Cheating

Tell him why you did it. Be honest and sincere. Lying about the way you feel or what happened or why you did it will not be of any help and will just make the situation worse. Say sorry over and over again til you feel like a broken record. Be considerate and allow him to be angry and yell at you and be unreasonable without doing the same back at him. Remember, how would you feel if you he did that to you? Give him time to forgive you and if he doesn't, accept it and move on.

come on do you really need answers to your own question. which you sound stupid in the first place.

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Is it? for some married couple who don't have anymore relationship might say it is after all the wife never had anymore free time for her husband, or there's no more chemistry between them. But when it comes to a married man, what can I say they will tell us if wives only met their needs they will not go to that direction. The man that I married said what he did was a mistakes, but it wasn't a mistakes when he have all the time in the world with his mistress. He wasn't concern if he gets caught, he wasn't concerned if someone knew us saw him. But the big finale was when I discovered it, he was sorry, but he wasn't sorry then. This man that I married will be one of those man that will say it is acceptable because he founds happiness for himself..

Some men are not looking for a commitment but place themselves into positions where they are fully committed to a partner. Hence the reason why some relationships do not work out and the male has a wondering eye. If he wanted to be committed and really settle down he wouldn't go and hurt your feelings in such a disrespectful way.

most likely. people usually learn from there mistakes but if its a second time and you keep forgiving him hes gona think he can get away with it and a simple apology will fix things with you. dont let him walk all over you and find some one HOTTER.

Excuses for being late, not being where they are expected to, and less of a physical relationship where there was one before. Set this guy free...there are many other nice ones out there who do not cheat. Makes life more simple.

You have to let him know sometime, so just break it to him slowly and gently, but make your statement clear. It can be hard to let it be known because of the other may think that all is well when it is not! Sometimes, knowing when to leave can be the smartest thing!

• In many cases a single woman will actively seek a married man out because she can have his full attention; perhaps gifts from him; a sexual relationship and there are no strings attached. In these modern times many more single women may prefer staying single, but enjoy the perks they get from married men.

1. She isn't where she said she'd be...( friends , mall, game, gym etc)
2. Her plans change a lot at the last minute
3. She seems distracted
4. She isn't having sex with her partner as regularly as before or at all
5. She is suddenly wanting to have more sex than she usually does
6. She suddenly introduces new positions
7. She has missing clothes
8. she is suddenly buying clothes that she would have never bought before ( Victoria secret?)
9. She has clothes in her car
10. She wont let you see her cell phone
11. She wont let you see her cell phone bill
12. She stops talking on the phone when your in the room
13. She suddenly bought a cell phone when she never needed one before
14. When you answer the phone no ones there or they hang up
15. She suddenly begins doing things in bed she never did before...
16. She smells different
17. She tastes different...( sorry gross but true)
18. She comes home with her clothes in a mess
19. She comes home with different clothes on
20. She is caught lying...or here stories change a lot
21. She opens a separate mailbox
22. She suddenly starts to worry about losing a lot of weight or start working out
23. She suddenly begins staying late at work, working long hours, or makes excuses for being late
24. She suddenly starts talking about a guy friend or associate
25. She suddenly stops talking about a guy friend or associate
26. She becomes overly angry /defensive if you ask her if she is cheating or about certain guys or where shes been
27. Her explanations become very long and detailed
28. She become defensive if you ask her girlfriends about what they did Saturday night
29. She tells you too many details about Saturday night with the girls, or her friends dirty secrets
30. She suddenly has new friends you have never met or even heard of
31. She ask strange questions she never asked before....like about what you think about polygamy, or cheating, ppl who have affairs or sex positions
32. She suddenly seems to pick a lot of fights
33. She is mean to you in public or in front of her friends
34. AND WHEN YOU GUT SAYS SO...trust your instincts

• Some married men do not feel guilty at all and they are just sorry they got caught. Other married men may have gotten in over their heads in an affair and did not know how to get out of it so when caught they feel guilty.

• When some men are married for a year or so and realize that it is much different than just dating and both couples need to face reality such as both working towards the future or, after several years of marriage the married man feels restless as if he wants to reach back into his youth and needs to know other women are attracted to him he will find a mistress. The wife has had to put up with him for a year or several years and sometimes boredom can set in for the husband, but meeting someone new is exciting and the sexual relationship is as well, but if the married man keeps seeing the mistress for a fair length of time he will soon realize that 'the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence) and he is once again bored. Some married men will find another mistress or, they may return home to their wives and settle down. Basically, these types of married men become slightly obsessed with their mistress because their relationship is new and exciting and he has no commitments. This is a high sign of immaturity on the married man's part.

