Cheating

Most people want what they know they can't/shouldn't have. Guys who are available, are less appealing than guys who are married because the adrenaline is a rush when you are trying to sneak around behind the spouses back. :)

Only your husband can answer that question. Human beings have a variety of feelings toward other human beings and whether those feelings are acted on by solidifying a relationship is quite individual. but why even ask? are you suspicious?

Shoplifting is a major problem in today. The temptation of not paying for something, just hiding it away and saving your own money is a large factor for some people. The culprit just thinks he's getting a product for free and doesn't know what he's actually doing to himself and the community. Shoplifting effects everyone, yourself and the everyone in the local neighborhood.In this essay I'm going to explain some of the circumstances of stealing from local stores, or any store. After I've been caught stealing I found out how wrong it is and how it is a disadvantage to everyone.

The stores are tying to crack down on shoplifters by making the punishments as strict as possible. Shoplifting effects the community in a big way. The stores get about three cents per every dollar purchased for an item. So if you figure that they don't make a whole lot of money out of profit. Every shoplifter that takes a product also is taking the product, which costs money by the store so that is also a set back and puts them more in debt. Some stores might even close down because of shoplifters making the store go bankrupt.

The stores usually raise there prices and then causes more shoplifting, but the people that don't shoplift just end up having to pay more for the product or else go somewhere else to shop. If the customer goes to a different store because of the rising prices the store will also lose business therefore could cause them to go out of business if enough customers leave.

Lie about it.

If it did the divorce rate would be astronomical....that or I have a very forgiving woman. No. If this person is only a friend then no it is not cheating. If you were uncomfortable about telling your significant other about meeting this friend then I would say you should not meet alone.

There are a number of reasons. They could enjoy the thrill of cheating and getting away with something, they could be unsatisfied with their partners and fulfilling their needs elsewhere, they could be stuck in a love triangle where they care for both men equally, they could be getting revenge, they could have been made to be with one guy by influence of their family/friends and cheating on him with the guy she likes, and so on.

Sometimes they are not sure how you feel about them anymore, maybe you havent said I love you, in awhile. So they feel alone and the only way they can forget about you for a moment is to cheat on you.

Because they think another girl is prettier and like her better than you but think you have a good figure and they just think that they are better thatn anyone else in the world. I THINK MY BOYFREIND IS CHEATING ON ME WAT SHOULD I DO I NOW HE LOVE ME

Tell them to get a lie detector test. Just the fact of mentioning that should allow the detector to get an accurate result. However people can trick themselves to actually believe they are telling the truth, depending on the event.

• No spouse should have to put up with their spouse cheating or continuing to cheat. You can sit down with your husband and tell him you refuse to put up with his cheating and if he continues then you will file for divorce. No man or woman in a marriage is to stay in a marriage where one is disloyal. You should have self confident enough to know what you want and do not want in your life.

Because he wants his "cake and icecream" too

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There are some married men that will not leave their affair partner, some of their reason will be; this other woman is so different than his wife. He already fell in love with her and afraid to loose her. His affair partner is more understanding than his wife. They will also say that she knows how to make time for him. his wife never had time because she is to busy with the children.

They will say that intimacy or sex hardly happen, they will also say that their wife always nagging and complaining. There's a lot more reason why some married men will never let go their affair partner.

If you suspect that he is, the only way to really know is to sit down and talk to him about it. If you have a strong relationship, you'll know even if he isn't telling you the truth. Okay, stop and think for a moment. Your asking us this question and we don't know him. Your best bet is to ask yourself this question. Do you see signs that he is gay? Does he refuse to have sex with you? Only you can answer these quesitons. Only he knows the real truth. I personally was married to a guy that I didn't suspect he was gay until after a couple of years of being married. He wanted anal sex. Wow. The light bulb went off and I flat out ask him. He lied of course and after a few years we divorced. I was affraid of getting aids from him and he started cheating with another woman anyway. He lied about that too. Imagine that. At work there is this guy I have seen there for over 5 years and I could swear he was gay and he was married too. However, he and everyone else swore he wasn't. Well about 6 months ago the looser came out of the closet and treated his ex-wife like crap and talked badly about her. What an idiot. He lied to her, himself and before God. Gay guys are for the most part in denial. Then get all Tyra Banks on you when their called on their lies. If you really suspect it then your probably right. Who knows. Just be happy. It's a very emotionally draining situation and you should be happy. No one can make that happen but yourself. There are a few good books written concerning this topic. "The Straight Up Truth About The Down-Low" and "Straight Wives, Shattered Lives". Both books have stories of women who were married to gay men. The first books goes into the warning signs in great detail. Go to Amazon.com and purchase the books and you may see yourself in the women's stories. Good Luck to you.

