Cheating

The thing is, you can't stop a girl dating a boyfriend becasue that's just jelousy. I advise you if you feel uncomfortable with her dating him, tell her how you feel about it. If you talk to her, she will understand. Hope it goes OK!

That has nothing to do with the children.

You have to prove she is an unfit mother and that she is unable to care for the kids.

Unfortunately if that option ever comes up for her she is the only one that can make the choice not to cheat - you cannot control her feelings or decisions. While dating her be yourself, be attentive to both your needs, treat her with respect as she should you, be trustworthy, loyal and always keep your lines of communication open. There is no room for games, negative jealousy, controlling, verbal or physical abuse, blame placing, ignorance or petty behaviour.

Why would you give up? Do they know how you feel? If you love them but they don't share those feelings then you have to follow our heart. Sometimes things are worth fighting for and true love is one of those things, but sometimes you have to let go too. What is your heart telling you to do?

Say it straight out, I suppose. Although, ethically, it might be better to find someone else. I wouldn't want to be the cause of a broken marriage.

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You don't, why? he is married in the first place. If he is not cheating to his wife, why would you want to destroy their life. This can't be what your parents taught you growing up, yes? All you need to do is stop, leave him alone before you start ruining their life....

• In many cases a marriage can be saved if the couple realize the problems in their marriage, but when a husband says there is no hope this could be an indication that he simply does not want to try and save the marriage. Communication is the biggest thing in any relationship so sit down with your husband and ask if he would consider seeing a Marriage Counselor with you and hopefully he will. However, a large percentage of men do not like to air out their private lives to any counselor (perhaps it makes them feel less of a man) or fear of being accused that he is the problem in the marriage. Explain to him that the counselor is not there to cast blame on either of you, but get to the root of the problems and give you both the tools to deal with problems that rise up in any marriage. If your husband refuses to try then risk kicking him out of the house and tell him he has his freedom and unless he wants to try to save the marriage you will file for divorce. Perhaps each of you getting some space from each other will clear up how you truly feel about each others because sometimes 'you can't see the forest for the trees.'

Sorry I couldn't keep myself from your marriage. I caused adultery because I couldn't wait till he divorced you to have a relationship. It's always good to start a new relationship with one that's currently cheating, right? Lol

This was wrong and I'm sure your aware of that and this is going to change your relationship with your friend but you have to be honest with her and tell her. Then you will have to keep your distance from her boyfriend. Friends do not do such things to other friends and I'm not saying you were the only one in the wrong because he cheated on his girlfriend as well.

Unfortunately not. Mr. Reagan was one of those good man that never betrayed his wives, I said wives because he was married a few times. My respect for this man is pure because of what he accomplish and done for us here in United State.

No that is not cheating technically, but others may see it as. This is just called an 'open relationship' but if you and your partner are okay with this then go ahead. Just make sure you are both completely fine with the thought of this, it could end up bad.

the first thing to do is to remember that actions speak louder than words. if u show them you can deserve their trust and show them that you trust them. This will help improve the trust basis of your relationship and help to build a stronger relationship.

Amelia: I am not certain about this but I have read that it is about 70-80% but it definitely varies.

You should be asking her this question and not us. She holds the key. Be careful because she may just want to be friends and go for a drink or a coffee with you or, she could be looking for an extra marital affair. Stay away!

One of the main reasons that relationships fail is that the people stop communicating. This brings a large distance between the couple, and eventually they no longer feel connected, emotionally or physically. The key to a healthy relationship is spending a lot of time together, actively work/talk about your relationship, and keep communicating (even about the little problems!)

Okay, when my boyfriend broke up with me i heard these songs Take A Bow by Rhianna, Justin Bieber Heartache and this is the lost one Infinity - Every Time You Cry (Break Up Song) Well that's all I hope those work

A lot of people will look to the left or right and not look right at you. Also, they might have facial twitches. They might also not look you in the eyes. May go red in the face. May move from foot to foot or even go into another room to avoid answering. Some will question you about something else trying to throw you off track.

Will not look you in the eyes or the eyes will become blank or dart side to side. May go red in the face. May move from foot to foot or even go into another room to avoid answering. Some will question you about something else trying to throw you off track. After taking hundreds of depositions and preparing clients for trial testimony, the easiest way to tell when someone is lying is how much they elaborate when answering simple questions. For example, when a "yes" or "no" is sufficient, the person will keep going, and going, and going.

