Cheating

• Married or not most men look at other women, but some are just more sneaky about it and it's normal. Women often look at men as well. If your husband is continuously looking at women while with you and makes any inappropriate comments then let him know how you feel and that you don't like it.
  

Sometimes this can happen and if he's been good since then I wouldn't worry. However, because you are asking the question it appears you have a gut instinct he's up to his old tricks. I believe in listening to gut instincts. Once a person cheats on another there is a trust issue and the relationship seldom will last the test of time.

There is no sure fired way to find out, but by asking him straight out! Watch his eyes (the windows of our soul.) If he avoids eye contact or shifts his eyes (or even stares intensely ... stares you down) then he's lying. Watch his body language! If he shifts from foot-to-foot or goes off into another room. Listen to what he's saying! If he calls you stupid for even thinking that and makes a big fuss and flies into a rage, you bet he's cheating. If he just says, "Quite being so silly, I'm not cheating!" then he could well be telling you the truth. The only other signs are phone calls and when you answer no one is there. If he has unexplained phone #'s on his cell, or he's talking to other women over the internet. The smell of perfume on his clothes or lipstick marks. Bodily marks such a "hickeys" (blue bruises on his neck) or scratches on his chest or back. If he says he's taking you out, but never does and misses important events in your life such as your birthday. If he doesn't want to have anything to do with your family and friends. Check out his Visa bill and if you see motels/hotels on there, question him about it. Good luck Marcy

It depends on something called the "Emotional Bank Account".

Each good thing that someone does for you makes a deposit into the emotional bank account. Each bad thing is a withdrawal.

The question is this; has your boyfriend made enough "deposits" into your emotional bank account that he can make a huge withdrawal like cheating on you, without "overdrawing" the account? Have you discussed it with him? Has he promised not to do it again?

Really, the decision is yours. If he has cashed out your "emotional bank account", then it's time to move on.

• The cheating spouse often feels guilty, but for most who get caught it is not because they feel sorry for what they did, but angry that they were caught. Some spouses may feel they are stuck with their mate or, the victim of cheating may not want to grant a divorce so the cheating spouse may push and shove to make life miserable for the victim of cheating and force them to divorce them.
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• Quite simple, it's not about the guilt his feeling but trying to make sure if you fought back, he will have a reason to get out of the house and head to the other person's home

maybe. If the affair is finally over and she is ready to recommit. If you threaten to leave her, it will shake her up and she will get out of the cloud of an affair. maybe. If the affair is finally over and she is ready to recommit. If you threaten to leave her, it will shake her up and she will get out of the cloud of an affair.

Some men love their mistresses, but not every man will. Most men stay with their wives and families because, though having a mistress can be fun and different, they discover that they really do love their original wives the most.

Can a dead person come back to life? My answer is "yes, but...". The Bible records several accounts of dead people coming back to life. Jesus Christ raised Lazarus from the dead (John 11:1-44), He also raised the only son of a widow from Nain (Luke 7:11-14) and the daughter of Jairus was also raised from the dead (Mark 5:22-43) not forgetting that Jesus Christ himself was raised from the dead. So the dead can truly live again but this has to be an act of God. It is not automatic for every dead, it has to be by God's absolute decision. The Bible says that He does whatever He pleases. He has the power to kill, keep alive or bring back to life. Moses and Elijah were seen again with Jesus on the mountain (Matthew 17:1-4). This also was by God's permission. However, i want you to know that there are two sides to everything. The devil is a deceiver and all he does is to tell lies and deceive people. I believe that some demons take on the physical forms of dead people to live among men. This, they do, to deceive men and to finish some unfulfilled tasks. So beside God permiting a dead person to live again (which He can do anytime), the dead will remain dead while the soul waits for judgment that comes on the Judgment Day.

the only true way is to make sure you are completely in love before the sex. if you wait to have sex and know its for love- why would your mate leave you? unless of course either of you get bored. but how could you be bored if you are truly in love. Cheaters are only sex-hungry people. so, if you choose a man that is not sex hungry than you will be fine

its that feeling that you get in the morning that hes the only person that you want to see today and you dream about him all the time day night and in your dreams but all i can really say is you will only know VANESSA RODRIGUEZ

