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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
How do you get your ex gf back?
Forget it. Whatever happened it is "water under the bridge" and life goes on. You need to realize the mistakes that were made so you don't repeat them. You can not "make" a person love you, want you, or even like you. Move on.
How can you tell if your ex is still in love with you if he ain't calling you anymore?
Actions speak louder than words. Let's take a closer look at his actions one by one. He's still in another relationship--do you really think that's an action of love for you. He calls you constantly and wants to see you. Ask yourself why he wants to see you. Is it for a sexual encounter? Have you been allowing him to see you and have sex with you? When he talks with you, does the conversation always end up with a sexual tone? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, do you really think that's an action of love. Love is not a feeling it's actions of kindness, respect, and loyalty. Love is not rude, and hurtful. Love does not take advantage of another for selfish gain. Think about it, and you can answer your own question.
So sorry for your problem, but the other poster is right.
This guy sounds like he's an ego maniac ... wants his cake and eat it too! Don't give him the pleasure. Time to kick this guy to the curb! Move on, show your independence and don't look back. There are other wonderful men out there that you could meet and would treat you with the respect you deserve. Don't cheat yourself.
For now, refuse to answer his calls and if he hounds you, then tell him to "knock it off." Don't feed into his fantasy of having 2 women.
What does it mean when you have a dream about an ex boyfriend who your still in love with?
You obviously still love him and miss him. Call him sometime.
Why should you believe in love?
some people don't believe in love. this is probably because theyve never experienced the kind of feeling that you get when you find that special someone. you cant find the right words... you get the kind of tingling in your back and in your toes and in your fingers (in a good way - not like pins and needles). i didnt. then i did. that's probably why
How do you help someone who is suicidal because of you?
We should help suicidal people becauase we can't let someone we love or know die and think of death and let them suffer from a painful thing we need to help others that are suicidal. Don't let them think of death, because what if that suicidal person was someone you knew then when they commit suicide you just lost someone you love. HELP the SUICIDAL!!!
Being drunk lowers both your ability to think clearly and your inhibition. Combining these means that a bad situation for most guys gets worse, and bad ideas become acceptable ideas.
You didn't say if he actually told you he loved you or you are second-guessing him. If he loved you he'd have no problems leaving the other woman. If you've been talking to him all this time then tell him it's you or the other woman. Give him that ultimatum because he could be playing both of you women for fools.
How do you sincerely say you are sorry?
This one is simple;
If you are really sorry for what you did, tell them directly to their face, I'm sorry. I know what I did was wrong. It was unwise and foolish. I will never do it again. you have my word and my solemn oath. I will try my hardest to make things better. Please forgive me.
Not so simple, I think. You have to be sincere to make a sincere apology. If you are not sincere, it will show in your face and your voice.
What if your ex likes your best friend?
If that is yh00r best friend and y00 guys are really cl0se y00 sh0uldnt have t0 w0rry ab0ut yh00r best friend gettin with yh00r ex b0yfriend and if she d0es that's messed up and shes n0t a true friend
What are some things to say to your girlfriend?
Tell her your true feelings and if you feel the urge to say something romantic tell her "I love you" Girls love to hear that stuff!!
I wrote a poem, she loved it! XD
How can you get your ex girlfriends attention?
Many people will be giving you advice and tricks that will allegedly help you get your ex girlfriend back. But none of them, I think, would really work if you really don't know exactly what you are trying to do. To get an ex girlfriend back to and have a new relationship with you again, you must give her a very good reason to get back. It is not something that is tangible that you should offer just so she will be enticed, but something that she should understand that getting back to you is the best decision to make.
Before you do it, try to see if she's trustworthy. For example, if she gives you a very fake reason, don't just settle to be friends. You can usually find a phony reason by evaluating it to how it fits. If it dosn't seem right, you know she's running a game on you, especially if she goes around everywhere, flirting with everyone, until she gets a new guy.
This very situation happened to me. And, I had found out that my ex wasn't trustworthy. Eventually, I had to rely on my last resort. I had to make her realize I wasn't going to accept the fake, non-appreciated, and, not to mention crappy, friendship offer, as a "Consolation prize". So, I had to do just that. And, now, I can actually feel like I don't have a 1-way-type of relationship with a girl that I would have felt strong feelings for, and, yet, she's dating others, guilt-free.
