with you?

Hi there

Thanks for being so candid about your relationship. What are some of the differences she is referring too? First off, many good relationships work out because "opposites attract!" I have no idea what this girl expects. YOU DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE FOR ANYONE! You are you and there must have been a great deal she liked about you to go steady with you. What's changed? That's what you have to ask her and yourself.

Some young women can grow weary quickly in relationships (just as some young men can) and they feel the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. I still don't think you should wait around for her.

I think if you stop accommodating her wishes as the other poster put it, and started dating other girls she would soon make up her mind more quickly. Love doesn't come easy and although it's magical and fantastic at first, as time goes on it takes a lot of work and communication to keep the sparks flying. It appears you are willing to do this, but she is too immature to try.

Move on and start dating. There is a good possibility she will come running back to you, but beware ... she may just not want another woman to have you. Make her work for your attention and don't try pleasing her so much. She is and I say it again "she IS" taking advantage of you and hurting you in the process. If she wasn't being immature and selfish she would simply tell you it's over and she'd continue on with her boyfriend.

Good luckMarcy

You sure are a brute for punishment! When you say the word "ex" anything it means it doesn't exist in the future as it did in the past and this relationship of yours is no exception. I don't know how you can respect her or yourself when she is cheating on her new boyfriend and both of you know full well it's wrong. There are choices! You either love someone or you don't. This girl is having a field day feeling pretty darn important with two guys wanting her. It's time to grow up and tell her to make up her mind right now! Either she loves you enough to come back and she has the compassion and guts to face her boyfriend and tell him she's going back to him or I'd dump her for good. If you don't both of you will get what you deserve. There is an old saying, "The head of the snake will turn around and bite you on the butt!" You'd better believe that quote is true because I've seen it in action often during my many years on this earth.

Marcy the ex girlfriend here was a girlfriend 3 days ago so there has not been much separation and the feelings are still there she is just unsure if she is in love but does care deeply for me and could be in love the new boyfriend just came about he has been talking to her for a little because she was unsure but she was always with me but feels are differences are too much,unlike him whom is more similar,but I don't think differences mean much we can grow to like the same things in time,she does love me and I love her and want her to be in love with me like I am to her. It hurts me thinking he doesnt have to try as hard to be similar,I give 100percent to like her views and she knows that,but is unsure.

AnswerShe is cheating on her new boyfriend. What makes you think she won't cheat on you? Break it off. Tell her good bye. As long as she does not have to make a choice, she won't. Until she does, why do you want to be involved.

What do you do when your boyfriend's ex keeps calling and wants to get back with him?

* Ask the phone company to make your phone number unlisted, or change your phone number altogether.

* To stop an ex from calling you, you should at least have a clean breakup in the first place. Start by letting your ex know why he or she should stop calling you. Tell them your primary reasons first and ask them to respect your space. Changing phone numbers and using subjectively hurting ways to avoid their calls would not be the best way for they will keep calling and wondering what has happened to you. Talk it out and make the break really clean.

* Honesty is the best policy, even though its much easier to take the easy way out.

* If it's harassment, get an order of protection from the court. If you have children, you have to try to work something out, so ask the court to appoint a mediator.

* He/she will stop eventually. Just give them time to relax about the situation and let them know that it is over and they should try and move on. Other than that, there really isn't much you can do without being nasty. Just let them know outright that you're trying to move on and you don't want to hurt them, but you can't keep taking calls from them.

Is it over when your boyfriend hasn't called in two weeks?

If it isn't it should. why would you date someone who doesn't bother to call you in two weeks...

What to do when your ex wants to get back with her ex?

If your ex is trying to get back with you after a relationship, you have to think about it. Try to remember all the good and bad times if the good times over weigh the bad ones you may want to consider him again. If its the other way around than most likely dump him again. If your moving on while he's not, don't fall back into his traps, get over with him. Tell him that its over and you don't want him, do this nicely so that this doesn't make a big scene. Once you tell him your finished just walk away don't stay with him and try to comfort him that will just give him a chance to be vulnerable and make you feel sympathy making you fall into a bigger trap than before.

How do you tell a guy tha you still like your ex?

Just tell him, be honest, its the best way, tell him you still have feelings for your ex, then he can move on, or wait for you to get over your ex, its his choice then, but be honest. Slowly. Start a casual conversation about whatever then ease into it. But be careful. Make sure it's the right decision and that your ex feels the same.

