Relationships

Yes, I know girls who like guys shorter than them. not really Some do, Some Don't. I've dated a guy shorter than me, but he moved. My luck. Answer Yes. Especialy in middle school when they don't really have a choice. Most girls (or at least they should) like a guy because of who they are and then their looks (unless they're just really ugly). So being short shouldn't cause any problems with girls liking you. I am married to a man 5 centimeters shorter than me now - it does not make a difference in the bedroom :)

Well, there are a lot of ways but not all of them work for all girls. For example if you get her flowers and a card they may think its cute but what if she doesn't like flowers. If I was you I would find out what she likes. Ask her or her friends. Then try to put together something. Taking her to the movies and giving her favorite candy, or flowers, or even just a note telling her. Some girls like a guy to be out going and honest so tell her that you like her after you take her to a place she likes going to. I can't help you much if I don't know what kinds of things she likes so just find out what she likes and if she is into shy guys or out going. Good luck and hope things go well. Gaining her trust in you and always being there through the good/bad of things. Telling her once in awhile she's pretty, has a nice figure or how proud you are of her. Pick out her good points. Be proud to show her off to your family and friends and always speak highly of her. Don't be afraid of telling her your feelings and share your problems with her as well. Most women are very bright individuals and they do like to be recognized for that fact. You can buy her a nice locket (go into any place where young girls buy there jewelry and ask for help from one of the salesgirls) and it doesn't have to be super expensive either. Buy her flowers once in awhile. Thanks for being of the guys that cares enough to ask how to improve themselves with the gals.

Not Always Dose It Mean That She Likes You It Could Also Mean That She May Not Wanna See You And Shes Trying To See How Long She Has To Get Out Of Where Ever She Is! But It Could Also Mean She Likes You And Is Hopein You Come Back To See Her!

Most young people are shy (even older people) and to ask someone out on a date is almost like torture because everyone is afraid of rejection. It's very normal to feel like this and also feel butterflies in your stomach or even feel sick to your stomach. You are not the only one who feels like this. You have to trick your mind. What you keep telling yourself is the truth ... "Most people are very nervous and shy asking out a girl, but don't forget ... she's usually nervous too! My 2nd husband was 22 years old. He was shy and couldn't bring himself to ask me out. I knew his best friend Tom, and Tom and my husband and myself would go out to a pub, or a local club and just have fun. Soon my 2nd husband began to relax and was able to ask me out. There is nothing wrong with that at all, and actually most girls prefer shy guys instead of the brassy, know-it-alls. Because you are shy doesn't mean you are weak. So, perhaps try getting your best buddy to help you a little (if he has a girlfriend) to go double-dating with you. Just walk up to that girl and ask her out. Have a plan like going to the movies and that you will be going with another couple. Good luck Marcy usually woman or girls likes a man who has confidence to go up to her and say whatever is on his mind but if you cant find the courage to go up to her it might not be meant to be but if it is she will come to you when the time is right. another option you could always ask a friend to go up to her and tell her how you feel.

Since time began no one has been able to describe love, but we all try. The following is just my own opinion:

It's when the very first time you meet you see the world in more brilliant colors and your heart literally wants to pop out of your chest. The world is your oyster and all is well. Your heart pounds until the next time you see that person and if you are lucky you begin to discuss your hopes and plans for the future together. You make each other laugh, yet you can cry together. You are there for each other 100% no matter what. You realize that neither of you are perfect and never will be, but you know without a doubt you can work through any problem together no matter what. When you gaze over at that person in later years you know without a doubt your choice was right and you feel a different love of inner peace and well being. There is not much either of you are afraid of, because after all, you are together and you can beat anything the world flings in your face. You know you will be partners until death and if you could, you'd wish you both could just fall asleep in each other's arms and die together. Reality is, that one of you will remain behind. Being a Christian I do believe that one day we shall meet again in another place and another time.