Nope. No more, of that. She ruined my trust for her, and she paid for it, by losing whatever relationship she had left with me. However, nowadays, I think I have PTSD symptoms, as, when I see any girl who has a hairstyle similar to her's, or the same hair color as my ex, I get a little bit on the self-defense mode. However, once analyzed, and it turns out to not have been her, I start to relax. However, I hope this has been an appreciated answer.
Is it true that Jamal Bryant and his wife is divorcing?
Yes, Jamal Bryant's divorce is now considered to be final. His wife divorced him for being unfaithful in their marriage.
How do you get someoe to like you?
You can't force anyone to like you, just be yourself and try not to care what the other people say.
AnswerI like how the person before me said to be yourself. That's very true. But also, keep these things in mind when you are thinking about saying something to someone:- Is it kind? (Do you want it to be?)
- Is it friendly? (Do you want it to be?)
- Is it helpful? (it should always be helpful in someway)
Always remember to be nice. You should always be nice to a friend, unlike a best friend, where you can laugh at them and nothing changes.
AnswerBe approachable and just smile.Being yourself never fails.
Just an addition to the answers aboveA person should not base his/her self-esteem or self worth on the acceptance and love of others. Some people might like you and some people might not, however, you should not try to match people's expectations. This will put alot of stress and pressure off your back and you will enjoy more happiness in life. AnswerBe approachable and smile.Should you get back with your ex after he's slept with other girls?
Doesn't sound like they care about you and being dedicated to you very much. No matter how much you care about them, i would suggest not getting back together. They don't seem to care about you and your feelings. Does it not bring you heartbreak that they slept with another girl? You're probably better off without them. But, it's your decision. Life is about risks. Follow your heart, but you have a head for a reason. Not to make the decision, but to think it through. Keep that in mind.
What if you want to break up with your boyfriend but you really like him?
You go back to him say your sorry and you know how boys are if they are still single they want to a girlfriend. You go back and say your sorry and you know how boys are if they are still single they want a girlfriend.
What do you do when you run into your ex-best friend?
you just ignore them and walk away but if he says hi to you say hi back don't say anything unless he or she says something first
Is it OK to break up with someone on the phone if you almost never see them?
- It's not bad to break up over the phone, but it would be better if you looked each other in the eyes and broke up. Sometimes individuals can be angry with their partner and say or do things they wouldn't normally do. By breaking up over the phone it's basically a chicken way out and too easy. Wise individuals lean to face the person they have difficulties with face to face.
How do you break up with someone who breaks up with you?
If you want to dump your boyfriend, your gunna have to do it someway, otherwise you'll be unhappy. I reckon you should just tell him straight up to his face. NEVER break up over text or over phone, just tell him you don't feel the same way about him anymore, but make sure he knows it's not him :)
Good luck!
What does a dream about arguing with your ex-girlfriend mean?
It isn't always clear what dreams mean and it would be hard for me to say without more info about you and the person you had the dream about. I would also need to no more about your dream. There are some psychologists that can interpret dreams, as well as a few other experts. There are some books on the subject as well. Most likely, without knowing more about your dream. It means there is something you are upset with that person about or are at odds with that person about something.
Can parents make you dump your bf?
Absolutely NOT!
Yes parents play an important role in the upbringing of their child but they in no way "rule" their child's life. The decision of whom to be in a relationship with is at the discretion of the child itself. Yes you can listen them out and ponder over their suggestion but your life is your life to be lived your way.
What should you do if you cheat on your boyfriend?
You don't say if you still are in love with him.Well anyway be honest with him.You both probably loved or still love each other.Don't you think if he means that much to you he deserves to know the truth.He might even suspect that you cheated on him and telling him lets him decide to move on with or without you.He will be hurt but I think he will be hurt more by lying to him.Someone said it's better not to know,but they've probably never been cheated on.And it's better to be honest.Marty
Can strong feelings come back for someone you loved?
Yes. At one point when you brake up with someone, you think you don;t like them anymore, but that's what your mind is thinking because your mad. But when you seee that person again, you realize you still have feelings for them.
What do I do to get revenge on a guy that broke my heart?
I wouldn't do anything about it. Don't assosciate yourself with this guy and things WILL get better with your friend. Just remember, Karma's a b*tch. try setting him up with someone that he realy likes fakely, get them to say "will you go out with me" and when he says yes get them to shout rejected in his face if u wana b my mate then my msn is cesone10@hotmail.co.uk gud luk
When someone dreams it is a fact that the last thing they were thinking of before they go to bed they will dream about. You're in love my dear! You see your boyfriend as your hero and and sometimes we fantasize and think of that person saving us. Even watching a movie could have triggered this dream off.
