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Why does a guy break up with his girlfriend because he says he hasn't been himself lately but he still loves that girl?

he probaly till lo9ves her, bu something may be going on in his personal life that is too hard for him to have a realtionship. right now. it will eventually work out!:)

What was the cause of Bec Santelices and OD's breakup?

Their relationship has always been plagued with differences in values and opinions. Bec has always been the passive type to a fault while OD has always been the confrontational and temperamental one. They are both very headstrong on their beliefs. Their conflicting styles in dealing with their issues brought more pressure and stress to their differences. OD wants to talk and resolve issues as they encounter them, while BEC believes that suspending the issue for better timing or until nature takes care of its own problem, is the more appropriate style, given OD's explosive temper. OD has controlling tendencies while Bec is the passive stubborn type. However, despite the gravity of their issues, they managed to coexist for nearly 12 years. The relationship probably survived on codependency. Both seeked to pursue a healthy stance on their lives ergo the mutual decision to separate has been reached.

How can you tell if your ex only wants to be friends with you but is giving you signs that he still cares for you and tell you he misses you?

The only way to know for sure is talk to him about it as it is not right confusing you - decide where your relationship is at.

What is the break up number?

They don't have a phone number - just the website.

How do you get back at a married man for hurting you?

Do not get back at him. This will only result in legal trouble for you. Instead, call the cops and inform them of what he is doing.

I can't seem to get my mind off of him no matter what I do Does that mean I love him. I look for him to call and get depressed when I don't hear from him?

* It is very normal to feel sad and depressed because you don't hear from someone you love. If you dated and he stopped dating you or you were going together on a steady basis and he broke up with you then you have good memories together that are hard to forget and you're going through a 'grieving process' much like a person would who has lost a loved one to death. It takes time to get over someone you love. The best thing you can do is get up, get moving; see friends; start dating again. If he sees you are not going to sit around and mope over him there is a small chance he may come back into your life and if not the great part is there is someone very special out there for you and if you weren't free from this person you'd never get to meet the one you should be with.

You want a baby but your boyfriend doesn?

Get an abortion trust me.. its not as bad as every1 says it is... i was extremely anti-abortion.. but after its done its not that bad.. and give it so they can do stem cell research. help make diabetes easier

Should you text you ex boyfriend and wish him a happy birthday even though you do not get along but you still love him with all your heart?

  • Although you are heartbroken he is your ex and considering you do not get along then no, you should not send a text wishing your ex a happy birthday. Special events including cards and gifts are saved for those that appreciate them.

I am a 49 year old widow. I made the mistake of telling my boyfriend I loved him. He believes I am transferring my feelings from my dead spouse to him. What do I do?

You might consider sitting down with your boyfriend and have a conversation with him. If you truly love him, and he you, then it should be an easy thing to do. Explain to him that you're not transferring any feelings (if that, in fact, is the truth), and that he should trust you on this. Trust is the cornerstone of every successful relationship, so he either has to trust that you're telling him the truth, and move on, or he won't, and then there's no reason to pursue the relationship. Good luck!

Why is my ex trying so hard to get back with me After 2 years?

Your ex is trying so hard to get back with you after 2 years probably because he/she realized how much you really mean to him/her.

On average when you break up with a man how long is it until he realizes he wants you back and sets about trying to get you back?

  • There is no set time when there is a break up and the man may want to come back. Some men may get cold feet and it may take weeks to several months for him to realize he misses his ex. Other men may not want a permanent relationship at all and will not come back while others just wanted a sexual relationship with no strings attached. It is a wise decision for a woman in this position to not sit around and mope, but go out with girlfriends and get back out into society; date again and let the heart mend. The old saying 'a watched pot never boils' simply means sitting around and waiting will make you feel like you are waiting forever for something that may never happen or, if it does it could be several months and you have wasted those months by not living life. Destiny sends us down many roads and it is possible that this man is not for you and there is someone special out there or, it may be weeks to months for this man to come back into your life and you may surprise yourself that you may not want him back.

If you have a long distance relationship and you had a fight with your boyfriend and you still want to be friends but he refuses to talk to you what do you do?

  • Because human nature requires one to see; touch and even smell the person they are with there is a low percentage of long distance relationships that work out. One or both parties in the long distance relationship often fear one or the other is cheating on them and it is difficult to be so far away and not knowing what is going on. Ex boyfriends mean you are no longer going together and in this case your ex boyfriend is deeply hurt by the split up and he has enough friends and by trying to maintain a friendship it only hurts his heart more. It is best both of you move on in life and actually meet people you can go out on a date with and get to know.

