Cheating

Well one thing he might do is start spending more time away from the home and less time with you. These friends may come up alot in conversations or he might mention them casually to you for no reason. Does he keep his cell phone glued to his side so that you have no chance of looking at it,does he jump when it rings and makes sure you don't answer it or gets mad if you try too? When he receives a call does he go into anothr room or outside so you have no chance to hear any of the conversation? Does he say he is working overtime with no proof of it on the paycheck? Have you noticed alot of calls to numbers over and over at times during the day when he should be at work or somewhere else? Check the cell bill online,its easy if you had your bill itemized you can do that by going to the website registering,making up a user name and password,you can track calls this way and even save or print them out for future use if needed.

Another thing try this,as him point blank if he is fooling around or having a affair,I did this when my husband WAS having a affair and he kept telling me the woman and he were JUST FRIENDS,I said,yeah right! And I was right. If you have a gut feeling most of the time its a right feeling we woman have..keep you eyes and ears open.

Low self-esteem. Delusional. Waiting for a happy ending that probably will never come. She needs to find her dignity and move on

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I think I can top that, from what the man I married told me and was very proud to say her quality. She is a very religious and kind woman, she talked to him about his problem, she listen to him talk, she knows how to give him the attention he desires. But unfortunately he hardly talk or make a conversation with me, hardly listen to me when I talk, and much, much more....

• If your boyfriend cheated on you and you took him back it only tells him that you don't respect yourself and he will continue cheating on you and lying to you. Leave him right away and move on... life is too short to waste a moment on a person like he is. As soon as you leave him you will feel better with time and you will meet a nice guy one day soon.

I am not only willing, I would be pushing him out the door! In this age of diseases that will not only make you sick, but actually take your life - I would not be giving him a second chance. But that's me.

You need to decide if your life is better with him or without him. If you can answer this honestly, that is all you need to know.

if it has happened more than once, call the police if this is the first time, tell her to break up with him and try and stay clear of him until he acts calmer, it is unsafe to have an abusive boyfriend

If he wants to be with them more than you

I do am sorry that you had found out your husband's secret. Emotional affair is the hardest affair that can happen to someone. I know because it happened to me, a while ago. If your husband admitted his relationship with ths other woman and they haven't met yet, you can still control your husband. The two of you needs to talk about what's going on with him. Ask him why he didn't have no problem talking to this woman on line about things in his life but he can't with you. Ask him how deep his involvement with her, but don't let him manipulate you, because he will tell you that " he didn't plan it" it just happen. Most married men who got caught with affairs, emotional or physical will say that " it's just happen." If your husband didn't plan it or even open up to her, he will not become emotionally involve with her. BTW the man that I married also told me that he didn't plan it, it just happen.

Being emotionally involve with this woman, expect they already shared an intimate feelings to each others. What if, how it will feel, will be some of the intimate words that they talked or fantasized. When and if your husband stop talking to her, watch your husband, his behaviour will change because he will be thinking about the other woman. It just like trying to stop drinking,

If you are planning to talk to her husband don't, it's the other woman that you need talk to, so she will know what ever your husband told her or even complain to her about you she will know the truth. If she don't listen to you, that's when you tell her that you will talk to her husband. But for now take care of yourself and make sure you talk to one of your friends or family.

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• When a young man calls a woman of any age a moose it generally means she could be a large boned girl or very tall and appears larger. Name callers are people who have low self esteem.

ethier they will cheat or they want to have sex

• Cheaters always end up losing in one way or another. If the cheater wants to rebuild their life with their mate then it will take time to earn that trust back. Phoning every so often if you are going to be late getting home; not over doing too many 'I love you,' but setting up a with your mate (if married) to seek marriage counseling in order to learn the tools of good communication skills so both of you can discuss your problems in your relationship. By doing this it shows you are trying. If you make a date with your mate keep it! It will difficult, but the fact you want to earn their trust back is worth the fight to get that trust back. You'd better mean it!

It could all just be fears of yours taking form in your dreams

Dreams provide information about the dreamer through symbols. This dream suggests that the dreamer feels abandoned by the spouse. The "cheating" might represent anything that takes the spouse away from the dreamer. This might be anything from working too much overtime to spending too much time with family, friends, or sports.

It generally means that it's something your scared of. That if it's happened to you before in the past. You fear it will happen to you again.

That you should watch out for any other signs that your spouse is actually cheating on you. Maybe its a warning, maybe its not. just watch your back and keep all your valuables locked up or hidden until you know for sure that the one you are with isn't planning on leaving or cheating you. EVER!

There is no way you can find out if he's cheating with anyone including call-girls unless you hire a private dectective to follow him. You could always follow him yourself, but maybe for some reason that's not possible so hire someone to do it for you, you do deserve to know.

Wife? No. Ex-wife would be more correct.

You shouldn't stress over it at all tell him hoe you really feel about him if he oesnt listen then he is not the one for move on but if you cant move on because you really do love that person hen come strong show that person you love them by sill talking to them do something nice for them make them a CD with songs how yu feel suorise thm on valentines day call them don't flirt just be yo self just wat up what you doing you feel me

