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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
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Is it normal to hate mankind to the point you want to kill everyone?
Well, no but it isn't nice and it's sorta like bullying so if you hate everyone try to like them more even though it's normal
What do you do if your still in love with your ex that cheated on you?
Well first think of the question. Some one cheated on you and you still like that person. I'm not positive, but if you got really hurt from he or she cheating on you I would let that person be. If he or she broke your heart why do you still like them? Maybe you could be friends, but be very careful. Mistakes happen more than once.
When a girl says Im kinda sorta over you what does she mean by that?
She means that if she wasn't seeing someone else, she might be interested. Maybe.
How do you tell your ex you want him back in your life if you have realized he is the one for you?
ummmm.. men or women shouldn't beg for anything.. if you want him back, but you are not sure he wants to.. first thing you can do is spending little more time with him.. see how he reacts to your attention.. flirt with him... talk to him on the phone.. once you have established some kind of bond with him.. then express your feelings with him.. have heart to hear talk.. good luck! say everything, dont beg though because a women should never beg! but if he loves you alot and he realizes that you do just the same or more he should if hes a great guy. EXPRESS EVERYTHING TO HIM, DONT HOLD ANYTHING BACK !!! GOODLUCK call him and just say everything on your mind, you might get nervous but if you have massive feelings for him which i think you do, then just do it, take a chance because if you dont you might lose your opprotunity!
How do you get over some one who claims they still love you and you still love them?
All of the things you two used to do, they now do with someone else. .... So, when someone tells you on this site that time will help you get through it, ... You have to admit you still like them, then try to move on. believe me, ... It takes me forever to get over a guy! But when I am too in love with him .
If she is your ex , your relationship over now . She might just want to be friends . Or she is missing the old times or using you to gain a shoulder to cry on.
- 'Ex' means the relationship is over. She may miss you, but she had made her choice to stay with the new boyfriend and it is not your problem regarding his relapsed drinking problem. Without knowing it she is using you as a shoulder to cry on because she doesn't know what to do about her new boyfriend; she may feel she can't walk out on him now because of the relapse of alcohol and feels she needs to be loyal to him. The next time you talk to her tell her that her new boyfriend has a choice of helping himself by going to AA and that as long as she is with him you prefer to keep right out of things and then walk away. If she really cares about you then she'll leave her new boyfriend and if she chooses to stay with him then she is heading into murky waters and she is old enough to take care of herself.
You love him but your not sure if he still loves you back any advice on what to do?
I think you should just talk to him about it. I'm going through the same thing. Sometimes I feel like I'm falling out of love with him but when I'm with him everything is fine and I don't know how I could ever think that. Just talk to him about it. If he loved you before he will always love you. Maybe not as much and that's the sad truth but the best thing in a relationship is communication. Soo; talk to him about it. Good luck ! (:
How do you let go of an ex girlfriend?
Don't look back as whatever reason for your decision was probably not your fault anyway. Telling you it was is just self justification to them. They probably weren't worth it as they did not care for what they did. You couldn't fully trust them anymore, there are more fish in the sea, move on, don't keep looking for the sharks, look for the fish.
Should I stay with my boyfriend if he drinks too much?
this is exacly what my boyfriend is like i say u should stay with him if he treats u ok when its drunk but if he treats u bad them leave him or give him the chance to quit and if he doesnt bother then leave him!
Answerstay with him long enough to give him a chance to kick the drink. if he cant quit then theres no point staying."Every day you go to sleep unhappy is a day of happiness you've lost"
AnswerGet involved with your local Alcoholics Anonymous program. They'll help you deal with an alcoholic boyfriend while helping you understand yourself.well i have been dealing with this myself for the past 7 months. Is he chosing drinking and his friends over you? then he stops drinking for a minute, then goes right back to his friends and party life? If so the cycle will probibly continue, you will keep getting your heart broken over and over. I am still in the game. although he left me 6 days ago for good, i guess, when i gave him the option of his partying or me. Easier said than done, walk away. I tried to call him yesterday and hook up, and he even stood me up for that cuz he was drinking with his friends. I hurts bad, but gets easier every day. You are waisting precious time, when you could be with someone who treats you right all the time. Leave him alone, move on if he loves you, maybe he will straighten up and come back to you.
How do you tell someone that they are your best friend?
Tell her you love her like a sister i do that with my friends and they know i love them alot and i wouldn't ever stab her in the back <3
Thank you very much for your reply, I agree :) Next thing I'm going to do when I see her <3
Powerful relationships can be very distructive and incredibly hard to pick up the pieces after. It is said that it takes 5 years to stop thinking of someone you were strongly linked to - so I would advise if you cannot make the relationship work you really need to make a clean break to allow yourself healing time. When you hit rock bottom and feel that life and love will never work out- believe me it will. Time is the greatest healer, there are no quick fixes but look to fill your thoughts and time with positive things like friends and take up one new thing that you have always thought about doing but never got the chance. This is your only shot at life - don't waste it - embrace your learning curves and turn them into positives. If you are young, the heart rules the head and this is something everybody experiences at least once - my big no no to you is to stay friends with the person that hurt you, it will delay the healing process and prevent you from moving on in your life. I wish you luck in your quest - all the best! If its too complicated then you have no other choice but to move on. That means no contact at all if children are not involved. It hurts very bad and you have to be patient as time will heal. I promise you if you have no contact, in one eyar you will be able to think of him and have fond memories without the absolute gut wrenching pain. In two months is probably when you will notice you can feel yourself again at times. You don't say why it's to complicated.If you really love one another you can work it out.Are you the only one who was hurt?Try talking with him than if you can't work together to make it work move on.Marty
How do you let go of the man you love when he has lied to me so much and has deceived me?
