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Cheating
This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.
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What are the warning signs that your wife is cheating?
- They let you do the talking most of the time.
- They are using more gas.
- The mileage in their car is too high. Check the mileage for them to and from work. Is there a lot of unexplained mileage?
- They want you to wait while they clean out their car before you get in it.
- There are two empty cups or containers for food for more than one person in their car.
- The music stations in their car have changed.
Signs of Money:
- Money is unaccounted for (this could also be drugs).
- You find receipts for items you've never seen.
- There are unexplained charges on credit card bills.
Here is some more input and advice from people who have been cheated on:
- If you know that they cheated on people they were with before you, the chances are much higher that they will cheat on you.
- If you're losing sleep over it and become obsessive and angry, don't just shun it away as paranoia. It might be right.
- Unfortunately, the "signs" aren't that obvious nor are they that reliable. If he/she is doing it "right", you won't be able to tell unless you catch him/her in the act. In general, if you're the type of person that tries to keep life interesting for your spouse, you'll minimize the potential, but you can't eliminate the possibility no matter what you do. Some people tend to cheat no matter what their home life is like. Were they cheating on someone else when they met you? If so, it's probably an established behavior pattern. If your spouse is the type of person who can be trusted in other areas of life you might have a good reason to trust him in marriage. After all, marriage is about trust and commitment.
- Note that if your spouse is not cheating and you are constantly being suspicious and questioning everything, you might just drive him/her into being unfaithful.
- If you believe they're different now, then take the time and think of a plan to investigate them on your own.
- If you have a gut instinct that they are cheating, 9 out of 10 times you are right. That feeling is there for a reason and if I were you I would check it out. Be careful though, you don't want it to be your own insecurity and be wrong. That will screw things up because then he will know that you don't trust him.
- The heart knows. Don't let your mind talk you out of it. There are a lot of signs of cheating.
- Be patient. Don't let them know you suspect them. Plan what to do if they really are cheating on you or lying to you. Be prepared to leave them. No matter how ugly, fat, worthless, or horrible lover you think you are in your mind you will always feel that way if you stay there and don't listen to your gut instincts and the hard evidence. Self esteem is how well you trust yourself. If you know something is going on, and deny it is happening you aren't trusting yourself and your self esteem same will be low. Remember somebody will love you no matter what you look like. There is always someone out there who thinks you are a 10.
- A spouse often cheats with someone close to both of you, e.g., a neighbor, friend, or even a family member of yours. Are they especially close to someone of the opposite sex?
- Days without showering at home, but your partner seems to have showered.
How do you end an affair with a married woman?
Say something like this: You knew at the beginning how this relationship was going to work, we hang out and have sex, and that is all it is. I am ready to move on, and since this relationship was built upon the mistrust of my infidelity, we have no future. You should have known that, as it can't be anything else. I guess that I will see you around, but this is how it is and how it must be. Good day.
What can you do when you are married but in love with someone else?
you may want to stay clear of it because for one there needs to be a healing time for her to let herself get her feelings in order. You don't want either of you to be a habit.
Answer:
Is it worth it to have this love knowing that both of you are hurting someone without him knowing? If you really love this married woman, you will do something sacred to let her go. Like the old myth says "if you love someone, love that person enough to let him or her go." Change your life by looking for someone who is available and no issue. In a long run you will find that true love you are looking for.
He would lay low for a while. It is hard to end a relationship that has history. (The kind he shared with his wife). Don't push, in retrospect move on and find someone who is available, and wants to communicate with you. It is less stressful, and more honest.
What are the duties of a married woman?
Nice question. Most people don't have a clue on what kind of responsibilities they will face from the moment they say "yes". There are dozens of books that talk about why our society works so badly, and what could we make to heal it hence feel happier. I have read it, I have male friends who have read it, and we all agree that most of it is true, yet it is so very difficult to find a partner who thinks the same way you do. So I would say: first things first. A man and a woman should discuss their own concepts of family and marriage. Definitions should not be different, there is no complementary function working when it comes to how one sees those. We cannot expect the other person to respond to what we think is a responsibility when that same person sees it as an option - and never had the chance to say it simply because the issue was never discussed...
Those books state that there are Men entries, there are Women entries, and there are common entries when it comes to responsibility.
Respect, faithfulness, support, goal-oriented sacrifices, presence, sharing, communication, these are the common ones. Women should give priority to the daily well-being of the family component(s), men should make sure their wives have all that is essential for that to happen in harmony.
