Breakups

That sounds like a polite way to say "I don't really like you that way." Just give her some time to figure out her feelings. If she doesn't like you though, the relationship could end in a much uglier fashion.

You should probably cheat on your boyfriend to see if it feels right with your boyfriends best friend. And even if your boyfriend catches you, you could just blame the best friend and say he tried to rape you or something.

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I have the same problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months and I have recently found out that I have feelings for his best friend. The friend likes me too and we have even tried to kiss to see how it feels. But then....crap hit the fan....the friend told my boyfriend and everything went to hell. So, in my opinion I don't think you should cheat on your boyfriend. Maybe you could take a break and try things out with the friend, but I would not cheat on him. That would make him lose trust in you and what if the fling with the best friend doesn't work out? I know, this sucks.

no but he has a wife and when shes sad he does a naughty dance for her!and i know that the prettiest girl in the world is me kittykat 1999 (May Elmantawy)

I fell backward. Is the correct sentence I belive.

That's probably the worse idea ever. Don't cheat on your current boyfriend, especially with your ex. First of all, your ex-boyfriend is an EX-boyfriend for a reason.. your currently boyfriend of two years will most likely be devasted. You don't want to live with that guilt.. And although things are getting "stale", there are ways to fix that. Don't cheat on him, because more often than not, you will regret it -- your boyfriend will most likely leave you, or you will FOREVER taint the relationship. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend of 2 years, break up with him first. Tell him it's just not working out anymore - but by all means, don't cheat. You leave a bad reputation for yourself, and your current boyfriend will go through trust issues long after you do this. If you want to pursue your exboyfriend, break up with the current one first. But, I hope you think this through. Remember, "You don't know what you got until you lose it". Good luck.

Depends how amicable the break up was.

Should you desire the moral highground (and deserve it) act crushed and let them know it...

If you want to hurt them, brush it off, completly, don't be arrogant and rub it in, just act completly immune, it will be far more effective in the long run

Scorpio and Aries get along.

Both of them have a successful mindset. Winning is the only logical outcome each one sees for themselves.

Aries is notorious for starting projects but never finishing them. Scorpio keeps Aries focused on projects from start to finish.

Scorpio is slow to trust others, which Aries helps them with.

These two are evenly matched, meaning no one has more power than the other in the relationship.

When a woman is hesitant to answer a serious question because she doesnt know ,usually means the answer she has for you is not the one you want to hear. I wouldn't bother with it right now. If she does decide to be with you later let that be on her. I wouldn't pressure the issue anymore cause that could cause her not wanting to even think about a later relationship down the road. Be cool about the situation and don't get to upset with her cause you can help what someone elses feelings are.

Sometimes life throws us a curve and we don't much care for the change, but what we don't always realize is its usually the best thing that could happen to us and is a warning to move on. In the case of your ex-girlfriend I think you are getting a warning. Although there are some long distance relationships that work out they are few and far between. Jealousy most often rears it's ugly head. One doesn't know if the other is dating someone while they are away. Personally, I wouldn't get involved in a long distance relationship. There is nothing better than seeing that person in the flesh. Your girlfriend is being selfish and wants it all her own way. There is nothing wrong with her wanting to move, but she should be more honest with you. If you truly love someone then you try to find ways of staying together. She could have asked you to move out where she was going, or made plans for both of you getting together some weekends or on holidays. Since it doesn't appear she is thinking along these lines I would be very aware of the fact she has no regard for your feelings and is not as in love with you as you are with her. Even through the pain of losing someone you love, hold onto your dignity. Have a chat with her and say something like: "I wish you all the luck in the world, but I don't care for long distance relationships, and I feel we should both be free to date other people." If she really cares for you the thought of you dating another girl will drive her crazy, but if she doesn't respond to your comment or doesn't make much of a fuss then she isn't going to miss you as much as you think she will. Either way you'll win ... you'll be hurt, but you'll hold onto your dignity and by doing so you will meet another girl that is really meant for you. Good luck Marcy

I really can't tell you why he broke up with you. I suggest you give him a few days to sort his feelings out in his head and then ask him what happened. Hopefully he'll give you a straight answer and you may be able to talk about what could change so you can get back together.

A narcissist is back and forth with feeling emotion for another. They want to make one feel as if they want attention and then when they get it- they push it away. This is on the account that they do not want to admit or show that they indeed do need someone. It is common for somebody with this condition to love for someone to feel sorry for them- will not admit this or have a hard time admitting this. When it comes time to look at their thinking critically- they will shut down. Counseling could be the answer, but the person must for sure want the help.

You must respect your friends wishes when she says she does not want to see you whatever the reason. What do you do? How do you get herback? The only thing you can do is to be the best you can be. exercise, read, get a hair cut, make a new friend (the best, highest level you can). Make it your mission to be your personal best. perhaps school. perhaps a new job. make yourself proud. Be a grown up. learn about yourself. think. if she sees you again it will be up to her to see your growth and make a move that is if the new lady in your life has not come along yet. i think you will attract someone more suitable and probably near by. By the way, there is not only one person who can be your soulmate.

