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Cheating

This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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Why does ex girlfriend ask for advice?

When a ex girlfriend (or boyfriend maybe) askes you for advice, she probably just thinks that your wise enough to answer her questions because she thinks she knows you so well.She probably thinks that you and her would be able to conect a lot better then you both would with other people. If you want my advice,then do this : see if you can answer any of her questions, try to connect. If you try to help, it will make your relationship stronger. All it can do is make your relationship stronger. Even if your just friends, talking with her will then make your friendship stronger. If you dont want anything to do with this girl be sure to push her away, dont answer any of her questions, in fact just let her walk away on her own.

What is a waiata?

A waiata is a Maori song performed at special occasions eg. Powhiri.

What should you do if your husband's best friend a girl kissed him passionately and he didn't push her away he told you about it and they still want to be friends?

he kissed his female best friend. that is a form of cheating, especially since he didn't stop her. if it happens again it could lead even further. the fact that they want to remain friends is not good on your part because it could lead to other chances of them kissing again or going further as I mentioned. You need to tell your husband that since he crossed the line with kissing this so called best friend that he shouldn't have anything to do with her anymore. you need to let him know that you trusted him enough to have a female friend and he broke that trust. ask him how would he feel if the tables were turned and it was you who had a male friend that kissed you but you didn't push him away.

His wife found out about his cheating but did not breakup with him why?

Because she must really love him. And believe that he wont do it ever again.

Should someone who cheated on their partner with several people for several years keep that a secret if they want to change and stay in that relationship?

I think if you really want to change, this means get active. Go to counselling perhaps to figure out why you cheat and what measures you need to take to not put yourself in these situations. I would not tell my spouse. If you are honest about change and never do it again, you should not tell them. Unless, there is a chance they may have got a disease.

My guy friend who got married still chats with me through the internet does it mean he's cheating with his wife?

That would depend upon the topic and how long and how often you were chatting. You must have some pangs of guilt or you would not have brought the question up. Why not keep this relationship on the back burner and allow him time to establish a sharing relationship with his new wife.

Can you still like your ex-boyfriend?

yes as friends and nothing more and tell him that

What woman want love penis big or small?

Most women want to be loved. With the right man, penis size is not that big of a deal for most women. It's how you use it.

If you catch your boyfriend trying to cheat on you should you break up even if you think you love him also never said he did?

  • It appears the two of you are too immature to have any serious relationships in your life right now. He is trying to cheat and you just think you love him. People who truly love someone don't think they just love them and they do not cheat on that person.

Something inside of me is making me feel like my girlfriend is cheating on me I cheated on her like 4yrs ago but now for some weird reason I feel like she hiding something from me whats wrong with me?

The feeling sucks doesn't it? There are always signs to look out for if you believe your partner is cheating on you. They can be something as simple as buying new undergarments to changing their sexual habits. When it is a 'friend' relationship, it is harder to check up on them. You can't check their cell phone records and can't check the bank records (expensive meals out without you). The best way is to just come out and ask. If she has already been down this road with you before then she will know how you are feeling. But chances are that if you are having that 'cheating' feeling then there are other signs that you should be looking for. It could just be guilt coming up because you know what you did and you think she may do it back to get even. Don't get paranoid about it just carry on for now and see what happens.

Should you go on vacation without your girlfriend?

Obviously you should do what you want to do. Not what society tells you or your girlfriend tells you. However. Maybe your girlfriend might think this a reason to split up with you. She might question why you would not want to be together. She might think that you don't really want to spend time with her. She might think someone else could suit her better. You have phrased the question in a strange way. I'm wondering why you didn't ask "Should you go on holiday with your girlfriend?" or something else. Can you give us a little more background to this question?

Why do married men look at other women?

  • For most men they will look at other women and just because they are married doesn't mean they can't appreciate a nice looking woman. Married women can also look at other men and some certainly do, but as long as the man and wife just look and don't touch it's all very normal. Just because a married man looks at other women does not mean he is being unfaithful.

If a wife cuts off her husband from sex intimacy and has had an affair and only stays in the home to save money to leave is the husband wrong for having an affair?

yes.two wrongs do not make a right. Thou shalt not covert thou neighbors wife /husband.

I would say that the marriage is clearly over is its clear the wife is only home to save money and is leaving. Discuss it and end it. If you like another person, be honest and let them know what is going on. If they want to continue seeing you then I dont see it as a problem unless the affair is going to complicate the divorce.

