Cheating

Feeling Hurt? Of course, no one goes through life without getting hurt. We all have our moments. But, what matters most, is how we deal with these moments. Do we let them pass, suffering the pain, swallowing it. Of course, most of the time the pain will get stuck in our throat. It will seldom go away. But isn't it possible that the person inflicting the pain, in this case a man, does not really know how badly he has hurt you? As if he were a child, you will have to teach him how you feel when you get hurt. How can you do that? Of course, you know the answer. You must hurt him equally. Yes, this sounds terrible, but there is no other way. Reason won't do it. It is the pain we experience that will change our behavior.

No. Love is something that is shared between two people who would do any thing for each other. Love is knowing that you would go to the ends of the universe for that someone. If you feel that way about a person then there is no way you could like another person that much.

Yes. It may not be true love for both of them, but it's fully possible to get so wrapped up in your emotions for others that it seems as if you're in love with two people at once. That's when the confusion sets in.

Actually it is possible to be in love with two people, love is a complex feeling and it's different for everyone. It is not a desired situation, but it is possible, and it happens everyday. People often say that you can't love two people at once simply because they have not experienced it.

yes some people can fall in love with two at the same time. Maybe it is sometimes because the one you first fell in love has different colitis than the other. Yet you can feel love for both.

Your love for one person can be different than the love you have for the other.

So don't worry if you are a person like that, It's your wish and your life.

And remember you are not the only one one earth who feels this way. Because they are many.

Yet people say true love can not make you love another. But then some times you can love them both and feel the same.

It depends. By asking this question I can tell you have low self-esteem. You have got to love yourself as much as you love her. If there is something you think you can do to change her mind about you, than do it. If you're over weight, please get in shape because women hate guys who don't take care of themselves. Perhaps if you are conceited, drop the eago. If you don't spend enough time with her, take her out to dinner, buy her somethimg she always nags to you about. If she thinks you don't listen to her, then LISTEN. It is the worst thing in the world for a women to feel like her man doesn't care about her feelings.

which one isn't?

Well do you still, feel like you want to be his friend?? than yah give the guy another change, but just one, guys are like seasons they come and go.

ANSWER:

If you talked to your husband already and he ignores you that's when you need to see someone that can help you, like your family or maybe lawyer. If your husband is abusing you, that's when you can talk to the police and report what he is doing.

As we all know, dreams are very inconsistent and confusing. Hence, dreams are not exactly a good source of 'unveiling the truth' whatsoever. Whatever we dream about, whether good or bad, are all not necessarily true. So if you dream your boyfriend is cheating, I wouldn't think about it too much if I were you. Don't get all paranoid or whatever because your poor boyfriend might be innocent after all it's just a dream.

In Psychology, I learnt that dreams have different meanings. For example, if you dream your boyfriend is cheating, it might not mean he IS cheating or anything that has got to do with it. It could have 'indirect meanings: Maybe because you haven't been paying as much attention to him as before, or you did something wrong that results in you feeling a little guilty, etc. Such things may trigger your brain to produce such a dream that he is 'cheating'(off with someone else, you might lose him). I hope you get what I mean.

I once had a dream that my boyfriend cheated on me and as it turns out, he did. Along the time I had the dream but I never asked. I never thought he would and found out 2 months later he did.

They don't, ever. I am ugly and I know I will never get married and have kids. I am twenty-one and I've never had a boyfriend! And most people like me.

_______________________________________________________________________________

Not all advise is good advise! Some people react with myopic emotional prejudice without taking all the relevant information into consideration. Before following someone's advise you must consider all that you have to gain or loose.

If you are ugly on the outside then you don't have much of a problem but if you are ugly on the inside then you should hide yourself from the world.

Ugliness is in the mind. It is more sadistic and demonic to engage in mental and behavioral ugliness. The physical appearance of a person does not make them ugly. Ugliness is only within the eyes and mind of the beholder. You first have to love yourself before you expect others to love you.

It is normal human nature to be attracted to people, cultures and trends that reflect the image of the social elite. In other words people like to be part of the popular crowd. Most people of the world try to be like the movie stars and the rich and famous. Most people like to be a part of the crowd that has more social prominence.

