Breakups

There are many reasons why he blames you for his behavior. He probably just cannot deal with the fact he is wrong.

Tell him you want him back and if he doesn't want you after that then find someone else.

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I think the question here that should be answered first is 'Do you adore your husband in the same way he adores you?' If you do then under no circumstances meet your ex. If you don't adore him, then be prepared for whatever can of worms you will be opening if you do meet your ex!!! Maybe you think the grass is greener - don't go looking for trouble unless you are prepared for the consequences....It doesn't sound like you don't love your ex from this question!

Well, what I would do is talk to both the girlfriend and him explaining all you want is to be friends that spend time with each other and talk. Nothing more. If she still insidts on not trusting you, confront her and tell her, "I'm sorry you cannot trust me, but I would like to continue the relationship with my ex as a friend. I'm sorry you feel differently."

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Almost every man is still in love with his ex to some degree. They had something that they probably won't ever forget, and it would have included some good times, even if there were plenty of bad bits.

This is especially true if they recently broke up, or if the relationship was very long or important to them. If this is the case, give him time to get over her. Be there for him, and be a friend, but don't be the rebound cushion. Keep enough distance for now.

If you love him, and he loves you, then there is no reason why you can't try to make it work in the future, once his feelings for the ex have subsided and his feelings for you get stronger. Your presence will make both processes happen a lot quicker too.

Just be there and wait. It'll work out if you both want it to.

if he is a good friend call him and say srry you havent been calling. if he isn't really a good guy and you barely talk to him in person then no you shouldn't

Take note of the way of communicating. Think carefully, what kind of "interest" was he referring to? Think deep.

As hard as it is MOVE ON! Just move on, If she knows your in love her and she's telling you that she is no longer in love with you then unfortunately there's nothing that you can do but to accept it and move on with your life. If you feel she has maked a mistake by letting you good remember people don't know what they have till its no longer there. Give her space and try to go on with your life and maybe with time she'll realized she never stopped loving you and come back around. I don't guarantee this will play out exact this way most likely she's telling you how she feel and she's moved on. Maybe she's just not the right girl for you. So if you know its really over and she no longer loves you then don't hold on to the hope and move on. If she doesn't love you someone else will. Good Luck!

maybe stay with him and work things out but in the end you cannot control what that person does, only give advice

Tell her if she really did ever care about you, she would leave you alnone to be happy. If that fails tell her straight you don't like her at all. You must be frank.

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Only he knows why he would do this but it sounds as though he wants you to know despite the fact he cannot be in a relationship he is still interested.

He likely means you are exhausting him, draining to be with. Which means that your high maintenance and possibly too demanding, controlling, argumentative and needy which causes a person to become emotionally drained and just done with the situation.

I meant do not want to be ignored. Should have I kept my mouth shut??

Maby he is just saying sorry, dont spaz out....just be confudent

Honestly this is a personal decision, but you can go the middle rout like I did when that happened to me. I just placed all of the gifts that she gave me in a box and put it away in storage. That way it's not gone forever, but it's also not in your face reminding you of that person. It also depends on what it is. If it serves a practical purpose like a Swiss army knife or a nice jacket, then there's really no use in having it sit there. But like I said, ultimately it's up to you.

because she thinks your gay

It does not mean anything at all. Any one can say such things in anger. Just calm her down and sort things out.

Your ex partner is being immature. He or she, for some reason, feels a lot of negativity towards you and wishes you to have bad luck. Just ignore them, they're saying it out of hurt.

Jealousy is usually a sign of distrust within a relationship. It can also be attributed to simple human nature. We have the instincts of a predatory animal, and jealousy can be an instinctual way of "marking one's territory."

With that being said, it all depends on who the jealousy is being directed towards.

If you (or she) is making it known to the object of your jealousy (another person usually) that she is your girlfriend or you are her boyfriend, then that is generally territorial and not as harmful as the other kind of jealousy- the type where you are only telling your girlfriend/boyfriend you are jealous and not marking your territory.

Jealously is a sign of insecurity as well, and usually spells out trouble in any relationship, especially if it is bad enough that you have to ask about it.

This is something that is generally understood, so when she gets jealous she is essentially saying that she does not trust you. When you return the jealousy, she understands that you are telling her you do not trust her, which she thinks is ridiculous because why wouldn't you?

What it comes down to is communication, there are deeper issues at work here than simple jealousy, and you need to sit down and communicate with each other what they are in order to move past the jealousy.

If this is not possible, than maybe you are not in the right relationship.

You tell us..do u still love him? i however don't think so..if u did u would have controlled yourself and acted like an adult. By cheating on him you proved that you have zero respect for him and that your either still in love with your ex (if that) or u want to have 2 much fun to be married to one man and be devoted

You might love your husband, but you don't respect him. Concern for the other person's happiness and well beign is an important element of love. How would you feel if your husband cheated on you?

What are the reasons that you decided to have an affair with an ex? You must have some dissatisfaction in your marriage.

Yes you can. There is different degrees of love. Obviously you are not getting all you need from your spouse. I understand completely why you turned to your ex. I too have done the same thing. Infact, I have been doing this for 2 years now.

I love my husband. He is the father of my children, a great provider, and so on. He is a great lover and so fort, but he lacks when it comes to being there emotionally for me. I get this from my ex.

My ex, I can talk to him about anything and everything. He can make me laugh like no one else. I can tell him my secrets, my dreams and my desires, and he wont make me feel bad. And we can make love like there is no tomorrow. He has a wife and kids, and I have a husband and kids. Neither one of us want to hurt anyone, so we continue this, hurting ourselves.

I love my ex and I love my husband. I get something from each one of them that I dont get from the other. I know this is wrong, but I dont want to hurt anyone for my own happiness. I know that doesnt make sense, but we plan on no one finding out. We dont want to hurt others.

Good luck

Look if you have to ask and you also committed adultery, I highly doubt it. What kind of love does that. We are all human and have wants and needs. If you need to be with your ex you should have not only had respect for yourself but for your spouse to tell them before the deed was done. If your relationship had been strong you would not strayed in the first place. Humans are creatures of habit and we form attachments to things in our life whether it be a person or an object and sometimes it is hard to leave things behind. Still there is no good excuse or reason for betraying the spouse and an heart felt apology is in order and you need to ask their feelings on how they want to proceed with the relationship and swallow what you created. This happens all the time, your not a horrible person just one that made a very poor decision. Life is too short to waste on the what if's and the we should have, make a clear path for yourself and stick to it, I promise there will be less strife in your life. Good luck.