My boyfriend regularly sends love songs to his ex girlfriend. It hurts because he never send one to me. Do you think he still loves his ex?

well just try some tests like:

  1. do you still love me?
  2. r u in love with someone else?
  3. r u cheatin on me?
  4. Why u asked me out?
  5. will you go back to your ex.

WRITE IN YOUR PAPER(PIECE OF PAPER)

Can priests have children?

Under certain conditions, yes:

1.) If the man was married and had children and his wife died and he then becomes a priest the children are still his.

2.) If a priest from another religion (eg: Orthodox, Anglican) is married with children and then converts to Catholicism and becomes a Catholic priest, he may remain married and keep his children.

Is it of for a husband to call a lady friend at 5 AM with out his wife knowing?

Since hthe husband didn't notify his wife that he was speaking with another woman at an early time, it would be seen as cheating but if the husband asked before the calling to see if his wife would approve of it than it be alright. Plus calling another woman at that early of a time would make it sound like he's cheating.

How do you tell your girlfriend that im not going to cheat on her again?

Well, you cheated on her, right? How, in her mind, does that mean that you will cheat on her, but not lie to her about not doing it again? If I were her, I would run from you as fast as I could.

How can you print out your texts?

ANSWER:

The only way you can do it is if you forward your text to your email address, and from there you can collect everything ans save it so you can print it to your advantage. Try it it may work.

Can you ever regard an affair as a mistakes in our lives?

Yes we are all subjected to our individual lusts. Even though we know its wrong we may not realize it directly because our libido blocks our sense of right from wrong when we disregard the love of a companion.

ANSWER:

Yes an affair is a big mistakes we all do in our lives, no matter how you look at it. Some will have this explanation why they did it, (aka ,my wife don't fulfill my needs anymore, or my husband doesn't make no time for me anymore). But here is the reality when it comes to affairs, no one put a gun in our head so we can force our self to have an affair and hurt the people we love. Man or woman who decide to enter that path knows what they are doing, if they don't they will be with their spouse having a normal and happy life. Believe me when it regard to having affair, it is and will always be a huge mistakes.

Why does your man keep on coming back after he said its over but you are friends with benefits only?

* This guy is not worth the hide he resides in! He is controlling you and has no respect for you. Some young women don't realize that by taking back an ex mate who admits the relationship is over and just wants a sexual relationship is prostituting themselves, but at least a prostitute knows who she is and earns money from it. This so-called man is using you for sexual purposes only and it's time you wised up and got a life of your own and tell this guy to hit the road! If you don't have respect for yourself you will not receive it from others.

Why can't you get over an affair your wife had 10 years ago?

Because you don't fully understand what caused it. If you understood completely, and were confident in your own skin, you'd be able to forgive. She did it because she needed love, she craved attention, she felt neglected, or hurt, or some other emotion. You need to talk -- not about what happened during the affair, because that's an image you'll never get out of your mind -- but about what happened, moment by moment, in her mind, to make it okay. What was she feeling about you at the time? What needs did she have unmet? What rationalizations did she make?

If you can have that conversation, without being defensive or accusatory, if you can cry together for the loss, then you'll be able, at some point, to forgive. Ten years is a long time to bear this burden. For both of you.

Another AnswerUnderstand that ten years ago, she was in a different place to where she is now, things werent right for her, she made bad choices in life, hurt the person she loved yes. But now she has learned from this experience, grown from it, she understands the pain she has caused and knows how it feels to live with this eternal internal guilt, a guilt that has never been forgiven.

This woman has stuck by your side, living day in- day out with the knowledge of how much you resent her, have hated her even, knowing that deep down you have never forgiven her. I bet there has been many times that she has cried herself to sleep over this. And many, many times she has felt your disgust, your rejection, and felt your cold shoulder turned away her when she needed you most. And still she stays by your side? Can't you see how much she needs your forgiveness?

Isn't it time that you turned around and finally see this woman for what she is now - a strong, guilt ridden, rejected, hurt woman who pays every day for a mistake she made a long, long time ago, a mistake that has never been forgiven by the man she loves so much? Isn't it time you accepted the truth of what you now do to her every day? I think its time, don't you?

If you can't do this, then set her free from these chains.