The more a person adds to an explanation or answer the more you can be certain they are being less than truthful and/or just plain "full of it". A lawyer always asks for the truth and "don't leave anything out" because lawyers don't like surprises in court. So it would be to their advantage if a client was excessively talking to clear themselves (I know I would.) I would consider someone giving a simple yes or no and sitting there quietly more suspicious than a person that prattles on. Still waters run deep! If I was innocent and didn't want to do prison time I'd tell my lawyer everything and be sure they know where I'm coming from. If you can't be honest with your lawyer then what's the point of retaining them. Often people that are frightened and have never had problems with the law will be nervous and could talk more when a simple yes or no is needed.

If the person plays with their hair, fidgets, or taps their fingers (if sitting on a desk) or they're trying to act tired so they will pretend to not hear you talking. If you want to know <a href="http://www.humanliedetection.com">how to tell if someone is lying</a>, their are many different techniques one can use. The 4 major techniques that have consistently proven accurate are eye patterns, body language, cadence of speech, and emotional gestures. I find that eye patterns prove most effective. NLP research has confirmed all the eye patterns. When someone looks to the left, generally they are lying because when you look to the left your brain is "creating an auditory thought." When you look to the right, your brian is "remembering an auditory thought. <a href="http://www.humanliedetection.com"></a> elaborates more on this subject.

There are many tricks to determining whether or not someone is lying to you. Some of the most basic would include looking for a "tell" which is an action someone unconsciously does when they're nervous, like brush their hair behind their ear. Another technique you can use is to watch the person's eyes while they are speaking to you, if their eyes move up and to the right they are likely telling the truth because they are recalling something from memory, while if their eyes move up and to the left they are possibly lying, because their minds are accessing the "creative" portion of their brain.

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Sometimes people who are intending to lie will ask you to repeat your question because it gives them time to create an answer.

They may avoid eye contact at the time of telling the lie OR they may force sustained direct eye contact in order to give the impression of telling the truth.

They may subconsciously touch their face, because lying causes your body to send a slight tingling sensation to your face (especially the nose) that makes you want to scratch it.

They may try to change the subject.

They might ask, "Don't you trust me?

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1. A liar will look you in the eyes too much.

eg Make too much eye contact when telling a lie.

2. A liar will use formal language over informal.

eg Instead of saying "I didn't take your cookies" he'll say "I did not take your cookies."

3.When someone is lying they will limit their expressions to only their mouth."

eg Making a fake smile

How to tell when a smile is fake:-

If it is just in the mouth it is a fake smile &

Cheeks do not raise much, crows-feet do not develop

[eg If it is a smile where he smiles with his mouth but not his eyes.]

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4. A liar will subconsciously make gestures that do not match their emotions.

eg "Yeah I would love to help you move" and simultaneously give little shakes with your head.

eg "I disagree with you" and simultaneously give little nods of your head.

5. A liar will subconsciously place an object between them and their accuser.

6. A liar will use your words of a question to make an answer.

eg If asked ' Did you take my cookies?' he'll say "I didn't take your cookies" or "I did not take your cookies."

Otherwise if he had not taken them he'd just say "Nuh" or "No"

7. Liars like to add unnecessary details into their statements

It is over-compensating, you know you are lying so you'll throw in a few extra details to convince people.

eg " I forgot to put deodorant under my left arm when I wasn't stealing your car"

8. Liars are horrible at telling their stories backwards.

You know, people tend to reverse their stories, their alibis.

eg If they are lying where they ended up, they are going to start at the beginning: but you can start at the end, and then slowly move backwards into the story.

They invented it in one order, but then they have to access it in a different way.

COMMENT: How good are you at spotting liars?

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OK you can totally tell if they're lying to you if they don't look you in the eye or if you ask them a question and they just randomly change the subject. PS. If your boyfriend isn't lying to you~ * Pretend that you never thought that you thought he was lying to you, he might get really mad at you and leave you because he thinks that you don't trust him and he can't be with you without your trust. The best way to tell whether they're lying to you is to look them straight in the eye and then question them. You MUST be serious and firm. Some symptoms of lying includes~ * Sweating * Stammered speech * Eyes moving around and not directly looking at you * Fidgeting

There are number of reasons. Probably because the man doesn't want a divorce (splitting up the family as well as his salary) or maybe he doesn't find himself emotionally or physically satisfied with his wife so he seeks an affair, doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife but means he's not satisfied with her. For example sometimes we wish we had someone else's parents but still we need our own parents (which we realize especially if something tragic happens to the family) and a little part of us loves them.

