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Dating
We all get stuck and need advice about our relationships. The contributors in the Dating category work hard to give you that advice with the best intentions and sincerity.
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ok. I am a guy and I'm not the best with girls...but this is how i see it. A guy is supposed to act like he doesn't have all that muchh of an interest in the girl and then slowly show feelings or w/e...you know like not be interested or w/e...anyway I usually feel like I really wanna talk to the girl alot or just hang out with her alone, not with friends but alone with noone to jut in or ruin the moment. It's a struggle not to call sometimes cuz you know she needs her space but you just wanna talk...w/e this is my view and a personal opinion... from; bigmoneymaker21 view: ok i respect everyones point of view I belive when us guys meet a girl that we like,we try to impress her so much that we end up ruin every chance there could've been. I learn that you must be yourself and prove her that you are the one for her.
What kind of guys do 13 year old girls like?
im a 13 year old girl. i like a funny guy who isn't shy and can make conversations without awkward silences. he has to be a guy that i feel comfortable around. i can tell my friendsabout him and he wont care. he has to be loyql and trustworthy. if a girl is just lookingto date she prob will go for the hot perverts. for me lookswise, i cant date a guy with long hair its nasty. or stringy greasy hair. buzz r ok but not on a lot of guys. i like the gelled at the front look if u know what im talking about. oh and don't straighten ur hair emoish its a turnoff. i like Justin biebers hair, but i don't like it when other guys try it it just doesnt look right. i like athletic guys. funny and sweet and will hug and kiss you in public. a guy who shows his girl off. oh and girl want what they cant have a boy tried to get me to like him for 2 years. he moved on a got a gf (ex now) and then i realized i liked him all along. just cuz a girl acts uninterested doesnt mean she is. plz don't be fat no offense. oh and clear skin.
AnswerOkay im 12 and in 7th grade.I like boys that are like one or two years older than
me because they are more mature. Flirting is good but don't tease
a girl like you like David hahaha! Even though they might not seem mad
they are and thinking you are immature and annoying. Girls also like a boy who
cares for them by giving them flowers on valentines day or one day telling them they look
pretty. Even if a girl doesn't like you, telling her she looks pretty will make her feel good inside
and very happy. I PROMISE! Most girls like a boy to ask them out so don't wait for her cause it
probably wont happen since she is waiting on you and when you don't do anything she thinks you don't like her. I like jocks and skaters. But don't change yourself to become one if you are not. Be nice to her but not obsessed. If your not sure if she likes you here are somethings to do to maybe find out:
1. Make sure she is not doing anything that weekend and ask her out on a "group date"
but really your just asking her to go to the movies with you and a couple of both your friends.
2. Then if that goes well ask her out again but not the next weekend. Like 4 weeks later at least and do something with less people.
3. Once you guys have gone out a couple times with less and less people ask her if she would like to go to dinner. (Have your parents drop you guys off at restraunt you both like)
I hope this will help.
-Cami White
October 8, 2009
I'm not all that shallow but i will tell u what i do like. I like someone who is funny. i like to laugh and have a good time. I like to have a bf who compliments me, but only if its true. someone who is down to earth and real who wont make a fake person out of themself. athetic guys are always good too. i like guys who arent gonna back stab you, someone you can trust and talk to. someone who can carry on a good convo. a guy that will always stick up for you, and accept you... and if he isn't accepting, then sucks for him. someone who is hot, cute, or atleast good looking to some extent. if you are hot, but have SOME pimples (not an entire faceful), most girls wont care. i mean really! we get them too and sometimes that's just something we cant control. i would want someone who will hug me, and love me, and make me feel safe in his arms. when we hug it should feel like nothing can hurt me. i like guys who like me back. i want someone that will tell his parents he has a girlfriend, and someone who will show me off to the the world with a 'be jealous' attitude.
I am a 13 year old girl and these are the qualities that I look for:
Funny and if they don't try to be funny then that's better
Clever. Looks don't matter but they have to have some sort of cuteness in them. Sporty. Protective. Likes a competition. Someone who is caring. I don't like romantic guys, but I like romantically funny guys (guys that sort of flop at being romantic). I don't like being called a princess or being treated like one but, it would be nice if he respected me and was like a hero. Not shy but not too confident and full of himself (put off). I like guys who have that gelled mohican. I like guys that hug me and show the affection he shows me when we're alone in public (when I say affection I don't mean gross stuff but like a hug and will tell me he likes me). I like it when the guy flirts but doesn't go all the way because if he does it's over and he will get a slap. The guy has to be mature and sensible but not all the time just when he has to. When the guys with me, I should feel safe. If I don't I will probably never feel safe with him. I don't like it when a guy tells me he loves me unless we've went out for at least half a year
How do you make yourself be more outgoing even though you are really shy but only shy at school?
just be yourself and try not to care what other people think. learn to love yourself, and not become depressed by what society says is beautiful. and just try to talk to people more. try and start conversations and don't worry about what they might think about you.
I personally had the exact same problem in grade school/high school. The best thing is to get out and do things with your friends. The more often you hang around them and others, the more comfortable you will be, and in turn not as shy. You can start going to the movies, hanging at the park, doing sports, and working out(running, walking, weight lifting, etc) together. Try and do everything and everything you can, including school functions like sports events and dances. You may be nervous as all hell for dances, as I was and didn't go because of it(which I regret every day), but just force yourself to go! Even if you are a horrible dancer, go just to be with your friends! Experience is key, and the only way to get experience is to be out there with them! If you want more advice you can message me(SeriousAnswer). Good luck!
