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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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Breaking up and meeting again and again is Taurus and Virgo thing. You guys seek for a perfect partner but truth is you guys together only can go nearest to perfection. Let us know what happened in your case.
Why are men afraid of settling down?
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It means that he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. He wants to beak up nicely. Let him go and move on.
How can you get your ex back when he loves someone else?
well you really lost that relationship. he if loved you he wouldn't have left you. if a man cheats on his wife , he doesnt love her preiod. now, if hes with someone else, then that other feamale has his attraction, and until hes ready to move on from her, theres nothing you can do to redirect his attention toward you. you win some, and you lose some. and unfortunately you lost that one. but he can be replaced with a bigger and newer model. just step out of your comfort zone and explore other possibilities out there. we woman tend to want to cling on to the old tried and true methods. well the method you had didnt work, and he was true to you, he has someone else. why would you want someone whose not even thinking about you , and to top it all off, hes sleppiing with her to.
Answeri was in the same situation as you, all did was ignor him and when you do that to a boy he will see you have moved on. when a boy sees that he don't like that cause a boy likes when he haves controle over a girl that is in love with him.You dreamed of by girlfriends breaking up with you?
Because this is something that's on your mind. Dreams can reveal insights into what you're thinking, but they aren't really any more than that. Just because you dreamed about something does not mean it will come true.
How do you stop a friend from calling you names?
If they were your friend they wouldn't treat you in such a manner. It would be in your best interest to find new friends as this person has no interest in your feelings. If they ask why you are not talking to them tell them the truth and how their behaviour has made you feel. Let this person go from your life.
How do you make someone stop hating you?
Hate is a very harsh word and to hate is to lose control and energy which never resolves anything. All humans can't win everyone over and you are going to have to accept that you cannot make other people like you even though you did nothing wrong to them. Don't try to get them to stop hating you, but move on and away from them. These people make toxic relationships in your life.
In what ways have changes in family life affected society?
1.change for the role of husband and wife
2.change the economic condition of the family
3.change in the pattern of authority
4.change in the family composition and size
5.change in the family relationship
Your ex-girlfriend wants to 'have her cake and eat it too." She can't detach herself from the relationship, but she wants her ultimate freedom. She probably sees the positives about you and still wants her daily dose of that (whether it's your company, affection, intimacy, fun, whatever). However, if she broke up with you she is obviously feeling like she wants freedom, or someeone else, or she doesn't see a future in the relationship. The best thing you can do, in my opinion, is to not talk to her. She broke it off, therefore she needs to stand by her decision. It's very unfair of her to send you these mixed signals - so you need to make it loud and clear to her that either you're on or you're off. Be strong, and stand firm . . . and try to fill your own void with activities and friends, so you don't weaken. Good luck!
depending on what you broke up with him for is why you are having a hard timing dealing with it, the best thing for you to do is say that you were sorry would like to try it again and ask for another chance otherwise its just going to eat you up inside. Try to make him understand what you are thinking and what you want to do to improve next time.
You and your boyfriend broke up you know he still loves you why wont he come back?
he probably doesnt know you want them to come after you. do you still have feelings for him? if your upset hes not coming after you, then that means deep down you still like him. the break up to him means its time to move on. so what you have to do is that you have to go after him.
Why would a Narcissist never say one bad thing about his ex to his new girlfriend?
He can't. A man can't say anything about a good woman, to do that would be a hypocrite. He knows you were good to him and to say anything bad about you would make him look like the bad one because he let you go or rather you let him go.
AnswerI think the word "narcissist" has been wrongly used in a lot of cases and especially in this case. A narcissist would not only not admit such a thing to anyone else, but is in denial about this to themselves. I think other things went on (each relationship is complex) and you split-up. He obviously still cares about you and admires you. He sounds like a decent enough guy because he sure has had opportunities to bash you and hasn't. This guy is giving compliments. Doesn't sound like the narcissistic type to me.Well, maybe she is feeling like you are smothering her or that you are being to "clingy". Some girls like being the center of attention all the time and some don't. It really just depends on the girl.
Don't take this to heart. Sometimes woman need some time to thereselves, because they want to spend sometime with our family and friends for awhile. Spending too much time together can actually make people break-up because they loose a sense of themselves and feel suffocated at times. Talk to her, tell her how you feel and that if she needs you that you will be right their for her for whatever she needs... and mean it too! I am sure that your just a good guy and that things are going to work out. Just talk to her about how you feel and truthfully, if she is toying with you or is backing away then Buddy, you deserve much better for yourself!!!!
