Child Support

Depends on the argument, but Bird Nest Custody may be better.

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Only Indiana and Texas has laws setting out a specific age at which a child can make a choice the court is required to abide by, and even than there are some limitations. With those states, it is age 14. In all other states, the general rule of thumb is that a 12 year old can express and opinion, however the judge is under not legal obligation to consider, or even hear it. In either case, a motion to the court must be filed for a determination to be made. However, the child should be informed that there are alternatives to choosing to live with just one parent. The child should also be advised they can express a choice that they remain in one home and each parent can live with them for a designated period of time, than switch. This is called Bird Nest Custody. Check link below for more info.

This is an issue which should have been addressed in the original support agreement. If there is no stipulation as to how support should be administered when the children are with you. You are still obligated. You can however, have the order modified to read, that when you have physical custody the set payments at that particular time be used for the children's benefit.

I believe that the mother should get custody and she gives the father a schedule to be on.

my grand daughter has been living with me for about 4 months and every weekend now every weekend she will not come home until Sunday ? How can I get a uncontrollable warrant?

You've asked this question and it has been answered. Simply stated, unless the boyfriend has committed a new crime, the courts will not help you. You have no recourse.

You can try to petition for custody, but that is likely to blow up in your face--as you didn't seem to get custody in the first place.

Best course of action, get to know the guy, and remain observant of any evidence of a new crime--and wary not to commit one yourself in the process.

You will have to pay child support only after paternity has been established either by presumption (i.e., you two were married at the time), your acknowledgment or genetic testing.

Age 18 or high school

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Yes, child support continues until the age of majority, regardless of the child's high school standing.

Yes, but ordinarily this happens with the court's blessing and preparatory to an adoption.

It would require a motion to the court at which you would be given a chance to respond. If approved, the money should go directly to the child, and if the child lives away from the custodial parent's home, than that parent should also be required to pay their part. see links below

If the child is in foster care you pay but not if the child is adopted. Then the child have new parents who are responsible for him/her.

My ex husband was in an accident and has not paid child support for 27 months. He is now drawing SS benefits which my child just started to receive benefits, his step-child is receiving the other half of the benefits. However, these benefits are less than what he was paying in child support

Depends on the disability and your ability to care for the child.

no law addressing it

I take it you want to terminate your child support, and you should be able to do so. However, you will need to go to court to get this done.

It sounds as if child protective services has guardianship and, if so, you can't simply take your child back from them.

As hard as possible

Genesis 17:17 says Sarah had Isaac when she was 90 years old

Well it's not for you, it's for your child. So seeing it that way, yes.

But, most don't because they do not want to lose any control over the child to a man. Also, she can wait until the child is almost 18, than file a retroactive order for child support for 2-18 years worth, depending on the state.

However. just because he pays childsupport does not mean you will loose control. If he is a lousy parent he will have no right to your child but if he is good your child has the right to benefit from having a dad. If you wait 18 years your child will miss out. And waiting 18 years to ask someone to cough up that kind of money just sounds vendictive since most likely he will not have that lying around.

I take it that the NCP is sending payments to the agency and the CP is returning those payments to the NCP. This doesn't appear to violate any law.

Up to 18 years later. In a Michigan case, the newly divorced woman was granted 14 years retroactive against the bio dad who was age 12 she had sex with him. The statute of limitations on rape had run out.

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Your questions are too personal, leading and unanswerable. We don't have all the facts. The world doesn't know what you mean by narcissistic. By definition it means merely that he is self-centered, self-preoccupied and admires himself. That is not a crime.

In general, the oldest child's right to support is not affected by the existence of younger children.

Generally, child support payments coincide with the frequency that the obligor receives income. How quickly the obligee receives those payments is a function of how efficient the payor of income is in forwarding them to the State and how efficient the State is in distributing them.