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Cheating

This category contains all questions regarding cheating and everything it entails, whether it is emotional or having physical relations with someone other than your significant other.

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Your boyfriend just got a new cell phone and when he called you his child's mother's name appeared on your caller ID could she have bought the phone for him?

If this is his new cell phone and it is listed under his ex then she either got it for him to be able to reach him at all times for the child, she gave him a gift, he had her list it for him because he couldn't have his name listed on it or he is still dating her and dating you on the side.

If you truly love someone and have desires for someone else is it better to break up and stay friends than it is to cheat?

Yes. My god yes. Turn the situation around. If the one you trully loved loved someone else, and decided to cheat- HOW WOULD YOU FEEL? Sometimes in life we face certain points where our heart goes the opposite direction. Its about being the right person and not letting peope get hurt more than they should. This person is going to get MORE hurt if you cheat on them then if you don't think up a strategy to break up with them. Break up then do your thing. Do it nicely though. Don't be a jerk.

Why would my wife start wearing thongs when for 15 years she said she didn't like them?

Because she wants you to pay attention to her again. She wants you to compliment her now and again on how great she looks. She's trying to spark your interest after 15 years.

Should I try a new relationship after being cheated on Im afraid of getting hurt again.?

If you're afraid of being hurt again, don't try a new relationship. You can't hold everybody else accountable for what your ex did. Don't subject your new partner to your insecurities if you're not mentally & emotionally over cheated on previously. It's not anyone else's fault or problem you were cheated on & just as you deserve faithfulness, your new partner deserves all your love without your being afraid of something they didn't do.

Your boyfriend is highly emotional has a lot of issues and you with through the rough times when you could have broken it off. Now he seems really interested in your best friend and she likes him too?

Probably without knowing it he used you. Somewhere along the line it became more about his issues that turned into a 'need'. He may feel he needs to get away from what reminds him of all the problems (he is not emotionally stable in the first place) and therefore has a new girlfriend in hopes he can forget the past emotional upsets. He doesn't know it, but he's carrying his ghosts with him. Hon, you did all the right things and nothing wrong. Highly emotional people have used people, lied to them, promised them things that they knew they would never hold a promise too. Perhaps it's not meant by him, but the hurt is still there. Consider yourself lucky you are rid of him. He drained you by loading you down with his problems AND YOU accepted this challenge and did the best you could. Learn from it and know you did the right thing, but keep moving on and DON'T go back to him no matter how much he pleads or threatens.

If your spouse was cheating but decided to stay with you could verbal or physical abuse follow if he still loves the other woman?

Yes it could happen by some male spouses. Wives can sometimes trap their husbands into staying either by blackmail or their finances are tied up together and he stands to lose a lot of money. If the wife does this then there is really no satisfaction for her and he'll certainly not cooperate with his wife. Whether he becomes verbally/physically abusive depends on what type of man he was in the relationship with his wife. If he was never abusive then he won't be if he is forced to stay in a relationship with no love attached.

Does biology cause infidelity in marriages?

Biology causes the temptation that leads to infidelity.

Biology does not cause infidelity in marriage.

Infidelity is making love or falling in love with someone other than married partner.

Mechanism of Infidelity

Infidelity results from giving in to attraction for another person whom you are not married. It is important to know that such attraction is biological though giving in is succumbing to your temptation.

Anatomy of Marriage

Familiarity breeds contempt. Most married relations over period of time become romantically dull. In most relations there never was love other than mutual respect and caring. Even if there was love staying together and sharing responsibilities becomes awfully boring. Sometimes married relations are onerous to the point they are painful.

Physiology of Infidelity

The torrent of love or passion that strikes the mind when becomes uncontrolled it results in infidelity.

Infidelity and Quality of Marriage

Infidelity can result even if the couple having loving marriage with good sexual relations.

Immorality in Infidelity

One may like a mobile phone that one sees, but when that person falls for the temptation and when the person steals it, it is morally wrong. So too, though attraction for person who is not your married partner may be biological (natural) it breaches marriage and is devastating to individual, family and society.

Definition of Infidelity

I have used the word INFIDELITY to mean amorous loving relationship in which man or woman is in love with someone other than married partner. They may be just emotionally in love as when talking/chatting.

It is infidelity even if there is sexual intimacy or just romantic passionate attraction and the relation may be on mobile phone or on Internet without actual physical sex.

Does the male spouse generally refuse to admit to his affair even when the other spouse caught him?

  • Yes, the male spouse will often refuse to admit he has been cheating on his wife because they feel guilty and even while having the affair they feel it is wrong so they will lie no matter how much evidence is against them.