Detailed Caseyeah thats what she says is that she just has alot of stuff on her mind and she needs this time for herself she swears that shes madly in love, and im for her and she doesn't want to leave or break up. she said she just needs this time for her to clear her head ive told her that im here for her she knows that she still calls me everyday and still we end calls with I love you so I just dotn know whats goign on
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"For a week?" Did you consider menstruation? She may be rather uncomfortable to talk about such things, especially with a guy. It seems to me you're both very young and you've been "together" for a rather short time. She may be clearing her uterus, not her head. Slight anatomical error ;-)
Just let her work out her feelings, and when she's ready to talk, be honest and straightforward with each other.
Ahhhahaa, she has doubts about the relationship. So she needs time to sort out how she really feels and she probably has another guy on the side but wants to keep you hanging on just in case it doesn't work out with the last fling with the other guy. So, while your away calling her and saying how much she loves you, she's having a fling with this other guy to see if they are sexually compatible. Cause is this woman really loves you, you can be in her face every minute of the day and it wouldn't matter. Fifty percent of all AMERICAN married couples end in divorce cause they don't know what intimate commitment is. Especially, the younger generations. Even worse is that people from other countries pick up this fast-food mentality and destroy the best things about thier own culture. I've been with several American women but it never lasted. I met one woman from Russia and we've been married now for 8 years. It's an entirely different scenario with American women, the majority of them will jump ship once they see something better. There is nothing sacred in America anymore. Blame it on "White" men ! All they want to do is scr* every women in site and *. Look at what's been proliferated all over the Internet, the most disgusting imagery concerning White men and women of color. Look how white american women are, they're like wh*. Tanya harding is a good example. Pamela Anderson, another example.Then you have talentless women that sell records solely on premanufactured musical marketing techniques, ala Britney Spears. All looks, but nothing is sacred to them, they make love with one guy and all it means to them is an org* ! So to get back to my point, your probably better off with a woman that understands commitment. You let her go off now, and that pattern will become the norm, until one day you find out she's been scr* another guy on those weeks' off. If a woman needs time away from you, to sort her thoughts out, then she's not the one. Sorry kiddo. You seam like a good person, but don't fool your self now for a load of hurt later. bless your heart.
Sorry, I disagree with the above
In reference to the above post, there seems to be a lot of anger involved, which indicates they've been hurt. While some women may be of bad character, it isn't fair to lump all American or all white women, or all women of color, or all women of any kind into a single group, of that one opinion.
Most women are loyal, trustworthy and loving; it's the few who aren't that give the rest of us a bad name. That post also makes "American" seem like a bad thing. America certainly doesn't have the market cornered on infidelity, nor do women. Did they once stop to think that more marriages end in divorce because it's the husband who cheated on the wife, than the other way around? Apparently not.
Also, just because a woman says she needs a week to her self, does NOT mean she is up to no good. There could be many, many reasons for her needing some time to herself. Maybe she has a medical problem that has to be taken care of and doesn't want to tell the guy about it, for what ever reason (it IS her body). Maybe she does need a few days to herself to decide where she wants to go with her life. Maybe she has a friend who needs her. Maybe she's just tired and needs a break from EVERY one. The list could go on and on with many legitimate, yet honest reasons she would want a few days to her self. So to say "if a woman needs time away from you, to sort her feelings out, she's not the one" is clearly a biased opinion, and not fair to women in general.
Being a girl myself, I have often felt over-crowded and smothered by my boyfriend. I love him to bits but sometimes he can become a bit too obsessive and I normally sit down and talk to him about how I feel and we try and work things out.
No relationship is perfect and sometimes I go a week without making contact (physically and through phone calls etc.) It doesn't mean that I love him any less, or that I'm cheating on him. I wouldn't dream of it.
Sometimes, if I need to spend time with mum (she has breast cancer), my boyfriend can become jealous because he constantly wants to be around me. That's when I decide to take time out from him.
I have considered breaking up with him but just taking time out seems to improve our relationship and helps him to understand what I really need. I really wouldn't be too concerned about your girlfriend, she most probably just needs some space.
I said that to my boyfriend to a couple months ago. I still loved him but he just wasn't giving me enough time just to let me hang out just me and my buddies. So don't take it personally just give her space.