I would add two things to that list, which are not exactly responsibilities but should be a must to each marriage: the ability to surprise and the ability to laugh together. Our lives are so stressful, so full of routine and predictability that we tend to slide all the way down without noticing it. If we keep in mind that we must break this line every once in a while with a (good) surprise and a light laughter, then facing responsibilities is much, much easier.
What are the signs your best friend is flirting with your boyfriend?
One of the signs is you friend is trying to get you to break up with your boyfriend. Also when ever you are alone together she comes in and interups you. If she is always laughing and "acting dumb" around him that's another sign. If she's trying to always hang around him and his friends that should be pretty obvious.
How can I tell if a married man has fallen in love with me?
if u r not interested on that man, just go face to face and tell ur feelings that u r married person. its not right for u to behave like this.
express ur feelings whether to tell ok or not ok to that person.
but think twice what u r going to tell him !!! raki
What are the effects of cheating?
Generally the other spouse can go for divorce. Generally if a women cheats her husband she is debarred from maintenance. If you need detailed knowledge on this topic you can approach Siddhartha Shah And Associates as they are one of the best divorce lawyers in Mumbai. They have great knowledge and experience in the field of divorce and family law. One can call them on : 093222 86663 or email on lawyersidd
In which movie does a wife cheats on her husband?
well there is a lot of movie that have that give me more details. Her lover gets amnesia. Movie is set in the late 40's to late 50's. Husbands occuption is a pilet I believe. A boardgame with a missing piece (I believe a heart) plays into the plot.
How do you find out if your wife is cheating?
*If she starts acting strange when you two are together and especially when you two are not around each other there MIGHT be a sign that there is someone else. If she gets short with you with no legit reason, there MIGHT be someone else.*
What does dreaming of your husband with other women mean?
There could be a number of different meanings to this dream. The most important factor to understand is that the dream is about the dreamer: her emotions, suspicions, insecurities or fears. The dream might reflect the dreamer's low opinion of herself and fear that her husband will find someone more beautiful, more thin, more interesting, etc. If this is the case, then the dreamer could share the dream with her husband and seek reassurance of his love. ...
.... Alternatively, this dream could be the mind's way of bringing certain overlooked events to her attention. If the dreamer has been in denial about the husband's unfaithfulness, the dream means "wake up and face reality." ....
.... Yet another possibility is that the "somebody else" represents too much time spent at his work or watching sports or hanging with his friends. In this case, again, the dreamer needs to talk this out with the husband.
A previous answer:
that you want it or your scared of it
How do you tell him sorry for cheating?
Tell him why you did it. Be honest and sincere. Lying about the way you feel or what happened or why you did it will not be of any help and will just make the situation worse. Say sorry over and over again til you feel like a broken record. Be considerate and allow him to be angry and yell at you and be unreasonable without doing the same back at him. Remember, how would you feel if you he did that to you? Give him time to forgive you and if he doesn't, accept it and move on.
Is cheating acceptable as long as you don't get caught?
come on do you really need answers to your own question. which you sound stupid in the first place.
ANSWER:
Is it? for some married couple who don't have anymore relationship might say it is after all the wife never had anymore free time for her husband, or there's no more chemistry between them. But when it comes to a married man, what can I say they will tell us if wives only met their needs they will not go to that direction. The man that I married said what he did was a mistakes, but it wasn't a mistakes when he have all the time in the world with his mistress. He wasn't concern if he gets caught, he wasn't concerned if someone knew us saw him. But the big finale was when I discovered it, he was sorry, but he wasn't sorry then. This man that I married will be one of those man that will say it is acceptable because he founds happiness for himself..
Why does your man cheat on you?
Some men are not looking for a commitment but place themselves into positions where they are fully committed to a partner. Hence the reason why some relationships do not work out and the male has a wondering eye. If he wanted to be committed and really settle down he wouldn't go and hurt your feelings in such a disrespectful way.
If a husband has cheated twice before will he do it again?
most likely. people usually learn from there mistakes but if its a second time and you keep forgiving him hes gona think he can get away with it and a simple apology will fix things with you. dont let him walk all over you and find some one HOTTER.
What are the signswhen a boyfriend is about to leave his girlfriend for the mistress?
Excuses for being late, not being where they are expected to, and less of a physical relationship where there was one before. Set this guy free...there are many other nice ones out there who do not cheat. Makes life more simple.
What do you do if you have cheated on your girlfriend and still love her?
Give her a chance? what have you got to lose?
