Cheating

Answer It depends on the man. Some men may have had a first unsuccessful marriage and chose to cheat (not the answer to a marriage problem) or, he loves women and can't commit. Only you know his personality. Since you are asking this question then you must have some doubts from suspicious actions. When in doubt follow him! That's how I caught my first husband cheating on me and I found out he had cheated on me several times before this.

This in not an uncommon occurence. The best thing you could do is be empathetic although I realize this may be hurtful for you he also is going through a lot of mixed emotions. When you sit down and calmly talk as fighting and arguing never solves anything - you will have to decide where you both feel things should go from here and how your both going to handle it. Remember you have been married and were married for a reason - he may have been undecided and confused about his feelings but still knew he wanted and loved you. Good Luck and if you need an ear or something I will try to help if I can.

First off, you should make sure that she is cheating. Don't mess up something unless you are positive that she is indeed cheating. Next, you should confront her if you are positive that she is, and the rest is up to you. Do you think you can trust her not to do it again? Do you love her enough to overlook the mistake? It's all on you, there is no set way to say what to do.

I am a girl and trust me youll know if she is either shall get all mad and keeps lookin away and ask how told you or shell lie her butt off iv watched other grils do it.

Three reasons: 1) she has a bet 2)she wants to make her ex jelous 3) she really likes you

I would question the wording, "...cannot be satisfied with their wives..." it makes me wonder if he wants to explore the limits of their relationship. Maybe give her the opportunity to have different sexual experiences within the confines of their relationship. It is difficult for me, without more information, to make the logical jump from saying that he wants a threesome because he is not satisfied.Instead I would look at it form all perspectives and I can see some positives.

Maybe she is waiting for you, or she found someone else/she isn't interested.

Simple, those women that love to sleep with the married men are the type that don't want responsibilities. Like married men, they love the excitement of hiding the relationship. Some feel better knowing that no matter what, the married man will always comes back to get some attention. There are some women that feel thrilled when they know the married man's family will be destroyed.

Perhaps sleeping with someone else's husband makes that woman think that she is more attractive than the other woman, and she gets a temporary boost to her self esteem. However, in the long term there are serious consequences to her actions, both to her and the man.

Sometimes the woman is single and is hoping she can get the man to leave his wife and marry her. Sometimes she is married and wants a way out of an unhappy marriage.

well it means two guys kissing or two girls kissing......

You can never really be 100% sure, it really depends on why he did it in the first place (you really need to talk about that), but if he really loves you and you can tell that his apology is sincere and that he feel very bad about what he did and shows you how much you mean to him than there's a good chance he won't.

Just make sure to talk about it, that's the most important thing and see why he did it, of course don't give him you trust blindly, he will have to work hard to regain it, and if he really loves you he will.

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It really depends on wether or not your boyfriend does this often, like says hes got to go somewhere with out you, when you think somethings up.The best way to find out is to ask him if you can join him. if he says why? or no. then you should find another man.if he says yes then don't worry about it.. hes not cheating. but this does sound a little fishy.

It's no less normal than general fantasies of threesomes, orgies or one night stands that many people have had. It doesn't mean that the person wants to act out the fantasy in real life. There's a major difference in enjoying various fantasies that harm no one, and acting them out in real life, where you can't predict what will occur.

In fact, most men are faithful. You won't find them in bars or clubs or hotel lobbies. They are performing community service, working long hours in meaningful jobs, worshiping in church or other religious services, and hoping to find faithful women for life-long, intimate personal relationships.

Many people enjoy long marriages. No relationship is perfect and couples can have disagreements, but loyalty, honesty, respect and staying power are what it takes to have a healthy relationship.

Well from personal expirence I would say ask him a lot of different questions and see if he can keep up, then re ask the same questions. If he can't answer the same question the first way he did then you might want to worry. Also if he calls you or anothe female you know the wrong name then you have him right there.

And for something more realistic , working long hours, not being where he said he would be , smelling of some other womans perfume , not wanting sex as much , or more than usual, doing new tricks in bed , making a dash for the shower the second he gets home , any unexplained absences , seeming like he can't wait to get out of the house or away from you. Don't go making wild accusations. Eyes and ears open , mouth shut , til you have some concrete proof.

What did he do with all the other girl friends? You two are left - you hope. If he is not in love with you then you already know this. Being with him om your "day" is enjoyable. You may be young and have a lot to endure yet.

No, it's not as common as one thinks, but it does happen. Actors Spencer Tracy and Kathryn Hepburn had a long-term affair because he and his wife were Catholic and his wife refused to give him a divorce. Ms. Hepburn was still very much in love with him when he died. There are many people that have long-term affairs for various reasons and some people that may only meet one weekend out of year.

Do they have to love you back?

Love is risk. Love is life.

Think ahead ... years from now. Would you rather have risked and been made a fool, or not risked and missed a great opportunity? Would you rather have tried, or never have had a chance?

I'm for telling people like it is. Remember, though, not to overdo it. I dunno why we humans find disinterest attractive but we do. If you lay yourself out on their doorstep offering your life at them, they will simply notice fault... at least.

Am I making any sense? Let them know. Take a chance.


If things go sideways, wouldn't you rather they do so now?



Good luck. Pain is life. And we love life. Enjoy the ride.
hi there the best way is to sit your partner down and tell him/her straight out rite that your feelings are stronger than before and that you love him or her. Its the easiest way be honest with your partner it goes along way

Well he might make excuses to not hang out with you..

Forgive him.

If you really like him, than who cares if he cheated on you. Always be forgiving. That is the key to a good relationship.

But if he doesn't want to be with you anymore and he was just using you, then break up with him because he obviously doesn't deserve you. It may take a while but eventually you will be able to forgive him. Just avoid him. But if he tries to talk to you, don't be mean or hateful. Act like nothing happened and just go on with your life, because if he sees he has upset you, he will feed off of it. Trust me. I've been through it.

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i cant say for sure, but ususally when a guy is cheating he has a guilty conscience and thinks that you are out doing the same thing. i would call cheaters:)