Breakups

• Revenge is not good when it comes to trying to get back at someone you broke up with or another person that broke you and your mate up. Revenge is not sweet at all and if one seeks revenge they waste their energy; miss many things in life and can become dysfunctional and may end up with a nasty disposition of their view of others in general if they let revenge eat away at them. There is a saying here in Canada ... 'the head of the snake will bite you in the butt.' This means that if you do things that are nasty or wrong you will pay the price and as long as I've been around I've seen it happen often. Lie, cheat, steal, etc., and you will pay the price. When someone does you wrong turn away and let them hang themselves with their own rope because they always do.
  

no u shouldn't go with him ...if you were a true friend you would NEVER go out with Ur friends ex boyfriends ....even though she is over him.

Even if she has a new boyfriend it will hurt seeing you two together and if you really are her best friend, put her feelings before yours.

no you should not he is moving on you should to

You don't. Learn from that & move on.

You can apologize to her and ask for another chance. Explain to her that you made a mistake in leaving her and that you want her back. Don't smother her or try force her to forgive you - it's ultimately her decision. Depending on how badly it ended, she may or may not decide to give you a second chance. And in the event that she does take you back make sure to treat her right and take things at her own pace. Remember that things may not be perfect or like "how it used to be" since she may have to build up trust in you again.

Akira Says:

I think you should let things run there couse that might seem like a stupid thing to say but if he does do what you say then that proves that he was not right for you and you were not right for him and it might hurt to see him go but its for the best and if I have learnt anything then to just stay friends you should not say anything to him of the reason that he might not want to break up and you will make him feel untrusted so just wait and see soon you will have your awnser.

Usually it depends on the girl. Sometimes they only dump you because they have won the game and got the bait (you) or they are scared you are going to break up with them so they break up with you to be in control. After a while they usually learn see what they have lost, unless they think that you cheated or if you were a jerk to her. But that's my opinion (ps Im a girl)

understanding based on the context of the question itself, it means she's not interested... which includes anything intimate (we can't go to Rated PG details)...

anyway, i hope your relationships (past, present, future) will not be based mainly on how you enjoy the "it" thing...

None.

Unless you enjoy being abused and beaten, there is no potential. He will attack you sooner or later. He has the potential to kill you. If you read this and think : " Oh, no, he's so sweet and caring, etc etc", you are in for a bad surprise!

No one gets a five year sentence for "hitting a woman." It was a whole lot worse than that. (Not that hitting anyone is acceptable). More likely he inflicted serious injuries and is a repeated offender. The easiest way to predict future behavior is by looking at past behavior. I don't believe any type of abuser can be rehabilitated. Like wild animals, the potential to attack is always present. IMO, anyone who gets involved with one is "living on borrowed time."

Most abusers are serial, repeated offenders.

None at all. You may as well be the woman that he was incarcerated for hitting. My ex-boyfriend had assult charges pressed on him for punching his mom in the nose and breaking it. He was emotionally abuse towards me, and he would hit things (thankfully not me, though) when he was angry. The point is that if he hit one woman, there's a very good chance that he'll hit you, unless he willingly saught theropy and benefitted from it.

It depends on the choices you make during life.

Feelings are always going to be hurt in a break up, unfortunately. But you can take away some of the pain by not talking to them afterwards. That will only make the pain last longer.

no this saying means people dont change and that's not true

One month is not a long time to be going out with someone. People cannot fall in love instantly. Most need time to get to know a person, and let the relationship grow.

If you like each other be happy about that.

Stay with him and let your relationship grow naturally as it should.

The fact that he has been honest with you is a good sign.

Perhaps he doesn't let his feelings get carried away too quickly to avoid getting hurt in the future.

Have faith in the relationship.

If you are love with both girls then that's a problem. But really spend some time with both and whatever one you can feel like yourself with, then you know that's the one.

Wait a week or so, and if you still don't like the person start to hang out with other people but tell your "best friend" first, and if they continue to try and be your friend you just tell them to stop it in a calm and friendly voice. They'll understand.

Or you can just think of them as a friend not a best friend.

Or you could tell your friend that you don't like them anymore as a friend and that you need to move on.

The best thing to do is ask yourself "why" you don't want to be their best friend anymore. Becoming some one's best friend isn't a agreed thing, it just happens. You should figure out why it just isn't happening for you anymore. Is it something you can talk to your friend about?

Such as, has your friend started a habit where they tuck their hand in their pants? Or has started cussing a lot? The thing about best friends is that the smallest change can start a fight because best friends are like siblings who aren't related.

If it's not, then you should handle it like you would breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend, calmly and supportive.

Beware! He could be trying to split you up and all went well apparently before he entered into the picture and made a snide remark about his own friend! With friends like that who needs enemies. Don't let others sway you about your boyfriend. There must have been something that made you go steady with him. If you really have lost your love for your boyfriend then be honest to him about the whole thing, but as far as his friend ... consider this ... he's a back stabber against his own friend and I wouldn't trust getting into a relationship with him.

If he doesn't tell you, you'll never know (and he'd probably lie anyway).

He left because he doesn't love you ... and it's not your fault.

Unfortunately love is seldom mutual, even though we wish it to be.

just move on honey

He could've forgot.

He was probably busy.

Or probably avoiding calling you.

I like mingdao and qiao en both so my guess is chen qiao en

* You could well be on the rebound. If he likes you then go slow and easy, but keep sex out of it. Be sure that it's love for each other and not you being on the rebound and your exes brother is only after a one night stand. You are an ex of his brother and are free to date who you wish to date.

You are probably feeling something about him and about when you were together,you probably have unresolved issues with your ex.

Just wanna make it clear by all means face to face. If that's what he needed then I must give. It hurts though, but it's good to be hurt for a while than living with a man who 's mind and heart isn't mine.It's a deal to be clear. accept it's consequences too face life alone...and move on.

you can do a lot of things

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You can do a lot of thing, especially if you want to change your life style. You can also enjoy your life to the fullest........

Appologize. make sure she knows that YOU were the one who was wrong, the one who was stupid, the one who was an idiot. It's a small step towards repairing an already compromised relationship