Cheating

If you have given him the ultimatum--come back to the marital home or you'll file for divorce---and he still refuses, there's nothing you can or should do to save the marriage.

This is the time for you to go into protective mode, for yourself and for your children (if any). You need to get the upper hand in the legal situation. Get your finances in order and find the best divorce lawyer that you can. Take your husband financially for all that he is worth, get the maximum amount of child support that you can, and make your former spouse work his butt off to pay support to his former family. Be sure to get out with friends and family, date but don't complain about your ex; simply make it clear you are far happier now that you are out of your marriage.

Let this woman have your spouse--there most likely won't be a happily ever after in the picture. If your ex has to scrape by financially after the divorce, he and this woman will be stressed and arguing about money issues in no time.

In the long run, financial matters aside, you will have rid yourself of this man and will have an opportunity to have a better life. If you build a new life, in time you will become indifferent to your ex, and the best revenge is living well.

They are a jerk who doesn't deserve the time of day

Any type of act of infidelity against being strictly in the agreed relationship between partners.

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Cheating or affairs is a relationship when most married people is bored with their life towards their partner or spouse. People who cheat will tell you that " it just happen" but it's not because no one put a gun on this person's head so he or she can cheat on spouse. If he or she cheat on his or her partner, it means he or she don't want to work on their problem. The betrayed partner will be hurt and will loose self esteem because of what happen.

Accept them, tell them you don't care and treat them like you always have. If you are truly friends, their sexuality should not affect it. Them being gay requires you to do nothing. Friendship isn't about sexuality. Did your friend suddenly grow a horn out of their forehead and their eyes bulged out? You do nothing because nothing has changed with the exception you know they are gay. I have many gay friends and they aren't any different than my straight friends. Learn to be different and accept good people for who they are, not what they are.

Your first cousin's second cousin may not be related to you at all, or may also be your second cousins. In either case, marriage is not forbidden.

The way I see it, if you don't trust, you don't love. Love is ALL about trust: you trust the other person to love you back, to be faithfull, to respect you, to be by your side "in sickness and in health", you trust him/her with your dreams, your hopes, your fears, your life. How can you not trust the loved one? Maybe you should start by asking yourself why is it that you don't trust him/her (or think and/or feel you don't)... When you'll find the answer to this question, you will know for sure whether you still love that person or not. Good Luck.

well you need to talk to him about it and let him know that your not trying to be annoying and untrusting, but that its important for you to know whats going on.... if that doesn't work and your still unsure... you can always use easy to use cell phone softwares that monitor the history... but that's costs moneyyy and sometimes its justn ot worth it.... i can find the link though.............

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First of all start by asking her what she likes, and if she is to afraid to express herself, oral pleasure always works. If you can stimulate her clitoris, you are pleasing her, if that doesn't work maybe you are not the one. You have to make sure you both are comfortable with each other and if you are you should not have any problems experimenting with what pleases you both this makes a good relationship. ; )

• Most dreams generally mean nothing. Every couple may find themselves fantasizing about someone they may have seen, but it doesn't mean they still do not love their boyfriend. A human dreams every half hour (most of these dreams are not remembered) to relieve every day stress. It is seconds before you wake up that you can remember a dream like you had or a nightmare. If you are thinking because you are dreaming you may cheat in the future then don't. If you are having problems in your relationship then communicate with your boyfriend about your feelings and his and try to resolve the problem. There is no relationship that doesn't have some problems attached to it.

Cheating is when someone dates another person while their already in a relationship. When people cheat it means they're not happy with the relationship and they feel like they're wasting their time with a person. They also cheat when they're bored with the person they date already. Cheating is also for STUPID people and they need to pick one or the other. So get a life and move on simple as that. Bye.

Men find women who are interesting, smart and pretty(balanced about 25/25/50) most attractive at first, but as they get to know them the weight usually shifts in to interesting and smart's favor (attractive never dissipates but may become less important)

All men are different of course. Some ain't even attracted to women, haha. But in general, most guys do like a well-endowed women aka big boobs. That being said, guys really don't like sluts or what-trash girls. They may like to watch porno, but when it comes to finding a woman to be in a relationship with, they're going to go for the classic woman. If you don't have big boobs, there's no sense in worrying about a thing that you can't change without serious surgery (ow!), besides, from what my boyfriend tells me, guys actually don't like fake boobs, they can tell really easily without even touching, they don't bounce like they're supposed to (guys like the bounce).

But enough about boobs, like I said, guys are all different, but a lot like big, long hair and big plump lips. So let your hair down and put on some gloss. Like I said before, guys that you'll probably want to attract (i.e. ones looking for a real relationship) are probably going to think you're too easy (and possibly have STDs) dress too trashy. Just balance it out, for example, if you're hanging out with a guy friend you like outside or something, don't wear heels, just wear some cute jeans and maybe a low-cut top, if you're going out clubbing or somewhere you can dress up, flaunt it if you got it, but leave a little mystery, if you're showing lots of leg, you don't need to show that much cleavage, or visa versa. Don't just dress to impress, but dress for the occasion.

