Cheating

Of course, you have violated your marriage vows and are an adulterer, her marital status has nothing to do with it.

ANSWER:

Try and find the song " You don't know me" by Micheal Bubble, or " Your cheating heart, or maybe " Lost " by Micheal Bubble

Sack up and divorce, or stay together.

Paolo Uccello

somtimes if he doesn't talk to you alot, or he doesn't have alot of time to spent with you that is a few ways

Answer 2:

Changes in hygiene and/or appearance. He might have more of an attitude and/or not care that much. He wont pick up his phone... The more you invade, the more he wants to escape.

• Some women will have affairs with men because she may have no children and she is hoping he will marry her and she'll have a ready-made family. Some women feel having an affair with a married man is a safe bet for her (she may be a gold digger or non committal.) Then there is a percentage of women who just want the excitement of knowing they can steal a husband away from his wife and children are involved. A woman who cheats with a married man is self centered; ego maniacal and has no scruples as to the hurt it will cause the wife and the children.

I don't think you should. If you weren't there, but she told you about it right after ... don't be mad. But if she didn't tell you and you found out a few weeks later, I would totally get mad. So, it depends.

Love never dies, it only changes, you were,are really in love!

Just be good to her... But if she feels that way about him she will not be happy with you... have you thought about letting go.

Usually, you can tell by always busy, talking to someone else, and not answering the phone (during the night).

It's probably best to stay away from married men.

Your question suggests that you aren't particularly interested in your boyfriend anymore.

yes you should tell him, because if he finds out on his own, it will be much worse.

Look you shouldn't take him back at all.

because they say that they are too popular to get many fishes in the sea.

I hate to say this but, she is probably trying to get back with her ex, im goin thru the same stuff as you man, so I know how it feels, the best thing to do is break up with her or find out what is goin on.

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This is untrue.

She probably wants to know why he broke up with her because maybe there was something wrong with her, or maybe she feels that she isn't good enough and wants to know what she can do to be a better person in this relationship.

If you cheated on him the first day,you need to come clean. Whether you "knew" him or not its still cheating and its still wrong. You were in the wrong first. That doesn't mean that he should have cheated on you but you did so first. So of course, if someone cheats on you,you would have to give it serious thought to stay with them after you find out. Just keep in mind though, that he may now have some serious trust issues, too. First of all, if you "cheated" on him the first day you went out, when you barely knew him, how can that even be considered cheating? On the other hand, if the two of you were in a committed relationship for two months when he cheated on you, then you have to decide if the relationship is worth working on or not. If so, then you need to be honest with him and tell him that you were with someone else on the same day you and he had your first date. Also, if you do decide the relationship is worth trying to save, you need to decide to forgive him, and then start from there. And keep in mind, he will have the right to make the same decision as far as the trust issue, as well. But if you both decide to try to make it work, then you are not wrong for doing so. A mistake is one thing, a way of life is another. If he made a mistake and is truly sorry, then that is not the same as him making cheating a way of life. Trust is a two-way issue; it has to be earned, but it also has to be respected.

Answer Must be that your mate is dropping you for someone else, and doesn't have the guts to tell you so he doesn't show up for dates. I'd get rid of this guy if I were you, who needs him.

Well this is my story, I got engaged and after few days i lost interest in her I never Brooke the relation. After sometime i moved aboard and we were communicating thorough phone. Then i started liking her since she had a very good heart and a girl from Indian village having no bad background of affairs. That was my biggest attraction towards her. Then we started getting close and she opened up. one fine day she told me she had a affair with one of her cousin for just 4 - 5 months and that was just through phone. They did not get into any kind of physical or nor they have met since he lived in a different city. It was only through phone. This really scattered me, i don't know should i trust her or investigate. Am absolutely not worried about her relation but did she have any physical contact. One day i broke up asking her about this. Listening to this she just went on crying and said she loves me very much, please don't leave me and i cannot leave without you. Please trust me. She also said she never had any physical relation with him nor they met anytime it was only through phone. I was really moved by her words of love for me. I still want to marry her. But the thoughts of her affair and she might have had physical relation which a Indian girl will never tell you are haunting me. My Blood Pressure is getting higher and higher because of this. I want to trust my wife, but somehow not able to control. i want to stop thinking about this and leave a decent life with her. Not sure what i should be doing. For some reason I want to know what happened between them. Either she is not letting me know or there wasn't anything. Please help

A person can not be unfaithful if no formal comitment was made in the first place as is done in a mairige.

Most hearts are strong because its been broken so many times that it is unbreakable. If your spiritual, just praise and worship your God, and pray to give you strength.

I hope you mean in his sleep. LOL Seriously, I wouldn't worry about it. We dream every 1/2 hour and we don't remember most of our dreams or nightmares. If we didn't dream all of us would go completely mad. Scientists are constantly studying the dream pattern and what it does for the rest of our body. It is a known fact it's a mechanism to alleviate our daily stress levels. As far as your husband it could have been as simple as someone bringing up the same name as hers in a conversation and it triggered something in his brain. Haven't you ever had a conversation with a person, seen something on TV or mentioned a person you know and then had a dream about the subject? My husband is a wonderful man and I totally trust him. I had a dream one night (by the way dreams you remember are just before you come out of REM sleep in the morning) that I'd come home from work and heard a noise in the bedroom. I walked in and there he was with a beautiful red-haired woman with green eyes. The dream was so real I knew she had pale skin and almost could count every tiny freckle on her. I was furious and asked the common question, "What's going on here?" My husband looked at me, and said, "Get out of here, close the door and mind your own business!" I woke up madder than a wet hen and was mad when my poor husband came in the door after work. I realized how stupid I was being and we had a good laugh. Neither of us know a red-headed gorgeous looking woman. When I thought about it more, I realized I was getting my husband mixed up with my ex. My ex was a cheater and he had a mistress. I caught him once cheating on me and his words were, "What are you doing here? Get home and do what you should be doing ... iron some clothes." Well, if you knew me, you'd know that was the wrong thing to say because I worked a full-time job and long hours, and was fairly independent. I believe in doing housework, etc., but I also believe when two people work they should share chores. I suppose my mind went back to that very incident only instead of my ex in bed with the redhead it was my poor husband. We still laugh about it today. Don't worry so much about it. The fact that he's with you is all that counts. Maybe if you're lucky you'll have a fantasy dream tonight. LOL Be careful no names pass your lips!

well for one, you shouldnt be so racist! and for two you should dump her then she might want you back, BUT.... you MUST be the first to dump she cant dump you first or our plan wont work! she isnt a real girlfriend if she cheats on you, just take that in mind ok! also be strong dont let her hurt you! your the man...

good luck and i hope this has helped! :)

YOU CAN"T. Or at least you'll never trust him like you did before. Make it known how much you don't trust him and how hurt you are. If he really loves you, he will do whatever he can to get you back. I am truly sorry to hear about this, but, he's the father of all and he has responsibilities. I would make your life and that of your children a little less complicated and kick his useless hide out! Then see a lawyer and get what is due you and the children and also child support from him. He's been lying like a sidewalk and has hurt you in the worst way possible. I have no doubt his mistress is well aware of your situation and both of you are allowing this rat to have his own way. I know it's frightening to leave your mate especially when you have children, but, he will continue to cheat and possibly cheat on his mistress (my first husband did) so you might as well nip it in the bud now and save yourself a lot of pain in the long run. There are lots of wonderful guys out there that enjoy women with kids who are single moms so don't think your life is over because you have children.