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Breakups

It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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What does it mean when a woman says to a man It's Not Goodbye But I'll See You Later?

It means it's adios and probably next time you do see her later, she will be with another man, so it might be a good idea to get a new woman for yourself.

Would your boyfriend break up with you if accidentally get him grounded?

No he would not do so if he is matured. He will understand that it was an accident. So you have a bright chance that he would not do that.

How do you make the guy you like dump his girlfriend for you because before they start to go out u likkd him and u still kinda like him a lot when you see him but not so much when you don't see him?

You don't. You simply talk to him, and hang out with him. You should never openly try to come between two people, it isn't yours or anyone else's place. If he begins to like you from being around you, and seeing the kind of person you are than so be it, but if you break them up you must come to terms with the fact that if you could come between them that easily, then it won't take much for the next girl to come along and do it as well. So if he favors you over her on a level above simple eye candy, and sex appeal, then you have a better relationship. This does; however, sound like a simple crush, and maybe you should just let it go. There will be other guys out there.

My ex boyfriend is in a new relationship but he still wants to stay in contact with me and he says he doesn't want to loose me and THAT IAM VERY important to him?

If he has obviously moved on and you are trying to move on as well it is best to cut ties with him. He cannot be in a new relationship and expect his new girlfriend to be okay with this - its is best for everyone if you do not accept any of his contacting and do not contact him - its time for both of you to let go and move on. That is very cruel and my opinion is that he only wants to use you. If you were so important to him why did you break up? Shouldn't he have tried to fix what was wrong? A breakup is hard enought, does his current girlfriend know he wants to keep in contact with you? You should move on with a clean slate - not saying that if you see him you should not say hi or be polite, but don't allow him to use some emotional mind trick on you. Good luck! Take note of his actions, not his words. If he didn't want to lose you and feels you are a priority in his life, why is he in a new relationship? By breaking up with you, he CHOSE to lose you. People don't break up because they're scared of their feelings; they break up when they know they don't have the feelings for the other person that they need to stay in a relationship with them.

My hunch is that he wants to enjoy the attention and benefits (possibly sexual) of your company without having to commit to a relationship with you. It's not what you're hoping to hear, but he's putting you on the back burner, and hoping to string you along emotionally, just in case his new relationship doesn't work out. He's being distrustful to both you and his new girlfriend Do you think his new girlfriend is aware of his contacts with you?

As long as you still have feelings for him as a boyfriend and want to be back in a relationship with him you can't be just friends. If you want to see how he truly feels about you, tell him only to contact you again when he is free and willing to be with you (which is not the case now). Until then, he needs to stop contacting you so that you can move on. Let him know that if he wanted to be a true friend to you, he will stop confusing you by imposing himself on you; perhaps one day you can be friends when you have moved on from your feelings for him. If he lets you go he has your best interests in mind; if he continues to contact you, knowing it confuses you he is nowhere near to being a good friend.

What if my boyfriend of almost 6 years wont marry me we have lived together almost all of those years but he doesn't want to commit what should i do?

wait one more year. if he doesn't show that he would commit, you should maybe leave him. but you should also ask some of his friends. they know him better than most people would. and you should see how he would feel if you two broke up. if he doesn't want to he may just want to keep to say your his, or he is waiting for the perfect time to ask you to marry him. if he doesn't care, leave him. A man who "doesn't commit" is one who will not ever commit. If he hasn't decided that marriage is for him by now, then it's a dead issue. Move on girl, there's more out there. Love is a learned response and you can learn to love another man. There will always be problems with this relationship...and you well might be wasting your valuable time with this person.

Why do dogs and cats dislike each other?

It has been my life's experience that cats and dogs typically adore each other. On occasion some dogs and some cats may feel threatened by the other, but I have found this to be rare. However, I would say that cats are often more aggressive to dogs than the other way around -- much the same as how cats are aggressive to new cats, and how dogs are usually friendly and curious to other dogs. Cats may be offended by friendly curiosity from dogs, and dogs may be offended by aggressive cats.

Dogs grow to dislike cats primarily due to a misunderstanding. A dog communicates friendliness and peaceful intent by wagging it's tail; Cats wag their tails rapidly when angry or aggressive. A cat will thus perceive a friendly or curious dog approaching it as a large, frightening, angry, and dangerous animal. The cat will thus defend itself by clawing at the dog, usually at the nose when the dog sniffs the cat, and then attempt to escape. Most adult dogs have thus learned to associate cats with painful scratches across the nose.

I also find it most common to find very large dogs get along with cats better than small dogs. Though in true cat form, I'm sure they don't really "get along" with anyone as much as they "tolerate" them -- especially humans.

p.s. from a different person : i find that the dog tries to be friendly and tries to play with them but the cat rejects the dog (that is my findings but many people disagree)

I am still in love with my ex he boke up with me 6months ago and i cant move on hes all i want he first said maybe now he says it will never happen due to what has been said between us what do i do?

i say that you go and buy a hot llama. then start getting high around him and then invite your ex over. pretend the llama is actually not a llama but it is a hot guy with nice abs and a sexy meniscus. your ex with get EXTREMELY jealous and then begin to hump your leg. afer that you two will get back together and have 22 1/3 children. of course this will only work if your a African dwarf frog, otherwise its hopeless.

Why are you not over your ex its been 5 months?

this person has touched you in ways you cannot explain he fills you up with passion so much you just feel like bursting and it takes longer for that wound to heal

Why do people miss there ex-boyfriends so much and they haven't talk to them for about 2years?

=well maybe they were your first boyfriend or u really loved him and regretted breaking up with him/her.=

Does your boyfriend not want you anymore if he tells you he does not like holding hands etc and this just happened within the last 2 weeks?