Hi Carrie
I don't know if you remember the song, "Walk Away Renee'" but I can tell you, please do that. I know it isn't easy, but please don't waste your life on someone you can't trust.
Usually men (or women) that act in this manner are controlling and I am sure when you walk away he will try with all his might to get you back. Stay away!
Each of us deserves someone that respects us when we give respect to others. Don't sell yourself short as there are so many wonderful guys out there I am sure you will be swinging off the arm of the one you will so be in love with in the near future.
Don't be afraid ... just walk away and don't look back.
Good luck Marcy
Love yourself. You need to get in control of your self and your identity. Love hurts and broken hearts are horrible, but he will NEVER change. Is that the kind of man you honestly believe you deserve when so many other's don't have to put up with that?
What are tips on getting your husband back in love with you?
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- It's apparent you are still in contact with each either sexually or as just friends and it also appears he is using you. Although he has hurt you deeply it's important that you stand on your own two feet and have confidence in yourself and tell him you are moving on without him. If you don't he will continue to use you and hurt you deeply and you may well miss that special person you will eventually meet in the future that you deserve.
How do you make your ex boyfriend who hates you to fall in love with you again?
Try to make him jealous. Do the things he loved you most for. If it was your laugh and you somehow see him randomly start laughing with your friends. Put on his favorite perfume on you. Or just simply try to apologies for what you did
Ten ways to get over your ex-boyfriend?
1. move on don't fight with your emotions let them go and move on with your life. 2. ask your friends if they will set you up. 3. try to avoid your ex untell you are ready to be friends with him. 4. do your best to forget him. 5. show him that you do not care about him any more. 6. think of the good reasons you guys broke up. 7. talk to him about the breake up. 8. be honest with yourself. 9. talk to your friends. 10. this is how i healed form my horible breake up and i hope you guys will get over him to like i did.
How will you know if your boyfriend still love his ex girlfriend?
He will stare at his ex instead of you. He will try to flirt with his ex.
If your boyfriend said we should take a break does that mean he still loves you?
Probably not, if he ever did in the first place. Young people frequently confuse infatuation, which is fleeting, with love, which is not. Are you sure he really loved you, and are you sure you really love him? Or were you both infatuated with each other? Regardless, if he wishes to go on a break, chances are good he is no longer happy with your relationship. But you need to ask him what type of break he's talking about. If he wishes a short break -- a few weeks or a month -- where the two of you do not see other people and get to reassess your feelings for each other, well, that's one thing; that may be okay. He may love you but may dislike certain aspects of the relationship, and he may need time to assess how important -- or unimportant -- those aspects are. If, on the other hand, he wishes to go on break to see other people, well, that's another kettle of fish. It would seem that you've lost his interest.
How do you break up with a clingy and depressed boyfriend?
It is great that you are aware of this problem which means you are ready to confront it. If you feel he should know just sit with him and tell him you have to explain something to him about you that is very personal and that you just want him to listen until you are done as it is going to be difficult for you to say. Being open and honest especially having communication in a relationship is very crucial. Also, if you have not done so you should seek counselling with this as it would be of great help. You can overcome this, take it at your own pace and only seek those that are supportive not destructive or negative for you. All the best - you can overcome!
How to breakup with my angry manipulative boyfriend?
Be firm!!! Once you say you are going to break up, do not listen to his excuses. Do NOT accept him back or he will just keep harrassing you. If you act like you mean it and stick to your guns, he will eventually leave you alone. Do not answer his phone calls. Do not listen to his whining or threats. If he threatens you, either tell someone, an adult if you are not one, or a police officer if he threatens bodily harm. Most women get locked in a cycle, break up...anger... he is nice trying to get you back.. once he gets you back he is nice for awhile and then it starts over again. If you are firm, it usually works, but if he knows he can manipulate you into taking him back then he will. If you wait and be firm he will turn his attentions else where. They thrive on attention, so if you dont give him any, he will eventually tire of the game. BE FIRM! I always tell my girlfriends that women were born with a deep seated intuition. Fear is a good indicator to listen to. Its sounds like to me, that you know he is manipulative and not good for you. The trick is waiting out his game so that he can turn his attentions else where.
its how racing drivers break. rather than pump the breaks to stop the car skidding you keep the breaks on all the time but lift off gently as soon as the car starts to skid but then rebreak as soon as the skid stops,,the idea is to keep the wheels rolling the whole time but be on the verge of a skid the whole time,IE you keep the car on the threshold of a skid. its mainly used by racing drivers as its very hard to master,however once you do master it you will outbreak anyone. its also known as limit breaking.
Why would your ex still sleep with you once in a while if he does not want to get back together?
Because he doesn't want the commitment he just wants a good time. Kind of like a one night stand type thing.
also, all his old feelings might come back with he is with you. sometimes it is uncontrollable and things happen. i say, dont sleep with him again. it only makes things worse, trust me. and he needs to respect you, especially if he broke up with you. if you want him back, talk to him but dont hook up. let him start to like you again.
the guy will sleep with you because he's done it before and he knows you'll give him what he wants. Don't fall for it. He's using you for sex because, after you've given it him before, he knows he can get you into bed and do it again. If he really loves you he'll talk about getting back together.
+ he sleeps with you, because he's a whore.
+ stop complaining about it.
your just as bad as him ;)
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as the person above said, hes probally using you for sex
What are the signs to look for if your man is cheating?
If you find him becoming more distant and less affectionate with you that is one possibillity, another is if he asks you certain questions like, "would you be angry if i kissed another girl". Also if you find him wanting you to wear clothes or make you be who you aren't. This means he wants you to be more like "Her". Your best option, is to talk to him about it. Tell him why and if you feel insecure its just probably best to take a break with him to save your 'problems' becoming 'worries'. You will find that is the best for both of you.........
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