Cheating

If that occurs, then both sides lose.

If that occurs, then both sides lose.

If that occurs, then both sides lose.

If that occurs, then both sides lose.

If that occurs, then both sides lose.

If that occurs, then both sides lose.

Not necessarily.

Ask him, or if you're a bit shy try bring up the subject. Good luck :)

I'm afraid it's too late. You should have told your ex girlfriend how you felt and given yourselves a little time, but it appears you just faded off into the sunset without too much of an explanation and I have no doubt she was very hurt. Since she has a boyfriend I'd leave well enough alone. From now on it's adviseable that you communicate your feelings to the person you are with.

Even though you husband seems to be faulting you it sounds like he loves you very much or he wouldn't be there. You are angry at yourself! You don't like who you are and it makes you angry and you don't know what to do about or where to start. I know being 300 lbs., is extremely hard on you physically and more importantly mentally. It's time to see a proper doctor, get on a good diet (Richard Simmons is one of the best for helping people lose weight having had to battle weight issues himself even to this day.) You need counseling and some help. I know you want to feel better and look better. Quit beating yourself up and get out of that chair and do something about it. At first it will feel like you are dragging lead weights on each foot, but the more you get going on a good healthy diet, get exercise (through a good therapist ... don't just take off to a gym) you will feel so much better about yourself. Please get a good physical first and have them do a T3/T4 thyroid test on you, and to check out other glands as well to be sure this is not your problem. Your heart, blood pressure should also be checked out before starting any diet or exercising. Good luck .... YOU CAN DO IT! Marcy

This is not your problem at all, but your boyfriend's problem! I went through the same thing with my 2nd husband. We were dating for sometime and we were talking about the future. His sister had been in Australia and she came for a visit and it was the first time she and I had met. My husband and her had been quite close as siblings. His sister and I got along fine while she was visiting, but behind my back she told him not to marry me and even wrote him once back in Australia making him doubt his decision to get married. The long and short of it is, I was ticked off with my boyfriend for not using his own head and listening to her and causing big doubts in our relationship. It almost split us up. Many years later she admitted she was jealous and although she was in Australia she didn't want ANY girl coming between her and her brother. So, you have to have a good blunt talk with that boyfriend of yours and tell him to set things straight with his twin sister or you're going to kick him to the curb. After all, who needs it! When it comes down to the crunch and if he loves you then he'll certainly choose you. If he doesn't, then he doesn't love you and he is weak minded and you've just saved yourself a lot of heartache. Good luck Marcy

If you choose to have an affair while married, it is your choice. It is not your husband's fault that he is not what you think you need. It is better to resolve your issue with your husband, or divorce him before bringing another person into the mix. Truly, you cannot have both to make you whole.

Lying about it and running is always easier than facing the truth.

She either is ashamed, doesn't want to choose, or doesn't know if you can take the truth. Unless you personally witnessed her cheating you can't be sure and she may see your inquiry as just fishing for an admission of possible guilt.

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There are man who loves to play around so when it comes to having lots of friends that's when he ask for telephone numbers to women. It's harmless unless this man will become the " Casanova" So try not worry about it.

Usually by bacteria or fungus growth.

if that's what he said.. he is lien. he knows why he did it but just don't want to tell you the real reason.

not really, because its probably because hes finding stress

Women can be just as so-called cold blooded as men can be. Seems that the % of women cheating is getting close to the men who are. When someone cheats they are in denial and will make all sorts of excuses such as: My wife doesn't look after her looks ... she's gotten fat She's lazy She doesn't care about me She never has time for me I'm not basically #1 in our relationship I deserve better I deserve this affair and my wife's had it coming to her I've warned her I wasn't happy so this affair is OK. If I don't start the affair then I'm OK even if I allow the woman to seduce me Oh yes, there are far more excuses, but I agree with you ... cheating is cheating and it's a rotten shame. If people are that unhappy in their relationship they should have the courage to tell their mate. Why don't they? Because they want their cake and eat it too, just in case they make a mistake. Now here's a good point ... if that same wife who belongs to the cheater went out and cheated on her husband he would be hurt and infuriated even though he knows full well he did the same thing! Isn't that a joke! Some men really do feel guilty (as some women do) and it's usually because the couple has never sat down and communicated their feelings to one another. Communication is the most important thing in a relationship, and we all know men aren't particularly good at this, so it's up to the wife to pull it out of him. By finding out the problem that either one of them might have, or they feel their marriage has become dull, they can come up with many resources to spice things up. Perhaps in-laws or friends could take the kids for a weekend while the couple go away. It's tough when women are either home, working, or raising kids and the men just don't get the fact that they can come home from work, sit in a chair, have a beer or wine and belch to their hearts content, while a woman's work is never done and they wonder why their wives are tired???? It's time to teach husbands these facts. My husband and I sit down after he comes home from work. He may have tea with me, a beer or wine and we talk about our day. Then if there are problems or we are angry with each other we talk that out too. Sometimes we go for walks and talk things out. Must be working because we've been married 33 years and we still really love each other. It appears in marriage the kids come along, or people work long hours, and there is the bills to be paid, illness' in family, etc., etc., and sometimes we just pass each other like ships in the night. It's not meant to be this way and it really is the woman who should clue into these things, because men simply aren't made this way and never will be. I often get busy and realize that I've ignored my husband at times and although he never complains, I MAKE TIME to be with him and we have a blast together.

Usually the person that is suspicious of their mate has a good reason for having that gut feeling, but often goes into a denial mode and often will ignore the signs. You can't ignore the signs forever. However, there are many men that don't cheat on their mates, so, be real sure you don't make a big mistake. If you don't have proof and he is good to you, then sit down and talk with him. Some women can be extremely jealous and no matter how many times the man denies he isn't cheating she will never believe him. A confident woman will either face her mate that is cheating and kick him to the curb, or make sure from the beginning of the relationship that if she ever catches him cheating that will definitely be the end of the relationship (no second chances!) Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose.

If your guts is telling you he is, then he probably is because whether you admit it to yourself or not the signs were always there.

Good luck Marcy

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Every men has their own private ways. The husband or the wife can really sense or tell if their significant others is doing something wrong. We might ignore the sign but it will be to obvious not to see. We were given a gift that we always know how to use, especially to our love ones. For a man and wife, it doesn't matter what the do or do not do but still the sense of feelings that we have is very strong.

If your sensing your spouse is doing something that out of his/her character its up to you to talk and ask question so it will make sense. But if you ignored it, and something is wrong you are letting this to happen. Don't be afraid to approach your spouse, talk, ask and you might be surprise the outcome of it. Don't loose your faith and be strong...............

No, you're not wrong. Since he wants to stop the affair, you should leave him alone to recover his marriage. Not talking is one step in that direction.

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what you did was the right thing to do. you can't be a part time lover and no future. At least you stand up to him........

They were in a manic phase when the affair happened.

• Some individuals can become depressed if they are not married by 30 and it is generally some women that feel this way more than men. However, in these modern times many young people are waiting longer to get married because they want their education and a good career and they are also having their children later in life. It is much wiser to wait for the right person that you know you love and should be in your life than trying to push yourself into a loveless marriage.

usually when a man holds your hand it means he feels a connection with you and wants to be close to you but dosnt want to over step his bountries, so by haveing the small skin to skin contact it is the begining of him trying to make an emotional connection with you by taking small steps.

Each person is different, it depends on the man.