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Dating
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When you are willing to make the ultiment sacrifice for them, when you will do absalutely anything for them. When it feels right. When you don't betray each other and form a great comprimise. Love is a promise, to devote oneself to another and will die for them if they must.
Love is kind, but can be painful. Love is mysterous and untamed, strange and wild. Love is endurment, sticking with each other until the very end of time. Love is more powerful than anything in the world. Love is the only desease that cures itself. Love is everything.
On the first date if the guy tries to touch the breast of the girl what should the girl do?
kindly tell him to stop and if he continues to be vulgar then there shouldn't be a second date.
What does it mean when a boy tell another boy to look at your butt?
it means that who ever told the boy to look at your butt likes you.
dan and runo are in love watch that video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cWfWFnPdU4 at youtube
First of all, don't worry ladies:) He could just be busy; try talking to him in person, tell him how you feel about it - but don't get to emotional if it really upsets you it shows that you have feelings for him and he might think it is awkward and ignore you even more. You might be unaware that you hurt him and he's avoiding you. He also could forget about you guys are texting. Most off the time it's maybe he was busy or he forgot, yes they forget a lot. Hope you found this useful😊
Is dating or boyfriend-girlfriend allowed in Islam?
That's a long answer, that someone else replied with, but the short answer is no. Having a girlfriend or a boyfriend, or any type of relationship before marriage is not allowed.
Praise be to Allah.
Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"… Wed them with the permission of their own folk and give them their mahr (dowry) according to what is reasonable; they should be chaste, not adulterous, nor taking boyfriends…" [al-Nisaa' 4:25]
In his commentary on this aayah, Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
"Muhsanaat [translated as "chaste"] means that they should be pure, not indulging in zinaa (unlawful sexual conduct), hence they are described as not being musaafihaat, which means promiscuous women who do not refuse anyone who wants to commit immoral acts with them. Regarding the phrase WA laa muttakhidhaati akhdaan ('nor taking boyfriends'), Ibn 'Abbaas said: 'al-musaafihaat means those who are known to commit zinaa, meaning those who will not refuse anyone who wants to commit immoral acts with them.' Ibn 'Abbaas also said: 'muttakhidhaati akhdaan means lovers.' A similar interpretation was narrated from Abu Hurayrah, Mujaahid, al-Sha'bi, al-Dahhaak, 'Ataa' al-Khurasaani, Yahyaa ibn Abi Katheer, Muqaatil ibn Hayyaan and al-Saddi. They said: (it means) lovers. Al-Hasan al-Basri said: 'It means a (male) friend.' Al-Dahhaak also said: 'WA laa muttakhidhaati akhdaan also means a woman who has just one boyfriend or lover with whom she is happy. Allaah has also forbidden this, meaning marrying her so long as she is in that situation…'"
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
"Made lawful to you this day are al-tayyibaat [all kinds of halaal (lawful) foods…]. The food of the People of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) is lawful to you and yours is lawful to them. (Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time, when you have given their due mahr (bridal money given by the husband to the wife at the time of marriage), desiring chastity (i.e., taking them in legal wedlock), not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girlfriends. And whosoever disbelieves in the Oneness of Allaah and in all the other Articles of Faith, the fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers." [al-Maa'idah 5:5]
Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
"Muhsineen ghayr musaafiheen WA laa muttakhidhi akhdaan ('desiring chastity (i.e., taking them in legal wedlock), not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girlfriends'). Just as Allaah imposed the condition of chastity on women, meaning that they refrain from zinaa, so it is also imposed on men. The man must also be pure and chaste. So they should be ghayr musaafiheen, meaning they should not be adulterers who do not refrain from sin and do not refuse any who come to them (for immoral purposes). Nor should they be muttakhidhi akhdaan, meaning those who have girlfriends or female lovers with whom they have an exclusive relationship, as quoted above from Soorat al-Nisaa'. (The one with many lovers or the one with just one lover) are both the same. For this reason Imaam Ahmad ibn Hanbal (may Allaah have mercy on him) said that it is not right to marry a promiscuous woman unless she has repented, or to arrange a marriage of such a woman to a chaste man, so long as she is still conducting herself in this manner. Similarly, he (Ahmad) says that it is not right for a promiscuous man to marry a chaste woman unless he repents and gives up his immoral conduct, because of this aayah… We will discuss this matter in further detail after quoting the aayah (interpretation of the meaning):
"Let no man guilty of fornication or adultery marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an unbeliever: nor let any but such a man or an unbeliever marry such a woman: to the Believers such a thing is forbidden." [al-Noor 24:3]
Among the stories that show that it is forbidden to have girlfriends or to marry them is the story of Marthad ibn Abi Marthad, who used to smuggle Muslim prisoners-of-war from Makkah to Madeenah. There was a prostitute in Makkah, called 'Anaaq, who had been a friend of Marthad's. Marthad had promised to take one of the prisoners from Makkah to Madeenah. He said: "I came to the shade of one of the gardens of Makkah on a moonlit night, then 'Anaaq came and saw my shadow by the garden. When she reached me, she recognized me and said: 'Marthad?' I said, 'Marthad.' She said: 'Welcome! Stay with us tonight.' I said, 'O 'Anaaq, Allaah has forbidden zinaa (unlawful sexual relations)' … I came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and asked him, 'O Messenger of Allaah, should I marry 'Anaaq?' The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) remained silent and did not answer me at all, until the aayah 'Let no man guilty of adultery or fornication marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an Unbeliever; nor let any but such a man or an Unbeliever marry such a woman; to the Believers such a thing is forbidden' [al-Noor 24:3 - Yusuf 'Ali's translation]was revealed. Then the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: 'O Marthad, Let no man guilty of adultery or fornication marry any but a woman similarly guilty, or an Unbeliever; nor let any but such a man or an Unbeliever marry such a woman, so do not marry her.'"
(Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 3101; he said: it is a hasan ghareeb hadeeth).
'Abd-Allaah ibn Maghfal reported that there was a woman who had been a prostitute during the days of ignorance (before Islam). A man passed by her, or she passed by him, and he touched her. She said: "Stop it! (Mah! A word connoting a rebuke or denunciation). Allaah has done away with shirk and had brought Islam." So he left her alone and went away, still looking at her, until he walked into a wall, hitting his face. He came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and told him what had happened. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "You are a man for whom Allaah wishes good. When Allaah, may He be blessed and exalted, wishes good for His slave, He hastens the punishment for his sin, so that it is dealt with before the Day of Resurrection." (Reported by al-Haakim, 1/349, who said this hadeeth is saheeh according to the conditions of Muslim, and al-Dhahabi agreed with him. See Saheeh al-Jaami', 308).
These aayaat and ahaadeeth clearly indicate that it is haraam (forbidden) for men to have any kind of friendship or relationship with non-mahram women (women to whom they are not closely-related and to whom they could get married). The evil consequences and misery caused by such relationships are obvious to anyone who observes real life. We ask Allaah to keep us far away from that which is forbidden, to protect us from all that may earn His wrath and to keep us safe from a painful punishment. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad.
Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
Should a 2 year age difference matter in a relationship?
No as long as the older one in the relationship is not taking the younger one for granted aka making them have sex even though they are underage!
It doesn't mean anything. Sounds like he is a friendly person and tells his friends "hi" and you may be in a couple of classes with him but he doesn't know you. He is polite and is just being nice. I think you are "reading things into this" because you like him.
Sagging pants is a personal choice that guys can make. Most girls, however, agree that this practice is odd to look at, and would prefer to look at a cute butt.
Guys sag because they think girls think its hot. But to most girls its weird
IF THEY HAVE A PENIS THEN THEY SHOULD SAG, IF THEY HAVE A VAGINA THEN THEY SHOULD NOT SAG
What does it mean when a man says You always make my day You're so special?
Simply put, it means he adores you and you're a sight for his sore eyes no matter what kind of day he is having. You make the bad days good and the good days better.
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He's attracted to you, but he doesn't know what to do next. He's probably not too experienced with close relationships. If you want to know more, try talking to him about something you have in common -- a favorite teacher, the school soccer team, favorite musician, for example.
Does a guy like you if he gets nervous around you?
Just because you get along with a boy doesn't mean he "fancies" you. It just means you too are alike in some ways. For instance, pretty much all my friends are guys but we are JUST FRIENDS. Nothing more! (though i do fancy some myself ;]
Does a girl like you when she tells her to call you but when you do she doesnt call back?
It may mean she is testing you. Do not call back until 2-3 days have passed if she doesn't answer move on. If she really likes you she will call you. Just be patient I know its hard.
If a boy likes you and his sister stares at you all the time with a mean look what does that mean?
It probably means you've done or said something that embarrassed him or made him angry. You may not even know what it was but something occurred that upset him.
If he has beeen talking to u a lot and flirting with yai think u got a bf also if he keeps talking to ur m8s and then they come over to u he was talking about u hold on girl ur probably still really young im 11 and never had bf they come out of the blue believe me I am 13 and I have never ever had a boyfriend
got in , snogged with tongues. tbh its a bit amaerican, i'd count it as getting in while lying on a bed:L
How can you tell if he's flirting with his eyes?
You can tell if he's flirting with his eyes by looking you up and down.Or,always staring at you. omg..theres this fabulous guy that i like...and he was totally flirting with me cause he kept on lookin up and staring at me...while writing...than he was really sweet..but yeh..eyes are a language themselves..if ur heart says theres a connection then there probably is..
How do you tell if a woman has the hots for you?
When a woman is interested in you, she will laugh at your jokes, smile a lot, flirt, position her body towards you when talking (often leaning in), and if she's very confident, she'll likely try to find an excuse to touch you.
In the case of a woman who is shy, she will likely be nervous, so watch for playing with hair or whatever is in front of her like her glass, napkin, pen, or silverware. She will also very likely excuse herself at least once to go to the ladies room to make sure she feels she is looking her best for you.
You can also tell by her response to you speaking to another attractive woman. Have someone else observe her reaction to this. She will at the very least notice the exchange, and she may appear visibly disappointed. If she thinks you're not looking, she might even throw the other woman a dirty look (perhaps even without knowing it).
Should I wait on my boyfriend to get out of jail?
That depends entirely on why he is in there, and for how long you will have to wait, and a myriad of other things which are part of your personal life.
Generally, if he is there because of an accident or something beyond his control, waiting for him will be a good idea. If he is there because of a deliberate or major crime, you are better off moving on with life.