The most important thing that you consider your spouse is cheating on you is to make sure you have solid evidence, not just suspicions. If your spouse is cheating on you it is fully certain that he or she will be using their computer to maintain the relationship.
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Although there are many reasons not to spy on your spouse, there are also many situations where I agree it is necessary. My be your spouse left before you ever had the chance to save your marriage.
How do you tell your Wife you are having an affair with another Woman?
You have to let him know sometime, so just break it to him slowly and gently, but make your statement clear. It can be hard to let it be known because of the other may think that all is well when it is not! Sometimes, knowing when to leave can be the smartest thing!
Why do some single women actively seek married men?
- In many cases a single woman will actively seek a married man out because she can have his full attention; perhaps gifts from him; a sexual relationship and there are no strings attached. In these modern times many more single women may prefer staying single, but enjoy the perks they get from married men.
Signs of a cheating boyfriend?
- She isn't where she said she'd be...( friends , mall, game, gym etc)
- Her plans change a lot at the last minute
- She seems distracted
- She isn't having sex with her partner as regularly as before or at all
- She is suddenly wanting to have more sex than she usually does
- She suddenly introduces new positions
- She has missing clothes
- she is suddenly buying clothes that she would have never bought before ( Victoria secret?)
- She has clothes in her car
- She wont let you see her cell phone
- She wont let you see her cell phone bill
- She stops talking on the phone when your in the room
- She suddenly bought a cell phone when she never needed one before
- When you answer the phone no ones there or they hang up
- She suddenly begins doing things in bed she never did before...
- She smells different
- She tastes different...( sorry gross but true)
- She comes home with her clothes in a mess
- She comes home with different clothes on
- She is caught lying...or here stories change a lot
- She opens a separate mailbox
- She suddenly starts to worry about losing a lot of weight or start working out
- She suddenly begins staying late at work, working long hours, or makes excuses for being late
- She suddenly starts talking about a guy friend or associate
- She suddenly stops talking about a guy friend or associate
- She becomes overly angry /defensive if you ask her if she is cheating or about certain guys or where shes been
- Her explanations become very long and detailed
- She become defensive if you ask her girlfriends about what they did Saturday night
- She tells you too many details about Saturday night with the girls, or her friends dirty secrets
- She suddenly has new friends you have never met or even heard of
- She ask strange questions she never asked before....like about what you think about polygamy, or cheating, ppl who have affairs or sex positions
- She suddenly seems to pick a lot of fights
- She is mean to you in public or in front of her friends
- AND WHEN YOU GUT SAYS SO...trust your instincts
Why most married man think their affair is not a mistake until they get caught?
- Some married men do not feel guilty at all and they are just sorry they got caught. Other married men may have gotten in over their heads in an affair and did not know how to get out of it so when caught they feel guilty.
Why does a man want a mistress?
- When some men are married for a year or so and realize that it is much different than just dating and both couples need to face reality such as both working towards the future or, after several years of marriage the married man feels restless as if he wants to reach back into his youth and needs to know other women are attracted to him he will find a mistress. The wife has had to put up with him for a year or several years and sometimes boredom can set in for the husband, but meeting someone new is exciting and the sexual relationship is as well, but if the married man keeps seeing the mistress for a fair length of time he will soon realize that 'the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence) and he is once again bored. Some married men will find another mistress or, they may return home to their wives and settle down. Basically, these types of married men become slightly obsessed with their mistress because their relationship is new and exciting and he has no commitments. This is a high sign of immaturity on the married man's part.
You are married and still in love with your ex boyfriend?
I don't understand what does your son having a girlfriend have to do with your love life, but if you are not in love with the man you are married to... You have an obligation towards him (does he know you don't love him? don't you think he has the right to be loved by someone else?) and yourself (do you want to spend the rest of your life being married to someone you don't love?). You should ask and answer yourself these questions - no matter what could happen between you and your ex, if you were to decide for a divorce. Be true to yourself and the others, always. You may not find the end of the rainbow, but at least you will not be stuck to the 'what ifs'. Life is too short to wonder. Act. Try. Just do it with respect and empathy. Good Luck.
Seriously? Either divorce or end your first relationship FIRST. Don't purposely hurt someone you once cared for that way. They don't deserve it. Nor does any new relationship - it can go nowhere - but that's your point, isn't it? You don't want it to? Then go get a hooker and PAY FOR IT. But still, be an adult and end your your relationship - as it appears you don't want to be in one in the first place.
