well no secret message in his speech .that its obvious...
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That sounds like a bunch of blah blah blah BS to me and a cowards way out of a relationship.
Playing Jody...Jody is the "other" guy in a woman's love life. So "playing Jody" is how the "other" guy or an outsider would describe his relationship to the woman.
Only he knows. But could be he is scared that they will really like you and he will feel pressured. . Or he may be afraid of what they will do. Or he may just want to be the center of attention and is worried that you and the daughters will become Friends and he will be left out. Or he may just not know that its something that bothers you and he thinks its no big deal. You know him, any of those sound possible?
There are no rules for how long the two of you should date before becoming engaged, or be engaged before getting married. This is a very personal decision that can only be made by the couple.
Where is the best place to meet single men 45 and older in Modesto California?
* The safest way is to either volunteer or pay a reputable dating service where they will screen the men that you may have similar interests with. When you date someone for the first couple of times and for your own safeties sake it is wise to have another couple you know along with you until you get to know the new man in your life.
It is when you talk to someone without actually listening to them. For example, your boss is telling you instructions but your favorite TV show is on. You continue focusing on the TV but whenever your boss pauses or asks "OK?" you simply/automatically reply "uh-huh." in a monotone voice. Usually afterward you don't remember anything you were talking about.
Well they mite be busy with after school activates like soccer. Or they are trying to tell you your rushing things and maybe just chill. And you can't rush a guy to be friends. Not cool.
You don't. The person is being short precisely because they do not want you to get to know them. Respect that. Don't pry. You dump them! They clearly aren't interested in letting you in. Move on and find someone who wants you. Don't suubject your kindness to them.