What makes it so hard to forget about someone?

because you really need him/her

ANSWER:

It is very hard especially if you love this person. You will remember all the nice, and fun things that both of you did together before the breakup. I could tell you a real story that happen to my son. his 17 years old and was seeing a girl for 2 years. Unfortunately his relationship with her needs to stop because her father has rules to his children and that is she is not allowed to have a boyfriend until she's over 18 years old. And because of this, my son's heart was broken and saw him fell apart..No one can ever forget someone especially if you love this person.

20 years ago i fell in love with this guy. he had absolutly no intresst in me and was 2 years older. I still miss him , but he taught me a lesson i will never forget.

love lasts a lifetime

friendship lasts forever

grudges last years

hate lasts an eternity

What does a guy mean when he says he's not sure?

When a guy says that he's not sure, it means that he needs some time to think about it. Although this is not a safe situation for your relationship with him. It usually means he has seriously thought about breaking up. You need to convince him otherwise(if that's what you want).

How do I forget about a guy I'll probably never see again?

Well there are 4 ways you can handle this problem. 1.You should find a new guy that has the same interest as you. 2. A long distance relationship isn't that bad you can face chat or text and call. 3. Or find a good and loyal friend or parent that your comfortable with to let out your feelings to him/her. 4. Forget about him!!!

Why does my ex girlfriend call if she has a bf?

that's just like me but instead its my ex-bf he dosent really come too my house instead he follows me around school its so annoying i have another bf and he still likes me so how do you know she might still like you

Why are husbands spiteful during divorce especially when they want to the divorce?

Now be totally honest with yourself. Have you really been perfectly nice and co-operative all the time for the past couple of years?

If the answers yes then either your lying, or you have a rose tinted view of your actions.

The truth is this will be both of you digging your heals in at times which will naturally be the reason why both of you are feeling the need to "put one over" the other person.

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I would suppose it is because at some level he is trying to avoid feeling guilty for his part. Your best bet is to behave as if he were not doing this. Respond to the reasonable and ignore the other. Decide what you really need and get the information to back it up--still, you will not be completely taken care of, and only part of the agreement will go your way.

You will be glad later if you know you have behaved as well as you could and got what you needed. In the long run, you want to be separate from him financially and depend on yourself. Child support and mortgage payments are often an issue after divorce--make sure you are economically able to support yourself. Otherwise, he will essentially control your life after the divorce.

BTW, insist that he carry life insurance and that you are the beneficiary as part of the divorce.

What do you do if your ex-boyfriend won't stop flirting with you?

it pretty much means that they still have feelings for you and if you still have feelings for them ask if they wanted to try again. other wise even if you still want to be friends with them, try and keep your distance because that is the only way they will get it through their head that you don't like them in that way anymore.

Why are you dreaming of your ex boyfriend with his new girlfriend?

Plain and simple, it's because this is what's on your mind. There isn't a real psychological thing, in a way. The main reason that you're dreaming about your ex and his new girlfriend is because it's what's bothering you most right now. give it a few weeks and you'll get over it.

Is it possible to be a boy and a girl at the same time?

Yes. It is possible for a person to identify as entirely male, entirely female or anywhere in between, regardless of their biologically assigned gender. These people are transgendered. Extreme cases of transgenderism, in which the person identifies so strongly with a gender that differs from that which they were assigned at birth that they require medical intervention to adjust their bodies to match their brains are known as transexuals.

You cheated on your boyfriend but he broke up with you when he found out. how do you get him back?

It is a lesson learned--by you. He knows he doesn't want to work on regaining trust--and in many ways he is wise. That is because people commonly repeat what they have done in the past. You move on and either do not cheat with the next guy or you break up before engaging in a relationship with someone else. It isn't always easy, but in the long run it saves hearts.

What to do if she is angry?

It depends on why she is angry and your relationship with here and her personality. Most of the time a heart felt "sorry" (with some over word's).

If its something bigger than just a small bump. It all comes down to how well you know the "girl". Going on your knees doesn't work.

The best way is to just talk to here and tell her "how bad you feel about it" and sound as sorry as you can when doing so and don't say sorry more than twice. It makes it look like you are just saying it for the sake of saying it.

Making it look like you are about to cry helps, just don't cry for real. It puts her off and stops her from listening. But certain times it may work better. It comes down to how well you know her.

Why does an ex boyfriend still keep in touch with his ex?

It can vary greatly,

It could be that he want's to get back together with you,

That he misses you and still values any contact he could possibly have with you,

Doesn't like the way things ended and can't live with the fact someone might dislike him and is trying to rectify that

Is just trying to mess with you

Your never going to know for sure unless you ask him specifically, in which you can then get to root of the issue

Why do you keep dreaming about an ex?

Because there standing next to you with a knife while your sleeping

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