Cheating

maybe ur not puttin out enough You mean he didnt answer the phone once?

If you love your boyfriend then why don't you like to hang out with him? When you love someone you should love being around them too? Also, if you're still in love with your boyfriend then do you think it's worth working things out? These are all things you need to think about and ask yourself. I cannot tell you what to do, you need to follow your heart. It's definitely unfair to be hanging out with two guys at the same time. The right thing to do is pick one and go with it. Good luck!

If you love your boyfriend then you should enjoy hanging out with him, but instead your wanting to hang out with this new guy. You need to think about it, ask yourself if you really love your boyfriend or the new guy because the chances are your developing feelings for this new guy. Follow your heart and pick one guy and go with it. One think i can say is don't hang out with both of them because your boyfriend may take it the wrong way. Follow your heart, Good Luck!

When people marry strong bonds are formed. When my parents divorced they still called each other on a daily basis just to talk, this went on for almost a year. Now when they meet they greet each other like old buddies. It is not surprising if they still have feelings for one another, it's natural. I wouldn't be to worried about it, but if you are concerned about it then monitor his calls. If he is on the phone in another room, just listen, and when he is done enter the room and ask him who was on the phone. If his answer doesn't fit with what he was saying then talk to him about the relationship between him and his ex wife. Be firm, but don't get angry, demand his respect.

It depends what he lied to you about. You should think about it and figure out if what he lied to you about is a big deal to you or not. If it is not a big deal to you then drop it and don't bring it up again. If it is a big deal to you then you should let him know how his lie has made you feel (or the fact that you are sure he has lied), and see if you opens up about it. If not then Lose him you can do better. Life is to short

Yes but you cant be sure if they wont be intimate again in the future.

well ask one of your friends to ask him if he was cheating on you and if not then it was probably just a rumor or something but if he was cheating on you then u should totally dump him

* Often couples that have separated or divorced at least one of the partners is bitter and your ex may be doing this to make a quick point to you that he is displeased. When your children are not around tell your ex husband you do not like him referring to you by your first name when talking to the children and that you are their mother and that's what they he should refer to you as! If he can't give you that respect then tell him he's not welcome in your home.

Why would you believe anything spoken by a man dishonet enough to betray the closest person in his life? He's lying to his wife about you -- why wouldn't he lie to you about his wife? Narcissists have a twisted type of love. It's about control (they do ALL the controlling) and he's doing it not only to his wife, but to you. I'll bet you that she has made some comment about leaving him. Narcissists can't stand that and will promise the moon, sun and stars to the person leaving not because there is that much love, but the narcissist can't stand to lose and likes to call all the shots. He thinks by having another baby (perhaps this is one reason his wife may want to leave him .. she wanted another baby) that this ties her to him forever. That means control over her big time! If you are buying what he says you need to give your head a shake. Narcissists are more trouble than they are worth so do one good thing for yourself ... RUN!

There are some married men that will say they are divorce to get a woman to go out with him. But you can find a lot of men who are married inside the dating site. Reason is they want to play around because their married life is getting boring to them..

• The husband should kick her rear right out the door! No, it's not normal to stay with a husband as long as she can see her lover. There are no compromises after taking marriage vows and when those vows were taken that meant you were suppose to remain partners in marriage throughout your lives. Granted, not all marriages work out, but cheating is cheap and disrespectful to the partner and that bond of trust one has with their mate is gone and hard to get back. She needs to make up her mind and the husband needs to get a backbone!
  

open ur eyes

Why do you want to know if your wife have a passport? Are you guys from other country that she needs to have a passport to be someplace? The only people I know who use passport are those who travel abroad, like Politician, business people, military, and myself. If you can't give more details about your wife, your question will not be answered.......

Only you can decide how you catch your boyfriend when he's cheating on you. If you confront him directly, he might avoid the question. If you snoop and it turns out he's not cheating on you, the relationship could end badly. But if you both trust each other and have been together for a long time, it's better to bring it up by telling a similar story or confessing about your skeletons in the closet. Whatever you choose, be sure to know the consequences and be ready with a chick-flick and ice-cream just in case. or you could write him a note, which he thinks is from the other girl, saying to meet him somewhere and if he shows up you know he likes her better than you. It might just mean she likes him but he doesnt like her

He might as well be cheating. He should have his girlfriend as his wallpaper. Not anyone else.

Don't run yourself crazy over what might be nothing. Maybe she has a special birthday or graduation coming up and he's using it as a reminder. Be quiet and stay alert for more positive indications before you pounce.

yes men do accuse while using my bestfriends boyfriend does it all the time and all she does is work 6 days a week and the rest of her time she is with him

well he probably listens to them because he still misses her or he listens to it because he really likes those songs or he's tryin to get you jealous

There is natural herbs that can help. Horny Goat Wheat, Ginseng. If this doesnt work you can try Viagra. And if that doesnt work The woman should buy a self sex toy.