Why waste your time trying to frame this person? It's not condusive to your life and a waste of time. There is an old saying that rings true over and over again, "The head of the snake will turn around and bite you on the butt!" That means this person is going to get caught sooner or later and they'll pay heavy for this indiscretion and it will be far worse than you or anyone else can do to them. If you know this person is cheating and you are involved with them, then confront them and have it out, then walk away. The fewer words one can say to the cheater (just give them "the look") carrys more meaning than a thousand useless words that only is laid on deaf ears. I would like you to also think of this .... many people do cheat, but not all the people that cheat are rotten. Some do it knowing they are hurting another person, while others just meet someone and it's by accident. Be careful what you do and say. I am not a great believer in cheating at all and feel once a person has met someone else (even by accident) they should be honest with the person they are dating or married too. There are simply no excuses. My wise father always told me to be careful how I treated others with certain situations because I could be in that situation one day myself. I always listened to these words. "Walk a mile in my shoes" is another good saying. Stay away. Don't get mixed up, and if you must, just tell the person that's cheating you know they are cheating, give them the look and walk away. This way the secret is out, you've said little and they'll sweat bullets. This will be the best pay back you can ever get. Marcy

Don't overanalyze it. His behavior was pretty normal for people who have just broken up--nervousness at a post breakup meeting and looking at the other person for any kind of facial expression. You were obviously doing the same thing. Maybe he really wanted to say more. Give him time and I bet he will come back. I really wish people would indicate who broke it off with whom. So many times, the answer depends upon that. Did he dump you, or did you dump him, or was the break-up consensual? Certainly, knowing that affects how one interprets his looking at you. Also, it would be nice to know exactly HOW he was looking back. Was he checking you out in his rear-view mirror, or was he, like, hanging out the window like a big dope? And one more thing: are you really hot? Just because you broke up doesn't mean you're not good-looking to him anymore. He just may have been checking out your bod.

This depends entirely on what disease you are asking about. Herpes, HIV and HPV, among others, can be present and infectious for years without symptoms or with only intermittent symptoms. Gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis, as well as some others, are only infectious for short periods of time (chlamydia and syphilis may be present long after they cease to be infectious. Especially true of syphilis).

If you have something that isn't infectious over the long term then someone has had sex outside the relationship or has been exposed via needle sharing (HIV and syphilis especially can be spread this way). But if it is something that can be infectious for years then it may have been present well before you began your relationship. == == == == You need to go to counseling and make him talk about it. Good luck and God Bless:) Since you have an STD, he needs to get tested to be sure he doesn't have it too. Then, you can talk to the Dr. and get information as to why an STD may be undetected for a long period of time. If your relationship is a good one, I would get more data before discussing the rest of the issue.

You can hire someone to follow her. You can follow her yourself. You can just come out and ask for the truth. If the answer is yes, then you boot her to the curb. If the answer is no, then find out the reason your feeling insecure and move on.

I'm sure there are others who will give you appropriate advise. Still, I would like to say this. All of us do things we regret later, so I will not be the first one to throw a stone. However, this type of event has now affected four individuals, and may have ruined a number of relationships. I would imagine your boyfriend and his best friend are no longer best friends. I don't know if your boyfriend will take you back, but still it may never be the same. So now there is this second relationship in jeopardy. Relationships are based on trust, commitment, and responsibility. The trust factor here has now been compromised. Will he ever be able to trust you again? Only time will tell if it's repairable. However, it's like breaking a vase, no matter how well you glue it back together, all it will take is just a little tap for it to break again. One thing you will have to be concerned about is this; If you did this once, the chances of it happening again (maybe with some one else) are going to be much greater. This is something you will have to think about for the future. I do not mean to be cold hearted about this because I know you are feeling pain yourself, but these are the consequences for the mistakes we make. If you feel the need to apologize, just be up-front with him, and do not make excuses. Making excuses will only backfire on you. Be up-front, direct, and honest. I would not get into an argument, or start crying, and begging. After thinking about it, me may appreciate the mature approach you have made to resolve this issue. When your finished, it will be the way it will be.

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I feel well-equipped to answer this as it happened to me yesterday afternoon.

I have been having an affair with a close friend for 14 months. We are stupidly in love and I left my husband last year. His plans were to leave his wife within the next two months as neither of us can stand being apart any longer.

Sadly, yesterday my mobile phone was playing me about and refused to reply to a text he sent me from Spain (holiday). I was so cross, I sent him an email to explain, imagining he would pick it up on his iPhone as usual. He did actually tell me he had received the texts anyway and would call me later that evening.

Within two hours my mobile rang. Thinking it was my letting agent, I answered it immediately despite the blocked number. My blood ran cold when I heard it was HER. She told me she had found the email and all hell broke loose. Over the next few hours she rang me 3 times, told me he was denying my existence and that it was all in my head. I was hurt, angry and miserable to think he would rubbish our relationship that way. When he contacted me, I told him to go to hell. As it turns out, he never said those things and she was hitting me right where it hurt.

To cut an incredibly long story short, she has kicked him out and put his stuff in 6 black sacks. His sister in law came to my place of work this am and told me to take it all as a "present" from his wife. I was horrified and had to arrange for someone to take it all. Thankfully our mutual friend helped me out.

So now I am THAT woman who broke up a family. I can't imagine I will be accepted for a long, long time by any of his loved ones. Call me a whore, slut and Marriage-wrecker - I take it on the chin - but I'm not. I just fell head over heels for a man I consider to be the greatest love of my life. For the foreseeable future, I will be laying low; not hounding him and hoping to God, he is OK. Because at the end of the day he is a decent, kind and lovely man who fell in love with someone who wasn't his wife.

You'll never trust this guy, because you already know he is a cheater.

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Being the other woman has some perks. Sex will be fantastic because the married man you are having the affair with has more experience when it comes to intimacy because of his wife of many years. For him to get what he wanted from you, he will make you feel very special. He will always calls you, and maybe if your lucky enough talk sex on the phone.

But the harsh reality of being the other woman, he will never spent the night with you because he is married after all. He can't spend holiday with you because he got his family. You can't be seen outside your house because he might be seen by his friends. And the worst of it is even you wanted him all the time, he can't because his married. So tell me is being the other woman worth it?

you have to ask God for help