You can meet some really nice girls through on line dating and not all of them are looking for long term relationships, some of them are simply looking for a nice guy who will be nice to them and they can have sex with no questions asked.
What are the Things to say to a girl on first approach?
Answer I'm sure you can find some nice things to say to a woman or girl such as, my you look really good today, or did you do something special to your hair, it really shines, things like that should do.
How do you talk to your new boyfriend?
tips for talking to your boyfriend:
- start a conversation with something casual, like school or sports
- you should be comfortable talking to him, or at least act that way
- holding hands makes you both feel better about talking. to hold his hand just stop talking for a moment, smile, and look at his hand(if he doesnt get the hint hes pretty dumb)
- Dont worry, it gets easier over time. I was wondering the same thing a couple months ago!
That depends on the guy, some would really just like girls who look hot. Some look for intelligence & intuitiveness or dignity. Girls who like to hang & out talk about things like what to do together. Some unfortunately just look for sex. Some look for girls who are different and/or confident about themselves.
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How you know if a guy likes hugging you?
Hugging is a very natural expression of connectedness between human beings. There are many reasons why we hug, and each can have a different meaning. Hugs can be exchanged between family and friends of all ages, in particular the one you are asking about is one that occurs between two young people and that is the one that is most difficult to define. There really is no way of knowing if someone likes you, or likes hugging you unless you ask them. Just as a common rule, if he hugs you and it feels comfortable to you, then most likely he is comfortable as well. A good hug is one that does not have patting on the back. That is a 'fake' hug. The patting sends a message that the person does not really want to be hugged but is doing it because they think it is the socially proper thing to do in that context. A comfortable hug is when both people hold each other with mild-firm contact and breathe deeply, even exhaling with a sigh. The length of the hug depends on the depth of the relationship. Good friends will have a longer hug than ones that became friends more recently. The hug between people where the relationship is not yet clearly defined, like a boy and a girl, it is better to be kept briefer, because the longer it is, the more likely it will be misinterpreted. For example a girl might hug a friend that is a boy a bit longer than a boy would hug a girl that he is just a friend. To make it a short answer, the longer he hugs you and the more he breathes comfortably as he does it, the more comfortable he is with you and the more he like doing it. If you want to know if he like you, just ask.
If a guy askes you for advicewhat does that mean?
it means that your smart enough and experinced in giving the right answer..if ur wondering if that means if the dude likes you thann don't count on that...because than the next time he'll probally not ask u for advice again..but if he says i need advice...theres this girl i like and u get the story than GIRL UR LOVED!! It could mean that he wants advice
Does a guy like you if he playfully shoves you when you walk past him?
I would say yes. Women do the same.
Yes. Sometimes football teams do it for a show.
- Some men are transvestites, which means they enjoy wearing women's clothes. They are usually not gay.
- Sometimes gay men dress up in drag, which is wearing women's clothes. They are usually doing it for fun, and/or to make a point about society's strict gender roles, which they want to bend a little.
- Some guys feel they are actually girls inside, and they wear women's clothes because they feel that is appropriate for them. They are called transsexuals. They may take female hormones to grow breasts, and may eventually have a sex change operation, though not all do.
What does BBC mean in personal ads?
I'm not sure what site you are on but most of the time it means big black c***
If a guy says he has deep feelings for you what does that mean?
It probably just means that he really likes you!!!
How do you cuddle with your boyfriend?
You cuddle with your boyfriend just by getting by him and make him wrap his arms around you. Its kinda like when you cuddle with your dog. You hold on to them. But in this case your boyfriend holds on to you
What part of a girls body do boys between the ages of 11 and 14 like most?
Well I'm 12 and i have had my girlfriend for about a month and to be honest I dont judge her actual body that much... I like her as a whole not as one part and i usually look at faces to be honest only with like poster girls do i look at their actual body. -Luxinus
Most guys i know like the breasts
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Answer 3
I agree with answer #2.
You should first work at being an honest friend rather than a selfish saboteur. If you truly like the girl then don't create confusion in her life.
How do you know if a guy really cares about you?
There really important to you okay and that means that there really special to you okay
Kenichi is a character in the manga/anime series "History's Strongest Disciple Kenichi." Throughout the series, Kenichi develops close relationships with several female characters but there is no clear indication of a specific romantic interest.
well you know i had a lot o girl friends in my life but the real thing is if you want a girl all you got to do is be nice to her do all of yourgromming tell her something nice once i a while like "i like your shoes" or something like that andremeber dress you best for her..
Why are boys mean to people they like?
Maybe it's because they don't have any other way to approach that person.
Answerboys that are going outwith girls are mean because there tring to impress you so just say alright to anything they say that hurts you.How do know if someone has a crush on you?
U know he likes u by if hes mean to u and calls u a jerk or something mean like that. They do this to make u think they don't like u.
If your crush looks at you, stares at you, is kind to you whenever they can, they will surprisingly drop hints. Like hi there, are you doing anything this weekend? I'm going to the movies. or something like that, but if you misinterpret the hints and think that they have a crush on you, don't feel busted and that stuff! Just think that there are soooo many more fish in the sea. And he probley wasn't worthy of you!! I hope this kind of helps!
They will want to be around you. They will laugh a lot to what you say. They will be willing to hang out at weird times.
