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You are pregnant and your husband will be going to Iraq when you have your first child so how do you make him part of the pre and post natal care?
Kelley8601D
Congratulations to you both! There are no tests for pre/post natal care, but lots of articles on the subject or groups you could join that will guide you through things as to what to expect during labor and after the baby is born. There are many books on the subject and many groups where you and your husband can attend as far as helping with labour (even though he may not be there when your child is born.) Just have fun talking about the baby and looking at some magazine articles or pre/post natal care books. Have fun picking names and just let him feel the baby move inside of you. That's a miracle in itself. www.rhodeisland.babyzone.com The above is a good article and should give you much of what you need or you can go onto www.Google.com This will give you many sites on the subject to pick through. It would be wise of you if possible to either have a family member or a trusted friend to also learn pre/post natal care (apart from your husband) so they can be there to help you. The hardest part is having the baby and knowing what to do at times and no matter how many courses you take most first-time mothers are a little nervous. If your mother or his mother aren't close by pick a good friend to see you through this and one that has children of their own if possible. The main thing is you need support for yourself. Before your husband leaves for Iraq buy him a mini tape recorder. As the baby is growing up (even when very small) you can tape some of the sounds from the baby and also talk to your husband. He'll be able to hear both your voices and that helps a lot. Letters are wonderful, but hearing you wife's voice and your first born baby's voice is so much better. During WWII many wives would go into record shops and record messages to their husband and if lucky would get a video tape through to where he was. Give your husband a big hug for me too and I'm proud of him as I'm sure you are. Good luck & God Bless Marcy
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