But overall, don't be shy or try to be something you're not. Fakeness is so obvious & not at all a turn-on. Be confident, guys don't have a lot of faith in a girl who's insecure with herself, how is he supposed to like her if she doesn't even like herself? Don't worry, just keep yourself well-groomed and clean (a spirt of perfume or body spray can't hurt) and be yourself, and you'll do fine. And having perky boobs doesn't hurt either.

Feeling Hurt? Of course, no one goes through life without getting hurt. We all have our moments. But, what matters most, is how we deal with these moments. Do we let them pass, suffering the pain, swallowing it. Of course, most of the time the pain will get stuck in our throat. It will seldom go away. But isn't it possible that the person inflicting the pain, in this case a man, does not really know how badly he has hurt you? As if he were a child, you will have to teach him how you feel when you get hurt. How can you do that? Of course, you know the answer. You must hurt him equally. Yes, this sounds terrible, but there is no other way. Reason won't do it. It is the pain we experience that will change our behavior.

No. Love is something that is shared between two people who would do any thing for each other. Love is knowing that you would go to the ends of the universe for that someone. If you feel that way about a person then there is no way you could like another person that much.

Yes. It may not be true love for both of them, but it's fully possible to get so wrapped up in your emotions for others that it seems as if you're in love with two people at once. That's when the confusion sets in.

Actually it is possible to be in love with two people, love is a complex feeling and it's different for everyone. It is not a desired situation, but it is possible, and it happens everyday. People often say that you can't love two people at once simply because they have not experienced it.

yes some people can fall in love with two at the same time. Maybe it is sometimes because the one you first fell in love has different colitis than the other. Yet you can feel love for both.

Your love for one person can be different than the love you have for the other.

So don't worry if you are a person like that, It's your wish and your life.

And remember you are not the only one one earth who feels this way. Because they are many.

Yet people say true love can not make you love another. But then some times you can love them both and feel the same.

It depends. By asking this question I can tell you have low self-esteem. You have got to love yourself as much as you love her. If there is something you think you can do to change her mind about you, than do it. If you're over weight, please get in shape because women hate guys who don't take care of themselves. Perhaps if you are conceited, drop the eago. If you don't spend enough time with her, take her out to dinner, buy her somethimg she always nags to you about. If she thinks you don't listen to her, then LISTEN. It is the worst thing in the world for a women to feel like her man doesn't care about her feelings.

which one isn't?

Well do you still, feel like you want to be his friend?? than yah give the guy another change, but just one, guys are like seasons they come and go.

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If you talked to your husband already and he ignores you that's when you need to see someone that can help you, like your family or maybe lawyer. If your husband is abusing you, that's when you can talk to the police and report what he is doing.

As we all know, dreams are very inconsistent and confusing. Hence, dreams are not exactly a good source of 'unveiling the truth' whatsoever. Whatever we dream about, whether good or bad, are all not necessarily true. So if you dream your boyfriend is cheating, I wouldn't think about it too much if I were you. Don't get all paranoid or whatever because your poor boyfriend might be innocent after all it's just a dream.

In Psychology, I learnt that dreams have different meanings. For example, if you dream your boyfriend is cheating, it might not mean he IS cheating or anything that has got to do with it. It could have 'indirect meanings: Maybe because you haven't been paying as much attention to him as before, or you did something wrong that results in you feeling a little guilty, etc. Such things may trigger your brain to produce such a dream that he is 'cheating'(off with someone else, you might lose him). I hope you get what I mean.

I once had a dream that my boyfriend cheated on me and as it turns out, he did. Along the time I had the dream but I never asked. I never thought he would and found out 2 months later he did.

They don't, ever. I am ugly and I know I will never get married and have kids. I am twenty-one and I've never had a boyfriend! And most people like me.

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Not all advise is good advise! Some people react with myopic emotional prejudice without taking all the relevant information into consideration. Before following someone's advise you must consider all that you have to gain or loose.

If you are ugly on the outside then you don't have much of a problem but if you are ugly on the inside then you should hide yourself from the world.

Ugliness is in the mind. It is more sadistic and demonic to engage in mental and behavioral ugliness. The physical appearance of a person does not make them ugly. Ugliness is only within the eyes and mind of the beholder. You first have to love yourself before you expect others to love you.

It is normal human nature to be attracted to people, cultures and trends that reflect the image of the social elite. In other words people like to be part of the popular crowd. Most people of the world try to be like the movie stars and the rich and famous. Most people like to be a part of the crowd that has more social prominence.

Our societies have decided what is physical beauty or ugliness by the images portrayed in the movies. You don't have to believe that everyone you meet, is only concerned with physical beauty. You have to find ways to develop your other qualities that will make you beautiful.

It is like recovering from an accident that has disabled you in some way. You don't let it get to you but make every effort to move on by making the best of what you've got.

ever see an unattractive person in a relationship? everyone is beautiful to someone. just have to stay within your "means". an ugly man won't marry a supermodel (unless he has something else she wants).