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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Name the precept from Polonius's farewell speech to his son that seems to contain the best advice on how to be a good person rather than look like a successful person?

Polonius's farewell speech was talking about not to say what you're thinking, and act quickly on what you think. He also said to be friendly to people but try not to overdo it. Make sure you know who your real friends are and make sure that you can trust them, once you know that you need to hold onto them. Don't waste your time trying to make friends with every person you meet and don't pick a fast fight unless you can stand your ground.

She wants to be friends after we break up so why doesn't she make the effort to contact me?

She just wants you to be there when she needs you . It because she's scared to lose you and because she still needs you , but just if she is short off attention . Try to ignore her a week or 2 , she would strat talking to you again , besides that never listen to her emotional crap and just pretend you're doing allright .

How do you cope with break up after 10 years no idea where they went?

* Sorry to say that after 10 years and you don't know where that person is means the person has gotten on with their life as you should. Often when there is a breakup caused by one of the two people involved the one left behind will put that person on a pedestal and they are probably nothing like that now. Please get out with friends and start dating again. There is someone special for you out there.

How do you get boyfriend back after he broke up with you because of his parents?

It looks lie your oyfriend broke up with you because his parents didn't approve of you. Try to tidy up around his parents, but be yourself around him.

Your ex-boyfriend wants to start over that's what he tells you but he doesnt tell his boys that does he still want you?

believe it or not that just happened to me on thursday.... well i told my bf that if he really wanted me back that he would have to deal with his friends talking s*** to him cuz i new if i took him back i would have much more to deal with cuz i was the one that was crying cuz he broke up with me and i loved him. so tell him to make a choice, his pride or u....

Is being completely ignored by your ex a form of abuse?

Not one that you can bring to court and prosecute Although it is wrong, and it does hurt, it's not illegal abuse. Whether it's ANY type of abuse is an opinion really. In my opinion, I don't find it to be. Someone else might though... It matters on the person.

Is it normal for a guy to be mad at his girlfriend but still be okay with his best friend after he finds out that they were messing around behind his back?

I think in the long run we all tend to forgive our friends easier than our significant others. But, I don't think that what they did was respectful at all. Your guy friend should have known better, and so should your girlfriend. If you're going to forgive one of them, then forgive both of them, after all they did the same thing...now can you take something like this in the future?Or will it always be in the back of your mind poking you in the head?I personally would not trust a friend (let alone a best friend) if he/she ever did something like this to me..This shows how much respect they both have for you. Don't be surprised if they get together in the future.. Some people are more likely to forgive a friend (whom they've probably had past fights with) for what happened than someone they loved and truly trusted on a whole different level. On the other hand, some may feel angry at the ex, but even more betrayed by the friend they have know for years who they thought was there for them. Deep down, though, with both the ex and the friend, there won't be the same level or friendship or trust ever again. Hes pretending the friend is not a big deal because men compete. He does not want to show any worry of this man. He wants others to think that this man is no threat to him. So hes being this guys friend still but I guarantee he will end the friendship in a few months once this has all blown over so it wont look like he ended the friendship because of that. Hes smart. I would do the same then ditch them like a hot potato! He will never have respect for either of you again so dont waste your time trying. Learn from this and move on. If he still wants to be friends be carefull cause he may do a head trip on you to get revenge. He is hurt, Im sure. The long and short of it is cheating is cheap! One has the choice of breaking-off with the person they are going with to be free to do as they choose. Whether this 21st century youth wants to believe it or not all centuries of men (particularly women) had a code where they did not go after another man's/woman's partner if they were seeing that person on a steady basis or were married and if it did happen the woman usually got the worst of it by being cast out of society as a whole. If I'm wrong then why is it that the cheaters always lose! With friends like her you don't need enemies. With a boyfriend like that, you need to give your head a shake and kick this rat to the sewer. You'll never be able to trust them again. Trust is a most sacred thing whether any of us like to admit it or not. You did nothing wrong, but they did!

Should you get back together with your ex if he has a baby with someone else but wants to be with you and you are in a new relationship but miss your ex?

Absolutely not! Get over missing him and move on with your life. Let him stay with the mother of his child. So what if he wants to get back together with you? What makes you think he would stay? He sounds like he is as fickle as they come. I would bet even if you got back together with him, he would someday decide he wanted to be with someone elese. Do not put yourself through it!

What does it mean when you ask someone if they still love you and they say that sometimes they do and sometimes they don't?