Do the two of you already know each other (i.e., been introduced, work together, share a class, etc.)? I ask because if you've had previous encounters with her the chances are good that she already knows that you like her. Females learn very early in life how to read guys. If not, then you'll want to very casually, but sincerely (and BRIEFLY)introduce yourself, explain to her that something about her(your choice) compelled you to meet her. Then ask her if she has email (DON'T ask her if you can have it; there's a difference!) Females are usually more willing to give out her email address to strangers than their number. If she says yes, then give her a pen and paper (have these ready) As she's writing down the email, say to her (very off-handedly)"why don't you write your number down there as well?" (hey, she's already writing; she might as well, right?) Finally, tell her "Thank You", that it was really nice to meet her, that you will give her a call sometime (don't say when) and then LEAVE PROMPTLY. Don't try to make any more conversation at this point; there's plenty of time for that later. Now, you are going to have to work on your shyness. Some girls like that about a guy, but most see it as an indicator of low self-esteem, which isn't attractive to them. You say that you want to ask her out SOON. Unless there's some time-sensitive circumstances here, I'd say you sound a little too anxious. She will pick up on that quick and it will ruin your chances with her romantically; you'll become "just a friend" at best. Tell yourself: "I am comfortable in my own skin and confident in what I do best" "I

Do what you say you're going to do, be where you say you are going to be, and be home on time.....time and experience are necessary to develop trust, so don't be in a hurry

What you need to do is observe the good and bad of how he treats you then compare that with how you see him treat other women. You can tell right away. But for now try not to get too atached to him because that way he can easily break your heart. You can do this by rating other guys you see. It always helps me. The best thing to do is stay away from him for a while. If he keeps coming back with dumb excuses then you got'em hooked. Good Luck!!! well there are loadz of ways like eye contacts and the way he acts around you some guys dont lyk to make it to obvious that they lyk you if you suspect him likeing you then just give him time he will soon ask you out....or maybe you should ask him out guys can be afraid to make the first move

things that you can do to show a girl that you like her are many first of all to me it seems that eing honest is the first step i think that if you go up to a girl then she may see that you had the courage and you were brave enough to go up to her. little things would be like writing a note or asking for her number in order for her to have a clue that she has an admirer. Girls are very observant. Girls can tell when someone does something out of character... watch her. See what she likes to talk about and her hobbies. Ex: she likes watching Thursday night television. Watch one of the shows she likes and then the next day spark a convo with her. If you maintain this relationship she'll start to look at you as a potential... wgirls do that with EVERY one who enters their "personal" space after a while. Then UP the "game." After maybe a month or so ask which movie coming out would she like to see. Let her respond but DON'T ask her out just yet. Let the convo go, but then maybe the following week say something like, "Hey. That movie you wanted to see, have you seen it yet? No? Well I wanted to go and I can't get my friends to go see it. Wanna go together?" It stays mysterious and it doesn't make her feel like you're "asking her out." You know? (I know this is long) Next step... tell her about your OWN hobby or interest. Maybe you like cars, say, "You like watching the race games? No? Oh cuz they're coming up so I'm a bit excited." If she responds to keep this convo going up she probably likes you. If she says no and moves on or yes and moves on, she probably doesn't like you that way. But take time! I hope that helped!

You are second-guessing what this young woman is thinking. The best thing to do is ask her out and slowly get to know each other. Sometimes the people we think are our friends aren't. Your friend (he may not be) but he could have said things to discourage this relationship or told her a little too much about you. Stop telling your friend about this girl! Take a deep breath and go ask her out. If she's a good person and she is interested in you then she'll get to see you with her own eyes what type of person you are. Good luck Marcy