First, I am so sorry to have to answer this question. I am sorry for what you've been through and what you must go through to heal. Sadly, time is the ultimate healer on this one. Learning to trust people again is difficult and learning to trust your own judgment of character takes practice. This is an opportunity for you to learn and grow as well. Best of luck to you.

Well it just depends on how he feels about you. I mean if he's doing it for the fun of it that usually means he never loved you. so just divorce the guy cause soon enough he will do it again and again...

If you are focused on this instead of other parts of the relationship, you are on the way to trying to control and analyze her relationships with other people. Lasting relationships have trust, not constant examination. Only you know the depth of your relationship and if you are looking for cheating behavior, it isn't there.

From hearing this all the time from my friends and knowing the outcome from them the chance is high. Several of them were married or dating another guy and were cheating on their guy with another man. Well they left their guy to go out with the man that they were cheating with. Sometimes it took a months and in one relationship it took a year or two. But the man cheated. As the saying goes, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." Very Good YOU KNOW THE REST Do you really need to ask that? He is a person who sees nothing wrong with cheating. So are you. Odds are you will both cheat again.

Well I am with someone who has had emotional affairs multiple times. He down plays it becasue they dont have sex. He has slept with and tried to sleep with women though. I have begged and cried for him to stop and every time he says he will. He wont. Everytime we get any problem there he is talking to other girls. Its more painful to me then him having a one night stand because its intimate. He has feelings for her and her him. Its so hurtful. You have every right to be as angry and hurt as if he was to have sex. If he will have an emotional affair he would be willing to have a sexual one. Him telling you is a good sign, I always had to find out myself and snoop around cause he would lie. I guess you can hope it doesnt happen again and give him another chance. Or walk away now before you end up like me. Thank you for your advise. Should I call the girl and tell her that the man she's been talking is my husband. And should I tell her that "It is alright to just have my husband as one of her friend only not a boyfriend?" They are both medical students. I think this is one of reason why my husband is attracted to her. The girl is currently located out of state, so the phonecalls exceeds more than 3-6 hours per day. I am getting hurt. My husband even bought me the new Toshiba Tablet PC -- I told him this is not a gift, its a bribe. He honestly told me that its 50% bribe and 50% gift. He constantly reminding me that he only loves me' that his heart only belongs to me. Everytime I want to move-out, he cries. Now, he just promised that everytime he will talk to the girl, he will let me hear it. I think doing this means that he is just playing with the other girl? Please advise. Thank you once again.

You would only know by asking, but if he has now stopped, the ex Mistress should respect his wishes and leave him alone.

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Every married men who had an affair and get caught, will always want to talk to their mistress. Imagine the fun that they had together, those few hours that they spent together alone and far away from the world. Those phone calls that they exchange, those stolen moment they think nothing will happened to their relationship. The steepness night they have wondering and fantasizing how good it will feels to be sleeping together.

Most men who got caught cheating will be doing what needs to be done so the wife will not have to do some tragic move. From my own experience, the man that I married loves to talk to his mistress every hour of the day and night. But since I discovered his affair, he stopped calling her. But I do know that it was hard for him after all he loves her.

Definitely think about the wife - she will be feeling the most hurt that she has ever felt, but if he has stopped you must leave him be.

You can start by not being around them anymore. However difficult or impossible it might seem to "let go" you must keep away from them. Avoid them,change jobs if you must, especially if they are enjoying the attention you give them because it means they are using you to boost their ego and the hurt will be intensified FOR YOU. Don't hang around their friends in the hope of hearing what they are doing in their lives, it just keeps the pain alive.

Do what you must and DO IT FOR YOU. It may seem hard but in a few short weeks, they will start to fade from your memory and you will be happy again. Being in love with someone who does not or cannot love you is a hell you need to be free of and as soon as you put the aviodance plan into action the sooner you will be free to love someone who is free to love you- that is worth every ounce of the short term pain of separation. Good luck.