Cheating

* This is quite common with alcoholics. Your husband is an individual and could have changed the things he did not like in his marriage without reverting to alcohol. Blaming you is simply an excuse. Alcoholism can be genetic. Try getting him to go to Alcoholics Anonymous and you should attend Alanon to understand your husbands problem and also to learn tools to deal with it.

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We are not in the stone age any more. Most of us hopefully do not resemble the monkeys we evolved from. Pubic hair for both genders should definitely be shaved. At the very least it should be groomed and cut short. "Trim" is called trim for a reason. I know, to each his own. People cut the hair on their head, do their make up, trim their beard, and brush their teeth. Why? To look good. If you walked down the street in a grubby, ripped shirt with your hair all a mess, people would say "what a slob." Why would you want to show an unkept thatch to someone you want to have sex with. So if you want any action down there, take care of things, down there.

I am a 33 year old very muscular guy (not musclebound I shave my body because it defines the muscle. I have shaved my balls since I was 14 and keep my pubic hair trimmed very close. If you are a guy reading this and think it is gross, shave your body and see.

• Your husband betrayed the bond of trust you had in him and hurt you deeply and now he is going to have to earn that trust back only if you want to stay with him and save the marriage. If your husband has cheated on more than one occasion then he is not worth trusting at all, but 'to err is human' and sometimes men from 40 years and up can feel they are getting old and want to recapture their youth or, they are so taken in by another woman being attracted to them. Remind your husband that if you decide on divorce unless he seeks marriage counseling with you and works at earning your trust back you are well aware other men would be attracted to you because often some men who cheat are so into themselves they forget that their wives can attract other men too. However, do it the right way and don't cheat to get even. If you feel you can never trust him again or he has cheated multiple times and you want a divorce then file for one.

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• Cheating is cheating no matter if the woman is married or single. The only difference is the man involved feels he can have a wild affair with a married woman without commitment because she will most likely stay with her spouse and the man cheating will stay with his spouse, but if he should have an affair with a single woman she may want him to leave his wife and commit to her.

tell her.

COULD BE.

Because she might think you would think otherwise about her now.

Its a natural defense mechanism, so if you want to let her know she mean something to you (whether a friend or anything closer); let her know.

A card...a email...a text message...

And let her decide if she is ready to open up again.

Good luck.

hmm. you just forgive and forget.

Emotional affairs contain some affection. Physical affairs are just for the sex. They are both equally wrong , even if there is only emotional intimacy with no physical contact, it is still a kind of infidelity.

Absolutely not!!! His wife was his security not to commit to her. Why would he marry her now. The chase is over.

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Stealing someone's girlfriend is a big NO-NO. The thing you need to do is find your own girl without a boyfriend.

That doesn't necassarily mean that he is cheating. He may just like some privacy of who he's been talking to, or maybe he's planning a surprise for you and doesn't want you to figure it out if you look up the numbers he's called. If you're that concerned about it, talk to him about it without accusing him, ask nicely if you could see (or borrow) his phone, or get ahold of the phone bill (in most cases you can see every call made on the bill, if your more interested than that, call the phone company n if it's a cellphone, you may be able to find out who all he's texting too). In my personal experience (with boyfriends, not husbands, im too young to get married), it has always meant they're hiding something. I got ahold of one of my boyfriends phones (he was taking a shower n I was sitting on his bed next to his phone n got curious) and went through it, he was texting and calling other girls more than he was me, turned out when he had to go out of town for "work", "funerals", or to "help out a sick family member" he was really going to meet up with another girl, usually one younger than me, that wasn't legal even though he was 55. So, if he uses those excuses, be careful. I would definitely not accuse him of anything unless you have proof. If it bothers you that much, stay open-minded about it, and ask in a nice way. Also, make sure you don't sound threatening, accusatory, and be nice about it, if he doesn't want to talk, don't force him. I hope that helps you, and good luck.

try to work it out. but if you don't wanna talk to him or her then try writing notes. :)

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If I don't know better I will think that it was me who ask this question. What if the couples is not talking to each others, it will be normal for them not to talk esp. if both of them are trying to get their shock from finding out that his or her spouse had an affair. Writing is good also so that way you can put everything that you have in your mind. I also did this writing the man I married, since I discovered his love affairs.

But we can also look at it as your husband's complain towards you. My personal experience, one reason why I hardly talk to the man I married, is because he told me that I am a nag, I never listened to him talk, and a lot more. What he told me really hurt me, so since then I am doing what he thought I was doing before. Ditto!!

Go with other guy. But get over the ex so that new guy doesn't feel like he's competing or being compared to ex. Ex obviously only wants what he can't have. If he gets you back, then the game is over.

* If you husband does not have a girlfriend and you dream of speaking with your husband's girlfriend then it generally is the fact you are having marriage problems and fear that your some other woman will take your husband away. If your husband does have a girlfriend then you should not even have him living in your home and if he is seeing another woman and living with you then no wonder you are having dreams of speaking with your husband's girlfriend. She is the mistress and you don't have to say anything. It is your husband you should be speaking too and tell him to make up his mind if it's you or his mistress. The up side is that more often than not men who have a mistress on the side and when faced with an ultimatum by their wife will generally choose the wife, but if he should not then it's highly unlikely he will stay with his mistress long as he will want more freedom.

I'm very sorry to hear about this and the only comfort I can give you is this can happen more than you think. It appears that your wife may find what she needs from another woman, or the other woman has talked her into thinking she has Lesbian tendencies. This isn't hard, because unlike men, women will seek out other women (close friends) to discuss their feelings often openly and extremely honestly. This in turn can lead to a bond and safe comfort from that Lesbian person and is confusing to your wife or, your wife has always been Lesbian and is just now discovering it (it happens.) I can only suggest that you either find this not suitable for yourself and too heart-breaking, divorce and move on or you will give her the space to figure out who she is and where she is going. This is a long road for you, so to hurry up the process I would ask her for a legal separation so you are free to go about your life as you wish and perhaps, in time, you will meet someone more suited to you. The other side of the coin is your wife would certainly know she could lose you forever and come to her senses if she is not a true Lesbian. Good luck Marcy I am sorry but in my opinion she is trying to let you down easy. She doesn't want to be with you but doesn't want to hurt you by directly telling you that. Good luck

The wise and decent thing to do would be to respect this married man's decision and move on with your life. He did what he believes is right. You need to respect his decision and do what is right yourself. Let him work out things with his wife, and find a man who is not attached to a marriage or, for that matter, a girlfriend. Deb

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• Some women will have affairs with men because she may have no children and she is hoping he will marry her and she'll have a ready-made family. Some women feel having an affair with a married man is a safe bet for her (she may be a gold digger or non committal.) Then there is a percentage of women who just want the excitement of knowing they can steal a husband away from his wife and children are involved. A woman who cheats with a married man is self centered; ego maniacal and has no scruples as to the hurt it will cause the wife and the children.