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Funerals

A funeral is a ceremony that takes place, marking the death of a person. Questions in this category can include things about the ceremony, traditions, and cultural aspects.

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How do you say no to a funeral invitation without causing offense?

It depends on the circumstances. Good manners is all about being unselfish and considerate to others. That is particularly important when they are grieving.

If you cannot attend then you could send a letter of condolence, saying that you are very sorry for their loss, say something nice about the deceased, and offer the bereaved your best wishes.

As part of that include a line such as, "I am so sorry that I will not be able to attend Joe's funeral, but I will be thinking of you all on the day."

There is no need to explain why you cannot attend. You may unintentionally cause offence if your reason for not attending does not seem important to the bereaved. The most important thing is to show that you are thinking of them.

You could also either send flowers or a donation to the charity chosen by the family.

What are some good questions should you ask an undertaker or funeral manager before you give them your business?

A good question to ask an undertaker or funeral manager before you give them your business include: What are the basic costs involved? How long have you been in business and what membership and licenses do you have?

What do people and funeral homes do when there are mass deaths in one area?

Of necesiity, funeral homes cooperate, as do fire brigades, police agencies. a familiar, but tragic example is the Sandy Hook or Newtown shooting massacre.

What song was played at Emmerdale's Gennies funeral?

The song played under the dialogue before the service starts is One and Only by Adele. The other song played as the coffin arrives is Singing You Through by All Angels. They're both available on YouTube and lyrics sites.

Is it still called a funeral if the person is cremated?

Nice question! Cremation means decomposed a dead body by some basic chemical compound. After cremation that process is called a funeral. Some month ago, my grandfather had died and for his funeral, I have taken serviced from Carl Barnekow Funeral Service Licensee.

Why is it so difficult to find a job .. any job .. with a funeral home?

The funeral industry, as a rule, has a history of low turnover. Whilst salaries are often quite low, the close camaraderie among the teams of workers makes up for the financial shortages.

Gaining a position in the industry requires the potential employee to present themselves as extremely adaptive, adept at mortuary sciences, as well as being highly tuned in people skills, and finally, the quality of their personal presentation.

A prospective employer would immediately 'sum you up' by looking at your shoes - are they freshly shined with no scuff marks? Are your fingernails and hands immaculate, with no nasties beneath your nails? Are you someone who chews your nails? (not a nice image when pointing out paragraphs in a contract). Are you clean-shaven, is your hair neatly trimmed and clean? DO you reek of smoke? Are your teeth clean, shiny, and intact? Do you present yourself as a lady or gentleman who is clearly adaptive in dealing with a wide, diverse clientèle? Is your use of your national language perfect? Or are you one of those people who repeatedly says 'you know, you know, etc., or asks where is the funeral going to be 'at'? All of these things can be an extreme turn-off to a prospective employer, regardless of what industry you're in.

Have you demonstrated verbally your sense of comfort in dealing with the more demanding aspects of such an industry - the dealing with cadavers which may have been found many weeks after they died? Or collecting someone who died as a result of fire, or someone who was a victim of drowning? Are you prepared to use a trocar to aspirate the body fluids from the cadaver? Are you prepared to use invasive movements to reach inside a body cavity, removing a pacemaker, or suturing a post mortem cadaver? Are you comfortable in cleaning up the explosive faeces which often happens with certain cadavers, all whilst treating the deceased with dignity, honour, and respect? Are you capable of properly dressing a body, to make them presentable in their coffin for a family's viewing? Are you capable of taking the sometimes necessary steps to embalm an infant with an aerosol procedure, never forgetting that it's a child loved by a family who are in mourning?

Are you 'happy' to clean, polish, and buff, every single day of your life, the vehicles used by the funeral director - including the vans, the hearses, and the limos? Do you have a full, clean, driving license, with no points on it. Have you any convictions for crimes of any sort? Have you any problems with Eczema or atopic dermatitis that a family could notice when dealing with you?

Have you any religious values which may prevent you from serving a cross-cultural, diverse number of religions with dignity and respect. Do you know the difference between a Hindu funeral, a Muslim funeral, a Catholic funeral, and a funeral for a Jehovah Witness?

Any of the above questions or scenarios will have been questions which ran through the mind of your prospective employer. The first three minutes of meeting someone are often what decide whether you're to be hired or not. Is your handshake firm, polite and you have eye contact? There's so much to consider.

If you believe you may be lacking in any of these skill sets, consider seeking assistance through an employment recruiter or your local state employment office, where short courses are offered on job interviews.

And finally, be prepared to answer why, specifically, you feel you're best suited for a career in the funeral industry!

What is a funeral stand called?

Depending on which one is used but one name is a tressel.

How much does a funeral cost?

The cost of a funeral will depend on what type of service you want, i.e. cremation or standard casket funeral. Cremation of course is less expensive due to not have to pay the price of a Casket which can run upward of $5000 or more. Total cost of Standard Casket Fueneral $8000 or more.

