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It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.

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Are you supposed to cry after a break up?

Probably yes if you're really mad or so upset you want to kill yourself.

How can you show your ex boyfriend how much you miss him and want him back in your life?

Answer to wanting EX BF backbasically, you can just be honest with him and tell him how you really still feel for him.but before you do so, you have to make sure that you really do still love him lest having to realise that you still love him because you are just lonely.first, you have to give it a period of time to realise and weigh how you really feel.you both ended for a reason anyway.so if it is because of you, then you must make sure that you are ready to change for the better.if it is him, will you be able to accept him again. he cant change straight away for you, because he isn't the one who wants to come back in the relationship.and even if he still does, then you need to give him another chance to show his worth to you.don't ever rush to something that you are not sure about.there are other guys around so just explore first. if you're really sure that nobody can take that love away for your ex boyfriend, then let him know.but in the process, just be a good friend for him.

good luck.

What does it mean when your boyfriend breaks up with you in a text?

An exboyfriend texting you could mean almost anything. It could mean that he just wants to talk, that he wants to get back together with you, that he has something specific that he needs to tell you, etc.

I like a guy but we don't know each other that well what do I do?

It depends on where it is. If he played you in a soccer game or something I personally wouldn't try to start anything. If its at school, I would.

How do you write a letter to win back a lover who broke it off?

Dear my one true love (name goes here)

ever since we parted i have missed you very much and it is hard to go each day without seeing you. I really loved you very much and i wish our relationship had never ended. Whenever i was with you i was happy and enjoying every minute. But now it's just not the same. I've tried to love again but no-one compares to you. i am missing you greatly for i love you now and i always did.xxxxxx

yours lovingly (name goes here).

Why do girls cry so much when they break-up with a boy?

Boys makes girls cry for many different reasons. The most common are:

  • He hurt her in some way.
  • He said something he shouldn't have said.
  • He broke up with her.
  • He cheated.

How can you make sure that your girlfriend loves you?

Just by the way she treats you and here are some hard and fast signs: * Respects your feelings, * Is proud to introduce you to her family and friends, * Listens to your problems * Trust in each other * Doesn't mind if you go out with your buddies on occasion * Shares hopes and dreams with you * Likes to cuddle with you * You laugh a lot together * You love being together no matter what you are doing * She may hold your hand or put her arm around your waist * When she looks at your "the eyes say it!" These are but a few signs, so if you're asking all is not well in your relationship. If you don't feel she truly loves you communicate this to her and see what she has to say about it. If things don't improve, then you move on. Always realize that if you give respect you should receive it and if you don't kick these sorts to the curb! Good luck Marcy

What if your girlfriend wants to spend time with her ex and their kids?

  • If the children are her exes then she has a right to either see her children if her ex has them or if she has the children then the ex (as a father) has the right to see his children. However, her ex can pick the children up and have quality time with them and there is no need for them to be together. It is time to communicate the fact to your girlfriend that it is either her ex she chooses or you because you are no longer putting up with this arrangement.

Why are some ex boyfriends always willing to take you back?

Some of them are actually sorry and do want you back. If they cheated on you consider it A LOT. My boyfriend cheated on me and he is just ignoring me now. When he cheated on me .?????? But still... Consider it very carefully!! Lovee Youu x

Can you tell if your ex boyfriend still loves you but he says that we're just friends?

well it depends if it was a mean break up for example say he cheated on you then DO NOT be his friend because he'll just try to hurt you again but on the other hand if it was not a mean break up for example he or you just said maybe we should just take a break from dating then yeah be his friend its ok then to be your friends with your ex boyfriend only if it was not a mean break up! sencerly, secret chica ANSWER Unfortunately at this time he just wants to be friends with you and you are going to have to respect that and try to move forward. I realize it may hurt but in due time things will be better. It will be mature of both of you if you can break up without all the drama, arguing and ignoring one another that generally goes on. I do have to say though taking time and moving forward means not waiting around for him hoping you can get back together as it would consume you thinking and feeling that way when it may not happen. Move forward with happiness of the time you did get to spend together and happy to be friends. I realize this all sounds easier said than done but I can guarantee things will get better. Keep yourself busy, spend time doing things you enjoy with friends and family and you will see in no time that things will be looking up.

Can anyone tell me what the phrase That which is bitter to endure is sweet to remember means?

People take pride in their heroic efforts under adverse and dangerous conditions. The most common example is the nostalgia of former soldiers.

How do you gain your boyfriends trust back after you broke a promise?

I am not sure what you mean by "duties." These are the rules when you are dating someone. Remain faithful Have respect for each other If you don't want to lose your virginity, that is your decision and "going" with someone is not marriage so you don't have any obligations in this department with your boyfriend. If your have been unfaithful it will take time to heal (that is if your boyfriend still wants to have you around.) People aren't perfect and we all make mistakes, and you obviously have made one. When any of us hurt someone that is a scar they bare and one that only time can heal. I suggest you sit down and talk to your boyfriend about how you felt at the time you made "the mistake" and remind him that all people are not perfect and you can only learn by your mistakes. Good luck Marcy

How do you get your ex gf back?