Your girlfriend and you met over the Internet and we are supposed to meet for the first time but she is too afraid to so how can you convince her?

Answer I don't know if you can convince her. She shouldn't be on the net if she's not going to go out and meet people, especially if the two of you met on a dating site. Maybe too she needs time, so give her a bit of space and be patient. Maybe you are rushing her.

What should you do when you've done something wrong and apologised to your boyfriend for it but he still won't talk to you?

you wait until he comes around. When he is ready he will talk to you. Guys have to have time to cool down and calm down. When he's ready he'll talk to you.

Why is your boyfriend so jelious?

Jealousy can be caused by various issues, and in some cases destroy relationships. Some of the major causes of jealousy can emanate from an individual having, low self esteem (poor self image), issues of fear (losing a partner), and insecurity. These are very difficult issues to deal with on both sides. If you really love him, it will take a lot of reassurance, nurturing, building up, and encouragement, on your part. So, if you are committed to him and not provoking jealousy in him such as, looking at other men when your out, praising other men's appearance etc., then it is something within himself that only he can deal with, but you will have to help facilitate his change in attitude as particular to himself. Best wishes!!

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How do you confront your ex boyfriend about having another relationship?

* You don't. He is your ex for a reason. If he has started a new relationship that's none of your business. You lost that right when you broke up. Even if you have been together a long time he obviously wants to move on. * Leave him to it and just get on with your own life.

My ex 's new girlfriend is sister of friend and lives close by how can i not be jealous?

You just have to move on. He is your ex and you really have nothing to do with him anymore. I understand why you may be jealous but try not to dwell on it as it is not worth the time.

Your boyfriend sleeps all the time why is that?

Is he sick or stressed? People sleep a lot in these situations. Or maybe he just needs a lot of sleep. I need 12 hours to get a good rest, that's a lot and it is literally half the day! Maybe he is a night person and prefers to sleep during the day. Ask him about it.

What scientist was accredited with determining that atoms contain negatively charged particled?

In 1809, John Dalton proposed the Atomic Theory that states that matter is made up of tiny particles called atoms and there are three particles namely; (i) the Proton having a positive charge; (ii) the Electron having a negative charge and (iii) the Neutron having no charge. Out of curiosity, why does your interesting question appear in the Breakups, Dating after Divorce category?

Your boyfriend broke up with you and people you kno are trying to get you to go back out with your ex boyfriend before him even though you dont want want him back. how do you get them to stop?

JOKE ABOUT IT! Say in a sarcastic voice "Ya!" or make some cute coment about them and someone in the opposite gender! Hold your head high and walk away. People will react to the way you do.

-Skater-

After a few years being apart is it right to ask an ex to go on vacation?

A year is a long time and people may have moved on. Before setting yourself up for something that may hurt you in the long run try speaking to him to see where things are at in both your lives and where things may stand between you two before putting yourself out there like that.

Will you hear from your narcissistic boyfriend again if while on holiday you got drunk and told him a few home truths and he broke up with you?

You need to ask yourself why you would even entertain the idea of wanting to hear from your narcissistic boyfriend. Even though drunk you still told him the truth so now it's over and move on!

How can a person stop thinking about how an ex verbal abuser is treating is new girlfriend and just remember how he treated herself?

Well, if he was abusive I dont know how you would forget. They leave scars on the inside because their words cut like knifes. I would say your best bet is to forgive this weak individual and see them for the cad that they are. They are not going to change for you or anyone else, be thankful that this vermin is out of your life and start over. Slowly but surely introduce yourself back into healthy relationships and surround yourself with positive people. What are you going to do sit around and fret and woe about a person that treated you less then human and worry about what they are doing. Life is too short for that kind of crap. Get yourself together and do something small for yourself everyday to let yourself know that you are WORTH IT!!!!!!!Good luck and please smile. It is IMPOSSIBLE to immediately stop thinking about something which causes you distress 100% IMPOSSIBLE so STOP TRYING. What you should do is realize that behind the thoughts are emotions and so deal with the emotions by accepting that these emotions are ones of anxiety and fear, dread and horror that stir inside you and that they will calm when you do. what has happened has thrown you into confusion but understand that with acceptance and forgiveness and TIME this WILL pass.

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