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Breakups
It takes two to make it work, but only one to break it up. This is the place to ask questions about the pain, healing, and possible solutions to relationship break-ups.
8,665 Questions
How do you react when disappointed?
There are several ways, positive and negative, to react to disappointment. A healthy way is to try to keep things in perspective, and use the disappointment for motivation.
Kick the ex to the curb for good and cut off all contact. Once a cheater, always a cheater! Unless you like getting hurt, don't involve yourself with your ex anymore. You can still love him, any two people can love one another, but it doesn't mean you should have a relationship. You will still have feelings for your ex because at one time you were together and shared a lot of personal things with this person. He will always be a part of your life and growth. However, learn an important lesson that you are worth much more and deserve a man who will respect you and treat you like it. Teach your ex a lessson that cheating is wrong and unforgiveable. If you take him back, he learns that he can do it again and still get you back.
Is falling in Love a choice you make?
not at all no one can make themselves fall in love and if they think they can they just make themselves crush on that person.
What do you say to an ex boyfriend you haven't seen in a while but still want to be friends with?
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Hi, long time since I saw you, how have you been? Do you think that we could be friends only now that you have a new girl in your life or would I be intruding
That sucks.
Move on.
She clearly does not feel the same way toward you. That is inarguable and undeniable. Move on.
Why does being in the closet feel so lonely?
(1) Why are you in your closet are you playing hide and seek? (2) The reason it's lonely is because your the only one in it. (3) This is a stupid question!
no he is not married he has 2 children that were adopted
How can a girl protect herself of being loved by a boy?
- Many boys throughout your life may love you, but you don't love them. Honesty is the best policy and make it clear to them that you do not care for them in the same way and to leave you alone.
They'd been going for something like 30 years now.
That's a very long time. Unless there's a reason I've not heard or a reason only the band knows about, I'm pretty sure they just came to the end of a long and amazing journey.
One of my favourite bands.
Should you believe what a man says or what he does?
Depends on the situation and the age of the person. A young child should be taught by their parents to never believe what a male stranger says or what he does, to avoid entrapment, paedophiles and on-line 'groomers'. An adolescent should be taught to have a healthy scepticism of what a man says or what he says he does, when chatting on-line: after-all, a man who says he is 14 might be a sixty year old. An adult, on the other hand, can usually, though not always, tell whether someone is lying or being honest ... and in that case, belief in what a man says and what he does, is assessed according to the situation and the person concerned on a case by case basis.
He obviously doesn't want to be with you. Move on with your life.
Nod and smile, that is the polite thing to do. If you don't like this person, don't ignite old feelings of hurt by communicating futher with him/her.
You cant stop texting your ex dont know why?
- well the thing is, are they texting you back?
- you probably miss them
What does it really mean when you say you don't know as a reason for breaking up?
it means that the girl or guy is not interested in you anymore but does not want to hurt your feelings by saying so.
What do you do when you love someone but they are always afraid you will leave them?
well, maybe they feel this way because it happened to her/him before and that someone just don't want to get hurt again. Make him/her feel comfortable around you by being there for him/her, cheering her/him up, talking to her/him more and let that person know that you care about her/him. Be closer to her/him, its not just gonna take like a week and she'll/he'll be with you, it takes time and if you really love this person, you wold wait until he/she feels comfortable around you.
What can you do if you want to put the baby up for adoption but your boyfriend wants to keep it?
There are a couple of options. You can give birth and terminate your parental rights therefore letting the father have full custody. Or you can find an agency you want to use (adopthelp.org is great) and your case worker can help convince the father.
What if you like your ex bf and he just thinks of you as barely a friend?
oh girl I've been there before. after my very first boyfriend ever broke up with me, i cried every night for a week and didn't get over him for months. i hated every minute of it, just being miserable over a boy. i felt ashamed and weak, and powerless. he didnt even talk to me.
since then, I've had 6 more boyfriends and learned so much, that people come to me for relationship advice. i have lots of experience.
I've learned an endless number of things about boys, and one of the most important lessons that is now burned into my memory is: no boy is worth being miserable over. NO BOY AT ALL. I've dated hot guys, jerks, older guys, younger guys, self-obsessed guys, weird guys, funny guys, even nice, polite, and sweet boys but THEY ARE ALL THE SAME IN THE END.
since my first breakup ever, in seventh grade, i have never shed another tear because of a guy. litterally. I'm not saying its bad to cry, get it out of your system! but it IS bad to just wallow in your own sorrow or jealousy or hate or longing or misery. it just keeps you from moving on and being happy again. I've also been single a lot, and there is nothing wrong with that either.
this boy, (not to be harsh or anything, but..) this boy is not into you anymore, and there is probably no hope of return to him. this is what i realized. so, why still hang on to broken threads of a relationship if it only hurts you?
now, every time i break up with a boy, or especially, if a boy breaks up with me, i just completely skip the whole crying and being sad and IMMEDIATLEY delete all pictures of him, all messages, email, IM, block him on face book, ect. and move on and have a kick-butt girls night out. wipe him from your mind.
hope this helps. good luck, and move on!
How do you break up with someone who lives with you?
don't break up with them just yet. let them break up with you, but in your heart know that you broke up with them first.
or you can just break up with them now and be friends.
take your pick. its your choice. follow your heart not your mind.
Did erica englebert and Daniel lawson break up?
Yes, they did earlier this month. It's so sad. They were incredibly cute together.
If You hooked up with your ex but he is now giving you mixed signals what should you do?
Depending on the definition of "hooking up" he may have just be using you for his own selfish needs but has no intention of a reconciliation.
YES, definitely! The verbal abuse is probably a result of a shortcoming in the husband, or to his mind, anyway. It probably has nothing to do with his wife..This is why evaluation and therapy is so paramount to getting to the bottom of all this pain, if you both love each other enough to commit to it. And..Don't forget God ! ! Good luck to you both....
Start attending church at least weekly and ask him to go with you. Pray that God will bring good male role models into his life from the church community and continue to attend church with your child even if the father does not attend God will provide the best if you draw close to Him
