Cheating

Because he's MARRIED. You have no rightful place in this marriage. If he fell in love with you while married, he should divorce his wife before having sex with someone else. You might want to consider this man is telling his lover he's IN love with her to keep her compliant. He 's already lying [by cheating] to his wife , so I can't see why he would hesitate to lie to his mistress as well.

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In addition with Ms. MontanaMom response, most married men will do and say anything to get that needs because their wives finally got tired of pleasing them without them pleasing the wives. So my dear if you are smart, men lies every time and if you are really hungry for love and attention you are helping this man destroy the lives of his wife and family.

Nothing is wrong if some married man falls for the other person, just like from my own personal experience, the man that I married fell in love with thie woman he met on a dating site, ditto! yes she was also still married then, so when I found out his love affairs, I didn't have a problem to make a decision, he loves his mistress, so he needs to get away from me and our children. No more 3rd chances, like the old saying is, " one is enough, two is to much, and 3 is poison already. Get on with your life and find a man who is not married.

seek psychological help for both herself and her son, turn herself in to the police

You tell him that it is his own bed he has made his own bed so lay in it. And he must not love you enough if he has had the decency to hurt you. And go off and marry someone else

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Tara.

no she must feel reliefed and not worry no

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The person your friend sleeps with is an "ex" meaning you no longer have any claim on that person. What they chose to do is none of your business. If your friend chooses to do this, that is none of your business either. Some friends might shy away from such a thing just to spare your feelings. But you don't need to do anything. If you can't bear the thought of your friend sleeping with your ex and seeing your friend makes you think about it, then don't see the friend any more. But do you really want to lose a friend and a lover too?

The same as if she has not been having an afair.

No. My best friend is bi-polar and has only been with one woman for his entire life.

wow this is pretty deep, especially when you are a daughter or son of a mom who you know is cheating on your dad. I would have a serious talk with your mom about it. don't just come out and ask her "are you cheating on dad" but ask her relating questions such as "do you still love dad?" "are you and dad having problems" "do you want to leave dad?" "are you still happy being married to dad" etc. these questions may lead to answers that are defensive in nature or give key indicators that she is cheating. she may feel so guilty about what she is doing and by your questions, that she may just come out and tell you she is cheating. but either way, do not go and tell your dad your mom is cheating because you do not want to start any problems. unfortunately you are the child, and your mom and dad are the adults, I know it hurts to see your mom do this to you dad, but they will deal with matters in their own way. you do not want to be in the middle of it all. I do suggest, however, that if it gets out of hand, that you tell your mom straight up that you know she is cheating and that she should stop or tell your dad the truth so you do not have to keep seeing her hurt your dad. maybe your parents shouldn't be together if they are having problems like that. I'm sorry though. that's tough to go through. depending on your relationship with your mom will ultimately guide you to how you will confront this problem. if it was me and I saw my mom cheating on my dad, I would just come out and ask why she was doing that. because me and my mom have a very close relationship.

the guy might not really want to be with her, but is afraid to break up with her and is probally being honest with you.

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Maybe it's because you are too passionate about things, or maybe you love the thrill of having somone you love. Either way once it's over you'll cry your eyes out.

of course she used you it was probably was a bet or something

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By not leaving him when you caught him cheating the first three times, you have let him know that you will stay even if he continues. Why should he leave you when he can have both of you. You probably take care of the house, laundry, kids, help pay the bills etc. You are actually making it easy for him to have his affairs.

!st responder is 100% correct . Don't be a doormat .Get a spine , and a lawyer.

You should do whatever you think is right. You have the right to be furious. People who cheat on you don't deserve you and they don't love you enough to care. Do what you think is right.

He may have liked this particular person and didn't want to cheat on you so it was easier to breakup and be with them then hurting you, they may have just wanted to or they may even have just wanted to try and forget about what was going on. Only he knows for sure why he did so but either way its best to do what is best for you as to not let this person treat you in such a manner.

NEVER DO IT!! it's totally wrong! in some places, it's illegal!!

If they are legally divorced? Yes he is free to marry someone else. If you are speaking in a religious context, depends on the religion, Christianity teaches that if a husband/wife commits adultery that they are not allowed to marry again (Matthew 19: 3-11).

The signs that a husband is being unfaithful are sometimes harder for women to see because we women tend to be a bit naive when it comes to love. At least I was. Your husband becomes uncharacteristically kind all the time. But sometimes he will usually grumpy and suddenly becomes upbeat. Joining a gym and get a tan. He smells good all the time. Cell phone can't be found anywhere inside the house. You will never hear the cell phone ring, always on vibrate. He takes a shower 2 times a day especially when he gets home at night. This are facts that you will notice if your spouse is having an affair.

its very likly.. he might just be with her to make you see that what yall had was really meaning full to him.. I know it sounds stupid but its how men work.. he wants you to want him again. i think i can relate my boyfriend broke up with me threw one my closest friends nd left right out my front door nd not even a day later he wasz drinking and partyn with my ex best friend turns out der dating when i found out it hurt but this is about you lolsz well i say you should confront them ask him if he still has feelings for you its obvious that your ex best friend is a b**** and if he honestly has feelings for you he showed you in the wrong way move on is the best way to get over this it will hurt for a while but there are plenty of fish in the sea and if he truly like you and you think he does theres no shame in asking always be aware that not all of us make the right moves --k--C--