You should at least have one thing in common. It could be the type of movies or rock bands you like and enjoy going to the movies or concerts. You don't have to like sports (it's a guy thing for most.) You both should be doing things on the weekend, but each have 1 day for your friends out of that weekend. It's good for each of you to give the other some head space. He's attentive and treats you well He's polite He's proud to introduce you to his family and friends He keeps dates, remembers your birthday and give you a small gift (you may have to remind him it's your birthday. LOL) I think by now you are getting the idea. If he doesn't treat you with the respect you deserve, is self-centered, keeps breaking dates and never takes you anywhere then it's time to get back on the merry-go-round called the "dating game." Good luck Marcy

I would say he was probably trying to open up a conversation that leads to a date. If you say he is shy, then maybe he was rehearsing this question. I faced the same situation before and I told him that I have to work on other stuff and asked him what his plans are for the weekend and he never got back. So was his question about my plans intended to be casual, if it was casual he would reply. But since he didn't respond, does it mean he was embarassed that he asked this question in the first place? Maybe Just nervous. Do you like him? It is totally okay for a girl to ask a guy out as well. Why don't you ask him to hangout sometime. Maybe you can get a better idea of what he thinks.

When people date I classify it as a "mini marriage" because you are sharing almost the same things in that relationship as you do in marriage ... sex, hopefully discussing your future plans, loyalty, honesty (and no cheating!) It appears this guy is self centered and wants to have everything his way (staying single) but wants you to wait for him when he wants you there. That is not a good quality in a man or woman. Tell this guy to take a hike! I bet he'll start calling you on a more regular basis and if he doesn't .. don't let the door slam him in the butt on your way out! Remember hon, when someone loves you they want to be with you. That doesn't mean you have to see each other every single day or even phone each other every single day, but it does mean doing things together on at least the weekends. Don't be a statistic and sit there waiting for the phone to ring. Fade out from him ... start dating other guys. Good luck Merry Christmas Marcy Oh my god marcy i was just telling my aunt the same thing you said. i will quit calling him the guy just drives me crazy. thanks for the advice. michelle Hi Michelle I am so glad you thought of it first! LOL When it's a person in the midst of a problem we often "can't see the forest for the trees" and you've had the answer all along. I was just telling my girlfriend the other day that I bump into so many jerks out there going after young girls (I'm married) and the stories those girls tell me. My nieces and Goddaughters are dating and it's scary. However, I do know there are some wonderful guys out there and by letting the door slam on this guys butt you set yourself free! Just imagine ... free at last! I bet by summer of 2006 you'll have met a wonderful guy. Good luck hon Merry Christmas Marcy

The main thing that you have to realize when you wonder why your boyfriend is looking at other girls is that it has nothing to do with you. Men look at women period, it's perfectly natural. All men, especially young men have a lot of testosterone pumping through our veins and that makes us instinctively want to seek out mates. Men from the time that we discover that we like women until probably the day we die are always noticing and evaluating pretty much every woman we come across, even if we don't find them particularly attractive.

This has no bearing whatsoever on whether your boyfriend might be happy in your relationship or if he might find the girl across the room more attractive then you. Nor is it an indication that he might be cheating or wanting to cheat. It's like if I had a great car that I loved and would never part with, I would still notice other cars on the road. Some might even have nicer tires or a sexy paint job but I have a special bond with my car and I am not about to just trade it in because a flashy convertible catches my eye.

Now looking at other girls is a problem though if he is being creepy or obvious about it or doing it in front of you. Then it is disrespectful and you should say something. Don't demand that he stop looking at other girls. It's completely unreasonable to expect that he really will, even if analytically he agrees that he shouldn't want to. He might tell you that he will but he will mostly likely be lying to make you happy and he might start seeing you as insecure and resent you for trying to control him. What you can do though is ask him to not check out other girls in front of you. Doing so front of you is disrespectful and he should at the very least be able to not do it while he is with you. If you are young this might be difficult because during their teens men have a lot more testosterone in them.

Just be cool about it and remind him nicely if you catch him slipping. There is nothing more attractive to a guy then a girl who is laid back and secure.

she is really in love with you