Did Nikki Zeno get a divorce?

she's happily married, for now, even though her husband isn't working anymore

The guy is married and later claimed to have developed a crush to another woman and providing her special treatment. Is his feelings to the other person still a crush or infatuation?

that's cheating that is! Cause if has a crush and giving her special treatment then he's probably having sex with her, as his 'special' treatment

What does it mean when a man has a girlfriend but still texts lots of other women?

Well, if a man does that, you can obviously tell that he does not have real and true feelings for his girlfriend. It might come to a fact that one girl is not enough for him and that he might be a player or he has not found the right girl for himself yet.

Why would a married guy that's been messing around with you get mad when you told him your not perfect like him and his wife?

guys are offensive

ANSWER:

Simple it could be that your married lover do not want to think about his wife, or else he might start having this dirty conscience because the two of you are together. Or it could be that he rather not hear about his wife because he might loose his inspiration or it might turn him off.

If a guy you know got married real young and never really experienced other women and you told him that's why he's cheating on his wife and he says you think so what does that mean?

He could be cheating for a number of reasons. His being married at a young age could be the reason why he is cheating on his wife, but so could the reason for being board in the relationship regardless of age. His saying so you think is basically letting you know that those are your thoughts and he think otherwise.

How do i become very skinny?

well i think your perfect just the way you are but if you want to be skinny just go on a diet or try different foods but just keep it at a minimum

Does a married man care about his mistress if its long term relationship?

He probably cares about her but she should remember that she is his second choice. Otherwise she would be his wife and not his mistress.

Do most wifes consider cheating on their husbands?

  • Almost all women at some point in their marriage will fantasize about having an affair and some women do; other just think about it; some will look and not touch. Husbands will do the same thing. Years of being married ; fear of getting older and wanting to have one last fling with a different person; wanting to know one is attractive; wanting more romance in their marriage; not being taken for granted or ignored are just some reasons women will fantasize or act on the thought of cheating. However, there are more women than one thinks that remain true to their husbands and just fantasize or enjoy some other man flirting with them at a party and thinking they are attractive and that is all the wife needs without cheating.

Why will a man risk everything he has because of his lust for a woman?

For his own personal needs and he never really think that he will ever get caught. He doesn't love his wife completely that is why having an affair is very easy for him. He thought that being married will always be a rose garden. His wife becomes very busy taking care of their children and the attention is not towards him. There's a lot of reason why, but his first priority is himself.

ANSWER:

It could be that this man fell in love with the other woman, and he doesn't care as long as he knows that he can be with her. Most married man will do anything, specially

if they are in love.

Your boyfriend always thinks you are cheating what do you do you can never even talk to other guys without him getting mad but he can always talk to girls?

U can try and convince him but if u can't u need to accpet the possibility that he is possebility that he is possesvive or maybe be cheating

Is there a test to see if my boyfriend is cheating on me with a girl that he work with?

no there is no such test but if he asks you to come with him tonight say him that u can't & suddenly go to his house or were he said u he would take u

ANSWER:

The only way you can find out if he is cheating on you is by ask him face to face, and if his having a hard time answering that question, you bet something is going on. If your boyfriend answer you by asking the same question, there it is. Watch his reaction..

What does it mean if a man cheated on his wife with mistress then cheats with you?

A man who has cheated on his wife with a mistress and then does it again with you, is a man who is motivated by lust, and who will never be sexually faithful to anyone. If he should ever tell you that he intends to leave his wife and marry you instead, don't believe him.

You have been through a lot with your sons father deceiving cheating no respect no communication and you cant let go you never can agree or understand each other what can you do move on or keep tryng?

Leave him for someone who loves and respects you. Its a much better environment for your son to be living in a stable household while growing up. Take the actual father to family court to get child support.

How do you know if a player boyfriend has changed?

* Unfortunately very few player boyfriends ever change. If you don't demand respect from him you won't receive it and it obvious he isn't making an effort so it would be wise to breakup with him. You deserve better!

Your wife had over 30 partners before you does she think about them?

This sounds like a security/confidence issue. If the man who's wife had 30+ partners is secure and confident I doubt he would ask the question much less need an answer. One might (and the wife, if asked, surely would) ask does husband think about his former sexual partners.

Of course, it is possible that sharing their previous sexual experiences could enhance their sex lives but only if they are both confident and secure and turned on by it. If either of them feels threatened or is uncomfortable in anyway with this kind of mutual sharing - Don't ask; Don't tell!