If you're not sleeping around, then more than likely the problem is with him and not you. He may have issues that cause him to be insecure and suspicious. He may not love himself and may not be able to fully accept your love. He may not have been properly loved as a child and can't understand what faithful and loyal love is. His parents may have cheated on each other and he's grown to believe that lovers cheat. He may be cheating himself and feels that if he can do it, you might do it, too...It could be lots of things. Try to sit down with him and have a heart to heart discussion about it. Hopefully communication will help him to break through some of his barriers and take steps to trusting you.

Girls usually cheat on guys be because you have either done something to them to make them want to cheat or they just feel bored with you, if they want more then what they are getting, don't give in to anything your not ready for, if she is pressuring you then maybe she is not worthy Enough to have you, don't worry tho you will fond the right girl, you just gotta keep looking:)

I would guess the reason why could be that he wants to keep his mistress and his wife at the same time. he doesn't want to loose you and at the same time he needs to make amends to his wife, so if the wife wanted a divorce, he will not loose money because of their children

Just imagine if he can keep his wife and if he can't have sex with her, he knows where to go, you as the mistress. And for a mistress, she don't have the rights to wonder why her married man wanted to save his marriage.

It works both ways. Girls can do this too. It's because some young people lack confidence. The person may feel they have to make their mate jealous to prove to themselves their mate actually loves them, when, in fact, it can cause a lot of problems. Even while young if you love each other there is no need to try and make each other jealous. If you are going with a guy that flirts and tries to make you jealous let him know loud and clear that you are a one guy kind of woman and he'd best get on the right track or you are going to walk out on the relationship. When you're in love each of you should come first in the other's life. Amen to that ^ !!!! haha =)

The best thing you can do is to not date a cheater. If they cheat on you while dating they will most likely cheat on you if you get married. Cheaters are liars and selfish. There are plenty of good, honest people out there, find one for yourself.

I take dogging someone out as mistreating them or using them or making a fool of them. When someone is dogged out they are mistreated to the point where they're at their lowest, and most of the time, they don't even realize it because they are so used to it. Someone can be dogged out sexually, mentally, or emotionally.

Shes obviously hanging on to him for some reason, if she wanted you 100% she would have left him, you cant make her do it, its her choice. you cant "get her" to leave him, if she really wanted to be with you, she'd have left him ages ago..

no because if there cheating you stay away from them and don't get involved in anything the person does anymore. they would kick you out if you did that and they wouldn't like you anymore. even if there not talking to you already they will hurt you even more then they already are.

If you are asking that question seriously, You should do her a big favour and dump her, definitely, or else she may end up stuck with you.

• Yes, when your husband has had an affair and been recently caught your wounds are still fresh because he has broken that bond of trust. For the first time you are looking at your husband in disbelief and with a new perception of him. The trust is gone and until he can earn it back then you will never feel quite the same about him again because you will fear he will have another affair. It is important to seek marriage counseling and to get your husband to communicate with you more openly. Both men and women around the beginning of their 40's and sometimes older may feel they are missing something; want to recapture their youth and want to know the opposite sex is still interested in them. If your husband has not had an affair before and now that he has been caught there is a good chance he will never do it again, but you both have to approach the problem he has in the marriage in a calm manner no matter how much he has hurt you.

If your really sure that your husband is cheating, one easy way to find out is hire a detective which will cost you money. Second is just go to him and ask him face to face so that way he will know that you know. But if the two of you is not on speaking term all you have to do is pay attention to everything his doing.

Most of the times us wives really can't tell if our husband is having an affair. But if we do want to know all the answer is right in front of us.

1- he will be taking a shower every single day

2- when he comes home and he look fresh like just got out of the shower

3- see if your husband cell phone is always in his pocket and on vibrate or silence

4- check his computer if he always change the password or always off when you are

coming to talk to him

5- how often does he comes home late

6- any change in intimacy

Over all you are the only one that can tell if he is acting different when his with you.