Cheating

im a boy, but i think you should talk to him. ask him where he was when he was going with the other girl. and then tell him about the email u read. u should break up with him, but if you really like him, try to work it out. Hope this helps!!

• People are only human and since it has only happened once with your wife it could well have been a mistake that she regrets. Some women are curious, while others may be drinking and do things they wouldn't normally do. However, it is still classed as cheating sleeping with the same sex. Once the bond of trust is broken it is difficult to trust that person again, but time heals. Since you have two children you need to sit down with your wife and tell her that she needs to seek psychological counseling and you will back her 100%. She needs to know who she is and what she wants out of life before she ruins her marriage. This will also put your mind at rest.
  
• That's the problem is that she doesn't have any explanation of why she did it. I try to find out what caused this. No answer.. She has told me that it was nothing that I did wrong to drive her to this. That I am a good husband and father. But that doesn't set my mind at ease. I am a fixer and if she could tell me what I have done wrong then I could try to fix it. But not knowing is killing me. Also her sex drive was doubled when she did this towards me. Was that just guilty sex to make her feel better about what she did. Searching for answers.....

They are emotionally disturbed , and probably have been abused and cheated on in previous relationships. This will most likely require professional intervention.

only if the wife is stupid enough to take him back!

ANSWER:

Some do and some don't especially if they find out that the grass on the other side of the road is not really greener. Some do because they will also find another new woman after getting bored with the woman they were cheated with.

No, you can tell them until you are blue in the face. You can stand on your head, click your heals together, do a little twist and they won't hear a word you're saying. All they will hear is that you are wrong for even thinking that they are less than perfect. It's the truth I know, I've lived with a narcissist.

you can go to a clinic and get some tests done or you can tell if you repeatedly have sex without a condom but don't get pregnant.

There is no cure.

Prevention is to avoid all sexual and/or blood contact with any person who has the disease.

No, it is not true. Dreams do not determine nor predict human behavior. Long before the dream occurred, you probably had some suspicions about your bf's behavior. It may be that you had been in denial for some time, ignoring signs of his unfaithfulness. The dream merely brought the obvious signals to your attention.

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You should conclude the fact that you are incapable of emotionally satisfying him and end the engagement and move on with your life.

he gets mad when u go out starts asking questions

Tu as (or "vous avez" politely) de beaux yeux.

A famous quote of Jean Gabin to Michèle Morgan in the movie "Quai des Brumes"

T'as d'beaux yeux, tu sais.

* Be sure the girl is not related to him such as a cousin, etc. Probably not, but communication is everything so be blunt enough to ask him why he refuses to delete the girl's phone number and if he refuses to discuss this with you then tell him that the relationship is over if he can't trust you by answering your question. When two people date on a steady basis they should not have other girls or buys phone numbers on their cell. This relationship is in trouble anyway. Someone wants far more control than she is entitled to. He has a right to have any number he wants in his phone, and should not have to explain them as long as you have no reason to believe he is using them inappropriately. If you think he is cheating, see the first sentence.

Blame yourself, not your Mom. If you didn't love him, you were foolish to have kids with him. This is more common than one would think. At the time we don't realize we are perhaps marrying for all the wrong reasons. Still, you made a commitment and unless you are fighting with each other constantly and he is a good man, stay until the kids are older. If things are really rough between you then it's time to sit down and discuss where you want to go with your marriage ... kids or no kids. Children need a healthy environment. Once people have children, then it's a huge commitment (larger than most think) so you have to put them first and yourself second. There are many couples out there that split soon after their children have left home. They basically remained friends until the time they could be free of their responsibilities to their children.

he just dont like u.

• Because you don't keep your promises ... you promised at the wedding ceremony before God that you would be there for your spouse in sickness and in health and obviously you aren't mature enough to keep that promise. It is an absolute myth that men cannot go without a sexual relationship for months to years if their spouse is very ill and his main concern would be to help support her emotionally or try with all his might to get the best help medically possible. Many men are loyal and true to their spouse. Men that hit the bricks as soon as their spouse is ill are selfish; disloyal; not a man (or a woman if the case may be) when they don't love that person enough to stay loyal to them. There are times when a spouse can be very ill and will never get better or have a sexual relationship with their spouse and, on the odd occasion there are 'arrangements' made between the two spouses if the man feels the need to have sex in his life. To have a mistress is wrong! Of course you would rather be with your mistress because she's well and you don't have to take on any responsibilities. Go have a good look look at your wife; then look at yourself in the mirror!

* Sorry to say, but you need to sit up and fly right! To put up with your husband cheating with the same woman for five years is enabling the fact he is having his cake and eat it too. It is 'you' that lacks self confidence enough to give your husband a choice ... you or this other woman. If you don't your husband is wasting 'your' life when you could well be rid of him and get on with your life and meet a man that you really should be with. It is unlikely he will leave suddenly to be with this woman, but, he may just up and leave. Some men who have extra marital affairs will get rid of the wife and leave the mistress for his complete freedom. Time to put the boots to him and give 'him' something to think about!

You might get into depression because of that. You might get your face changed badly because you cannot sleep at night. You might also hurt yourself because of that.

he is asexual

• When a spouse gives their other spouse all their love; trust and loyalty they always feel their spouse will do the same so when the spouse has an affair it comes as a shock to the other spouse. It is heartbreaking; that treasured bond of trust you once had in your spouse has gone and not easily earned back. It is normal to envision your cheating spouse being with someone else and enjoying themselves and it makes you question yourself as far as 'did I do something wrong; perhaps not enough and I let my partner down'; 'is our sexual relationship not good enough and did I do anything wrong; to 'does my cheating spouse think I am not attractive enough' or in some cases 'have I lost my looks and I'm too old and they don't want me anymore.' This makes the victim of a cheating spouse feel insecure and eventually they become angry and resentful and find it difficult to forgive their spouse for the cheating; the victim cannot feel sympathy for their spouse; the victim has a deep seated urge to pay back their cheating spouse for all the hurt he/she caused them and this in turn involves a poor sexual relationship because the victim feels when their cheating spouse is making love they are still thinking of the other person they cheated with. Marriage counseling can help, but it is entirely up to you (you hold the power) to either move on from the marriage or see a marriage counselor to learn the tools to deal with any problems in your marriage, but it takes the both of you to make it work. As far as your trust in your spouse it will take time and it is entirely up to them to earn that trust again.

To date, Darth Vader, Skeletor and Megatron. She has a thing for evil guys. Oh, and robots.

because men r chichora

• Just because your husband has a bank account with another woman's name on it doesn't necessarily mean that he has been cheating. It could well be a relative such as an aunt or someone else in the family who needs assistance in their finances. If you know the full name of the woman then check it out first by looking in the phone directory to see if her name is there or, hire a detective for those times your husband is not around and may be cheating before accusing your husband of cheating. If you cannot find out who this woman is then confront your husband calmly to find out who it is on the joint account. If it is another woman or he gets angry you know then he probably is cheating and you will have to make your future decision on this.

Humans are not evolved to be a one-mate species. It may be that even though he has a girlfriend, he finds you interesting and doesn't want to overtly display that.

New clothes, a new haircut or a new perfume. Maybe you should have a look at his cell phone bill... if there is a number quite often, try to find out who belongs to the number.