Answer You really haven't asked a question, you've made a statement but if you want an opinion, I just hope for the two of you that no children are involved because if this gets out what will happen to the children because one of you couldn't keep a zipper closed and one of you didn't have the comon sense to keep your legs closed. Personally and this has nothing to do with Wiki Answers, but my personal opinion is that the two of you couldn't care less who either of you hurt as long as you get your jollies. What a shameful way for two adults to act. Shame on the both of you.

• It depends on the individual man as to why he stays after he caught his wife cheating: This could be the first time she cheated and he may have forgiven her (anyone can make one bad mistake); he wants to work at the marriage and try to save it as they both took their vows when they got married (marriage is hard work at not for sissies); he may have cheated himself and doesn't feel he can fault her in her actions and lastly, he loves her a great deal and want to try to make the marriage work.

First off, what has caused you to believe he's cheating? Phone calls, more "overtime" at a job? Ask him casually who was on the phone, or after one of his extended absences from you, ask him how his co-worker/buddy is doing. Check phone bills, credit card statements, mileage on his car for discrepancies. If you're that desperate to know, you can hire a private detective agency (they can be expensive). You can confront him, but more than likely he will retort with denial, anger and possibly accustations, "you're crazy," "maybe you're cheating,". So be prepared for that and make your decision about the future of the relationship beforehand.

by taking the advantage out of wining.

If your boyfriend disrespects you and insults you then he is no boyfriend at all. No girl deserves that from no guy what so ever. Just like its not right for a girl to do that towards her boyfriend. All couples have their moments at what they say to one another, but there are specific things you can say and there are specific things that are unexceptible to say. This works towards the male and female. The moment he disrespects you and insults you for 1: the respect is gone 2. the question of if he still "loves" you is not even a question at all. I feel if a man disrespects and insults his girl what love is that, that's no love at all. Love is a word with much meaning, and it means alot , so please don't disregard the word love, but it is just a word. Its how your treated and how his actions towards you are to what counts (with all the rest included, but that being just one the top number one's) . What I think you should do is discuss this matter with him. Let it be known that you don't except that and stand up for yourself and be proud of who you are. When a man starts to do this he is trying to chip away at your selfesteem, when its wrong and unexceptible. Why he's doing this only God knows, but one of the major reasons is that he's not happy within himself. This is a red flag and not a relationship for you. Girl stick up for yourself and don't ever be afraid too. God Bless.

hey this is kalley dashner and i am a girl but they want boy's to look at them and that is the truth i have been thro a alot and i know everything in the world and somtimes they look so hot boy's do not fall for the trick ok

hey this is kalley dashner and i am a girl but they want boy's to look at them and that is the truth i have been thro a alot and i know everything in the world and somtimes they look so hot boy's do not fall for the trick ok

that is true but why do they want boy's to love them. whell, you girls want to be perfect as posibile for a guy to like you.

• If your spouse has only cheated once then realize that people are only human and they can make mistakes, but can also learn from their mistakes and if they confess without being prodded to the cheating or they feel remorseful and want to save the marriage then seek marriage counseling to learn tools to strengthen the marriage. If your spouse has cheated more than once then they probably are non committal and will cheat again no matter what they promise. As humans we do not even know ourselves 100% so we cannot be expected to know another person 100% and by being together it is a risk, but time will tell.