Forget it. Whatever happened it is "water under the bridge" and life goes on. You need to realize the mistakes that were made so you don't repeat them. You can not "make" a person love you, want you, or even like you. Move on.

How can you tell if your ex is still in love with you if he ain't calling you anymore?

Actions speak louder than words. Let's take a closer look at his actions one by one. He's still in another relationship--do you really think that's an action of love for you. He calls you constantly and wants to see you. Ask yourself why he wants to see you. Is it for a sexual encounter? Have you been allowing him to see you and have sex with you? When he talks with you, does the conversation always end up with a sexual tone? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, do you really think that's an action of love. Love is not a feeling it's actions of kindness, respect, and loyalty. Love is not rude, and hurtful. Love does not take advantage of another for selfish gain. Think about it, and you can answer your own question.

So sorry for your problem, but the other poster is right.

This guy sounds like he's an ego maniac ... wants his cake and eat it too! Don't give him the pleasure. Time to kick this guy to the curb! Move on, show your independence and don't look back. There are other wonderful men out there that you could meet and would treat you with the respect you deserve. Don't cheat yourself.

For now, refuse to answer his calls and if he hounds you, then tell him to "knock it off." Don't feed into his fantasy of having 2 women.

Why should you believe in love?

some people don't believe in love. this is probably because theyve never experienced the kind of feeling that you get when you find that special someone. you cant find the right words... you get the kind of tingling in your back and in your toes and in your fingers (in a good way - not like pins and needles). i didnt. then i did. that's probably why

How do you help someone who is suicidal because of you?

We should help suicidal people becauase we can't let someone we love or know die and think of death and let them suffer from a painful thing we need to help others that are suicidal. Don't let them think of death, because what if that suicidal person was someone you knew then when they commit suicide you just lost someone you love. HELP the SUICIDAL!!!

Why do guys drunk text?

Being drunk lowers both your ability to think clearly and your inhibition. Combining these means that a bad situation for most guys gets worse, and bad ideas become acceptable ideas.

How do you get back your ex-boyfriend if he is now with another woman but he still loves you and you love him too?

You didn't say if he actually told you he loved you or you are second-guessing him. If he loved you he'd have no problems leaving the other woman. If you've been talking to him all this time then tell him it's you or the other woman. Give him that ultimatum because he could be playing both of you women for fools.

How do you sincerely say you are sorry?

This one is simple;

If you are really sorry for what you did, tell them directly to their face, I'm sorry. I know what I did was wrong. It was unwise and foolish. I will never do it again. you have my word and my solemn oath. I will try my hardest to make things better. Please forgive me.

Not so simple, I think. You have to be sincere to make a sincere apology. If you are not sincere, it will show in your face and your voice.

What if your ex likes your best friend?

If that is yh00r best friend and y00 guys are really cl0se y00 sh0uldnt have t0 w0rry ab0ut yh00r best friend gettin with yh00r ex b0yfriend and if she d0es that's messed up and shes n0t a true friend

What are some things to say to your girlfriend?

Tell her your true feelings and if you feel the urge to say something romantic tell her "I love you" Girls love to hear that stuff!!

I wrote a poem, she loved it! XD

How can you get your ex girlfriends attention?

Many people will be giving you advice and tricks that will allegedly help you get your ex girlfriend back. But none of them, I think, would really work if you really don't know exactly what you are trying to do. To get an ex girlfriend back to and have a new relationship with you again, you must give her a very good reason to get back. It is not something that is tangible that you should offer just so she will be enticed, but something that she should understand that getting back to you is the best decision to make.

What should you do when your girlfriend wanted a break but when you ask her out or talk to her she doesn't want to talk to me?

Before you do it, try to see if she's trustworthy. For example, if she gives you a very fake reason, don't just settle to be friends. You can usually find a phony reason by evaluating it to how it fits. If it dosn't seem right, you know she's running a game on you, especially if she goes around everywhere, flirting with everyone, until she gets a new guy.

This very situation happened to me. And, I had found out that my ex wasn't trustworthy. Eventually, I had to rely on my last resort. I had to make her realize I wasn't going to accept the fake, non-appreciated, and, not to mention crappy, friendship offer, as a "Consolation prize". So, I had to do just that. And, now, I can actually feel like I don't have a 1-way-type of relationship with a girl that I would have felt strong feelings for, and, yet, she's dating others, guilt-free.

Nope. No more, of that. She ruined my trust for her, and she paid for it, by losing whatever relationship she had left with me. However, nowadays, I think I have PTSD symptoms, as, when I see any girl who has a hairstyle similar to her's, or the same hair color as my ex, I get a little bit on the self-defense mode. However, once analyzed, and it turns out to not have been her, I start to relax. However, I hope this has been an appreciated answer.

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