OK. I generally try to avoid these kinds of questions, but this one I just couldn't pass up. First of all, you should not be asking someone if they still love you. If they love you, they show it and you know it. If there is any doubt, either you have insecurity issues, or this person is not worth your time. If they tell you that they love you and you don;t believe them, then you need to get out because you don;t trust them and a relationship can't be built without trust. If you are afraid that you may be hurt if you trust them and you are wrong, then you need to get out. Fear of being hurt is not a reason to not trust someone. It's something that can happen and it's just part of the risk of having something great. Love is not a wishy washy thing. It is unconditional. I love my kids. No matter what they do wrong, no matter how mad I get, I still love them. I married a woman I loved once but we grew apart. This is something that can and does happen. But it's something that is gradual and permanent. Not something that just comes and goes. "Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't" is how I feel about peanut butter- not the ones I love. If someone is giving this kind of answer to a question that shouldn't need to be asked in the first place, it tells me that this person simply does not know the answer but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. If they really loved you though, they would know it completely and never even doubt it. Move on and find someone else. Another slant on this subject is the fact that when we either date or are married for sometime then the relationship can grow stale if we don't keep an eye on it (easy to do in a fast-paced world.) No relationship is perfect and arguments can ensue and sometimes we love our mates and other times you feel like packing your bags and moving to a far off country, but, when you cool off and settle down one realizes just how much they do love their mate. I think he's just telling the truth and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, but it's normal to love someone and then be angry at them hours or days later and just want to walk away at a moments notice. It's simply part of human nature.

How do you sneak someone over?

If your doing it at night then make sure everyone in the house is asleep. Then sneak them in through the window if you have one in your room. If you dont then find a door that doesnt make noise when you open it. A sliding glass door is the best way if theres no windows.

If its during the day then make sure no ones home and know how long there going to be gone. If no ones home then you dont have to worry about letting them in through the front door.

I miss my girlfriend of 2 and half years and she seems to not want anything to do with me now. I hate this. What do i do?

I really hate to even hint this, but she may not be interested in you anymore. But don't worry. Simply talk to her and she how she feels. If wishes to continue your relationship, then good; you may have to work on some issues you may be having together though. If she does not want to be in the relationship anymore, then there's always another girl out there. You just have to go out and find her. Hope this helps.

Will an ex girlfriend get back with me after I tried suicide?

It depends on how she acted. If she is really mad at you then she wont. But if she is acting uncomfortable around you it means she really wants to talk to you she just doesn't know how to approach you.

My ex's close friends flirt with me loads and say im fit around him does this make him jealous?

  • Be wise and smart because your ex's friends could be having a good go at you and you could get into serious trouble with these young men. It is possible your ex has said it is over between you and that you are free to date whomever you want. Some young men take it that you are up for grabs in the sex department. Be very aware of his friends! If he was jealous he would have words or possibly even get into a fight over one of his friends coming onto you. You should consider forgetting your ex and moving on in your future so you are free to date other young men who deserve your attention far more than your ex has given you.

In human relatons a relationship can be damaged by?

Relationships tend to be damaged by lies, betrayal, selfishness, insanity, crime, drug addiction, and other forms of unpleasantness.

How do you get your ex-boyfriend to pay you back money the owes you. I made iou and he didnt sign it?

If you have witnesses to the loan, and if there's enough money involved, you can try small claims court. Otherwise, accept the fact that he's not going to pay you back (and maybe mention to your friends that they shouldn't loan him any money). And be glad he's your EX-boyfriend!

What does it mean when your ex boyfriend is dating another girl just like his other ex girlfriend before the girl he's dating now?

It sounds like he was not over the first girl, and is consciously or subconsciously reliving his prior relationship through another person.

Is it okay for you to sleep with your ex boyfriends best friend?

That's quite the risk, and you can do whatever you want, but it's most likely a bad idea. It also depends on your relationship with your ex, if you're friends or if you ended on bad terms.

How do you get your best friend to stop liking someone?

You really shouldn't make your best friend stop liking someone unless that person's a bad influence on her/him. If they ARE a bad influence, just explain to your friend that he/she is not right for him/her. Make sure she/he knows how you feel about this.

Hope this helped

Can you share me your ways to contact ex after a break up the best way?

Two of the best ways to contact your ex after a break up are through your phone. You may try a phonecall or a text. If the text or the phonecall goes unanswered, do not continue to pester the person. Give them time and allow them to contact you back. If they choose not to, you should move on.

If after break up of 6 mnths your ex bf contacts your best friend just to say hello what shld you get that he wants to contact you or not?

no he is probably trying to move on in life and you should do the same thing as well

he probably just wants to be frineds with you nothign mroe then that