Does a body have to be embalmed to be transferred to a funeral home in another state?

No. Most states, however, require embalming when death was caused by a reportable contagious disease or when remains are to be transported from one state to another BY COMMON CARRIER or if final disposition is not to be made within a prescribed number of hours.

What day can you plan a funeral?

You can plan a funeral any day but the holding of a funeral is different. Funerals are held Mondays to Saturdays and are not held on a Sunday.

At what month of pregnancy do you bury your baby if you miscarry?

this is a very....er.....personal dsecision? im sure theres a point where you actually cant get the baby out, and when you can, but that's the only real distinguishing line.

#2 answ: Having a funeral for an unborn child can happen at any stage. The actual burial of a body, I believe is after 2 or 3 months, but I'm not positive about that at all. You would be able to find out by calling a local mortuary. I know it might be a little scary to call and ask, but they would be the best bet for a definitive answer.

You should probably let the doctors tell you that and not some website.

Who dies in the glee episode funeral?

Sue's sister with downs syndrome dies in hospital of phnemonia.

Funeral arrangements what sibling decides?

Cremation, if I am the sibling deciding.

ANSWER 2:

It should be decided by the eldest sibling after full consultation with the others. In a perfect world, the parent should or would have let his/her wishes be known beforehand.

What is a gasket sealer and what a glass sealer casket?

Sealer caskets, also called protective caskets, are coffins which can be closed in such a way that they are air and water tight. Originally, most sealer casket were glass sealers, having an inner glass lid. Today most sealer caskets are gasket sealers.

Metal caskets - or metallic liners inside of wooden casket - can gain some protective property for the remains against the intrusion of ground water and insects through a hermetical seal. Nowadays most protective caskets are sealed by a gasket which is placed between the base (or body) of the casket and its lid. The gasket usually consists of an approximately inch wide one piece strip of flexible but resilient rubber-like material which runs along the upper margin of the frame of the casket's base. In a casket with a split lid (half couch casket) an additional gasket between the two halves of the lid is needed for effecting a hermetical seal.

When the casket is closed by the funeral director, a pull down and locking mechanism draws the lid onto the base and fastens it there, so that the gasket can form a seal. Caskets typically lock with a catch-type lock, which is composed of a locking pin and a receiving element. While the locking pin is attached to the lid of the coffin, the receiving element is attached to the frame of the casket's base. Some casket locks can be seen as little boxes with a lever or a keyhole the outside of the coffin, other locks are invisible because they are mounted on the inside of the casket. Usually the locking mechanism is operated by a crank or key. If the locking mechanism is mounted on the inside of the casket, access is gained from the outside through a keyhole and a tube possessing an air and watertight seal or valve.

Some caskets use other sealing mechanism than gaskets. Copper deposit and cast bronze caskets often use a chemical cement which is placed between the lid and the margin of the casket's base. Another (old fashioned) method for effecting a hermetical seal in a metal casket or inner metal liner is the connecting of the casket lid and the casket's base by soldering: the two metal parts are joined together with a heated soldering device like a soldering iron or a soldering torch by melting and flowing a filler metal (solder) into the joint. This method is primarily used for effecting a hermetical seal of zinc caskets used for international shipment of remains.

Most sealer caskets nowadays are glassless sealers, which means that they do not possess an inner glass lid. In former times, most sealer caskets were glass sealers: the protective property of the casket was effected by an inner glass lid, the metal frame of which was sealed to the margin of the casket's base by soldering or by screwing it air and watertight upon the base of the casket. In more recent times, the frame of the inner glass lid was connected to the margin of the casket's base by a gasket. Glass sealers have become rare in modern caskets; some luxury bronze caskets still have inner glass sealers offering additional protection.

In the US, currently the majority of burial caskets is probably of the non- proctective type, either because the caskets are made of wood and do not possess an inner metal liner or because lower priced non-sealer metal caskets have been bought. On the other hand, about one half of all metal caskets are sealer caskets. Metal sealer caskets are noticeably more expensive then non-protective ones. Although the sealing gasket costs the casket manufacturer only a few dollars, the construction of the casket including the type of metal used and the type welding employed is more costly. In the United States, it was the Batesville Casket Company which pioneered the production of reasonably priced gasket sealer caskets after the Second World War. Although a sealer casket might provide the mourners with the peace of mind that their loved one is protected from the elements for a longer period of time, there is a trade off because a hermetical environment can speed up the decomposition in a sealer casket as the remains are prone to destruction by anaerobic bacteria (bacteria living without oxygen) and to dehydration or to the formation of mould. There is also the danger that a sealer casket which does not have a valve or a gasket which works like a one way valve which releases the gas out of the casket while preventing the entrance of air and moisture can explode after some time. This can happen when the effect of the embalming no longer persists and the soft parts of the corps are partially liquefied under the formation of gas. Even in higher priced sealer caskets the protective function does not last forever because on the long run, even these caskets are prone to rust or other forms of deterioration.