COULD BE THE MOST OBVIOUS THAT HE LIKES YOU OR KNOW SOME HOW YOU LIKE HIM (IF YOU DO). BE CAREFUL IF YOUR INTENTIONS ARE NOT OF DESTROYING THAT RELATIONSHIP THEN PERSUE YOUR FREINDSHIP OR ASSOCIATION WITH THAT GUY VERY CAUSIOUSLY. IF YOUR NOT INTERESTED THEN TRY NOT TO LOOK WHEN HE KISSES HER. THE FACT THAT YOU KNOW HE LOOKS AT YOU WHEN HE DOES THAT IS BECAUSE YOUR LOOKING AT HIM AT THAT MOMENT AND THAT CAN BE WHY HE LOOKS. NOT LOOKING DEMONSTRATES TO HIM A LACK OF INTEREST AND MAYBE IT WON'T HAPPEN ANY MORE. IF YOU LIKE HIM AND WANT TO KNOW IF HE'S INTERESTED IN YOU, IT'S PRETTY OBVIOUS THAT HE IS. KNOW ASK YOURSELF THIS, UP TO WHAT POINT DO YOU WANT TO BE THE ONE LOOKING OR BE THE ONE BEING KISSED. JUST REMEMBER DON'T DO ONTO OTHERS WHAT YOU DON'T WANT TO ONE DAY HAPPEN TO YOU. GOOD LUCK BYE BYE.

No, talk to your own spouse follow the "chain of command" Think about it, are you wanting to mend fences or ruin trust irrevocably? What good would come of it?

Yes you should, it will, if nothing else - put an end to it. You maybe surprised at what information his wife may have. I had to do that with my situation - call the girl's husband. Come to find out, this guy had already hired a detective and had way more info than I what I had. Anyway, it ended at that point. Once it hits his home, he will no longer want to deal with your wife.

Thats a definite yes. That way you can gang up on them or maybe catch them in the act. Then they can't lie their way out. OR, even better, if she is hot maybe you could arrange for the two of them to walk in on the two of you...

No--you should think about how to deal with your marriage? Do you want to stay married to your wife or get a divorce? This man can screw up his marriage by himself--don't get involved in someone else's private business.

Be angered at the man you wife is having an affair with, but don't drag his wife or children through the mud. His wife may turn on you and blame you as the bearer of bad news, or she may already know about her husband's affair and not care.

YOU SHOULD NOT definately. You ask why? Well if ur marriage is being ruined by some other man and YOUR WIFE(dont forget this), you should not try to revenge and destroy his wife marriage coz you will be worst then him! If you are that mad then face him in person and do something if you belive its worthy. But its never worthy belive me (coz you can do something that you will regret afterwards)! If you wanna keep the marriage try to talk to your wife, and if it doesnt work just finish it. But dont forget, if u try to ruin his wife marriage you will be worst then him and you will face much more consequences. Keep your dignity up! Dont let them pull you down!

No, dont tell her. Just seduce her and get revenge ... hehe.

yes you should tell her! how do you feel right now knowing she cheated on you and what happends whe he goes and gets aids with some other girl you might be saving his wife life, would you tell of bridge being out or would you watch the car fall of the bridge ??

What many people do not understand is any of the people involved might have the legal grounds to file a civil actions against any of the other parties. Unless the evidence is indisputable as to the infidelity, numerous legal difficulties can arise.

Yes! Exposure kills most infidelities especially if the families and friends of the cheating participants are well informed. The cheaters will not get any support for their adulterous behavior. Affairs need secrecy and ignorance to thrive so exposure and knowledge of its existence will destroy it.

The answer is up to you and what you want. Do you want revenge, do you want to pump up the drama or do you want to find a way to resolve the issues with the marriage. If you want revenge and more drama, yes then calling the man will start that fire. Any satisfaction from confronting him will be short lived and resolve nothing. Otherwise, you will be better off dealing with the real culprit, you wife. The marriage needs help and she is half of that. How you two work it out is up to you two, not three.

Often times a cheating boyfriend will not leave because he feels a sense of comfort with you. He may not be happy, but he knows that you will always be there. The real question to ask here should be why would you not leave your cheating boyfriend. Feelings of helplessness may be to blame. However, it is important to accept the situation for what it is and to move on...without him.

Yes its okay to feel hurt over an ex boyfriend getting a new girlfriend but you just have to move on and let them know you have moved on. Try to stay friends with your ex even if its hard. You cannot let him having a new girlfriend get to you. Try going out with some friends on a fun night and let them take your mind off him. It really helps if you just be around him with total confidence so he will know that you aren't one of those crazy people who are always around their ex. keep it real :D

Depends what your asking him if you are asking him like personal questions about them or stuff about them doing stuff they shouldn't then most likely he is just standing up for his friends but if your just asking normal questions i would say probably he might be hiding something... maybe