Another view:
Look bro - I feel ya..... but I too need my own time away from my lady.. my love ... the one that makes me happy just to wake up. The woman I want to be with for the rest of my life yet I am such a coward that I can't tell her that because it may force me into a place that I am afraid of. ............... ya know .... I just may chat w/ her about this ...... when I am sober.
gkasi's view
i think in as much as we can have different perceptions over the case above,its important to realise that the most important thing one can do is to be real with themselves by knowing what they really want in love,a girl asking for time off is welcome so long as its for the good of her and also for the guy.
I am in the same boat bro. I've been dating the same girl for about two years, we had a spell where i was a lil disconnected from her and it made her feel un-loved, she told me she needed some time to think about it, but i didn't give it to her, instead i took her out for a romantic weekend. everything seemed fine till the following week now she says she doesn't know what she wants and she needs time to figure it out again!!!!! I don't know what to think, but I'm staying in a motel room and haven't text or talked to her in three days. It sucks.... I'm pretty sure it's not that she's cheating, she's not that type of girl, the hardest part is the not knowing. I will respect her wishes and give her the space she wants I just hope she makes the right decision..... if not I'll know it wasn't meant to be and I'll move on. as hard as it is I suggest you do the same.
What to do when your boyfriend stands you up on your first date and it is your one week anniversary?
He definitely does not care enough to carry on with this so-called relationship. So I think you should break it off with him because it is not worth your time.
Most men aren't faithful because they like varity. There aren't any strings attached to a "one night affair." If the man is in a committed relationship or married, affairs give him an ego boost. Also, affairs provide a temporary relief from financial trouble, work issues, children & nagging (from the significant other.) I'm not condoning his behavior! When he finally meets the woman of his dreams, karma will be there to greet him!
What does it mean when your boyfriend says he needs time alone?
It could mean he wants to masturbate, look at Porn, or to just have some space. It depends on him.
If you get married in one state but live in another which state's laws govern?
According to the Full Faith and Credit clause of the US Constitution: "Full Faith and Credit shall be given in each State to the public Acts, Records, and judicial Proceedings of every other State. And the Congress may by general Laws prescribe the Manner in which such Acts, Records and Proceedings shall be proved, and the Effect thereof." This is taken to mean that wherever you are in the country, the same legalities about marriage apply, at least for the purposes of what the federal government cares about. So if you live in Wisconsin, but got married during your Las Vegas trip, you're still married in Wisconsin. ==Additional Answer== This is an interesting question. For instance, if two people of the same sex get married in Massachusetts their marriage may not be recognized if they move to another state. Two people of the same sex who travel to Massachusetts to get legally married may not have their marriage recognized at home. If two people who were married in a community property state move to Massachusetts, buy a home and then get divorced, their divorce will proceed under the provisions of Massachusetts law. Generally, the state where you live governs your married life provided that it recognizes your marriage.
Does your ex girlfriend think about you?
Would your ex girlfriend still be thinking about you? Maybe! It all depends if she is thinking if you are going to apologize and ditch the new girl and go back to her.
That is what she is probably thinking! Or if it's the other way around she may be thinking about taking you back.
How can you forget about a girl?
Think about other things. Talking about it to a parent or close friend helps. Just focus on work or school to take your mind off it. Sooner or later the bad thought will go away!
After seven years are you legally separated and or divorce?
No. A separation legal or otherwise does not constitute a legal dissolution of a marriage. The couple or requesting party will need to file a dissolution of marriage (divorce) petition in the state court in their county of residence.
How long does it take an ex to come back?
what did you do for that to happen? me and my ex dated 3 years we broke up for the first time he says he wonts to give it a try but were starting to fight alot and sometimes its because of me and my insecurity's about being broke up and he tends to act like he is okay with it but at times it shows. what should i do what did you do for your ex to see that's he or she misses you?
what did you do for that to happen? me and my ex dated 3 years we broke up for the first time he says he wonts to give it a try but were starting to fight alot and sometimes its because of me and my insecurity's about being broke up and he tends to act like he is okay with it but at times it shows. what should i do what did you do for your ex to see that's he or she misses you?
What are the signs to look for that your long-term boyfriend is gay?
Ask him. :) If you and your boyfriend go to the movies and there is a guy sitting between you two, then that would be a pretty good indication!!
a lot of time men who r gay paint there nials and things like that but if you go to the movies with friends and your boyfriend just happens to be sitting next to a guy then that does not awlays mean that he is gay
What does it mean when a guy says i feel like you belong to someone better then me?
to many people that i know say that it means that the guy isn't
worth staying with and that he is somone that doesn't deserve a good women which he does deserve one