When the child is born, attempt to get a DNA test done on the father. If it matches, then file suit in court asking for child support. If awarded by the court, the father will be required by law to provide support for that child until he/she attains the age of 18.

Mai tumharay saath rishta torna chahti hoon.

You could get someone to talk to like a best friend or find something to keep your mind off him

No. A spouse or ex spouse cannot get an order to prevent you from seeing someone else. They could get a no contact order to keep you away from them but not someone else.

Since alcohol dulls a person's psychological defense mechanisms there is a distinct possibility that your ex-girlfriend's admission was based on truth. However, it is unfortunate that she needed drink to be open about her feelings toward you.

My advice is stop seeing him altogether. I'm sure he wishes things could continue on as they have been, but he's the only one who seems to benefit from it. Neither you nor she will ever have him all to yourselves. He is married to her. There are much better guys out there for you. You deserve to have someone just for you!

Long Distance relationships can be a toughy. If you know for sure that he is cheating, he is not worth the anguish and dread you feel. You need to cut him off without telling him the reason, but don't explain at all (this is the key) Then you will find out if he truly cares for you as he will repeatedly try to contact you and find out whats wrong or that you are ok.

This may sound like one of those relationship "games" but its imperative to have this premise for you to really find out his true feelings towards you.

Let him hang for a day or two before you answers his calls or msgs. Phone calls are always better for long distance as he can't recite what's he says (unless he's a Shakespeare scholar) You will know if it comes from the heart.....If he indeed has one.

Because we get more into the relationship than you. and i dunno why, but the girl ALWAYS cares more than the boy does. so when the boy gets dumped, all he thinks of is his rep. if people found out about it, he might become a little less popular. take it from me, ive never been dumped, if a girl has the right stuff, lol, i mean is what the guy is looking for, there wont be any problems. like with me. but girls do wanna kill guys if they even look at another girl, and honestly, that bothers me. if u wanna look at her, look at her! NEWSFLASH! free world! lol. but when girls say, "Why were you just looking at that girl's butt?" then walks away and doesnt talk to you for the rest of the night, that makes no sense. girls look at boys. boys look at girls. that's just the way it is.

Tell him to stop, tell your parents...if it gets totally out of hand then call the police!

Whatever a speaker communicates to someone else is termed the message.

Of course it's wrong. If you are absolutely positive that the baby is your child, you need to develop a bond with that child. As a father, you have parental rights and those rights include being able to see your baby with liberal visitation. You are also obligated to support this child. After all, your baby mama cheated....NOT the baby!

Whatever you do, don't punish the child by losing contact. I understand that you feel betrayed by the child's mother, but you can't allow your feelings to reflect on the baby. Take the high road and make arrangements to see your child as much as possible and please don't be tempted to slander the mother to the child when he or she gets older. You are both the parents and need to be mature enough to put your feelings aside to help that child grow with as little "conflict" as possible.

Now, if you feel that the baby isn't yours because this woman cheated on you, that's a different story. Then, you need to insist on a DNA test. There should be no problem with your baby mama agreeing to this if she is positive you are the father. You don't even have to have this done in a clinic or hospital; they now have home DNA tests. Ask someone about them in your local pharmacy. They are relatively inexpensive and give accurate results.

I'm currently dealing with this myself. I have done a little research online and a found a few things interesting and possibly helpful: 1. write down what it is you find so interesting about the person and why - because if you know the answer to why it at least puts you on the road to being able to move on.


2. I like the idea of writing down what is wrong about the person and not holding back. I saw that on yahoo answers. But, it was also important then not to give all those bad thoughts to the person. You can be a jerk, but just be it to yourself - if at all possible..give off a carefree air to the person you need to get over. We all know this - But, people LOVE confidence. They respond to it. We are feeling like the earth has swallowed us up and something is eating out our heart - but by showing this we may be making our problems worse. Be Confident.


Once you've written it..get rid of it. Try not to hold on to things about the person..especially if you KNOW for sure they don't feel the same way. You can comfort yourself they may feel that way down the road..but hopefully, by that time you're alot further down that road and even if they did - you wouldn't particularly care anymore.
Be Courageous.


3. If you have no best friend to moan to..be your own best friend. Being in a one sided love is a very lonely feeling - don't compound the problem by overeating or beating yourself up. If you've ever had somebody else in love with you and felt badly you didnt' return the feelings it probably wasn't because they were disgusting and unlovable - it may have just been the wrong time.
Be Compassionate.


4. Keep your mind open to new things. Take your time getting over this person. As long as you want - it's YOUR life after all. IN this - you have total control. You're the author of your own destiny. All that pain is taking you down a journey towards something else.. Sometimes pain is a good life lesson that can help you through something else down the road. As long as you're alive - there is always Hope.
Be you're own HERO.


Good luck - hope this helped somewhat. Even if it's anonymous. I really hope you find the love you seek.

Interesting question. Value is a relative term and really has no place in spirituality. Spirituality is more about dropping the idea of value. See is one moment really more valuable than the next? What makes it such? I one belief system more valuable then the next? What makes it so? The answer to all these questions is EGO. We project value on the world. When the value itself does not exist.

There are a couple of lectures on this subject on youtube by Swami Nithyananda.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xcXEnRQG0rI