Our societies have decided what is physical beauty or ugliness by the images portrayed in the movies. You don't have to believe that everyone you meet, is only concerned with physical beauty. You have to find ways to develop your other qualities that will make you beautiful.

It is like recovering from an accident that has disabled you in some way. You don't let it get to you but make every effort to move on by making the best of what you've got.

ever see an unattractive person in a relationship? everyone is beautiful to someone. just have to stay within your "means". an ugly man won't marry a supermodel (unless he has something else she wants).

status quo edoptions.........

you confront them. Ask them if they do, then pop the first thing that goes to your mind...^^ Youth can certainly go through some painful movements and because of their youth the skies the limit when it comes to love and skipping from one mate to the next. It's because the young are riding on high hormones and are not wise enough at this point to want to settle down to a permanent relationship and it's not really expected of them. Don't be in too big a rush to settle in with one person. You will have to accept the fact he doesn't want to be with you. It hurts and most of us have felt that hurt when younger (sometimes more than once) but, there are great things ahead of you and romance is one of them. Keep your head high, chin up and tell him to hit the bricks! Young guys like an independent woman and it actually hurts their feelings when you don't put up a fuss. If your boyfriend has told you that he wants someone else then he's not worth bothering with, If your boyfriend can't appreciate what he has then he doesn't deserve you. Don't try to change yourself just to keep him. On the other hand if you just think he wants someone else, then talk to him about it, explain why you feel like this, but try not to be to accusing or he may feel pressured. Hope this helps=)

Its not right to do so , but I know it happens being my ex's mother slept with he brother in law from her second marriage and destroyed a family temp. and 5 years later they remarried and have a very healthy relationship since she is out of their lives!

* A spouse who has cheated on their mate has lost the bond of trust and your partner may never trust you again. Hopefully, in time they will learn to trust you, but it will take a long while for that trust to grow again. The old saying, 'Once a cheater always a cheater' is not always true. People are just human and can make one big mistake, but never do it again. Communicate your feelings to your spouse and let them know that you've made a complete fool of yourself and why you think you have and then try to convince them to give you another chance. If financially possible this is a good time to go on a trip somewhere so you can have some time together and a good change of scenery. If you can't afford this then perhaps a weekend away together would be good for both of you.

no cheating on your boyfriend bad but cheating on him with a girl that's cold and really nasty being well les- bo u should not cheat on him with her and listen to this fact not opinion :) thanks

The question isn't why other couples my be vulnerable, the question is why YOU may be vulnerable. There are as many reasons as there are people in relationships. It's not an exact science when it comes to figguring it out. First you have to find out what's wrong with the relationship, then you'll know how to fix it, if that's even possible.

Since we live in a time where people are very into instant gratification, there are a lot of people out there that enter relationships for the wrong reasons, or stay in them for the same. People can change, tastes change, desire fades, what's left over is what you have to base a relationship on and in our current me me me society it's not typicaly the same thing as wehn it started, and unfortunately not always enough.

because he knew he made a bad decision and wants her back.

ANSWER:

Gosh just leave him alone, move on and have a life of your own. You already helped him destroyed his wife, I think that's enough for her to take, agreed? Stop dreaming that this not so good of a husband will have his way back to you. Move on and stop with this married men already...not an insult but reality love..

A man knows or maybe some does not really understand that when having had an intimate moment with someone will always live a connection between each other, it will be better to avoid contacting each other if he does not want to cheat

Normally dreams can play tricks on our mind, to make us paranoid or even take things to extreme levels. its probably nothing to worry about, its just what you dread most, and its bound to pop up in your mind. It happens all the time, like some people have worst case senarios in their dreams, such as death. And this would probably be your worst case senario. Its just paranoia carrying on in your sleep.

well if ur girl is getting fat and not taking care of herself like the first time u met her ,u will cheat cz is a lot of girls out there in other words alot of competition,same goes for u.... break up with her.

you can tell if your wife is in love with another women if she is going out with her freinds alot and not coming back for days. if the sex is not there that is another way of telling, i should know, that is why i got a devorse