It means that it in the story

You shouldn't be with anyone that doesn't love you enough to be faithful to you.

Sorry to do this, but I have to be hard on his one. With all the single men in the world please don't tangle yourself up with a married man. This man you are going with is getting his cake and eating it too. He has no intentions of leaving his wife. He is probably bored with his every day existance with her and you are nothing but a toy. Something new, bright and shiny. You have nothing more than what he use to see in his wife and one time and in the near future he will find you boring and move on. Take what pride you have and stop seeing this man. If in doubt, think of how you would feel if some other woman was fooling around with your husband. How would you feel? This man is never going to marry you and I think in your heart you know it. If he was serious he would have left his wife by now. Oh, by the way, if he gives you that lip and says, "Well it's simply not that easy. I have business ventures with my wife's name on it, the house, property and cars" don't you believe it! If he loves you enough he should face his wife, go to court and split the difference with all their assets. Be smart, look up on the web what the laws of divorce are in your state. Get that pride of yours back on track, and find some nice single guy that will treat you right. Good luck Marcy I think there should be a law against people cheating especially those who know they are cheating on a married person. This is purely risky bussiness and you are setting yourself up for a huge disappointment (s). If we all had a decent heart we would think about the unsuspecting partner not about yourself. There are plenty of single fishes in the water and be careful of those that either pretend to be there or want more than they can chew. Don't waste any time on this puppy, he just wants to play. You need someone that can devote his entire self, soul and being to you. I wouldn't want to share my boyfriend fiance or husband so neither should you. Respect the unsuspect wife and respect yourself you will feel better about this. Good luck Please see my response to "Has anyone gone from a mistress to a new wife and still feels the relationship was true love?" on this site. I have experienced the other side, but can remember what it was like to be where you are now. However, our promises to each other WERE fulfilled. My contact information is at the bottom of my entry if you would like to contact me personally. I certainly empathize with your situation. In seven months, he hasn't separated from his wife, filed for divorce or admitted to his wife about your affair so that she can decide the fate or their marriage. What exact timeframe has he proposed to leave his wife? More than likely he is offering long distance promises "When the kids are older," "When I get my finances in order,", "When I feel (his wife's name) can handle being told,". All of the above are time worn excuses used by cheating spouses and they don't mean a thing. He will continue to say these things to do for months, possibly years, until you wake up to reality and end the affair or he gets tired of you and ends it with you. End things and make it clear you would like to be with him--once he gets his divorce.

Oh yeah we come back, for more action. Not for marriage. Don't kid yourself, breaking up is hard but you have to move on. there are better Men to hook up with, don't be used, and more importantly think with your head not your heart.

Yes it is common. You are some kind of wonderful, and not many husbands would forgive their wives so easily. It's true we all make mistakes and an affair can be one of them, but we should learn from that mistake. The reason you feel this way is you are enraged and your manhood has been challenged by her cheating and you are confused and don't know what to do. It took all your willpower to stay calm and deal with her cheating in an adult fashion, but what you didn't do was really feel the anger because you were betrayed. You didn't take time out for YOU and in ways, when someone hurts you in this way a grieving period accompanies it and you just haven't grieved. You are automatically holding your feelings back and trying to be calm and sensible about it It's obvious you love her, but you've given into her too easily and have not made her sweat a little. You have become an "enabler" for her behavior and you're angry at yourself for it. So here you are, walking around on egg shells trying to keep a "stiff upper lip." The best thing to do is sit down and talk to her. Tell her that she's hurt you deeply and you don't know if you can handle it or not or ever trust her again and it's going to take some hard work on her part for you to trust her again. Time does heal and as I said, we all make mistakes (but it should only be once!) Tell her if you ever catch her cheating again her bags will be packed and waiting for her at the front door! You should be making HER work for your forgiveness and trying to gain your trust back. Have that talk and don't let her off the hook so easily. By doing the above you are gaining back your self respect, your manhood and control of your own life. Good luck Marcy

Let me guess ... he cheated on you and that's why you split! He wants his cake and eat it too. Your ex has a new girlfriend, but like the selfish jerk he is he knows that the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence and he wants that option of coming back to you if things don't work out with his new girlfriend. Doesn't sound like their relationship is that blissful and more than likely it's due to his bad habits (you would know all about them.) If you don't answer his phone calls (if you don't have "Call Display" then get it so you know who is calling) then he may get weary of bothering you. Tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you're going to file a "Cease & Desist Order" against him (you can go to a lawyer for this and it cost me $350 CDN). This may be enough to scare him off. Depending on the severity of him talking with you try to get his conversations on the phone and use your speaker phone and tape his conversation. Make a second copy. Be sure you have the date on the tape and what time your ex called. If he's harassing you at school, work, then that is all the more reason you should get the Cease & Desist Order (and the police will adhere to those orders once you show them the papers.) Watch your back! Good luck hon