Breakups

They are probably not a very good friend and you should seek friendship elsewhere.

It is evident that she does not want to talk with you at this time. Give her some time, don't be overbearing, needy or pushy and wait to see if she contacts you. If you find that she doesn't that should be very clear that she has made her decision and you should let her be and move on. If she does speak with her take it slow and don't overwhelm her.

First thing to do is apologize sincerely. Explain why you missed that special day. Don't forget to ask his/her again but make sure you make will make it this time. Make your second chance extra special.

She wants to date another guy. She wants a month to see if he likes her & whether she likes him. Be careful of her. She might come back to you but she might not. No one who is serious wants a break of more than a few days.

If you don't want him to break up with you, then talk to him. Then he gets even more confident in the fact that you still want to be together and maybe he will reconsider he diecision.

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* Keeps phoning or emailing you * Calls you at work with excuses (example: needs information on something or has a problem.) * Wants to visit with you. * Asks you out for a quick coffee or dinner. * Keeps asking what you are doing in your private life. * Sends you the odd gift. * Has friends ask about you. * You suddenly have friends or family telling you that the breakup was a mistake. Nine chances out of ten he's behind it. * If you have children and he makes excuses to see then more than usual. * Questions the children (if you have any) as to what you have been up too. The best thing to do is face him by asking him to meet with you. Just simply ask him if there is any chance for the two of you to get back together and if he doesn't give you a direct answer and may say he isn't ready yet, then YOU take control and tell him that you want your life back and he either commits to the marriage or you are filing for divorce.

That's an easy question all you have to do is ask the guy

It sounds like he can't totally own up to what has actually happened. I once had an ex tell me he was KIND OF engaged to a new girl. Puleeze. At least your ex said he was sorry. It sounds like he doesn't want to hurt you any further. It sounds like he cares for you but doesn't see you as a girlfriend. Everyone has opinions. As much as it all hurts, remember that its just his opinion. If you're wondering if he made a mistake or if he will come back to you, yes there's a chance. But don't put your life on hold for it. If other guys ask you out, then go. Keep in mind that if he does come back, he ended things with you because he chose to be with another girl. Remember that. Don't make the mistake of taking him back. His loss. ~ T

She just might be happy...happy that you're not treating her poorly anymore. No doubt she probably wanted it to work out with you, but she has to get herself together since you wasn't there for her plus you dumped her. Be happy for her new happiness and treat you next one with respect.

You boyfriend has no business seeing his ex! It's time you started to communicate and tell him you aren't jealous of his ex, but you don't share! If he gives you any lip over this then say, "Well you both broke-up for reasons of your own and normal people walk away from their exs. You can't have it both ways!" Let him know if this continues you will stop seeing him. NEVER be afraid to take a stand when something is wrong. You bet his ex is trying to still rein him in every so often and he's in control of his own life and should be mature enough to pucker up his lips and learn to say "no" to his ex. Go for it! Good luck Marcy

It sounds as though he's wanting to keep you on the back burner, in case things with his current girlfriend don't work out. It's not respectful to either his current girlfriend or to you. Regardless if you still have feelings for your ex or not, would you want to be with a guy who continuously keeps tabs on and was in contact with a very recent ex girlfriend? This guy is your ex for a good reason. He's playing with both of your heads. Maybe he wants to keep you on the back burner if his new relationship doesnt work out. Does his new gal know he's calling to check on you and how insensitive that he calls and asks for help with his relationship. Is he a man or a mouse, cant he handle his own business....Why not suggest that you talk directly to the girlfriend to help out and see what he says, he will probably stutter and make up some bullcrap excuse of why you cant talk to her, then you have your answer.

Refuse to answer his calls (if you don't have 'Call Display' get it from your phone company ... it's cheap and you'll see his # and name.) Don't email him back or IM. If he bothers you at work or follows you then report him to the police and get a Restraining Order put on him. Although Restraining Orders aren't work the paper it's written on it is still a legal document and he breaks it you can take him to court. Hopefully you'll have a nice guy you'll be dating and usually when that happens the ex will split. Mine did. Good luck!

Perhaps it is a polite way of telling you he is no longer intested in your relationship. Ask him just what does he mean by his statement,then get on with your life. he wants space & time away from his partner. may that be his excuse to party or not does not matter. it still falls under the same catagory.

Typically they go postal and engage on mass murder sprees.

Look, most relationships come and go, and everyone experiences hurt at some point. So instead of straining yourself and doing it the hard way, just end it yourself. Be gentle and considerate to her. I guarantee you, unless she herself was about to end it, she'll be hurt. It's no use trying to ease your way out of it. i agree. because whether you break up with her or she breaks up with you she's still going to end up hurt.. just because she broke off doesn't mean she wanted to her her feelings left it was because she had to so she wouldn't get hurt anymore than you were already hurting her..

Well for starters it might be good to get some help or at least a good friend you can trust that will help you. I don't know why you broke up but do what you feel is right. You say that you still love him and feel bad for breaking up so go from there.

because he is ur x boyfreind. x stands for not

• No matter how broken hearted you are you are not listening to what your ex boyfriend is saying. I doubt he hates you, but he has moved on and has a new girlfriend. No one likes to feel rejected by someone they care about, but it happens to all of us at some time in our lives. He has made it clear that you are not getting back together; has his new girlfriend so you should be mature enough to face up to that and move on; start going out with friends and then start dating other young men. If you were meant to be with your ex boyfriend you would be together, but fate has stepped in and he is not the one for you and if you start datingsoon sometime in the future you will meet a special young man that you should be with.

• It sounds as if your ex is 'fishing' to find out if you have a relationship with someone else and his own relationship at that given time may not have worked out. He also may be egotistical enough to know if you love him still and you probably assured of him of that so he is free to keep you hanging. Yes, he should have left you alone after not contacting you after a year, but then you answered his email and must have made confirmation as to how you felt about him. It is better to go over the reasons as to why you both split up and decide whether he is worth waiting for. It would be even wiser if you did not contact him at all or respond to him contacting you because he sounds selfish and inconsiderate of you and you can do much better.

Probably that he wants to know why you broke up with him. Doesn't necessarily mean anything more or less than that.

If your boyfriend looks at you in a blank way it could mean that he feels neural about you, or that he's trying to appear that he does.

• When a young man does not treat you well he has a psychological problem and you should never allow yourself to put up with the way he treats you as he will never have any respect for you and he will treat you worse. Whether you like each other or not you are now exes and both of you should be moving forward in the opposite directions.