I don't understand what does your son having a girlfriend have to do with your love life, but if you are not in love with the man you are married to... You have an obligation towards him (does he know you don't love him? don't you think he has the right to be loved by someone else?) and yourself (do you want to spend the rest of your life being married to someone you don't love?). You should ask and answer yourself these questions - no matter what could happen between you and your ex, if you were to decide for a divorce. Be true to yourself and the others, always. You may not find the end of the rainbow, but at least you will not be stuck to the 'what ifs'. Life is too short to wonder. Act. Try. Just do it with respect and empathy. Good Luck.

Seriously? Either divorce or end your first relationship FIRST. Don't purposely hurt someone you once cared for that way. They don't deserve it. Nor does any new relationship - it can go nowhere - but that's your point, isn't it? You don't want it to? Then go get a hooker and PAY FOR IT. But still, be an adult and end your your relationship - as it appears you don't want to be in one in the first place.

The thing is, you can't stop a girl dating a boyfriend becasue that's just jelousy. I advise you if you feel uncomfortable with her dating him, tell her how you feel about it. If you talk to her, she will understand. Hope it goes OK!

That has nothing to do with the children.

You have to prove she is an unfit mother and that she is unable to care for the kids.

Unfortunately if that option ever comes up for her she is the only one that can make the choice not to cheat - you cannot control her feelings or decisions. While dating her be yourself, be attentive to both your needs, treat her with respect as she should you, be trustworthy, loyal and always keep your lines of communication open. There is no room for games, negative jealousy, controlling, verbal or physical abuse, blame placing, ignorance or petty behaviour.

Why would you give up? Do they know how you feel? If you love them but they don't share those feelings then you have to follow our heart. Sometimes things are worth fighting for and true love is one of those things, but sometimes you have to let go too. What is your heart telling you to do?

Say it straight out, I suppose. Although, ethically, it might be better to find someone else. I wouldn't want to be the cause of a broken marriage.

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You don't, why? he is married in the first place. If he is not cheating to his wife, why would you want to destroy their life. This can't be what your parents taught you growing up, yes? All you need to do is stop, leave him alone before you start ruining their life....

• In many cases a marriage can be saved if the couple realize the problems in their marriage, but when a husband says there is no hope this could be an indication that he simply does not want to try and save the marriage. Communication is the biggest thing in any relationship so sit down with your husband and ask if he would consider seeing a Marriage Counselor with you and hopefully he will. However, a large percentage of men do not like to air out their private lives to any counselor (perhaps it makes them feel less of a man) or fear of being accused that he is the problem in the marriage. Explain to him that the counselor is not there to cast blame on either of you, but get to the root of the problems and give you both the tools to deal with problems that rise up in any marriage. If your husband refuses to try then risk kicking him out of the house and tell him he has his freedom and unless he wants to try to save the marriage you will file for divorce. Perhaps each of you getting some space from each other will clear up how you truly feel about each others because sometimes 'you can't see the forest for the trees.'

Sorry I couldn't keep myself from your marriage. I caused adultery because I couldn't wait till he divorced you to have a relationship. It's always good to start a new relationship with one that's currently cheating, right? Lol

This was wrong and I'm sure your aware of that and this is going to change your relationship with your friend but you have to be honest with her and tell her. Then you will have to keep your distance from her boyfriend. Friends do not do such things to other friends and I'm not saying you were the only one in the wrong because he cheated on his girlfriend as well.

Unfortunately not. Mr. Reagan was one of those good man that never betrayed his wives, I said wives because he was married a few times. My respect for this man is pure because of what he accomplish and done for us here in United State.

No that is not cheating technically, but others may see it as. This is just called an 'open relationship' but if you and your partner are okay with this then go ahead. Just make sure you are both completely fine with the thought of this, it could end up bad.

the first thing to do is to remember that actions speak louder than words. if u show them you can deserve their trust and show them that you trust them. This will help improve the trust basis of your relationship and help to build a stronger relationship.

Amelia: I am not certain about this but I have read that it is about 70-80% but it definitely varies.