He doesn't necessarily not want you anymore, but it could be a sign. He might not want to be holding hands all the time, and maybe he just wants you to back off a bit. I suggest, talk to him, and ask him if he still likes you, and why he doesn't want you to hold hands etc any more... Try and not make him feel uncomfortable when you ask, just tell him that you would like to know the truth, and you would rather you were told the truth than him saying "yeah, I love you" when his heart isn't really in it. It is important to talk to him and know what is going on in his mind, because we are advising you from the outside. We don't know what's going on in his mind, or yours, a Or how things are going between you. The most important thing is TALK TO HIM!

What do you do when your girlfriend of almost a year admits she loves you but also still has feelings for her ex and these feelings are preventing her from making a lasting commitment to you?

I would encourage her to persue her relationship with the other man. If she is yours she will come back if she isn't she never was. Either way she will be impressed by your confidence. I would also go date the sexy coffee girl while she is out with the ex. What is fair is fair right. Odd are she won't go through with it and there is something else standing in her way, probably you in some way.

What does it mean when your ex tells you that he loves you and wants to keep seeing you but not a serious relationship?

Depends. Did you dump him or he dump you? If he was dumped, he is being caustious and I would say smart. He wants to look before he leaps to protect his heart. I think he sounds like he is thinking logically. He dumped me and he says that he still want to keep seeing me and still loves me but he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship. He wants our relationship to be open. Ask him why he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship. If he says there was a problem in the relationship with how you were treating him, then he may want to keep an open relationship with you because he doesn't want to feel trapped but wants to keep seeing you. If says he just wants to keep things open, light and fun, that he just wants to have fun and meet different people, then probably he knows that you're not the one for him.

What should you do if your ex is back at your school and he's asking for your phone number but you have moved on and are in love with your new boyfriend?

Just tell him you aren't interested and that you have moved on. Let him know that you are in love with your new boyfriend. It is simple and you should be straight forward about it. If you let him keep calling and you keep talking to him, your boyfriend might get word of it and wonder what is going on. If you see him in school, passing him in the halls, you don't need to be rude. Just be polite if he says hi, but don't lead him to believe he has a chance when he doesn't. When he comes up to you,which he will, tell him that once he made the decision of moving on and now you have made the same decision and moved on.

It is both harder and easier to tell him now that you are not interested in rekindling the old relationship. But it will save you so much thinking and rethinking the past and will set him free to move on too.

Is it ok for your boyfriend of three years to still have an album full of his ex-girlfriend's half-naked pictures?

no it is not ! that probably means he still has lots of feelings for them ! if i was you i would either dump him or tell him that he needs to figure out who he loves and wants more !!! I agree with the above poster. Because his ex girlfriend is half naked then it's an insult to you. My husband had a German girlfriend and he went to Germany to visit her about 2 years before he met me. She was already engaged to someone else. He had photos of her, her family and Germany and I made up a nice album. I am confident enough that these are just memories for him and if she had been nude I'd have burned those pictures! Tell him to hit the bricks!

What does it mean if your ex girlfriend says you can still hug and kiss?

== == * Her values regarding herself are cheap. Once you move on and leave an ex behind you don't let them know that the ex can still hug and kiss them. She's playing games with you. Neverlet anyone control your life the way this girl is trying to control yours. You have all the power when it comes to your own dignity and it's best to move on so you're free to date a nice girl that thinks the world of you.

How do you make your boyfriend miss you?

If he is your boyfriend he should care about you enough to miss you when you are not around for a long period of time. He should miss you anyway. If he doesn't, he's probally cheating on you or you 2 aren't ment to be together.

Does your boyfriend that you broke up with four months ago and you have kept in contact mean it when he has responded and suggested to meet with you but said he was busy but will still see you soon?

  • Since you and your ex boyfriend seem to have a friendly relationship then yes, he will keep his promise and meet up with you. It's close to Christmas and schools have exams; if he works then business' are trying to close books for the year end and changes must be made in staff or he's simply busy like everyone else with Christmas shopping and other chores. If you have not heard from him by December 20th then phone or text him and tell him you are busy and would appreciate a time set to meet up with him.

What does it mean when a guy says i dont want to loose both of you guys for a stupid mistake?

Is this man married and having an affair with you? If this is the case his telling you that he doesn't want to loose his wife and you. What is wrong with the picture here, how can you believe that this man is sincere and he doesn't want to loose both of you. What you need to do is tell him that he can't have both of you, either he pick you or his wife, it's that simple. Do you think if his wife knows that he is cheating, she will let you share his husband with you. No women like to share their man with another woman. It's not right and it's a immoral.

What can you do when someone you love does not love you but feels sorry for you?

  • This quotes sums it up: 'It is far better to have loved and lost then to not have loved at all.' This simply means we can fall in love with someone and they either never loved you or they fell out of love with you. You cannot force another to love you no matter how much it hurts and lost love happens to everyone at least once in their lifetime. It is time for you to mature and get some self respect as you are losing any respect you had by remaining with the person you love and they don't love you. Moving on means you leave the relationship; start seeing friends and having a little fun in your life; perhaps volunteer (giving something back to those less fortunate than yourself makes one feel good inside) and in time you will meet that special person that you should be with.

How long does it take for someone to get over a misunderstanding?

it really depends on the type of misunderstanding. if one of you cheated, it may never happen.

What is meaning of 25519 in love?

If you give each letter of the alphabet a specific number using the key:

A=1

B=2

C=3 etc,

25=Y

5=E

19=S

What it means is 'she said yes' (such as to a date or proposal).