Breakups

I love this woman very much. We were best of friends for three years before we got together. Once we got together we moved in with eachother. We got engaged three years after that. We had a wedding planned for July of 05' but called the wedding off in March because of problems. We kept trying to make it work. I kept drinking and she finally left me. I have quit drinking and am working on my control issues with a thrapist. I am still totally in love with this woman and would like to have a family with her. Right now she tells me she does not know if we have a fututre together. She is living her life, happy and free right now. She is not even really broke up about the situation. I am devastatede and am doing everything I can to better myself, to become happy and true to myself. I still would like to have a chance with this woman. Six months from now, if I have not had a drink, and am working on my issues, shouldn't I have a chance to try and make it work at least one more time. What do you think, and what are my chances. She says she loves me as a friend, but she doesn't love the person I was.

Don't kill him understand that you think you still love him it's quite possible that deep inside that you do but think about the times he disrespected you out of your name and think to yourself do really still want that and it the answer is no don't worry about him anymore in time he will see how much you loved him and then he will feel bad that he did you wrong karma is real and it happens what goes around comes around and all things you reap you will so. So just trust and believe there is somebody out there for you that won't disrespect you but treats you the way you deserve and stay in prayer God is the key to all your problems time will heal all wounds remember that. It's always a tough one when a mate (of either sex) tells you they don't love you any longer. It happened to me as well. I didn't have children with this person so it wasn't as complicated as your problem, but nonetheless it hurt like crazy. I divorced the rat! He was cheating on me (many times) was verbal and physically abusive to me. I did put up with it for 3 1/2 years, but gave myself a good slap and wondered where my fight and dignity had gone. I had to get on my own feet, get my independence back again and look after myself. I did it and so do thousands of other women. A verbally abusive partner can leave as many scars on a person as a physical abuser. Your husband has had his way for far too long. By taking his verbal abuse you have enabled his behavior. Verbal and physical abusers basically brain-wash their victims (yes, you are a victim) by fear, and the necessity for you and your children to walk on egg shells around this man. He's a controller! Don't sit there saying you love him, but get darn mad! This man has just stomped all over you and your children. By the two of you going at it verbally (or you just sit and take it) is not good for the children and they are picking up the habits of this behavior. The sons are more than likely going to pick up the traits of the father and not respect women in the future and daughters are more apt to pick up the apathy of the mother. This is no longer about you, but your children! Get mad, get moving and get help! There are women's abuse centers in your area and if you can't find them then call your local "Mental Health" and they will guide you through the process. Love is not about hurting someone and you are just confused and frightened at this point. If you seek help you will gain more strength and independence and able to face up to your verbal abuser and give him options. He can either seek help or you're leaving with the kids. You're children SHOULD NEVER have to put up with this whether you love this man or not. Good luck hon Unfortunately, it takes two to create a loving relationship. One person can't do it alone. If he hasn't actually moved out, then you should grit your teeth and take action to ensure the safety of yourself and your children. That is the most important thing here. Hopefully, you are currently working, but if you aren't you need to find shelter and/or some help to find a good job. (there may be paid training available to find a good job to support your kids)

Just look at him and smile or ignore them! When he sees you doing those things he will notice that whatever he is doing to make you jealous is not working and it will aggravate him.

wanna get it on?

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You just talk to him, like a normal human being would to another. Do not say much. Less is more. Keep him keyed into the loveliest things that are happening in your life now, but do not allow him to know everything. Just enough that would suggest to him that without him, you are doing fine and you are happy. He will take the cue and fall into the trap you have set for him. And within a few days, you will have him back in your life!

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She wants to make changes in her life and feels the need to change her personal appearance in order to move on.

Only Dan would know the answer to this question.

Never rewarm cold coffee !!

It becomes bitter

It means that you didn't do anything wrong, it was his state of mind that caused him to leave you not what you were or were not doing. It's natural to try and blame yourself, find some reason as to why it is your fault, but sometimes it just isn't, and events are outside your control. It'll be hard, but try and accept that and move past it.

All the best

If you were on a date with another guy he should be mad. If you were with friends he has no right to get angry. You are allowed to have fun with your friends. He is not your master. you are not his slave

whether the boy is older than you or at your age, i think how to get him to notice you is still the same..

well i believe u need to start talking to him..

say hello and nicely say that u want to be his friend...

once in a while (may be once in 2 or 3 days) text him...chat with him,ask about him..

get to know him..

don't be too rush, or this may make him think that you are so desperate..

• Sometimes things just happen in a person's life that they have to think about and try to resolve and until they do they may be sad and oblivious to those around them. The best thing you can do is let them know you can be trusted with what they may want to say and that you are a good listener. You could go to a fun movie and do things that are uplifting.
  

just be nice and tell her the truth that she is being rude and she might understand and stop being rude

Basically, prepare yourself for heartbreak. When someone says they need a break, it means they're going to act as if they're not in a relationship and probably get together with someone else. Prepare yourself.

When you love someone you don't take the kind of breaks your girlfriend is taking. 'Ex' means that relationship is over. She could have said she wanted a week or two away from each other to think things out. This is when you should have clarified if that meant both of you were dating. Since you agreed, then she can talk to anyone she wants. Just because she's talking to another guy doesn't mean she's in love with him or cheating on you. Phone your ex girlfriend and tell her you would like to talk with her. Tell HER you want a clean break of things and no mind games. Let her know you want to be free to date others. She may tell you to do so, but often when either partner sees the other with another date it's a whole different story. Only you know why you and your ex split up so there is reason here and it would be unfair of me to side with you completely without knowing why the break up.

I cannot tell you for sure, but if he dumped you for his ex girlfriend, why are you waiting for him? You don't deserve him, get out there and play the field make the guys come to you and have fun dating, don't waste all of your time wondering if he still has feelings for you, show him that he missed his chance with a wonderful girl while he rides a love roller coaster. If he does want you back don't take him, or at least make him beg.

First of all, make sure you don't say anything that you won't keep. If you do, and you don't keep your word to it, who knows what he might do.

Promise him you'll never put him through what his ex put him through, and ask what you can do to help him get over the feeling of being cheated on. Try to always be positive and nice to him, don't put him down in any way.

Simply, the best way to do this, is to treat him with a lot of respect, like how you would treat your best friend. Have a nice long talk with him, promise to tell the truth all the way, ask anything he'd like.

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